Oh my God. I would say that I hate to be the first person to leave a negative review about this book, but I'm really not. I honestly think I'm the wrong audience for this book. I am a queer woman in my late twenties and a book about a group of middle-aged white cis semi-wealthy gay men is not necessarily my idea of a good time. I wanted to like this book. It had potential to be fun and exciting and emotional, but I was bored out of my mind. Every time I look at how far I was in the book I would get a little bit more depressed that I had so much longer to go. I almost DNF this book at like 17% and I should have just done it because I dreaded reading this book every second. It just wasn't interesting. I honestly only kept reading because I received an arc through NetGalley and wanted to be able to leave feedback.
As for problematic moments, this book has a few. There is one character among the friend group who is older, I'm not sure exactly how old but maybe 50s or 60s, and he is honestly just garbage. He is really queerphobic to anyone who isn't cis gay or cis lesbian and he also has moments of being racist and sexist. There's a particular encounter that I should have just stopped, they're talking about bisexuals and he literally says " bisexuals aren't even real " or something like that. It only gets worse when all of the other characters attempt to correct him and tell him that bisexuality and pansexuality are valid but the character just is too set in his ways to change his mind apparently. These cis gay men just sit there and say wow he's never going to change his mind so it's not even worth it. That kind of attitude is why there is so much queer phobia, biphobia, transphobia, aphobia, etc within the queer community itself. Now this book has written by a gay man in his forties, I'm not sure if he's cis or not I don't know if he's white but the lack of an effort to correct this character on his intensely biphobic comment, struck me the wrong way.
Moving on, there are a couple other comments about how no one was meant to be alone or just vaguely amatonormative nonsense. There's also a Latino character among the group of friends but the only actual information we get about this is random words in Spanish. It's just not great.
So if you want to read about a middle-aged white cis gay man whose dog goes missing and him and his gaggle of white cis middle-aged gay men, with the exception of the single questionable POC character, who attempt to find the dog will also drinking copious amounts of alcohol and lots of outdated theater references, be my guest. I am extremely disappointed in this one
It should also go to say that this cover belongs to Finders Keepers by NR Walker and I can't get over the fact that it's literally the same stock photo with a brown piece of whatever cut down the middle. Save yourself some trouble and to go read that book instead because it's actually good.