If I had read this book when I was 18, I think it would have changed my life and saved me a lot of grief. Now, having come to many similar conclusions slowly (and sometimes painfully) through my own experiences, I can't recommend it enough. (In fact, I mailed multiple copies to friends when I was only a couple chapters in.) Whether someone grew up poor, rich, or in between, I think this book will offer incredible insights into how our class positions help form us and set our expectations of ourselves and others. It's framed for activists working together, but I think the lessons it has to offer are relevant to almost every other mixed class environment in our increasingly economically stratified world. Also, Ms. Stout's voice is incredibly caring, honest, and accessible.