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Fifteen-year-old Stacy questions the strange world of high school, family, friends, love, and her role in the universe.

People tell you high school's so great and wonderful, but they're lying. It's mostly horrible and full of disappointment. It sucks. Your best friend abandons you. The jerk you're in love with pretends to be into you, and then the big dump. The boy you've really clicked with as a friend decides to go all crushy over you, so you break his heart just like yours was—smashed into little pieces. Your sister goes mental , and you get involved with an older guy who’s even crazier than she is (who you know is a very bad idea, but you do it anyway). Math only adds another stink of failure to the whole thing.

High school blows. Just ask freshman Stacy. She’d want you to know.

175 pages, Kindle Edition

First published October 4, 2012

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Margaret Lesh

8 books72 followers
Margaret Lesh is the author of her memoirs Let Me Get This Off My Chest: A Breast Cancer Survivor Over-Shares, and My Terrible Book of Happiness: Love, Anxiety and Everything; the Young Adult novels Normalish and My Friends Are All Strange, and other books. Her short stories have appeared in The Brasilia Review, and Dust Jacket Literary Journal.

Like Bill and Ted, she believes we should be excellent to each other. Also: Tacos are magic.

Visit her website: margaretlesh.com.

Twitter @MargaretLesh

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Author 8 books72 followers
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September 12, 2012
Some random facts about the writing of Normalish:
Bags of pretzels consumed while writing Normalish: At least five. No, make that ten (if you include the editing process).
Glasses of wine: Too many to remember.
Chocolate: Mass quantities.
Ice cream: About five pounds' worth, flavors varied.

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438 reviews406 followers
January 10, 2013
You can read all of my reviews at Alluring Reads.

Due to my addiction to contemporary novels as of late, I was quick to sign up for the blog tour for Normalish when I got the invite. I didn’t know quite what to expect with it because the cover isn’t exactly my favorite but the blurb made it sound like a book I would enjoy. And quite enjoy it I did! We got off to a bit of a rocky start, I’ll admit, but at about the halfway point this novel sucked me in and I was hooked.

We experience Normalish as Stacy, a high school freshman who isn’t having the greatest time transitioning into high school. The guy that she is NOT stalking doesn’t seem at all interested in her and her friend Chad is interested in her, which is not how she wanted their relationship to go. She’s also have a tough time at home, as her sister Becca starts acting weird and has to start seeing a psychologist. At first I didn’t like Stacy at all, and I think how she was in the beginning of the book really detracted from my enjoyment of the story. She was so judgmental and worried about appearances that I found myself wanting to smack her upside the head and tell her to get over herself. But the good news is that she does grow immensely throughout the story and once I realized that this story was not only about her life, but about her road to opening up her mind, I started to really enjoy it. Her family dynamic was great, she had an ever present mother and she had sisters that really loved one another. I loved how present the mom was in this story and how she was so in tune to her kids life and yet still let them live and have experiences.

The love story was one that drove me insane. The way that she reacted to Chad’s interest in her had me so angry and it was pretty shallow that as soon as he got his braces off she noticed just how handsome he was. I mean I understand that that is how lots of high school girls act but it just really grated on me in this instance. As the story played out I couldn’t buy into their romance because in my eyes Chad is way too good for a girl who would treat him the way Stacy did. What I could appreciate was her romance with Bobby. I liked the progression and how it really opened up Stacy’s mind and essentially made her much more accepting of others.

Normalish deals with some heavy issues, from mental illness to suicide, a lot of ground is covered and I think Lesh did a great job of capturing the emotions one goes through when facing these issues. As I connected with Stacy I really felt her plight, she was definitely having a rough time and a lot of it would have been difficult for an adult to handle let alone a 15 year old girl. I didn’t feel like she was handling any of it too maturely nor immaturely, which was perfect.

My final positive point of this novel has to go to the format. Getting the story through journal entries from Stacy was a great way to connect with her and really get into her head. It has super short chapters (some only half a page) so it’s a very quick read that you can’t put down. Normalish will definitely satisfy contemporary lovers who like their issue books.
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Author 24 books237 followers
October 11, 2012
This review is taken from my book review site TRY THIS BOOK ON FOR SIZE - http://trythisbookonforsize.blogspot.ca/

"When I was twelve years old, I learned not to talk about death." ~ Stacy, Normalish

So begins a story of a young girl who eventually talks about everything. Stacy is a character I immediately liked. She's vulnerable and on the page, just like every great young adult character should be. She isn't afraid of telling the reader how she feels...it's her vulnerability that drags the reader in. We immediately trust her. This trust allows us to settle into the story and discover where it leads us.

Where the story leads us is onto a roller coaster of events that any young girl of fourteen/fifteen would be lucky to make it out of in one piece. As Stacy is so raw and forthcoming with her emotions, so straightforward with where she stands on everything, we the reader are confident she'll make it through to the other end. But it's still a roller coaster, there's still edge of the seat moments where you hold your breath and hope for the best.

When Normalish opens, the reader is given a few quick insights. Stacy does not have a best friend, she does not have a boyfriend and her father has passed away. These are big obstacles for a fourteen-year-old. She's dealing with the loss of her father, while attempting to ride the wave of no-best-friend-ness, while pining for the day she can say she has a boyfriend. Put into this complicated mess the fact that her sister--the one she shares her bedroom with--is going insane, and you have quite a life to navigate through.

Stacy takes us with her through every step of the story. We are there when the boy she has been losing sleep over finally makes his move and we are there when the wrong boy makes his move. When her sister is temporarily institutionalized, we are there to see Stacy discover yet another boy. As she falls head over heels, we are happy for her. But, of course, we are also reticent. She does, after all, meet this third boy in the institution where her sister is recovering.

I mentioned that Normalish skates on the fence of MG. I say this because Lesh does such a fantastic job of keeping Stacy's voice at her age level. I can't imagine how difficult that would have been. Stacy is fourteen when the story begins and fifteen when it ends. She goes through some pretty tumultuous circumstances in the story, yet she keeps the voice of a young girl at her age level. If not for the serious elements involved, I would suggest this would fit into middle grade as comfortably as it fits into young adult. It's only the issues that Stacy deals with that bumps it into YA only. And Lesh does an amazing job dealing with these issues. Stacy said at the stories onset that she learned not to talk about death, but then she walks us through her story. It is such a poignant look into the harsh reality that some young teens live.

I would happily recommend this book to anyone. I can't really go too far into the story without giving away certain elements. Just know that if you choose to read it, you can trust that Stacy will do a magnificent job telling you what happens to her. She will share the intimate details of her life and her pain...and eventually, her joy. Trust me, you'll want to be there when Stacy tries to discover what it is to be normal...or normalish. Lesh is a fine storyteller...one I will be looking for more from in the future!
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Author 5 books69 followers
October 30, 2012
*NOTE: We (The Readdicts) received a copy of Normalish from Musa Publishing in exchange for an honest review. We thank the publishing house for the book!

Stacy is a fifteen year old whose life is anything but normal after the sudden death of her father, her sister's unusual and crazy behaviour, a sort of fall-out with her best friend and creepy gestures from the guy she is obsessed with. Normalish is about Stacy trying to get her life back on track. It's about moving on even when the problems of the world seem to be knocking on your door. A wonderfully sweet and moving story, Normalish is a nice and quick read.
I really liked Stacy. She was smart, had a great sense of humour and she isn't afraid of saying what's on her mind and doing what she feels is right. Honestly, at first I was a little irritated with her constant longing to have a boyfriend. But as she moves on, she realises that there are so many other things she needs to think of and work towards making better.
Stacy's best friend, Summer was a typical blonde who came with all the flare of being blonde. I really appreciated how Stacy forgave Summer after their crush on and heart break from the same guy. That same guy, Anthony, was a weird dude.
Stacy also has two other friends in school, Rose and Bethany. Both of them were extremely nice and loyal.
There is also Chad, Stacy's childhood friend and a really great guy. I loved reading about how the relationship between them grew and evolved.
At home, Stacy has a troublesome sister cum roommate, Becca. Becca has some psychological problems and is sent to an institution to help her recover.
That's where Stacy meets tattoo, music and disturbed guy, Bobby. I loved reading about Stacy and Bobby as much as I loved reading about Stacy and Chad. I was devastated about what happens with Bobby.
Stacy and Becca have an elder sister, Jill. She was caring and cool.
Their mom was such an awesome woman. The mother and three daughters shared a lovely relationship. I found it easy to relate to Stacy's relationships with her mom and sisters.
The most amazing person though, was Becca's boyfriend, Roman. He was such a sweet-heart, always there for Becca and her family. It's just great when the guy is so dedicated and helpful.
Overall, Normalish was a really wonderful read. Author Margaret Lesh has written an absolutely lovely story about the ups and downs of life and how, if not normal, we can always settle for 'normalish'. I really liked this book a lot. Normalish does seem a little Middle Grade, but I loved how the book brought back so many memories of my own school days and how easy it was to relate to Stacy and her story. It was a fresh, pure, innocent and really sweet read.
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171 reviews104 followers
February 2, 2015
To me ‘normal’ is whatever society deems it to be and this is something which is constantly evolving. Nowhere is the idea of social normality more pronounced than in the micro-culture of high school where, in her freshman year, Stacy faces situations which make her question exactly what normal is.

To be honest Normalish really took me by surprise. I don’t usually read YA with protagonists as young as Stacy, but the maturity in her voice impressed me. I was equally impressed by the diary format; being stuck in Stacy’s head 24/7 meant I found it impossible not to like her. Yes, she made mistakes, and yes, she could be immature at times, but it felt real considering she was just fifteen years old. Her thoughts felt so real, I found it very easy to become completely absorbed in the story.

Despite the wonderfully cheerful cover, Normalish deals with some heavy issues. From schizophrenia, depression and death to confessions of love, awkward first kisses and best friend dramas, the novel covers it all in a fresh, comforting and surprisingly fun way. I think this is one contemporary young adult which manages to truly appeal to a wide age range. Not only can it be enjoyed and understood by those Stacy’s age (and younger), but also by older teens who may have had similar experiences.

Normalish was an absorbing story, which was surprisingly enjoyable and fun given the difficult subject matter. With a relatable and lovable protagonist and a cast of colourful secondary characters, Normalish is a novel I highly recommend.

This review and many more can be found at Maree's Musings.

Thank you to the author and Xpresso Book Tours for providing a copy of the book for review.
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Author 28 books90 followers
November 11, 2012
Note: The author/publisher provided me with a review copy in exchange for an honest review.

My Review: Normalish is a refreshing look at the life of a normal teenage girl. What is normal? That's a question Stacy is constantly asking herself. She feels anything but normal. She's lost her best friend, has no boyfriend, and her sister is acting strange. Before you sigh and chalk this book up as another melodramatic teen sob-fest, hold up! This book has substance. It deals with serious issues (mental illness, grieving, self-harming behavior) and it deals with the 'normal' stuff (crushes gone bad, best friend drama) with honesty and humor. I enjoyed this book so, so much even though I'm forty-one years old and not the target audience for the story. Maybe it's because it reminded me of the high school angst that never changes from generation to generation. Or, maybe I was drawn to it because I have teenagers and the author portrays the age group and their struggles so well. Or, maybe I liked it because it was a darned good story. Whatever the case, I will eagerly read anything written by this author. I would highly recommend Normalish to anyone who is looking for a well-written, gripping story.
403 reviews56 followers
January 4, 2013
[3.25 or 3.5/5]

For more of my reviews, check out my blog @ Moosubi Reviews! Also check back on January 16th for my tour stop, including chances to win copies of the book and related goodies!

For me, reading Normalish was kind of like eating chocolate. It was sweet, relatively short, and once I started, it’s a difficult to stop! (I happen to like chocolate… a lot) Of course, afterwards I felt like I wanted a bit more…

Of course, one look at the cover should tell you that the book should be sweet, maybe warm and fuzzy. In a way, it is. During the book, you follow the story of high school freshman Stacy York, who goes through the usual – parties, boyfriends, ex-boyfriends, best friends, ex-best friends, dances, sloppy kisses… you get the idea. Throughout her journey, her humor and sarcasm stands out, although there are times where she is just as vulnerable as any teenage girl could be. I should tell you there is a happy ending, which of course, was short, sweet, and satisfying for the end of the novel.

That’s not to say that Stacy didn’t have her share of troubles, either. There was a darker side to the novel that dealt with dealing with death and her mentally ill sister. Surprisingly, I found that I eventually became attached to many of the characters, and when a certain character was forced to make a departure, my heart did hurt a little. Her voice during those times also stayed realistic, but still portrayed a certain degree of emotion. Eventually, I felt like I was able to connect with Stacy’s character, and sympathize with or gleefully hope for her at the appropriate times.

My one qualm about the novel was that some of the problems Stacy dealt with seemed a little skimmed over. For example, in the beginning you learn that Stacy becomes ex-best friends with Summer. but it seemed like Stacy was mostly nonchalant. It seemed like she was okay with it, since Summer was a social butterfly and was friends with everybody, but I suppose she didn’t show a lot of emotion.

More (and better) examples, with slight spoilers, if you want to read –>

And on a last note, I loved a lot of the side characters! Rose and Bethany were pretty awesome friends to Stacy, even if they weren’t as close as they could have been. Becca, Roman, and Bobby were each also very unique characters, but their friendship and loyalty to Stacy were also clear. And her relationship with her Mom and sister Jill was pretty tight, and I’m glad that the author didn’t rely on the reluctant and ignorant parent or sibling cliché.

Overall, Normalish was enjoyable read for me because if its combination of sweetness, seriousness when appropriate, emotion, and characters! Contemporary fans of weekend-style books just talking about life in a comical but entertaining way may enjoy this novel (:

*Thank you to Xpresso Book Tours & the author Margaret Lesh for providing me a review copy of this novel. In all discretion, I was also part of this book’s blog tour. However, this did not change my opinion of the novel.*
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Author 16 books521 followers
October 20, 2012


"Becka's acting strange, stranger than usual" Normalish, by Margaret Lesh was a pretty good book. I really enjoyed it. It's so strange how I JUST finished reading Perks of a Wall Flower and picked up this book. They are very much alike, and both outside of my usual reading realm. I have to say, between the two, I preferred this one. Normalish follows a freshmen named Stacy as she copes with her fathers death, her sisters mental illness, and all the angst that comes with high school. The boy she sees as a friend wants to be more, and the boy she wants to go out with starts dating her best friend, leaving Stacy with no one to talk to about what she's going through. She falls back on her family. Her strange, wonderful family that eat Tofu turkeys, sushi, and tamales for Christmas dinner. Together they try to put their lives back together, and if they can't ever get back to normal, then at least they know they're normalish. My favorite bit of the book was the boy at the mental institute, Bobby. I really enjoyed that entire subplot, heart wrenching as it was. I also love Stacy's voice. I love how matter of fact she is, I don't know why, but I like self-deprecating humor. Every time she called herself ridiculous, I smiled. The only complaint I had in the entire book was the way the Anthony situation was handled. I wanted more of a conversation, or at least that conversation to be public, but it was still awesome. You can find out more about this book Margaret Lesh's blog: http://www.margaretlesh.com/ and you can buy it in ebook stores everywhere.
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Author 6 books110 followers
January 12, 2013
I'm not usually much of a reader in this genre (I'm a historical fiction fanatic), but won a copy in a giveaway, so gave it a shot.

Wow.

I felt like I was reading parts of my own life. So much so that it made me tear up in places. Like Stacy, I lost my father just before I started high school. And like Stacy, I had to deal with all the massive teenage angst sans one very important person in my life. I remember the pain, the uncertainty, and the constant need for validation by someone of the opposite sex. And the soul-destroying pain when rejected by a boy at that time. Margaret Lesh captures that perfectly.

I didn't have the siblings or the mental health issues she discusses, but she also has quite a grasp of what it must be like for a teenager with a sister dealing with mental illness.

I was totally struck by the poignancy of her wanting to visit her boyfriend's dog, and the way Lesh made the boy's parents completely unlike he had described them to her. His mother was realistically drawn, and warm, obviously deriving comfort from the impromptu visit too. It was one of my favorite scenes in the book.

This was a well-written look at young girl's formative years and how she emerges stronger from a series of challenges.
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April 23, 2014
How so original and sweet! Many a time I felt like I waded through the characters in their thoughts; I was lost in them. Some characters were so magical that you feel they actually speak to you. It really touched me the scenes where all went to Bobby's house and spent the evening not knowing what to say; it was so marvelously done and makes you feel so emotional. Not a better way to portray such a drama. Margaret proves that she is an amazing story teller, in that she effortlessly mesmerizes the reader by creating characters, starkly juxtaposing sanity with insanity. It reverses its order through the characters and takes you to a state of delirium. Can't say that gripping and extraordinary, but in its genre (young adult) it really is worth reading. Congratulations to M.C. Lesh!
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Author 8 books23 followers
November 1, 2012
I really enjoyed Normalish! It's like watching a movie on rainy Saturday afternoon while snuggled under a warm blanket :) ((Normalish would make an excellent movie!) It's an emotional rollercoaster. You'll laugh, cry and cheer Stacy through her freshman year! I loved the characters and I think I know Summer's mom :)
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569 reviews912 followers
January 17, 2013
****FINAL RATING: 3.70 STARS****

CATCHALL
Normalish was adorable. It was a humorous and fun read, yet also serious. I laughed, but there were also some moments so sad I wanted to curl up into a ball and cry. It reached an incredible range of emotions and had so many ups and downs that sometimes they were hard to keep track of.

THE HEROINE
STACY
Stacy is trying to navigate highs school and deal with the death of her father. She wants attention, but she isn't desperate. However, she also really doesn't know what she wants. She's more fragile than she'd like to admit and a whole lot vulnerable. However, she does push through it all, even when the going gets rough. I loved that she got torn up about things, but that there were actual consequences and I thought it was portrayed very realistically.

THE LOVE INTERESTS
Yes, there are three
CHAD
Chad is a bit cliché, being the best friend and all. But there you have it. He's a sweetheart, and he genuinely cares about Stacy, but she isn't sure she feels the same way. He's kind of a geek, which I also loved. I also like that when she didn't treat him nicely he didn't continue to fall all over her.
ANTHONY
Anthony is the guy Stacy thinks she wants. He's popular. Sexy. Wanted by all the girls and probably some of the guys. A major player. But underneath it all, he's just your average jerk. Nothing special. He's manipulative and selfish, and these are things that Stacy has to discover for herself.
BOBBY
I loved Bobby. He's messed-up but beautiful, and he reminds me of someone. I'm not saying who, but I liked that I could recognize someone else in him. Despite his problems, he's gentle with Stacy and seems to really care about her no matter what. He isn't perfect, and he deals with things differently than other people. But that doesn't mean he isn't real.

THE PLOT
This plot isn't all about the romance. Romance is a side to the main story that's told here. Stacy's high school experience hasn't been pleasant so far. Guys leave her confused and feeling awful. Her best friend has dropped her. Yet somehow, while she isn't exactly happy, she still doesn't sink into depression.

I like that Stacy doesn't just give up. There are so many times where that would be easier for her. But despite everything, she continues to move forward. Even when she doesn't want to. Yes, there are times when she sinks into a world of gray. But she always comes back.

Yeah, sometimes it seems like so many horrible things happening to Stacy is a stretch. But sometimes, life just sucks and we don't always have control. So really, I didn't have any problems with the rather extreme situations of Stacy's life. We don't choose what life we're born into, and stacy deals with her world as best she can, just like the rest of us.

It's a contemporary, a genre I don't read a lot of. But if all of them were as raw and fun as this one, then I would definitely read more.

THE ROMANCE
The romance is complicated. I don't like how things work with Chad, but as I don't want to spoil anything, I won't get into specifics. Things with Anthony work exactly as they should. And Bobby was my favorite of the three boys. But a love story with so much tragedy behind it can only end one way. I was absolutely shocked by what happened, and I have mixed feelings about it. On one hand, it works, but on the other, it felt a bit cheap.

THE WRITING
Margaret has given Stacy a young voice that is too old for her age, but in the way it needed to be. Stacy's had to deal with tragedy in her life, and she's no innocent. Her voice also portrays her weakness and her strength. The thoughts that swirl around in Stacy's head vary, but all belong there, and she doesn't sound like some deranged narrator. The dialogue is detailed, too, which I always like.

THE ENDING
I loved the ending. It's sweet and wasn't a huge cliffhanger. It also doesn't feel like Stacy is settling, but at the same time she is accepting her life. She knows what it is now, and what she can expect. It really kind of ties everything together perfectly and I think it can argue the point that everything that happens happens for a reason.

WRAPUP
So yes, I did love this book a lot. It's not perfect, and it's not the most spectacular thing I've eve read. Still, it has firm place in my heart for its gorgeous portrayal of realistic situations. There's a mashup of tragedy and humor, and things don't work out perfectly. But I'd definitely recommend it, and I'll be checking up on Margaret's future books myself.

FINE.

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499 reviews83 followers
January 14, 2013
**Originally posted @ ReadingDiva's Blog **

REVIEW: I am usually skeptical when it comes to YA, I can’t help it. When I started reading Normalish I was a bit taken aback because I thought this was just another story of a whiny teenager, but I kept reading. Normalish is different, because though the main character is quite young she is also very mature.

Normalish is written in a series of journal entries, in which the main character Stacy records the different events developing in her life. From her thoughts about the death of her father to finally kissing her crush, to experiencing pain after the death of the guy who showed her love for the first time.

This is a heartfelt story, it had me laughing, shaking my head and at times crying. The writing style is different, not necessarily in a bad way. Stacy is usually doing a mental inventory of what is happening to her. I think the author did a good job developing her character, she showed us a sarcastic & mature teenager who dealt with pain and death in many different ways. It also shows us that age does not always determine maturity. Stacy understands right from wrong and knows that every action has a consequence.

This is a very deep and insightful story, it is well written and it will keep you turning pages. Readers of YA may want to keep an eye on Margaret Lesh. I enjoy this book and I am looking forward to reading more of her work.



Readers, if you enjoyed stories such as Pushing The Limits you will definitely enjoy Normalish. Expect mature characters and drama all over the place.
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Author 9 books63 followers
October 23, 2013
This is my daughter's review of Normalish (she is 13 years old):

Normalish is the story of fifteen-year-old Stacy who is adjusting to life after her dad has passed away. Living with her mom and two older sisters, she has a tough time at school, especially after a falling out with her best friend Summer. Things go from bad to worse when her older sister Becca is acting stranger and stranger, until she finally has to be admitted to a mental institution.

I enjoyed this story told from Stacy’s point-of-view. No matter how bleak things get, Stacy manages to maintain her sense of humor. Despite the tough subject matter, the plot never becomes a downer. Being close to Stacy in age myself, I could relate to most of her situations, even though her family life is tougher than that of an average kid. She had to cope with her father’s death at a young age, and then with her sister’s illness. But Stacy manages to keep a good head on her shoulder, and as the reader you’ll easily find yourself rooting for her. A very enjoyable read!
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Author 1 book16 followers
January 8, 2013
I bought myself this book as a Christmas gift because I had read the blurb for it and thought it sounded interesting. I don't usually read YA, I'm more into MG, but I thought I would give this one a chance.

This may be a negative for some readers, but I appreciate Ms. Lesh so much for writing a clean YA novel. There are certainly sexual awareness moments in the story, but she handles them quite well. The first kiss, the groping, the attraction to an older male, were all handled tastefully and yet kept me wanting to keep reading.

The cast of characters portrayed in Normalish could be found in any neighborhood throughout the US, or wider. They are all so well-developed and so real that I was drawn right into their battles and victories. I experienced a wide range of emotions while reading this story, which is what I, as a reader, would hope for. I think Ms. Lesh has written a thought-provoking debut novel, and I look forward to more.
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Author 13 books43 followers
July 27, 2013
This is a wonderful coming-of-age story with some depth. It starts out as perhaps just another snarky teenager explaining her overly-dramatic, filled-with-angst life, but turns into SO much more. Stacy, a freshman in high school whose life seems almost unbearable to her, is a wonderful character. She has lots of reasons to hate her life: some of them normal, and some actually tragic. But all of the characters in this very readable story have flaws, making them all realistic and relatable. I found myself cheering Stacy on, hoping she'd find the beauty in life among all of the tragedy (real and imagined) surrounding her. I loved the way the year unfolded for her, and recommend this one to both teenagers and their parents.
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Author 2 books60 followers
October 9, 2012
For anyone that ever felt out of place, or that you didn't belong, this heartfelt story will tug at your heartstrings and reach down into your soul like a familiar friend. The author takes you on a journey that has you experiencing all the longing and confusion right along with fourteen-year-old, Stacy York. You will laugh, you will cry, and yes you will experience every other emotion you went through as a teen. Margaret Lesh's, Normalish, is the kind of story I'd recommend to teens and adults alike.
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January 26, 2013
Normalish is a delightfully frank and open account of a teenager’s journey through the murky mire of school, friends, boyfriends, grief, uncertainty, life and … well being alive.

After about 3 pages, I forgot it was YA, and became totally immersed in Stacy’s story. I engaged (and identified) with the characters, laughing and crying, sharing the journey with Stacy and her family.

Margaret Lesh has a rare talent for connecting the reader with the story. Her characters are alive and very human (foibles and all).

Bravo Margaret, thank you for sharing this story.
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179 reviews66 followers
January 14, 2013
**Originally on Read-A-holicZ, HERE!**

When I started this book I wasn't feeling it much, yeah a girl starting HS and oh her Best friend, who is a guy, turns out to like you more than a friend but your to blind to see it & break his heart. But then....IT SURPRISED ME! In so many good ways.

At first i wasn't a fan of the writing because it's all in diary entries so you don't see much of the character but after a few "chapters" I loved it and it actually made the book more interesting, especially with the chapter titles :)

“Just when it seems like you have things figured out, something like this happens-something so completely unexpected-comes along”


There are a LOT of things that happen to Stacy, like her sister going nuts, her crush breaking her heart, backstabbing best friends, and loving a crazy person . Yeah, not normal. I liked that she was a thinker, she was like:

“Normal" is all about perception. I mean, isn't "normal" what the majority of people do?”


She acted like a REAL teenager who had to deal with a LOT of sh*t. Actually most of the characters seemed like people i met in HS (weird but true) and i could connect to there struggles. I felt weird about Chad, he was nice but he gave me weird signals just. I LOVED Bobby, the mental ward patient whom has tattoos, is sweet, yet has some issues and GOD!!!!! His tiny part in the story made me love him SO MUCH and broke my heart for Stacy.


"Really how many girls out there can say ther're in love with a guy in apsych ward who's on a seventy-two hour-hold because he tried to kill himself?"


Yeah, there were parts of this book that were intense and "OH MU GOD, WHAT the HECK!?"; I think i had to stop reading to digest what had just happened in parts of the book. It's a story of a girl going through a lot of HS things that do actually happen (well to someone in the world) and how she deals with it (or tries).

Overall, this was a really quick and enjoyable read, full of REAL characters and believable situations! It has it moments of brilliance but you can relate because who hasn't wanted to fit in and be normal? Right. 4/5 CRAZY STARS!
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January 15, 2013
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4.5 Stars

Normalish is a brilliant story about a girl starting her first year of high school while trying to figure out what "normal" really is. She struggles through problems within her family, with friends and even some romantic issues. Normalish is one girl's insight to high school and explains how she survived her freshman year.

I was hesitant to pick this up, if I'm being honest. I had noticed it before I joined a blog tour for it, and was feeling pretty "ehhh" about it. But when the sign-ups were released, I decided to give it a try. I'm so glad that I did. While this isn't the best written novel, I immediately fell into it. Normalish is extremely hard to put down. In fact, once I started it, I didn't put away my kindle under after I had finished it. I kept saying, just three more chapters and I'll put it down… I ended up reading the entire novel in one sitting. It was just… great.

Freshman year hasn't started out so well for fifteen-year-old, Stacy. Her best friend has fallen in with a new crowd and has pretty much abandoned her. The guy she reluctantly now considers her best friend has developed feelings for her. Her sister is going crazy. And her love life is a complete mess. As the story progresses, the readers will watch as Stacy falls in love, gets her heart broken, struggles in math, loses friends, gains friends and ultimately learns to be be happy with herself.

I'm a sucker for novels with controversial subjects. When the issues are tackled appropriately, novels with controversial issues can easily become some of my favorite books. Normalish is definitely included in that. I thought Ms. Lesh above and beyond the norm of mental illness. I think the view and descriptions were handled perfectly for the story. The details weren't tasteless, but felt like they were being viewed from a young person's perspective - which they were.

The layout of Normalish is different than your average contemporary novel. It is not only made up of romance(s), but it deals with social, mentally and familial issues as well. Some of the the plot points are typical, like boy trouble. Others are ones that aren't exactly new, but are dealt with in a way that I, personally, have not read before, i.e. the appearance of the main character's sister's mental illness. It was great to see an original contemporary novel. Everything felt new and I didn't know what was going to happen next.

I loved Stacy. I could see myself in her character. Maybe that's why I connected so well with this book. She has a realistic personality. She acts like a teenager, sounds like a teenager. She's boy crazy. She's witty. She has great humor, but has a darker side of her that is hard to see. Some authors work too hard at making their characters a certain age and those characters end up being too mature, sometimes too immature. I don't believe this author has that problem. In fact, Ms. Lesh's characters stuck with me for weeks after I finished the novel. I don't think there was a character that I didn't appreciate as part of the story. I liked that they all added something to it.

I would definitely recommend this to fans of contemporary young adults novels. Normalish provides everything you would want in a good contemporary story and will leave its readers feeling.

I received an e-copy of this novel via the author for my honest opinion and review.
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105 reviews19 followers
January 15, 2013
This review is also posted HERE.

Judging from the blurb, Normalish seems like your average contemporary read about a girl thrust into the halls of high school for the very first time. Throughout her freshman year, Stacy has to deal with losing her best friend because said best friend is now too popular to be associated with her; she gains a new best friend only to find out that said best friend is nursing a crush on her; she realizes that the boy she has been in love with since seventh grade is a jerk of epic proportions; and her sister has been acting really weird - weirder than usual. See what I mean? However, by subtly yet deftly exploring serious issues usually reserved for YA titles with older MCs, Normalish is nothing short of extraordinary, and believe me, by the end of this book, you be left to ponder about what 'normal' truly means.

I don't usually read YA titles with young MCs, but I have to admit, I took an easy liking to Stacy. She was smart, witty, sarcastic and had no troubles whatsoever expressing her feelings. Moreover, since Normalish was written in a way that had the readers in Stacy's mind 24/7, I have no qualms in saying that it would be rather difficult not to like Stacy since we get everything from the inside - we get everything from the deep recesses of her mind no-holds-barred. I also loved how Mesh had Stacy dealing with the more common problems of a high school freshman (boy, friends, and school troubles) while at the same time exposing her to more serious issues such as death and mental illnesses. By seeing Stacy at both her most mature and her most naive, I definitely got to know and related to her character better.

It's also worth pointing out that Stacy's voice doesn't change throughout the course of the novel. Despite going through hellish experiences - some of which girls her age, and heck, even older girls don't ever encounter in their lives - Lesh managed to keep Stacy's voice constant at fourteen/fifteen-years-old (she celebrates her birthday within the novel). Doing so kept the story very realistic, and allowed it to flow without any problems. Lesh's writing is simply phenomenal - from the very first page, she had me truly believing that I was reading the thoughts of a girl named Stacy, and not words printed on paper by an author.

As I have previously mentioned, Normalish tackles serious issues and takes a darker turn at the last half of the book. We are exposed to people with mental illnesses as Stacy's sister Becca is institutionalized, and it is at this time that we meet a particular character that would leave his mark on Stacy's life. I was pleasantly surprised at how well Lesh had Stacy dealing with such serious issues - none of them were glamorized and looked down upon; instead, readers get to experience just how greatly they impact the lives of those who go through them, as well as the lives of those who have friends and family members going through them.

Normalish surprised me. I expected a light read that would have me good-naturedly rolling my eyes at the young MC's naivety, but instead, it left me thoughtful and fully appreciative of people who have no trouble letting their feelings and emotions be known. It also left me pondering the true meaning of 'normal', and just why so many people are so desperate to adhere to what society decrees as 'normal'. This was a very enlightening read, and I truly enjoyed my part in Stacy's freshman year.
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February 8, 2018
Normalize is filled with Mental health stereotypes, and acts as a record of how most people view mental illness. I preferred the sequel, My friend are All Strange, which can be read as a standalone.
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127 reviews13 followers
January 25, 2013
My rating: 4/5 stars
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Lately I’ve been thinking about “normal” and how there’s this fine line between being an average, ordinary person and being completely out-of-your-mind crazy.

“Normal” is all about perception. I mean, isn’t “normal” what the majority of people do?
So what if suddenly ninety-nine people out of a hundred decide to walk their iguanas down the street while wearing a tutu? Wouldn’t the one guy who didn’t own an iguana and wear a tutu be the freak?

And isn’t it the ones who seem normal on the outside who, in actuality, know where the bodies are buried in the backyard or are secretly in love with their toaster?





After reading that I knew this was going to be my kind of book! Which was great, since I was on page 2. Totally have to agree with Stacy, especially with the part about those who seem normal. Yeah, I've never been "normal", so even the name was appealing to me.

Stacy is fifteen and in high school. And surprise: high school sucks! Her best friend decides she's just not cool enough anymore, and dumbs her. She's in love with a guy who turns out to be a complete jerk. And her best friend, who happens to be a guy, has a crush on her, and that just.. can't be good. Oh, and Stacy's sister is acting up a little strange, like cutting off her sleeves and stuff. And her dad is dead. So yeah, it's pretty sucky.

After realising Stacy is only 15, I was little iffy, thanks to situation with Confessions of an Angry Girl (too much steamy scenes for a little child!). I was so relieved when I kept reading and noticed this didn't have so much steam, but was a story of a girl who doesn't mind keeping her pants on.
Sure, there's romantic situations, but they are sweet and fitting to a girl her age.

Even though high school was a huge part of the story, it also revolved a lot around Stacy's sister Becca and her getting better. Stacy ends up spending a lot of time in the nuthouse. And of course there's a guy involved. A guy who happens to look like a pirate and is named Bobby.
Man, I just fell in love with that guy! Of course I hoped things would go right for him and Stacy, and I was devastated after.. you know what.
Bobby and Stacy just made me laugh and cry, and then I was crying really hard, and then there was some funny parts and I ended up snorting and sounded like a pig and started laughing harder while crying.. So, thanks for that, my husband already thought I'm not completely sane, definitely didn't lessen his suspicions ;)

This was the first book I read this year, and I'm so glad about it. It only took me a day to read this, since I just couldn't stop reading. I definitely recommend this if you're a fan of YA. And you can definitely try this even if you weren't!

Love,
Monaliz @ Mind Reading?
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February 25, 2013
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In Normalish reader is following the ups (toward the end) and downs (at the beginning) of the 15 year old Stacy through her freshmen year in high school. And she is facing some tough challenges and choices, and she is dealing with lot of not so nice things. The main problems in Stacy life are:

- her father is dead
- her older sister starts to act strange and end up institutionalized
- her middle school best friend is best friend no more
- she has neither a boyfriend nor money, nor new clothes
- she hates math

Throughout the course of the story many things on this list will change for the worst in order to get finally better. Stacy’s heart will be broken, but she will also break someone else’s, and she will find a love only to lose it. She will lose the best friend, get a new friend, got a job. She will grow up and realize that thing cannot be normal, because no one can actually define what normal means and that she should be happy and enjoy life instead of feeling guilty because she is happy.

Margaret Lesh’s writing is great because, let’s be honest, often in the YA novels the voice of the main character can be either too childish, or too mature for the character age. But here Stacy’s voice is kept on her age level through whole story. Furthermore Stacy is a great character; on one hand she is vulnerable, while on the other is brave, outspoken and she knows how to stand up for herself.

But Stacy’s character is not the only one that makes this story so good. The secondary characters are well defined and they bring a whole new juiciness to the story. I particularly like Stacy’s sister’s boyfriend and Bobby (the boy Stacy meets while visiting her sister in the mental facility), because they are different, quirky, nice, and warm at the same time. I also like the family dynamics between Stacy, her sisters and mom. These girls really care for one another and they lean on each other and there is special bond between them that is so well described in the story. All in all, Normalish is great heartwarming story with the beautiful characters that I enjoyed tremendously.

Normalish is contemporary Young Adult novel. It is not Young Adult romance novel, although it has romantic elements. It is a good story that I recommend to readers of all ages who like to read Young Adult/ Middle grade genre.

I’m finishing this review with one of my favorite quote from the book:

“Normal” is all about perception. I mean, isn’t “normal” what the majority of people do? So what if suddenly ninety-nine people out of a hundred decide to walk their iguanas down the street while wearing a tutu? Wouldn’t the one guy who didn’t own an iguana and wear a tutu be the freak? And isn’t it the ones who seem normal on the outside who, in actuality, know where the bodies are buried in the backyard or are secretly in love with their toaster?

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260 reviews18 followers
January 19, 2013
I'm really glad that I got the chance to take part in this tour. I was surprised just how interesting things turned out, both the bad and the good. I wasn't expecting half of what happened, and this is me who still remembers very clearly what it was like to be in high school.

For the most part I had a really hard time relating to Stacy. No offense, but she seemed to view life with two extremes (either things were going exceptionally well or things were going down the gutter). And I remember being fifteen and feeling the extremes (hello hormones) but at the same time I feel like it was too much to the point of being unrealistic. I was really nervous at where Lesh would take Stacy or where Stacy would take herself.

The subject of mental illness has always been a sore one for me, since I come from a family that has a long history of mental illness and there is no secret that my middle and high school life I was riddled with nothing but my own mental illness. It was interesting, to say the least, how Lesh made me see it from the other side. I always slightly prided myself in being someone who can see both points of view, but even I never knew what my own actions would effect people. Seeing how Stacy and her family had to deal with her older sister gave me at least some insight at what a lot of families go through who have similar experiences.

I was a little thrown off by the romance, but at the same time found myself liking it. I know Stacy's young, so obviously everything she's feeling can be blown out of proportion, and yes, she probably won't be deciding who she'll be spending the rest of her life with just yet, but at least Lesh was consist in Stacy's own inconsistency. If that makes sense, I think it does.

Anyways, Lesh brought to life what the first year of high school can be like for many people. And while I personally couldn't relate to Stacy, I had no trouble making connections to the supporting characters to people in my own school. I was friends with the Chads, the Anthonys, the Samanthas, and others who Stacy had to interact. In a lot of ways, I think it was them more than anything that kept me coming back.

Lesh takes a moment in a lot of peoples lives that can be both exciting and scary (first year of high school) and showers readers with all the extremes that could be felt. I was impressed with the style, and no matter how whiny, Stacy's voice came out in the end, which I found to be what gave this at least one more star in my rating. Four for originality and hitting a spot that most can look back at fondly (or some can look forward to, depending on where you stand!).
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497 reviews
January 19, 2013
When I first dove into this book, I knew pretty much nothing about it, despite the fact that it had a simply gorgeous cover. I totally loved it. Still do! It's simple and sweet. Just like this book. Other than the cover, I didn't know what to expect, other than the story of a Freshman whose life sucks. Which it totally does.

As I began reading, I quickly noticed, that it was told in the form of a diary. This didn't really bug me, and I actually really enjoyed the way this story was told. It gave a closer in depth look on Stacy, and her feelings. True, there was more talk, less happening, but it was smooth and just really interesting to read, that it made up for all that. To be honest, at first Stacy kinda got on my nerves as a whiny character. I mean she spends the first 5% of the book complaining and repeated how lame she is, and how messed up her life is. Way to be an optimist. But I found that as the plot progressed and things change in nature for Stacy....she wasn't so whiny anymore. She was actually growing on me! Her voice is so sweet and simple and yet full of emotion that it's hard not to get sucked into this book.

The plot was well paced and had quite an emotional story drive for Stacy. Her life pretty much gets turned upside down as she struggles with young love, and family problems. I wish some of it had been explored more in depth, and not just simply written about in the journal. I would have liked to know more about certain events and people, but it wasn't like I was driven mad about it. So I think it was a very nice read.

Lastly, I just want to touch on the romance. It was sweet, but it felt like some of it was just spread out to far. Too little butter for the toast. There's Boy A, Boy B, and Boy C. We learn about each and explore the relationships with each. Boy B...well he was nice, but he was the one I really wanted more information on. Boy C, he was the Hero of the story. The one you know will eventually end up with the girl. So yeah, it was kinda predictable, but in a good way. The kind where even though you know what happens you can appreciate the journey to get there.

All in all, it was a very delightful read, that I enjoyed. Stacy was a lovely narrator and I really liked seeing the character change she went though. I can't say it struck me to the bone as a new favorite, but I'm very glad I was able to read it. If you ever need a short pick-me-up, then Normalish is the book for you.

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February 13, 2013
Normalish started out as one of those cute little romance books that you just love to read on a lazy Sunday afternoon to pass the time and give you a cuddly feeling. Don't get me wrong... it was all of those things. But it just had more to it than that. This is a story about growing up, learning people, learning yourself, learning love, and maturing. I absolutely adored it!

Stacy was an amazing character. Her point of view was so real and so honest that you just couldn't help but to fall in love with her. She says things as she feels them. At times this means extremely funny internal narrative, and sometimes it was cynical and sarcastic, and then sometimes it was raw and sad and emotional. No matter what she was feeling though and how she expressed it, it was open and honest and raw. Her head was such a unique place to be, and I dare anyone to read this book and not love her. She was an excellent character because she didn't apologize for being and thinking exactly the way she liked. She got embarrassed but didn't wallow in it and let it prevent her from living. She dealt with it. She was unashamedly boy crazy, but she learned from this too. I loved watching each situation with guys grow her up just a little bit more, and make her grow stronger.

Part of her journey is one with guys. Again, boy crazy, right? This aspect of her was so true to life, and exactly how I remembered myself being at her age. But she learns how to pick through the ones that aren't worth it to find the ones that are. It is such a fun and enlightening journey to watch her take, and very gratifying to see her get to the end of it having realized that the outside wrapping isn't the only thing you should look for, and that sometimes the inside makes you see the outside better.

There was one event in the book that just about ripped my heart out, just as it did Stacy's. She had such a big heart, and cared so much that it broke my heart for that to happen to her, and to see her have to go through that. But she was also forgiving and strong.

This was definitely a wonderful coming of age story where you literally get to see Stacy's character be shaped into the woman she will eventually be. Margaret Lesh's writing was superb, and she handled these issues with such sensitivity and honesty. I was really impressed by this book, and will definitely be looking for more stories by this author in future. This was a fantastic book, and so much more than what I was expecting.
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488 reviews263 followers
January 23, 2013
Originally posted at: http://iliveforreading.blogspot.sg/20...

Normal
nor ● mal
Conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected: Stacy's life is anything but normal.

This book hooked me in from the get-go. I'm a sucker for contemporaries or chick-flicks, even if it is a little clichéd or predictable. There's nothing I love more than a girl, her problems, and a couple of cute guys (even if one of them's a jerk).

Stacy is HILARIOUS. Me, being one to love humor of all sorts, was swept away with her sarcasm, her comebacks, her punchlines. I love anything (or anyone) that can make me laugh, and Stacy definitely did that. I could relate to her so well– she's just like a typical teenager! While I did think some parts were a little too emotional, I thought she was still an amazing main character.
Like I stated earlier– I love anything or anyone who makes me laugh and I've got one name to say to you. CHAD. My hilarious, dorky soulmate. Sweet, empathetic, gorgeous Chad. This book was really complete in the guy department because of you.
Bobby– total bad boy, and so was there an attraction between him and I, or rather, me towards him? Uh, heck yeah.

Normalish is a really quick read, and that's what I loved about it. I don't tend to like contemporaries that are super long, unless there's a ton of substance, but this had the right amount. I'm still a little surprised at how much was covered in a couple of pages! Another thing I loved about this novel was the short-ness of the chapters. The story-line went at an appropriate pace and I found myself pulled along, wanting more.

I must admit, I had no idea what to expect going into this book, but Normalish is a FABULOUS young adult contemporary. Lesh portrays heartbreak, the love of a family, and the un-normal life of a teen whom everyone will fall in love with. Definitely one to pick up!


▪ ▪ ▪ Thank you so much to Giselle at Xpresso Reads and Xpresso Book Tours for sending me Normalish for review! ▪ ▪ ▪
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260 reviews32 followers
January 8, 2013
I found Normalish to be an enjoyable YA contemporary read. Stacy is generally pretty likeable, considering the crappy crap she has to go through. She states the facts of her life and of course complains, but most of the time it's not the whiney, makes-me-want-to-claw-my-eyes-out, complaining. It's the legit, yeah-that-is-pretty-shitty kind of complaining that it would be weird for a character not to do.

My favourite part of Normalish is the changes that Stacy goes through over the year in which the book is set. I love watching characters grow and the change is Stacy is very marked indeed.

I also enjoyed the supporting characters in Normalish, since they were realistic and could have gone to my high school (even stupid Anthony). My favourite character is Roman. He was basically the perfect boyfriend for Stacy's sister Becca and I loved how supportive he was of Becca when she had some serious stuff going on. Plus, he was really cool to Stacy, when he didn't have to be. I actually liked Becca a lot as well. She seemed like an awesome sister to have, despite the issues that arise for her (trying hard to be spoiler free here). We don't see much of Stacy's other sister Jill and that's something I wish had been added to the story more.

For the most part I liked Stacy, but there were a couple times she drove me nuts. The main one was how over the top crazy she got about having a monster pimple. For the record (to show I know what I'm talking about), I had a major pimple over the weekend, which resulted in my mom asking (in public) "What's on your face?" I'm 24 for goodness sake. Anyway, my point is that pimple suck, but there's not the end of the world and I got sick of reading about Stacy's pimple for 5 pages. Although I guess that's one of the ways that a reader can see how much Stacy grew over the book.

I'll admit it, this one made me cry a bit (mostly in the scene with Jimi). No spoilers, but I was pretty misty-eyed.

Overall, I enjoyed Normalish a lot. If you're a fan of YA contemporaries, you should enjoy this one.
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