Reading this book was a struggle. I felt overwhelmed by the suffering, despair, and defeat... Rather than a linear narrative, this book visits and revisits the stories of servicemembers, usually delving deeply into their last actions before committing suicide and following families as their lives continue with this new, incredible grief.
One the one hand, this book gives a voice to people who should be heard. It tells their stories, it shares their struggles, it tries to create accountability: here is what the VA is doing, here is what could or should have been done. It also shares the projects people are trying to work on to create a sense of community, to connect with civilians, to give veterans opportunities to share their experiences. Valuable!
On the other hand, I guess I was just waiting and waiting for some acknowledgment that some people are proud of their work, proud of their sacrifices, find their service meaningful. Even little things like not capitalizing "the Navy" or "Marine" kind of gave me the feeling that in this narrative, service is not viewed with respect. I think the intent is definitely NOT to show all these folks as hurt or victims, but that is the overall impression the narrative gave me.