This book has been on my shelf for a long time. Glad I picked it up and read it.
I like how the format varied from psychological points to short accounts of individual reflections on the topic related to the particular chapter. I also thought that the chapters covered just about every aspect one can think of related to only children.
I found myself in many parts of the book which was satisfying either because it was a slightly more nuanced understanding I already had, or just good to read the many things I have thought about being an only child.
I liked reading about the topics that I, an only child and my only child have often discussed.
My criticism is that the author allows the idea that most points she makes about only children can be attributed to being an only, whereas there are plenty of times as I read about the traits she mentions that could equally be attributed to temperament and the myriad of influences on the growing child.