Reva has really touched a nerve while we are surrounded by narcissists - including the POTUS. How do we survive this time in history?. How do we trust anyone? - Everyone should read this book - It’s literally a life saver.
I left my abuser for the final time in March and three months later I still feel lost. I am still playing situations in my head over and over, trying to figure out what I could have done differently. Thinking the problem is always me. Being around a narcs family who all told me I was wrong. 8 years of suffering broke me and turned me hallow. Slowly I feel pieces of my own consciousness coming back, but then it is lost. I still haven’t healed, but it’s because I haven’t been given the time to really acknowledge things and see them for what they truly are. I haven’t finished a book in years, this was the first time I was able to truly read and stay focused. Thank you, you’ve given me valuable information that will help me on my journey. I hope family members and friends of narc abuse victims read this too.
Excellent book. Now realize I have been a victim of abuse for over 60 years. Firstly by my husband and then continued through my son and daughter. Now at 76 years of age, I am hoping, through the enlightenment of this book, to enjoy my remaining years in a more peaceful way.. Will start by distancing from my abusers and hopefully will find a good councillor..Enough years stolen from me.
This book was not my favorite. The beginning seems like just someone's options with no proof to back up any of their claims. I felt there was a real problem with the structure of this book. There definitely is some personal feelings in this book. I did find parts helpful.
I got this book to help me understand "Gaslighting" to be honest I hadn't heard about it before until it happened to someone close in our family! I have to say that this book has helped me a great deal and it was very well written.