This is the longest book review I've ever written, it really got me thinking! I suppose this is a critical review of the book, oh dear. But take it more as my own personal reflection, less objective book review. So I will say up front that I think this is a good book, worth reading, and it really got my wheels turning as I processed my own view of death. I don’t find Ecclesiastes gloomy but I did personally find this book a lil gloomy.
Obviously, before cracking open this book, read the whole book of Ecclesiastes first! Gibson includes passages at the beginning of each chapter but doesn’t cover every verse in the whole book.
As noted in the subtitle, the focus in this book is on death (“how Ecclesiastes teaches us to live in light of the end”). So my qualm with this book is actually pretty subtle, maybe it won’t bother you.. I didn’t love the main focus being on death. Swapping out the word “death” for “eternity” helped my mind shift from lingering on a curse to the blessing believers receive without de-emphasizing the fragility and temporary nature of our life now. My extra critical reading of this could be due to reading Bavinck’s sin and death chapter (Wonderful Works of God) at the same time. Bavinck really drives home the point of death being a curse (not that Gibson denies this but his emphasis is on death as a teacher).
If you have a tendency to not enjoy life (p 130 talks about doing things on a bucket list instead of just a to-do list) you may find this book what you need to slow down and enjoy God’s blessings. I find myself needing encouragement to persevere in the to-dos and enjoy those things as blessings, not dream about escape or a Europe vacation (which is what comes to my mind when I think “bucket list”). Gibson asks how our life would look if we knew we would die tomorrow. I discussed this with my husband as he was on his way out the door for work when he spilled an entire smoothie all over the floor. I jokingly (and also seriously) asked if he knew he was going to die tomorrow would he bother to clean that up or just step over it and move on? I know I wouldn’t want to! But should I do it? Yes! This story isn’t a critique on Gibson’s question, but I want him to take it further, to help me think through WHY I should continue in the daily hum drums of life even if I may die tomorrow. (He gets there eventually, in the very last chapter).
When I think about living in the light of impending death I have a hard time adjusting my attitude to do things I don’t want to do. When I think about living in light of heaven, of eternity, I feel enabled to endure hard things, or just things that aren’t all about me and my enjoyment. Death in itself is an insufficient motivator. Thinking about death doesn’t take it far enough. It’s a subtle shift of focus, maybe not difficult for others but for my own tendency to pursue comfort and pleasure it is a necessary one! You could argue that as a Christian my view on death should be one that motivates me but being a believer does not change what death is - a terrible curse. It changes our relationship to it, we do not have to fear it or “what is frightening” because Christ has conquered death. Focusing on my death is self-focused which can be helpful but will only get me so far. Focusing on eternity changes my perspective to outside of myself. All the good we experience here on earth is a small glimpse or foretaste of what is to come. The good things are for our enjoyment but not only, they are to point us to God as the source.
So, like I mentioned previously he does finally bring it home in the last chapter “Getting the Point”. This chapter is what I wanted from each of the previous. The ultimate whys and the hows! Our hope in Christ!
So just to summarize, I liked what Gibson had to say, I just wish he took it FURTHER more consistently throughout the book, not just in the last chapter. Phrases like “grab hold of life with both hands while the opportunity still exists” (p 134) just don’t do it for me (motivate me to enjoy life to God’s glory).
Good takeaways I had from this book - to slow down, to notice the earthly blessings God has given me. My children, husband, my eyesight, tastebuds, memory, body that can move freely. Mopping up that smoothie and thanking God to be able to clean it without aches and pains. To have a house and floor to clean and people to share it with. To have the ingredients to spill in the first place.
Extra reading recs:
- Flannery O’Connor’s short story “A good man is hard to find” paired with this book were perfect together! Flannery forces the reader’s eyes open (and her characters’) to the inevitability of death and contrasts a nihilistic perspective, cultural Christianity, and true belief with each other. (And the Literary Life podcast on this story/Flannery if you have no idea what’s going on in that story as I did).
- Ch 13 Sin and Death in The Wonderful Works of God by Herman Bavinck
- The Pundit’s Folly by Sinclair Ferguson. A book also on Ecclesiastes, I prefer the structure, argument, and tone of this book to Living Life Backward. Both are useful, just different. Ferguson takes an evangelistic angle which I didn’t notice until the end, I just found myself encouraged along the way resting in Christ.