In the words of the author, Tarthang Tulku, of Gesture of Great Love:
"Right here and now, in the middle of fears and worries, surrounded by the complexity of the modern world, you can open to a new way of living. ... The mind as it operates now, for almost everyone everywhere, undermines positive goals, saps confidence, and crushes the human spirit. It destroys positive feelings like a repressive dictator. Relying on concepts and language, mind uses words like right or wrong, good or bad, to criticize and judge. It flies from one emotional state to another like a small dust mote in a strong breeze. ... Unexamined and unchecked, mind’s regime highlights what is negative, emphasizes what is lacking, and ignores the natural ‘knowledge-ability’ we all have that can put an end to suffering and grant inner peace. ... Suffering results from misunderstanding, from not knowing the nature of mind and how it operates. ... But, however powerful it seems now, the regime of mind is not all there is. Mind can operate differently; it is possible to find freedom. ... We can transform ignorance into wisdom, but until we do, suffering in its many forms will manifest. This is simply a truth of the way things are.... The way to be free is to deepen understanding. Greater knowledge of how mind operates loosens the gatekeepers’ hold and allows you to choose a more easeful way of being. ... Nothing affects your life as intimately as your understanding—or lack of understanding—of who, or what, is operating mind. ... Whatever you understand in this moment, you can build on. Everything you need is already here. You can certainly benefit by studying what others have said, but what matters in the end is to investigate your own experience. ... What really matters is knowing itself—and this deeper knowing does not depend on identity.
"Joy is Essential: Joy is a natural response to being alive and to the wonders that life presents. As you begin your journey to a new way of being, allow yourself to appreciate each moment you are alive. ... The more you learn to appreciate each moment, seeing fresh sights, hearing new sounds, the more you will recognize that experience is not composed of fixed and solid entities, that it is better understood as a mirage, no less beautiful for being insubstantial. ... Welcome all that arises. This present moment, just as it is, is the teacher you have been looking for. ... You can start by appreciating the joy that comes with simply being. When you let appreciation grow in your heart, you will find that things are no longer serious in the same way. You can deal with whatever comes up, effortlessly. Nourish yourself, honor yourself, respect yourself—not in words or ideas, but in your very being, here and now.
"All of experience is a journey into magic: emotions, sensations, thoughts, and consciousness itself. Magic is the depth of knowing, the meaning of being. ... Mind itself is simple, unborn, yet its magic generates countless forms. ... The real mystery is not somewhere else. It’s right here in what we call reality, or truth, or daily life. It’s in confusion and loneliness and boredom, and in the thoughts and concepts, and in all the insects and lizards and fruit trees. That’s how it all manifests, but before it manifests, before conditions, there is a unity, a play of light.
"You have made contact with teachings that can totally transform your life, and you can choose from this moment forward to live differently. Let this inspire you. ... What a wonderful opportunity! Most human beings have never heard of such possibilities.
"Please understand: What I am offering here is not a philosophy of knowledge or a psychology of action. It is not brain science, or a self-help tool designed to make you more successful, or a sociological essay on how you can best adapt to the culture we live in today. It is not a set of instructions for entering heaven after you die, or moral advice. It is not advice at all. What I am talking about is how things really are for us, and not how they seem. The very stuff that makes up the texture of our lives typically goes unexamined: the nature of self and mind, perception, cognition, language, time, the momentum toward change that makes human experience possible, in all its richness.
"The message I want you to take away is this: You don’t have to suffer! You can be at ease. You can find joy in whatever is happening right now, in this instant, in the middle of your life. There is no need for instruction, or esoteric books, or special teachers to tell you what to do. You don’t have to withdraw, or escape. Escape is a fantasy anyway, so let it go.
"What I am talking about is love born in freedom. Beyond words, concepts, and sensations, unimaginable, with no borders. You do not go in search of such love, and you do not aim to teach it, not to yourself and not to others. Later, there may be interpretations and explanations, but the truth of love comes before all that.
"Stop looking for signs of progress or positive experiences. Those are all just ideas. If you set out to find a road or path, the very efforts you make will become an obstacle: nothing more than fixations and frictions. Let go of all that. Freedom from the regime of mind comes from within, and it is already available. So relax. Even the possibility of freedom can become an obstacle if you hold on to it tightly.
"You never need to be fooled again. When appearances arise, no matter what their shape or content, you don’t need to push them away, and you don’t need to engage them. Now you know them for what they are. You can embrace them, kiss them, and let them dissolve because you know they are inherently insubstantial. The nature of dreams is to disappear. Perhaps you have moments when this imperfectly expressed possibility makes sense. When they come, let them expand, and you will find that you are very close to what we might call ‘being’. So, give yourself hugs and kisses, and let joy and love expand."