I really loved this book! So many wonderful quotes and thoughts and lessons from Elder Oaks! All of the topics and principles are central to the messages of Jesus Christ and having faith in Him and living His teachings. My favorite chapter was about being a witness of Christ and Elder Oaks' very clear call to each of us to be a witness of Jesus Christ - to teach and testify of Him and live our lives according to His teachings. It is becoming evermore important in the world today. As we remember and have faith in Christ we will focus on what's most important, repent, study the Book of Mormon, seek revelation, not judge others, and have faith in the Lord's plan and His timing. I'm grateful for the reminders and examples and testimony that Elder Oaks shares. I love Jesus Christ and know we will be happy as we learn and live His gospel with all our hearts.
Here are a few of my favorite quotes from the book:
"As the Lord led Lehi and his people out of Jerusalem, He said, 'I will be your light in the wilderness; and I will prepare the way before you, if it so be that ye shall keep my commandments' (1 Nephi 17:13). As we keep the Lord's commandments, we see His light ever brighter on our path and we realize the fulfillment of Isaiah's promise: 'And the Lord shall guide thee continually' (Isaiah 58:11). Jesus Christ is also the light of the world because His power persuades us to do good (p. 13)."
"The Lord Jesus Christ, our Savior and our Redeemer, is the life of the world because His resurrection and His atonement save us from both physical and spiritual death. Jacob rejoiced in this gift of life: 'O how great the goodness of our God, who prepareth a way for our escape from the grasp of this awful monster; yea, that monster, death and hell, which I call the death of the body, and also the death of the spirit' (2 Nephi 9:10). I wish that everyone could understand our belief and hear our testimony that Jesus Christ, our Savior and our Redeemer, is the light and life of the world (p. 15)."
"'The fundamental principles of our religion are the testimony of the Apostles and Prophets, concerning Jesus Christ, that He died, was buried, and rose again the third day, and ascended into heaven; and all other things which pertain to our religion are only appendages to it (Joseph Smith, p. 21).'"
"How do members become witnesses beyond the mere fact of their membership? The original apostles were eyewitnesses to the ministry and resurrection of the Savior (Acts 10:39-41). He told them, 'Ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judaea, and in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth' (Acts 1:8; Acts 10:42-43). However, He cautioned them that their witnessing would occur after they had received the Holy Ghost (Acts 1:8; Luke 24:49). An eyewitness was not enough. Even the witness and testimony of the original apostles had to be rooted in the testimony of the Holy Ghost (p. 21)."
"The mission of the Holy Ghost is to witness of the Father and the Son (2 Nephi 31:18; 3 Nephi 28:11; D&C 20:27). Consequently, everyone who has received the witness of the Holy Ghost has a duty to share that testimony with others (p. 22)."
"Those that have the gift to know must give their witness so that those who have the gift to 'believe on their words' can enjoy the benefit of that gift (p. 23)."
"As I see the deterioration in religious faith that has happened in my own lifetime, I am convinced that we who are members of His Church need to be increasingly valiant in our testimony of Christ (p. 25)."
"The father said to his child: 'All that I have I desire to give you--not only my wealth but also my position and standing among men. That which I have I can easily give you, but that which I am you must obtain for yourself. You will qualify for your inheritance by learning what I have learned and by living as I have lived. I will give you the laws and principles by which I have acquired my wisdom and stature. Follow my example, mastering as I have mastered, and you will become as I am, and all that I have will be yours.' This parable parallels the pattern of heaven. The gospel of Jesus Christ promises the incomparable inheritance of eternal life--the fulness of the Father--and reveals the laws and principles by which it can be obtained. We qualify for eternal life through a process of conversion. As used here, this word of many meanings signifies not just a convincing but also a profound change of nature (p. 38)."
"A life is not a trivial thing, and its passing should not be memorialized with trivial things (p. 45)."
"Parents should also teach powerful ideas. So should home teachers, visiting teachers, and the teachers in various classes. The Savior warned that we will be judged for 'every idle word that [we] shall speak' (Matthew 12:36) (p. 45)."
"One of the principal reasons our Heavenly Father had President Benson direct us into a more intensive study of the Book of Mormon is to help us counteract this modern tendency to try to diminish the divinity and mission of our Savior. Are we as Latter-day Saints doing what we should to counteract this modern trend (p. 71)?"
"Repentance begins when we recognize that we have done wrong. We might call this 'confession to self.' This occurs, President Spencer W. Kimball said, when a person is willing 'to convict himself of the transgression without soft-pedaling or minimizing the error, to be willing to face facts, meet the issue, and pay necessary penalties--and until the person is in this frame of mind he has not begun to repent (p. 119).'"
"Church discipline is not an instrument of punishment but a catalyst for change. The purpose of the personal suffering that must occur as part of the process of repentance is not to punish the transgressor but to change him. The broken heart and contrite spirit required to 'answer the ends of the law' (2 Nephi 2:7) introduce the repentant transgressor to the change necessary to conform his life to the pattern prescribed by his Redeemer. The major concern of the laws of God is to perfect the lives of God's children (p. 125)."
"We should seek to avoid mistakes, since some mistakes have very painful consequences. But we do not seek to avoid mistakes at all costs. Mistakes are inevitable in the process of growth in mortality. To avoid all possibility of error is to avoid all possibility of growth. In the parable of the talents, the Savior told of a servant who was so eager to minimize the risk of loss through a mistaken investment that he hid up his talent and did nothing with it. That servant was condemned by his master (Matthew 25:24-30). If we are willing to be corrected for our mistakes--and that is a big if, since many who are mistake-prone are also correction-resistant--innocent mistakes can be a source of growth and progress (p. 146)."
"President Lorenzo Snow declared that it is 'the grand privilege of every Latter-day Saint...to have the manifestations of the spirit every day of their lives (p. 150).'"
"When [Bruce R. McConkie] set out to choose a companion for eternity, he did not go to the Lord and ask whom he ought to marry. 'I went out and found the girl I wanted,' he said. 'She suited me;...it just seemed...as though this ought to be....[Then] all I did was pray to the Lord and ask for some guidance and direction in connection with the decision that I'd reached.' Elder McConkie summarized his counsel on the balance between agency and inspiration in these sentences: 'We're expected to use the gifts and talents and abilities, the sense and judgment and agency with which we are endowed....Implicit in asking in faith is the precedent requirement that we do everything in our power to accomplish the goal that we seek....We're expected to do everything in our power that we can, and then to seek an answer from the Lord, a confirming seal that we've reached the right conclusion (p. 156).'"
"There is great strength in being highly focused on our goals. We have all seen the favorable fruits of that focus. Yet an intense focus on goals can cause a person to forget the importance of righteous means (p. 170)."
"We are commanded to give to the poor. Could the fulfillment of that fundamental Christian obligation be carried to excess? I believe it can, and I believe I have seen examples of this. Perhaps you have also seen cases where persons fulfilled that duty to such an extent that they impoverished their own families by expending resources or property or time that were needed for family members. Perhaps this excess explains why King Benjamin...also cautioned them to 'see that all things are done in wisdom and order; for it is not requisite that a man should run faster than he has strength' (Mosiah 4:26-27) (p. 172)."
"Humility is the great protector. Humility is the antidote against pride. Humility is the catalyst for all learning, especially spiritual things....We might also say that if men and women humble themselves before God, He will help them prevent their strengths from becoming weaknesses that the adversary can exploit to destroy them. If we are meek and humble enough to receive counsel, the Lord can and will guide us through the counsel of our parents, our teachers, and our leaders. The proud can only hear the clamor of the crowd, but a person who 'becometh as a child,' as King Benjamin said, 'submissive, meek [and] humble' (Mosiah 3:19), can hear and follow the still small voice by which our Father in Heaven guides His children who are receptive (p. 178)."
"'The Lord did not go into the kitchen to tell Martha to stop cooking and come listen. Apparently he was content to let her serve him however she cared to, until she judged another person's service: 'Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? Bid her therefore that she help me.' Martha's self-importance, expressed through her judgment of her sister, occasioned the Lord's rebuke, not her busyness with the meal (p. 202).'"
"'The older I get the less judgmental I become (President James E. Faust, p. 202).'"
"Latter-day Saints can and should work for and pray for their righteous desires, but despite their efforts, many will remain single well beyond their desired time for marriage. So what should be done in the meantime? Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ prepared us for whatever life brings. Faith in Christ prepares us to deal with life's opportunities--to take advantage of those we receive and to persist through the disappointment of those we lose. In the exercise of that faith we should commit ourselves to the priorities and standards we will follow on matters we do not control, and we should persist faithfully in those commitments whatever happens to us because of the agency of others or the timing of the Lord. When we do this, we will have a constancy in our lives that will give us direction and peace. Whatever the circumstances beyond our control, our commitments and standards can be constant (p. 212)."
"If we have faith in God and if we are committed to the fundamentals of keeping His commandments and putting Him first in our lives, we do not need to plan every single event--even every important event--and we should not feel rejected or depressed if some things--even some very important things--do not happen at the time we had planned or hoped or prayed for them to happen. Commit yourself to put the Lord first in your life, keep His commandments, and do what the Lord's servants ask you to do. Then your feet are on the pathway to eternal life (p. 213)."