Very dated, although not exactly outdated.
Clearly much has changed since Held wrote this book. Her arguments would have benefited from increased engagement with intersectional/WOC feminism on the one hand and Marxist feminism on the other. Her appeals to biology are also quite annoying.
That said, it is strangely refreshing to read a feminist theory text that unapologetically takes questions of moral transformation, children’s wellbeing, and human interdependence seriously. The whole strand of care ethical feminist thought seems to have been lost in recent years. We could benefit from a return to some of the key areas of concern this book addresses, albeit on more intersectional, trans/queer inclusive, and anti-capitalist grounds.