If you think you're alone in fearing the rapist in your home - abused even while you love the perpetrator - here's a book that will open your eyes to what numerous other women are going through, and teach you about rights, boundaries and healing from the trauma caused by partner rape. A challenge to silence and social myths about What ''real'' rape is, with the aim of preventing it from continuing.
This is a very important book for those that have been assaulted by partners. It has helped me immensely just in the short time I have had it. It is a hard subject and may set some survivors back, but it is must read for when they are healed enough to be able to read.
For anyone who has been sexually assaulted in any way, but especially by a partner, this book is an amazing gift. It has testimony from over 30 different women, including the authors, that detail out every part of the abuse and healing process.
Because I cannot relate to this experience I found the first two chapters difficult to get through, due the way the book speaks to the reader. I wanted to correct the authors and tell them to stop saying "you" because this book isn't for me. I had a shift in perspective after that, and the tone seems to change subtly as well.
If you are a victim or you know someone who may have experienced sexual violence by a partner at any time in their lives, and to any degree, this is an amazing book.