I read this book as a morning devotional, reading one chapter a day and reflecting on the questions at the end of the chapters. I really appreciated there being questions at the end of the chapter because I often had to read while my little kids were around and it helped me refocus on what I needed to get out of the reading, despite the distractions.
If you are looking for an in-depth "how to", this really isn't the book. However, I don't think that is probably what most people need...getting closer to Christ is about creating that relationship and that will release the love to others - the relationship is the first step - and this book gives you ideas on how to do that. Each person's relationship will be a little different, much like our relationships with people. Therefore, I felt the book did just what it set out to do, despite some of the reviews I've read. It is a feel good book that leaves the reader with the feeling that "I can do this!"
I did feel that the chapterh on technology and podcasts didn't really applied to me and felt like the comments were an over-generalization of thier use. As a mother of a very large family who always has needs that I must meet, I feel technology only brings me closer to others, Christ, and brings me more time for reflection as I can listen during and between tasks and then reflect. I think it is all about how you use the technology but I can see how it may be a problem for some people.
This was a very readable book, not overly wordy. My favorite quote was "Real love is not about feelings. And it's not about what we get out of the other person. It's about a commitment to the one we love."