3.5 stars
'The difference between maturation and evolution is that the latter typically only gets better, more advanced; whereas the former implies that eventually one rots and dies.'
Kaudo writes her experiences with clarity and a purpose of reflection that immediately pulls her readers in. Here she shares her most vulnerable and volatile moments, searching for her history and the story of her family, existing within a Black, female, and racialised body, navigating the stereotypes and fetishization that are wild contradictions in this society.
With each essay, writer and reader travel the myriad ways that Black women have been used, abused, gaslit; how they have risen, fought, been conflicted, and carved out their own paths and identities.
There were essays that showed her rhythm and poetic bent, with style and flow that almost belied the seriousness of the issues she was speaking to.