This was a tiny book that as I commenced to listen, it became apparent straight away that I had read it before. So small were the stories, I had my laptop on my lap and began to make the bare bones of each story as I was quite enamoured. I ended up shutting down my laptop and not saving the document. Silly! These musings may be a little inaccurate as I am doing this a month or so later.
One was a thought-provoking tale of two women wronged by their prospective husbands gives us the title of the book; Helen moves into a flat next to Debbie after her husband leaves her for another woman and is admiring the lovely garden. The women chat and Debbie has advice on the way she conducted her life after her husband did the same, leaving her to parent her children alone. Concocting a little bit of strife for the newly found family after a baby came along and they created a new family, she actually chose to stay in their life and help them babysit and was supportive of the new family unit (with a little underhanded stuff, deservedly? Possibly). The new family appreciated and wanted her to be around. She advises of the possibility to insert herself into their lives as she did, or move on without the drama. What better way to start this than moving in happily into the flat and hosting a lovely garden party with work friends and acquaintances, this will be a good start. A simple concept with Maeve's usual nuance of everyday life and the way others let us down so easily.
The next story brings us characters from Quentins (I think) where a homely cafe decides to open on Boxing Day. Will there be enough business? A lot of care is given in this lovely cafe, and a loving father George whose estranged wife walks all over him. He attends lunch with his small children. The children attend lunch with him and he doesn't ever think of himself. There are lovely conversations between he and his children with another table consisting of a mother and her lonely daughter. This one shows the compassionate side of life and those unexpecting happiness finding it. I loved a scene here where this mother makes the children of George feel at ease about their broken family situation, even though what she said did not happen to her family as she said it did. She made the children feel loved by this simple white lie. This is old-fashioned hospitality, where the staff have names and treat their clientele like family. This was really nice.
The story was the one that made me realise this was a re read was that of lovely Dolly's sweet 16th birthday. She was so forlorn and inferior to her mother on not just this special birthday occasion but all of the time. Her mother seemed perfect and gorgeous and beautiful to her friends and seemed to be the dutiful mother and wife. Dolly grew up on this day when she realised her life would not in fact go at all like her mother's. A lesson was learned in a very harsh way, but an awakening and necessary coming of age for this sweet girl.
Depressing was the tale of The Sensible Celebration. Lorna has hosted a party for a few couples and seems completely skewed in her views on marriage, and life. A sense of keeping up with the Jones's gone wrong, her poor husband realising quite harshly that his wife is a little, perhaps, unhinged? Putting on airs and graces with a terrible smugness. I had written a quote about this woman even referring to her 'rump' being more favourable than those of the women attending. Her internal dialogue about matters such as a respectable man and wife would never sit on a particular sofa in a particular way, and so many other things. This was an insightful story and I am disappointed I lost my notes on this one. The author's take on life here was interesting. Lorna's husband had to rise put on his coat and leave the house during his wife's performance thus was his dismay at the realisation she was so smug and awful. Oh and the narrator - perfect! She captured the pretentiousness, in fact the whole book read like an old BBC radio play, delightful narration for all of the stories.
I can see Maeve's history of letter writing and journalism. She captures the human condition, foibles and weakness but most of all I love when she captures the good stuff.