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218 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1970
'The only thing I don't like about school is the beating the children receive. Sometimes we adults don't want to do certain things, and nobody bothers us. Why should we bother the children if sometimes they are not in the mood to learn.'I considered bumping the rating up for this after I'd thought on it for a while, and apparently the time such required was encompassed by my writing of this review. You see, this work suffers from a multitude of misfortunes that are so odiously predictable in the realm of the literature market: a single edition, poor marketing, and the One Hit Wonder syndrome that often targets women/people of color publishing before popular media acknowledges their existence as not only credible, but viable. Unlike Efuru, that work of Nwapa's that is considered to be the One Hit, this book cannot be contorted to fit into white feminist's trumpeting of Personal Independence At All Costs. For, at heart, it is a tragedy, and as Things Fall Apart has been published twelve years previous to this one (I am not pitting one author against another, for Achebe was wonderfully encouraging in ways both emotional and economic from the very beginning of Nwapa's literary career), there was no small amount of stiff competition, even when considering that white appetite to this day much prefers that only narratives of despair come out of the entirety of that continent known as Africa, so as to further drive in the subconscious association of Euro with happiness and everything else with otherwise. Even worse, it is a tragedy that comes from the portrayal of a cultural clash that is not oriented around the wham bam of land stealing and religion burning, but of a slow and steady exposure to different views that prove that, actually, refusing to do one thing or going ahead and doing another will not actually make the sky fall down. After that, all that is left is the individual will, and where would the human species be if that's all that we had had for the last few millennia and more?
'That's what people are like. Sometimes it is better not to be sympathized with. Women can sympathize in a most annoying manner,' Idu added.The term 'buried' gets thrown around way too much in certain reading lexicons, but for a work like this, there's some merit to the usage.
'That's how you women behave. We men don't sympathize like that,' Adiewere said.
'You are right, Adiewere. We are like that. But you know, if you don't act as everyone else does, you are accused of not being sympathetic,' said Idu.
'But sometimes your sympathizers laugh at you,'
Adiewere said.
'Yes, they laugh at you,'