FINDING INNER SAFETY FIND SAFETY, SECURITY AND PEACE IN THE MODERN WORLD. When we work hard, sometimes we put our mental health on the backburner. Stress, a lack of sleep and other factors can quickly lead to burnout. How can we balance our goals with a peaceful lifestyle? Replace stress, burnout and surviving with resilience, energy-optimisation and thriving. With expert guidance from international author and speaker Dr. Nerina Ramlakhan, you’ll learn how to use quick, manageable solutions to make a profound difference to your mindset, energy levels and subsequent productivity. In plain language everybody can understand, Finding Inner Safety will help To lead a peaceful and fulfilling lifestyle, finding safety and security from within yourself is an essential first step. Finding Inner Safety provides practical knowledge, insight, and methods to help you unwind from our modern world in a deeper sense, both at home and at work, without asking you to give up on your ambitious goals.
The beginning of the book seemed promising but halfway through it became a repetitive infomercial. I persisted because I borrowed the audiobook from the library and it was helping me fall asleep.
The author brings in the work of Stephen Porges and Deb Dana in talking about Polyvagal Theory. I find this is explained in a way that is easy to understand. My favourite part of the book was her model of safety using tree imagery. Some things that resonated for me include: safety in our body being related to our ability to sleep, as well as the idea that our nervous systems experience the world as safe/unsafe (whether this is conscious or unconscious). The second half of the book is a series of practices to use to build safety. Being a therapist, most of the practices described were a review. That being said, I still discovered a few that I’d like to try (e.g the havening technique). Overall, there were helpful takeaways for me in my personal life and my work as a therapist.
This was actually sweet and extremely useful. I had been trying to work my way thru a pile of audiobooks i had aquired and just happened to hit play on this one, and found some answers. Immediately gave copies to two friends.
It's hard to believe this was written by a doctor; there was so little science or research mentioned, just vibes. Trauma profoundly influences feelings of safety but was only mentioned in passing. The exercises seemed sillier than most in self-help books: look in the mirror and say, 'I love you'? Come on.