The First Time Father: The Expectant Survival Guide for First-Time Dads Through Pregnancy Journey

by Alfie Thomas

Prepare yourself for the sudden twists and turns of fatherhood with this personal account of a father-of-three who tells it like it is What if I don’t know what to do when the baby cries? Am I giving my partner the support she needs? How expensive is raising babies? There’s no denying that becoming a first-time father will be one of the biggest events in your life. Pregnancy is a huge game-changer. And it’s no surprise that for many expecting dads, it can be very daunting. You might be wondering where to start, how you can help, and what to do when the baby comes. Mothers always have the upper hand when it comes to preparing for a baby since there are tons of resources out there for mothers-to-be. It can seem like expectant dads are just supposed to magically know what to do. Whether you realize it or not, you will have a huge impact on your child’s life … right from the moment the pregnancy test reads ‘positive’. The question How can you become a positive influence, overcome unexpected challenges, and be there for your partner and baby? Babies don’t emerge from the womb with a how-to manual. Luckily, a little advice from an experienced father will go a long way in surviving the transformation from man to father. The First-Time Father is filled with honest guidance from a father who’s been there (three times!), made every mistake possible, and survived to tell the story. Now you can step into fatherhood with as little stress as possible. In The First-Time Father , you will And much more. It’s completely natural for new dads to have a ton of questions when it comes to pregnancy… and this interactive handbook takes the time to answer the questions no one else would. No more confusion, stress, or worries. Know exactly what your partner needs from you during and after the pregnancy, how to be part of the whole process, and be prepared for the unexpected. If you want to be a great dad and keep your sanity all at the same time, then scroll up and click the “Add to Cart” button right now.

Genres: Self Help

231 pages, Hardcover

Published November 7, 2021

Reviews

[Blessing]

The First Time Father by Alfie Thomas reads as a survival guide for first time fathers during pregnancy. The author, Alfie Thomas enlightened us on his very own experience in being a supportive husband to his wife during pregnancy and labor. The book is divided into three major parts which are ensuring both the mom-to-be and the baby are safe during both pregnancy and labor. The second part is the creation of a strong bond between a father and his baby at a very early age. The third part is a guide on the ways in which a father should maintain a strong and healthy relationship with his child and to also adopt proper financial discipline in the family.

I enjoyed the fact that the author, Alfie Thomas shared his experience in supporting his wife through pregnancy. I also found myself nodding my head in affirmation while reading the book. The book also sheds light on some terms related to pregnancy such as cervix, colostrum, meconium and many more. The processes in which a baby is formed was also mentioned. A baby is formed within three trimesters. There was a saying in the book which really caught my attention, "Proper Preparation Prevents Poor Performance". I, myself learnt a lot from this book. One of the things I learnt was that the mother-to-be's chance of miscarriage drops considerably after three months. What a great thing to learn!

There is nothing I disliked about the book. I kept flowing with the texts in the book. Everything felt understandable. The book did not contain any form or sign of profanity. Family and parenthood was the main theme in the book.

I rate this book 3 out of 4 stars. The reason for not giving a 4 out of 4 is because The First Time Father didn't appear professionally edited as several grammatical errors were noted. Everything else about the book was perfect.

I would recommend the book to fathers-to-be because it would really serve a good purpose and as a guide to fathers who are just having their first baby.

[Redmakesmyheartsing]

The First Time Father by Alfie Thomas is a step-by-step guide for first-time fathers. From preparing yourself mentally and physically for the birth to coping with the new addition while also supporting the new mother. The author says, "It covers every aspect related to pregnancy, childbirth, and early childhood roles in a simple language that can be understood by anyone." Every angle to being a new dad is covered, including a cheat sheet and special tips. Alfie Thomas wrote this book because he struggled when becoming a dad.

Alfie Thomas felt that there were not enough books for dads, and he wrote The First Time Father to share what he has learned from his and his wife's experiences of bringing three babies into the world. Am I giving my partner the support she needs? What should I do when my baby cries? How do I cultivate a bond with my new baby? Read The First Time Father by Alfie Thomas to discover the answers to these and other questions.

When I first saw The First Time Father on the bookshelf, I thought it was a brilliant idea for first-time dads. The mum is growing the baby, and she gets most of the attention. Some dads struggle with how they fit into this new world. Alfie Thomas has covered every aspect of a dad's journey through pregnancy and looking after a new baby.

There are so many things I disliked about this book. I appreciate that Alfie Thomas has written this book to be user-friendly. However, some of the humour is not acceptable. For example, on page thirty-seven: " Even the most hardened tightwad will struggle to take a trip to this store without absolutely spunking their load, which is what got you into this predicament in the first place." A paragraph also describes how a woman's breasts become more prominent and tender, and she does not want the dad anywhere near her. The author feels that for the dad, it is like seeing cute puppies in a pet shop window and not being able to buy them! Also, I did not particularly appreciate that the author describes his wife as lazy when she is heavily pregnant and too exhausted to do household chores in the evening. In contrast, an exhausted new father should take every opportunity to rest!

I would not recommend The First Time Father by Alfie Thomas to anyone in its current form. The book does not appear to have been edited or proofread at all. Numerous errors on most pages make this book very difficult to read. The humour is inappropriate and sometimes borders on what I would expect from a Playboy magazine. Moreover, Alfie Thomas puts the new dad in a great light whatever he does while saying the new mum should be able to cope because she is the one who has had the baby!

I rate The First Time Father by Alfie Thomas 1 out of 5 stars as I did not enjoy reading it. In particular, there is a need for proofreading and editing. The fact I found some of the passages unnecessarily crude. Moreover, the lack of empathy for the mum is dangerous because if first-time dads were to behave in some of the ways described, the relationship would not last long!

I would like to thank Alfie Thomas for a free copy of The First Time Father in exchange for my unbiased review. You can see more of my reviews here : http://onlinebookclub.org/reviews/by-...