There are excellent examples of what many miss every day and choose to overlook or simply not realize in a friend, partner or relative who is deeply woven into our lives and we just can't let go. This book really lights up the reality of their unavailability to us in the way we want and need them to be. I'm glad I spotted this book and took the time read it. I feel like I'v learned some very valuable information that I can utilize for the rest of my life.