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Alpha Male Strategies: Dating Techniques In The Social Media Age
Men have been sold a bunch of pick up artist crap to attract women. AMS is getting men back to the basics to attract the quality of women they genuinely want to attract and to stop settling for scraps. There’s a theory commonly known in the dating world as the 80/20 rule that states 20 % Of Men Sleep With 80% Of the women in the world while the other 80% of men fight over the last 20% of women. I don’t want men to complain about this, I want men to do the self improvement to put themselves in the top 20%. No PUA magic tricks or Dating coach snake oil magic formula here. It’s all about doing the hard work to make yourself a more attractive mate to attract the women you want
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Published September 14, 2018
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May 5, 2019
My favorite types of books are the ones that show and discuss the weaknesses of a specific topic. What separates this writer from the other herd is the fact that he shows weakness of women unlike the other dating coaches who focus on developing yourself and being gentleman.
In my dating life, I have passed so many girls since when I was 18 years old when I first started studying in a coeducational environment. I have seen girls who appealed to me due to my looks but soon enough they lose interest for an unknown reason. In fact there is no such thing called unknown reason when it comes to girls because everything they do they do it for a reason. This reason most likely is emotional rather than rational but she is content with it.
I have had in my dating life so many girls in my rotation and 6 of them had a super sky high interest in me but I shared the same interest with only 2 of them, yet I keep fucking things up without knowing why. What was I ignorant about is the fact that girls like us from within, they get attracted by who we are and the way we carry ourselves. The looks to them can be a good bonus to have but not the main reason why she likes you. Even if a man is handsome and she liked him for his looks but he is not confident, sooner or later she is going to drop him off.
What I noticed is that women don’t just search for confidence in life generally, but they want a man who is confident with a lady. For example, a man can be confident at his workplace because he is the most expert but when it comes to dealing with hot chicks he does not know his right from left! Girls have a radar that spots what kind of man are you by your body language, you tune of voice, eye contact, and you calmness.
I noticed also that man’s intelligence has a little to do with bringing her head. Smart men like to discuss logic, facts, and science while those superficial girls like to be moved emotionally not logically. Also, when I was 18 I was studying with girls who never wanted to talk to us while outside of the classroom they get easily attracted to the older students and sometimes they initiate contact with them. But when I got my first job, I had several female students in my clinic and I was wondering how come two of them were sending choosing signals? I was the same guy couples years ago but the thing that changed that girls tend to fall for a guy who is superior in everything like age, hight, education, body, and confidence.
The reason why men keep chasing women not due to their superiority but because a human nature tells that man has higher lust, therefore they have to do all The pursuing. Another reason why men pursue women especially hot chick, is because those broads have got a lot of options. These options unfortunately are due to their looks. I always wonder what kind of confidence will a girl get if she knew that all her power dwells in her looks?!
This book is not only about how to pick up girls but also “how to understand female nature” you need this book even if you are planning to get married. It evolves around two things: who is the alpha male, and how to understand female nature. The writer has slept with over 300 women so you better give his point of view a chance to prove itself.
I stopped watching dating coaches videos on Youtube long time ago since their tips are very lame and common sense, but suddenly out of the blue Youtube recommended to watch a video of a bouncer who shares his experience. From the first video he caught my attention even though his material possibilities are limited since he uses a cell phone to record and that’s it, but he is full of good points and his channel started to grow like a motherfucker.
While watching almost all of his videos, he takes me back to my dark past when I committed almost all of the mistakes that he warned from! This might be uncomfortable to handle but it took that way to reinforce the lesson. In other words, I may not take his tips seriously if I did not commit those mistakes that he talked about. For real, girls leave us not due what we did not do, but rather to something we did.
The girls who watched his videos, especially the feminists were flagging and reporting his videos because he talked shit about women. And when he talks shit I mean he brings up a female mindset and he discussed it in detail to young men like me. Simply he is making women lose their power by listening to him.
Those broads love challenges and drama, no wonder why they like dramatic novels. I wish I learned these when I was 20 years old.
In my dating life, I have passed so many girls since when I was 18 years old when I first started studying in a coeducational environment. I have seen girls who appealed to me due to my looks but soon enough they lose interest for an unknown reason. In fact there is no such thing called unknown reason when it comes to girls because everything they do they do it for a reason. This reason most likely is emotional rather than rational but she is content with it.
I have had in my dating life so many girls in my rotation and 6 of them had a super sky high interest in me but I shared the same interest with only 2 of them, yet I keep fucking things up without knowing why. What was I ignorant about is the fact that girls like us from within, they get attracted by who we are and the way we carry ourselves. The looks to them can be a good bonus to have but not the main reason why she likes you. Even if a man is handsome and she liked him for his looks but he is not confident, sooner or later she is going to drop him off.
What I noticed is that women don’t just search for confidence in life generally, but they want a man who is confident with a lady. For example, a man can be confident at his workplace because he is the most expert but when it comes to dealing with hot chicks he does not know his right from left! Girls have a radar that spots what kind of man are you by your body language, you tune of voice, eye contact, and you calmness.
I noticed also that man’s intelligence has a little to do with bringing her head. Smart men like to discuss logic, facts, and science while those superficial girls like to be moved emotionally not logically. Also, when I was 18 I was studying with girls who never wanted to talk to us while outside of the classroom they get easily attracted to the older students and sometimes they initiate contact with them. But when I got my first job, I had several female students in my clinic and I was wondering how come two of them were sending choosing signals? I was the same guy couples years ago but the thing that changed that girls tend to fall for a guy who is superior in everything like age, hight, education, body, and confidence.
The reason why men keep chasing women not due to their superiority but because a human nature tells that man has higher lust, therefore they have to do all The pursuing. Another reason why men pursue women especially hot chick, is because those broads have got a lot of options. These options unfortunately are due to their looks. I always wonder what kind of confidence will a girl get if she knew that all her power dwells in her looks?!
This book is not only about how to pick up girls but also “how to understand female nature” you need this book even if you are planning to get married. It evolves around two things: who is the alpha male, and how to understand female nature. The writer has slept with over 300 women so you better give his point of view a chance to prove itself.
I stopped watching dating coaches videos on Youtube long time ago since their tips are very lame and common sense, but suddenly out of the blue Youtube recommended to watch a video of a bouncer who shares his experience. From the first video he caught my attention even though his material possibilities are limited since he uses a cell phone to record and that’s it, but he is full of good points and his channel started to grow like a motherfucker.
While watching almost all of his videos, he takes me back to my dark past when I committed almost all of the mistakes that he warned from! This might be uncomfortable to handle but it took that way to reinforce the lesson. In other words, I may not take his tips seriously if I did not commit those mistakes that he talked about. For real, girls leave us not due what we did not do, but rather to something we did.
The girls who watched his videos, especially the feminists were flagging and reporting his videos because he talked shit about women. And when he talks shit I mean he brings up a female mindset and he discussed it in detail to young men like me. Simply he is making women lose their power by listening to him.
Those broads love challenges and drama, no wonder why they like dramatic novels. I wish I learned these when I was 20 years old.
March 10, 2022
I truly thought this book was amazing. I use to not get any girls at school and honestly never even talked to girls. This book gave me the power and ability to talk to girls and also to do it properly. I now have the confidence and motivation to approach girls and it truly pays off. I started this book Saturday and ended Wednesday, within this timeframe I have gotten laid 4 times. This book is no joke, it’s the real deal. To all the people that are down bad and virgins still like I used to be a few days ago, then I strongly suggest you read this masterpiece and finally give away that V card. I am an alpha male now. 😈
January 26, 2019
Pros:
- a lot of pragmatic and realistic advice. the authors simply tells it as it is.
If you want to become a better version of yourself and up your game, this book will help.
Cons:
- a lot of grammatical errors.
I think that, on average, there's about one grammatical mistake once ever 2 pages.
It becomes annoying at some point.
Some advice/suggestion for the author:
1. I think a short introduction would be useful (max 2 pages), that let's the reader know the following:
- what this book is about
- what this book is not
- who this is it for
- what to expect from this book
2. The book is pretty amoral. Not judging, but I think it's fair to let people know that from the start.
3. Title is a bit misleading
The "Alpha" is generally thought of as the leader of the pack, with Betas following him
This book mentions little to nothing about leadership.
From this perspective, I think a more suitable title would have been something like "Player Strategies" or "The way of the player". Or something like that.
- a lot of pragmatic and realistic advice. the authors simply tells it as it is.
If you want to become a better version of yourself and up your game, this book will help.
Cons:
- a lot of grammatical errors.
I think that, on average, there's about one grammatical mistake once ever 2 pages.
It becomes annoying at some point.
Some advice/suggestion for the author:
1. I think a short introduction would be useful (max 2 pages), that let's the reader know the following:
- what this book is about
- what this book is not
- who this is it for
- what to expect from this book
2. The book is pretty amoral. Not judging, but I think it's fair to let people know that from the start.
3. Title is a bit misleading
The "Alpha" is generally thought of as the leader of the pack, with Betas following him
This book mentions little to nothing about leadership.
From this perspective, I think a more suitable title would have been something like "Player Strategies" or "The way of the player". Or something like that.
October 24, 2021
Dear men, don’t buy into this narrative, it’s bullshit, there are no “alpha/beta males” only people being as good as they treat others. Go talk to a woman you like, be yourself, enjoy the moments, life too short for this kind of bs!
October 10, 2018
Highly Recommend for the RedPill Community
It's definitely a good read for Real Men! I personally don't think beta males will fully understand the true purpose of this book, though. This is due to the fact that I see it being more geared for Men who are slightly or, more than slightly already RedPilled. AMS should definitely write another book further exapanding on each topic covered in this book (in hopes of getting the Beta Males to understand these things better and to get make them aware of the Femenist nature i.e. RedPilled) and add more topics relevant to these discussions. One thing I noticed about this book is that it contains misspelled, misplaced, or missing words - easy to figure out what the intent of the sentence is, though. Good Stuff either way and super entertaining...
It's definitely a good read for Real Men! I personally don't think beta males will fully understand the true purpose of this book, though. This is due to the fact that I see it being more geared for Men who are slightly or, more than slightly already RedPilled. AMS should definitely write another book further exapanding on each topic covered in this book (in hopes of getting the Beta Males to understand these things better and to get make them aware of the Femenist nature i.e. RedPilled) and add more topics relevant to these discussions. One thing I noticed about this book is that it contains misspelled, misplaced, or missing words - easy to figure out what the intent of the sentence is, though. Good Stuff either way and super entertaining...
December 16, 2020
Excellent read, full of practical pointers and timeless red-pilled knowledge for the digital age
Things have changed. Dating has evolved and men have to evolve with it. This book is devoid of sentimentality and cuts straight to the bone holding nothing back in helping you see the reality of the situation. If you're looking for a book to restore your faith in love, this is not for you. If you're looking to pair bond and find out the secret to winning a loving wife, this isn't it. This is a book about getting laid and learning to let go of romance. I like Alpha Male Strategies because although his style is borderline cold and brutal, most men's nature is heavily skewed towards the opposite end of the spectrum which invariably leaves them bitter, angry and alone. With advice like this, with it's almost militantly bleak outlook on female nature, it recalibrates the real hard cases back towards a more effective medium. Personally, I think AMS's strategy, taken too literally might not work for some guys as others. But, taken in totality within the pantheon of great dating philosophy he is a fantastic contribution to your game. His central point is this: always be on your purpose. This is a very simple statement but it acts as a point of axis in everything you do in life. And when you discover your passion and place it as a top priority in your life, women are naturally relegated to the position they should be in. Your behaviour then starts to change and your mindset starts to swing. Women will notice this and open up and trust you more, be more available, chase and respond more sexually. The underlining point is that women should not be pedastalised. They should never be your sole focus in life. When they are they disappear. This is much like chasing happiness. Make happiness your focus and you'll always be disappointed by life's failure to reward you. Happiness is not achieved by chasing it. Instead, happiness is a biproduct of achievements in multiple domains. Women are just one domain in your life. They do not possess the power to make you happy. Truly, they do not. They are just a welcome, hopefully positive, distraction on your journey along multiple roads towards success in life. AMS expresses all this very well in his no BS style. Another thing to be aware of is that AMS is not advocating treating women poorly or showing disrespect. He just advocates self-respect above supplication or neediness. He would rather you never get laid than ever suffer the indignity of begging for sex or intimacy. Being that most men fail to even meet the minimum level of self-respect needed to attract a woman this is a powerful message. Another message AMS contributes well is the concept of non-sexual attention. Women crave attention. There is an economy of attention going on all around them both online and in person all the time. And in this day and age they receive a disproportionate level of free attention that is largely boring to them through direct messages and Tinder. It has made women entitled, apathetic and bratty, unwilling to invest their full attention themselves. AMS preaches to reserve your time and attention for women, value it as something that is only dolled out in response to women who act according to your expectations ie sexual attention. I like this concept. And, in some ways you can draw from this that sex itself is a hyper concentrated form of attention. In some ways, you could be forgiven for thinking AMS style is quite cut and dry, robotic and mechanical. I think that's possibly true on paper. In reality I'm sure he knows how to turn on some charm, retail stories and physically escalate. There are many styles of seduction in life, and his is but one. And every woman will respond differently to you depending on how you present yourself. But, overall I think AMS has written something will revive the esteem of a lot of younger and older men confused and frustrated with modern dating. A great book. Read wide, and take the best from everything, including this.
Things have changed. Dating has evolved and men have to evolve with it. This book is devoid of sentimentality and cuts straight to the bone holding nothing back in helping you see the reality of the situation. If you're looking for a book to restore your faith in love, this is not for you. If you're looking to pair bond and find out the secret to winning a loving wife, this isn't it. This is a book about getting laid and learning to let go of romance. I like Alpha Male Strategies because although his style is borderline cold and brutal, most men's nature is heavily skewed towards the opposite end of the spectrum which invariably leaves them bitter, angry and alone. With advice like this, with it's almost militantly bleak outlook on female nature, it recalibrates the real hard cases back towards a more effective medium. Personally, I think AMS's strategy, taken too literally might not work for some guys as others. But, taken in totality within the pantheon of great dating philosophy he is a fantastic contribution to your game. His central point is this: always be on your purpose. This is a very simple statement but it acts as a point of axis in everything you do in life. And when you discover your passion and place it as a top priority in your life, women are naturally relegated to the position they should be in. Your behaviour then starts to change and your mindset starts to swing. Women will notice this and open up and trust you more, be more available, chase and respond more sexually. The underlining point is that women should not be pedastalised. They should never be your sole focus in life. When they are they disappear. This is much like chasing happiness. Make happiness your focus and you'll always be disappointed by life's failure to reward you. Happiness is not achieved by chasing it. Instead, happiness is a biproduct of achievements in multiple domains. Women are just one domain in your life. They do not possess the power to make you happy. Truly, they do not. They are just a welcome, hopefully positive, distraction on your journey along multiple roads towards success in life. AMS expresses all this very well in his no BS style. Another thing to be aware of is that AMS is not advocating treating women poorly or showing disrespect. He just advocates self-respect above supplication or neediness. He would rather you never get laid than ever suffer the indignity of begging for sex or intimacy. Being that most men fail to even meet the minimum level of self-respect needed to attract a woman this is a powerful message. Another message AMS contributes well is the concept of non-sexual attention. Women crave attention. There is an economy of attention going on all around them both online and in person all the time. And in this day and age they receive a disproportionate level of free attention that is largely boring to them through direct messages and Tinder. It has made women entitled, apathetic and bratty, unwilling to invest their full attention themselves. AMS preaches to reserve your time and attention for women, value it as something that is only dolled out in response to women who act according to your expectations ie sexual attention. I like this concept. And, in some ways you can draw from this that sex itself is a hyper concentrated form of attention. In some ways, you could be forgiven for thinking AMS style is quite cut and dry, robotic and mechanical. I think that's possibly true on paper. In reality I'm sure he knows how to turn on some charm, retail stories and physically escalate. There are many styles of seduction in life, and his is but one. And every woman will respond differently to you depending on how you present yourself. But, overall I think AMS has written something will revive the esteem of a lot of younger and older men confused and frustrated with modern dating. A great book. Read wide, and take the best from everything, including this.
January 28, 2020
Ladies you sure you want to date me? Lmao. I have to say I learned at least one thing from reading these red pill books. This book is no exception. Women I know who I know will say hi to you. The women I hardly know. You going to have to earn my attention and validation. The funny thing with these women who ignore hi I’m just being friendly. I’m not chasing tail and women are not even on my list for dating unless the approach me. So want to be covey? Checkmate. So just an idea of how this book gives you advice to not focus on women even if it is to be friendly. The women you know be friendly. The ones you know hardly. Checkmate. This book has no inch of fat and I recommend it to guys out there.
October 12, 2021
Two thumbs up
Excellent book but a sad ending for a man who is red pill and never finds a unicorn. Understanding female nature and how to manage the madness is indeed an acquired skill. But I can never agree that a high value man is a glorified male whore on top of his life purpose and finance. The value of a man transcends sleeping with multiple beautiful women and having a constant rotation of quality ass on the table because this life style is taxing to a man’s soul. And though women are very fickle by nature I would never relegate thier value to merely a sex object for the pleasure of man. This mentality would diminish family, culture and civilization as a whole. Women have tremendous value even in the simplest form of giving birth to every man that walks the earth and though a man can not worship a woman he would be foolish to diminish her value to a piece of ass. So a red pill man mother and daughter is just a piece of ass as well. I wonder what game a glorified male whore would give to his innocent beautiful young daughter who has yet to be poisoned by the social dynamics of the world’s ideologies!
Excellent book but a sad ending for a man who is red pill and never finds a unicorn. Understanding female nature and how to manage the madness is indeed an acquired skill. But I can never agree that a high value man is a glorified male whore on top of his life purpose and finance. The value of a man transcends sleeping with multiple beautiful women and having a constant rotation of quality ass on the table because this life style is taxing to a man’s soul. And though women are very fickle by nature I would never relegate thier value to merely a sex object for the pleasure of man. This mentality would diminish family, culture and civilization as a whole. Women have tremendous value even in the simplest form of giving birth to every man that walks the earth and though a man can not worship a woman he would be foolish to diminish her value to a piece of ass. So a red pill man mother and daughter is just a piece of ass as well. I wonder what game a glorified male whore would give to his innocent beautiful young daughter who has yet to be poisoned by the social dynamics of the world’s ideologies!
April 20, 2023
Good tips on dating stratergies, but very misogynistic. The author states women are “incapable of true love” (page 5). I dont really understand how he reached that conclusion. He oversimplifies female as well as male personalities with stereotypes which are rather old-fashioned.
Even though the author emphasizes that improving status helps getting girls, some of his philosophy contradicts self-improvement principles, like “you can’t change your personality, that’s a fact” which clearly is against growth mindset.
And this introduces another huge problem about the first half of the book: it has little to no logical reasoning. Most of it are plain opinions after opinions, claims lacking evidence/fact backing them. When there is reasoning, the logical jump is usually bold.
To sum up: bad rhetoric, false perception towards female and male, but good dating stratergies. I recommend skip the first half of the book which is filled with the author’s childish worldview and jump to the latter part where he talks about actual stratergies and dating mindsets.
Even though the author emphasizes that improving status helps getting girls, some of his philosophy contradicts self-improvement principles, like “you can’t change your personality, that’s a fact” which clearly is against growth mindset.
And this introduces another huge problem about the first half of the book: it has little to no logical reasoning. Most of it are plain opinions after opinions, claims lacking evidence/fact backing them. When there is reasoning, the logical jump is usually bold.
To sum up: bad rhetoric, false perception towards female and male, but good dating stratergies. I recommend skip the first half of the book which is filled with the author’s childish worldview and jump to the latter part where he talks about actual stratergies and dating mindsets.
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November 1, 2023
A no-nonsense guide for navigating the complexities of modern dating. Channeling the forthright approach of mode one, the book dives deep into the mechanics of attraction in the digital era, shedding light on the balance between assertiveness and adaptability. While some may seek a deeper nuance in certain areas, this work stands as a robust playbook for those eager to approach dating with clarity and confidence in an age often muddled by online facades. A compelling read for anyone aiming to refine their approach and find genuine connection amidst the digital noise
October 3, 2018
Boss.
If you're a devout Christian you live by the bible. A devout Muslim; the Qur'an. A devout Jew; the Torah. A devout sleezeball; this masterpiece. I've been a dating coach and worked for a multimillion pound company; this one man however trumps the noble names of the industry I've known for years. Want to truly understand the mind of the Alpha male? Here's your pill. Thank AMS later
If you're a devout Christian you live by the bible. A devout Muslim; the Qur'an. A devout Jew; the Torah. A devout sleezeball; this masterpiece. I've been a dating coach and worked for a multimillion pound company; this one man however trumps the noble names of the industry I've known for years. Want to truly understand the mind of the Alpha male? Here's your pill. Thank AMS later
August 17, 2020
This is the book I would recommend to any teenager growing up in today's society. It is a must for all men to read. Although there are some grammatical errors here and there, the information contained is timeless and will serve men navigate the current dating market in the 21st century. It's practical and to the point.
October 22, 2018
Good read!
Very concise and to the point. Goes into the psychological games the typical modern day female plays and how to combat it. I like the fact the author always redirects you back to yourself and your purpose.
Very concise and to the point. Goes into the psychological games the typical modern day female plays and how to combat it. I like the fact the author always redirects you back to yourself and your purpose.
April 8, 2019
Very honest and good book
The best dating book I’ve ever read. It is a bit too red pill for me, but after being in the dating community for over 4 years now I see his point..kind of depressing but this book will get you laid for sure.
The best dating book I’ve ever read. It is a bit too red pill for me, but after being in the dating community for over 4 years now I see his point..kind of depressing but this book will get you laid for sure.
January 30, 2021
Mixed feelings about this book, you don't need to buy the book if you've read other books with redpill philosophy and watch his videos. Nonetheless, Im an AMS supporter on youtube and patreon, so i found it necessary to buy this book. 3/5 is fair in my opinion.
November 6, 2018
Every Men needs to read this book.
December 4, 2018
Amazing Book
I have learned a lot from this book. It helped me to understand key areas that I needed improvement. Great book.
I have learned a lot from this book. It helped me to understand key areas that I needed improvement. Great book.
February 20, 2019
Alpha male Bible
February 23, 2019
Très bon livre
Un livre extraordinaire qui m'a appris beaucoup de choses je le conseil vivement à tout les hommes jeunes et adultes.
Un livre extraordinaire qui m'a appris beaucoup de choses je le conseil vivement à tout les hommes jeunes et adultes.
March 1, 2019
Hey
Good book thanks a lot will read everyday to retrain my mind. This is what was needed. Digging up old
Good book thanks a lot will read everyday to retrain my mind. This is what was needed. Digging up old
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June 11, 2019Alpha
June 23, 2019
Informative
This is a great read for single men. This ebook helped me see things in a different light. I learned a lot. Thank you AMS
This is a great read for single men. This ebook helped me see things in a different light. I learned a lot. Thank you AMS
July 4, 2019
The best
Best book ever read, so much knowledge no one ever told me about. Appreciate every time I read every morning.
Best book ever read, so much knowledge no one ever told me about. Appreciate every time I read every morning.
August 24, 2019
Amazing
This book changed my life!!! The concepts and principala is something that I needed especially in this phase of dating.
This book changed my life!!! The concepts and principala is something that I needed especially in this phase of dating.
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January 21, 2020cool
July 8, 2020
This book was simple not overtly long and real just basic knowledge. I think that everybody should read his book that's male single and born after 1980
July 30, 2020
Amazing read
Very helpful strategies to remain in the masculine frame when situations arrise with women. I found the book to be very descriptive and applicable
Very helpful strategies to remain in the masculine frame when situations arrise with women. I found the book to be very descriptive and applicable
August 7, 2020
Great book all around
This was short but straight to the point and well written in my opinion. AMS is giving us straight knowledge.
This was short but straight to the point and well written in my opinion. AMS is giving us straight knowledge.
August 17, 2020
Great book
I have much respect for what he take on red pill ideas, I can't wait to read the others books!
I have much respect for what he take on red pill ideas, I can't wait to read the others books!
August 25, 2020
It's all about following your purpose.
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