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Don't Throw Rocks at His Window: Real Advice to Mend a Broken Heart
A broken heart hurtsbut it doesn't have to hurt forever. Using humor, common sense, and honest conversations, Julie Donaldson walks readers through not only the steps of surviving a broken heart, but also the process of learning to nurture strength in yourself and finding comfort from Heavenly Father. She helps teenagers understand that heartbreak is part of the mortal path God has set for us, but that doesn't mean we have to succumb to it, or lose our sense of humor in the process.
• Relevant to teenagers, young adults, and anyone who has ever had a broken heart.
• Practical remedies and common-sense solutions for surviving heartbreak.
• Fun, laugh-out-loud moments make a lighthearted but practical read.
• A tissue is included.
- GenresSelf HelpNonfiction
112 pages, Paperback
First published February 2, 2011
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February 25, 2011
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We've all been there at one point or another... with a broken hear that feels like it will never mend. Julie C. Donaldson offers practical advice in a this fun little book Don't Throw Rocks at His Window: Read Advice to Mend a Broken Heart.
This book given with a bag of chocolate would make a great gift for a daughter or friend who has recently been dumped. Cute, funny and uplifting this book of advice is sure to help the process of mending a broken heart. Perfect for a teenager or young adult who needs a little pick me up after a relationship goes south
We've all been there at one point or another... with a broken hear that feels like it will never mend. Julie C. Donaldson offers practical advice in a this fun little book Don't Throw Rocks at His Window: Read Advice to Mend a Broken Heart.
This book given with a bag of chocolate would make a great gift for a daughter or friend who has recently been dumped. Cute, funny and uplifting this book of advice is sure to help the process of mending a broken heart. Perfect for a teenager or young adult who needs a little pick me up after a relationship goes south
February 1, 2011
This book was written by a friend of mine! It is funny and uplifting! The author goes over some rules for getting over a broken heart. There are funny breakup stories and comments that made me laugh out loud and then advice and quotes that made me want to be a better person. It is a really quick read - and would be fabulous for girls still in the dating scene - although I'd recommend it to anyone!
April 26, 2023
Last year, on March 12th while standing in line to talk to my favorite author and friend Julianne Donaldson, the boy that I thought I was going to marry texted me and said that he was not interested in doing anything with me ever again and to "branch out, good luck." I was barely able to hold my tears back anymore by the time I reached Julie and I told her what was happening as she signed my book. She got up, gave me a big hug, and a pep talk about how there are going to be many heartbreaks in life, but each one is just a step closer to finding happily ever after. This semester, I was in a sort of silly, but also ironic situation. I took a vocal skills class this semester and started to develop a crush on the guy I was to sing a duet with. We went on one date, and it was fantastic, super fun. However, about 2 months later, I made the mistake of asking if I had a chance.
He tried to smile but said, "I think you're so great, but I think we should just be friends for now. I'm sorry, I know that's not what you want to hear."
I said, "no, no that's what I expected."
Him: "I'm still really sorry."
Me: "No no, I'm used to it, I'll see you on Saturday."
I am such a "no no, it's okay" with tears in my eyes kinda person. I was heartbroken, but we still had a song to work on together. And what's worse is we were singing "Rewrite the Stars" from The Greatest Showman (he picked the song). Boy did it sting having him sing about how badly he wants me and knowing he doesn't mean any of it. On the other hand, my part of the song is me dramatically singing about how we can't be together, yet in reality I want him so badly. It's funny, I know, you can laugh. That being said, I was scrolling through Goodreads one day and this popped up in my feed. I knew that if anyone could help me get through this heartbreak, just long enough to get me through our performance, it would be Julie. So I picked this cute little book up from the library. Bear in mind, Julie is very tough love and her #1 rule is "Don't be pathetic." No listening to sad songs on repeat, no going places where he might be, and no wallowing in self pity. Wallowing is for pigs. However, she tells a lot of funny stories about her own heartbreak experiences and justifies her advice by explaining how not taking her advice did not help her and so they will not help you. She helps the reader to have a broader perspective and see how Heavenly Father's plan for your life is so much bigger than you can imagine. I had to wait a few weeks after my heartbreak to be ready to hear what she had to say, but I did feel bolstered after I read it. Her advice may be hard to hear at first because it is the complete opposite of what you want to do when you get your heart broken, but she's right.
I bought my own copy of this book and I will be reading it repeatedly in the coming months. I just love Julie's writing so much, I can really hear her voice in my head. She's amazing, I miss her, and I'm so grateful that even when I'm not standing in line waiting to talk to her, she can still give me a big emotional hug and a hearty pep talk. 5/5 stars.
He tried to smile but said, "I think you're so great, but I think we should just be friends for now. I'm sorry, I know that's not what you want to hear."
I said, "no, no that's what I expected."
Him: "I'm still really sorry."
Me: "No no, I'm used to it, I'll see you on Saturday."
I am such a "no no, it's okay" with tears in my eyes kinda person. I was heartbroken, but we still had a song to work on together. And what's worse is we were singing "Rewrite the Stars" from The Greatest Showman (he picked the song). Boy did it sting having him sing about how badly he wants me and knowing he doesn't mean any of it. On the other hand, my part of the song is me dramatically singing about how we can't be together, yet in reality I want him so badly. It's funny, I know, you can laugh. That being said, I was scrolling through Goodreads one day and this popped up in my feed. I knew that if anyone could help me get through this heartbreak, just long enough to get me through our performance, it would be Julie. So I picked this cute little book up from the library. Bear in mind, Julie is very tough love and her #1 rule is "Don't be pathetic." No listening to sad songs on repeat, no going places where he might be, and no wallowing in self pity. Wallowing is for pigs. However, she tells a lot of funny stories about her own heartbreak experiences and justifies her advice by explaining how not taking her advice did not help her and so they will not help you. She helps the reader to have a broader perspective and see how Heavenly Father's plan for your life is so much bigger than you can imagine. I had to wait a few weeks after my heartbreak to be ready to hear what she had to say, but I did feel bolstered after I read it. Her advice may be hard to hear at first because it is the complete opposite of what you want to do when you get your heart broken, but she's right.
I bought my own copy of this book and I will be reading it repeatedly in the coming months. I just love Julie's writing so much, I can really hear her voice in my head. She's amazing, I miss her, and I'm so grateful that even when I'm not standing in line waiting to talk to her, she can still give me a big emotional hug and a hearty pep talk. 5/5 stars.
May 8, 2011
Excellent! And I'm not just saying that because I was once in the same ward as the woman who wrote this book. I do wish I had gotten to know her better instead of admiring her (and her cute family) from afar as I do with most women. Lest I turn this into a review of me and my shortcomings instead of what it should be...
This book brought a smile to my face more often than not, was concise and to the point, gave honest advice but most of all it was imbued with the love the author feels for her readers. I wish I had had this book when I was 15 or 19 or 22 or for any of the minor heartbreaks up until 27. I wish (so many wishes!)I had enough money to buy this book for every young woman I know. Although they may not all need it right at this moment the odds are in favor of them needing comfort/wisdom from its pages at some point.
This book brought a smile to my face more often than not, was concise and to the point, gave honest advice but most of all it was imbued with the love the author feels for her readers. I wish I had had this book when I was 15 or 19 or 22 or for any of the minor heartbreaks up until 27. I wish (so many wishes!)I had enough money to buy this book for every young woman I know. Although they may not all need it right at this moment the odds are in favor of them needing comfort/wisdom from its pages at some point.
April 4, 2011
Synopsis: Broken hearts are a crucial part of growing up. This book is chock-full of advice and stories to help teenagers deal with their broken hearts and to rely on the Savior for support and strength.
My Review: Full disclosure - This book was written by a friend in our ward and the cover design was done by a neighbor from when I was growing up. Obviously I'm not in the target audience for the book, but I found that I quite enjoyed the book. The personal experiences were relevant and funny and the advice (if followed) would certainly help mend a newly dumped (or broken-up) ex-girlfriend's heart. If I ever find myself having to comfort a young lady in this circumstance, this book would make a great gift.
My Review: Full disclosure - This book was written by a friend in our ward and the cover design was done by a neighbor from when I was growing up. Obviously I'm not in the target audience for the book, but I found that I quite enjoyed the book. The personal experiences were relevant and funny and the advice (if followed) would certainly help mend a newly dumped (or broken-up) ex-girlfriend's heart. If I ever find myself having to comfort a young lady in this circumstance, this book would make a great gift.
June 21, 2011
This book looked cute and funny and full of witicisms. I bought it at the Deseret Book Time Out for Women convention, and found it to be just as I predicted. The author speaks from experience, and though some of the pages and art are a little cheesy it is a good, quick read, and her advice to the single female is thoughtful and useful.
May 22, 2011
I really wish I had this book when I was a teenager! Donaldson is real and blunt, she says things that people need to hear. It was full of great advice to get over a broken heart. I also really loved the true stories of breakups! Seriously, this is a great read for all teenage girls!
February 1, 2011
I loved this book! It was hilarious and real... every young woman should read it!
March 21, 2011
Great book to carry around with you when you need a little reminder of what to do instead of contact him.
April 13, 2011
My cousin wrote this book, it has some real situations, and it is fun to read. I liked it, but I am more of a story person so its good book to read. if you want to borrow mine your welcomed too.
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May 10, 2011Solid, if unoriginal advice. cleverly written, kind and helpful. Thanks Mom for putting this one on my desk!
June 30, 2011
Fun, lighthearted, easy reading. Written for those who've just had their heart broken, but I think anyone going through a tough time could learn from this book.
March 18, 2011
Entertaining and uplifting.
September 19, 2025
I just read this while it was slow at work and WOW! A LOT of advice in here I find extremely toxic and harmful. It feels like it’s telling someone to bottle up their feelings and if they’re depressed to essentially “just stop it.” The author isn’t a therapist or a psychologist, and is just giving her opinion on what you “should” do and not facts. It’s OKAY to feel what you’re feeling! It’s healthy and normal!
May 23, 2020
I love your creativity j
April 23, 2015
Ok, so this will be gifted to each of my daughters when they turn 16. And quite possibly my sons as well. Such great, clear advice for dealing with a broken heart. Empowering words of remembering who you are as well as your potential; remembering your divine worth as a daughter of God; remembering His Son, Jesus Christ, can heal all wounds, even a broken heart. Fabulous pages throughout that allow the reader to write down their own thoughts and feelings. Love it all!
September 30, 2011
I've seen this book at work and finally decided to give it a whirl! I wish I would have had it a year ago but it did make me realize that I've progressed a lot over the last year so that's good! This is a good get over heartbreak book! It even has activities in it! It is a great book about improving your relationship with God. And it's good advice...Don't throw rocks at his window. Even if he might deserve it! ;)
July 13, 2017
Found in the Teens section of Deseret Book, this quick read provides advice for young hearts who are learning about love. If I had had this book on my shelf in my preteen-teenage years, things may have gone very differently. Julie hits head on lessons that I had to learn from experience, the hard way, and she does it in a fun way that is perfect for the directed audience. Heck, I even got a few new things out of it for myself!
March 7, 2012
lovely! just lovely. i wish i would've had this in junior high.
the graphics are darling and fun - and julie puts in some of her real life stories which are so funny. i really enjoyed reading this and i want to get a copy for every teen/tween i know!
the graphics are darling and fun - and julie puts in some of her real life stories which are so funny. i really enjoyed reading this and i want to get a copy for every teen/tween i know!
March 13, 2016
It was all great at the beginning but it keep talking about God! I personally don't believe on it so I couldn't finish the book. I think other reason why I couldn't finish is because I have read way too many books about this topic. honestly I only read it for the tittle
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December 26, 2016Funny story, I went to a Regency tea party where she mentioned this book and how it would be difficult to find nowadays and then a month later I found one copy of it at a bookstore. I bought it and it was a delight. I wish I had it years ago, but it's definitely good advice for the future.
October 21, 2013
Don’t throw rocks at his window is a great read for a specific application of the Atonement. Working through a heartbreak is hard and this book gives great advice and direction.
June 9, 2022
got my heart SHATTERED and immediately checked this book out. loved it, witty but also very nurturing
July 16, 2013
This little book has some great ideas for getting back on track after heartbreak.
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