This is a book written to Christian men to challenge our instincts that come naturally to us as men and as humans. The author identifies five major instincts; ambition, apathy, adventure, reputation, and sarcasm. These 5 instincts challenge our faith and limit our ability to grow into Christlikeness, the book gives us thoughts and questions to challenge us against these temptations. The book is not about moving us out of each instinct and into a vibrant faith but recognizing our tendency to drift.
I enjoyed it. It wasn't the best book ever and I could tell which instincts speak the most to me because I took lots of notes in some chapters and zero notes and would be disillusioned in other chapters.
I discovered it after Chase Replogle was on a podcast I listen to. Listening to the podcast and wanting material to think through on manhood and masculinity it piqued my interest.
I am hesitant to recommend the book to anyone. It's very specific, very niche. Its a short book though and a quick read, I mean if the description sounds interesting to you, you will probably enjoy the book. I don't know that the book has changed me in anyway. I do look at where are my own thoughts or beliefs about myself leading me into sin or limiting my ability to grow in being more like Christ. There were definitely some areas of the book that really challenged me and I could see where I might be. I think the general concept of the book is a very simple one. Inspect yourself and spend more time in the word of God. Don't be complacent and challenge your instincts, those things that just you do or say without really thinking one way or the other about them.
Some of my favorite quotes or ideas from the group;
* Humility is not the absence of pride, rather pride is the absence of humility. At the same time humility can not be our focus. When we pursue humility it becomes corrupted.
* I have heard it said that meekness is strength under control. This book rephrased the same idea that meekness is disciplined strength. Meekness is first a question of submission. Jesus demonstrated meekness through submission to God's plan.
* Confess your sins to yourself, to God, and to a trusted friend.
* We need more than expectations, we need the good news. It is only by a growing knowledge of application of the gospel that we are capable of knowing ourselves.
Some of these are not direct quotes, but merged with my own thoughts and other things I'm reading and listening to.
This book was an interesting one as I look back at my notes in my daily journal about it. At first I didn't care much for it. There were some chapters I enjoyed and others I felt were basic and something I had moved far from. I read the chapter on sarcasm and felt a tingle, then I read the next two chapters and was thinking it was time to just put down another dude of a book and move on with life. Then the book started to kind of open up to me from my notes I would make. The idea of integrity being an idea of being made whole. Showing that your presented self and your inner self are consistent with one another. Your sins will find you out so you can either be honest with yourself and with God now, or God may humble you are at very inconvenient time. We need to place our faith and trust in God lest we be tempted away into an apathetic faith. It is not the idea of a grotesque sin leading men away from a vibrant faith but is the comfort of our hobbies and the recliner that cause us to disengage from our wives, our children, our church and our community where our presence is needed. The book ended with these last few bullet points that I want to make sure I have a copy of to remember. It is the gospel that gives us the security to embrace a self-suspicion necessary to overcome immaturity and sarcasm. The gospel offers a better adventure through deeper commitments and discernment. The gospel checks our ambition and teaches you to receive what you can't achieve by setting down your own expectations and learning to rest. The gospel exposes your pretending and teaches you the value of integrity over defending your reputation. The gospel keeps you engaged with this story of sacrifice and grace, rescuing you from your own apathy and pulling you back into a life of faith. This is what it means to be a man. To be maturing into Christlikeness. You must learn to know yourself. You must learn to know the gospel. You must watch yourself and the teaching closely.