Jaynes says women have five common dreams:
1. to have a daddy who loves me
2. to be a bride
3. to be a mommy
4. to be beautiful
5. to have a best friend
She also discusses those dreams that have been shattered, interrupted or restored. She looks at several different women in the Bible and how they handled their dreams. “Sarah, who interfered with God’s dream; Naomi, who forgot her dream; and Esther, who fulfilled God’s dream.” No matter where we are in life, we must never forget that God loves us and hasn’t forgotten us. “There may be times in our lives when we cry, “Where are You, God? Don’t You care about what is happening to me? I can’t hear You. I can’t see Your hand working in my life.” But be assured of this: Even when we can’t sense God’s presence, He is always there. Always. And through it all, one thing remains the same – “His love endures forever!”’ We all have dreams and have to place them in God’s hands because who better than the One who put the dreams in us to bring them about? “As women, we all have girlish dreams hidden in our hearts and God, our heavenly Father, longs to fulfill them.”
Dreams can be a scary thing because we don’t always know how they’re going to turn out. “When God says no, we can rest assured there is a greater yes if we relinquish our shattered dreams to Him.” What if how God wants to bring my dream about is different than what I have in mind? “God’s timetable is not our timetable. It may seem as though He is moving too slowly, moving too quickly, or has forgotten our dream altogether. However, He has everything under control. Our job is to trust Him.” What if I mess up? Why is God taking so long? “Many times we have a tendency to run ahead of God when we feel He is not acting quickly enough.” I needed this reminder that God will bring my dreams about. He’s not forgotten me or busy with something else, placing me on the backburner. Psalm 17:8 says we are the “apple of God’s eye” – He has such an amazing love for us! I can trust my dreams with Him because no one loves me more than the One who made me. “No matter where your destination has taken you, or where it will take you in the future, I pray that you will begin to enjoy where you’ve landed. It might not be what you dreamed of, but it can have many wonderful features yet to be explored.”