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The Beta Mum, Adventures in Alpha-Land
Here, it isn't the battle of who has the Rolls-Royce of strollers...these children actually roll in Rolls-Royces!
When 33-year-old Sophie Bennett moves from a sleepy suburb of Toronto to glitzy West London, she doesn't know where she has landed, Venus or Mars. By a stroke of good luck, her three-year-old daughter Kaya attends Cherry Blossoms Nursery, the most exclusive nursery in London - hence the world - where she meets a sea of Alpha mums: Super Successful, Super Skinny and Super Rich. There, not is all as it seems, and she has to fight against the lure of a cult, a two headed dragon and Mumsolini's dictatorship.
When Sophie struggles to fit in and starts to feel deeply lonely, she starts an anonymous blog, The Beta Mum, dissecting the lives of the Alpha Mums, especially Kelly's, the blonde, beautiful and bitchy class rep who constantly makes her feel like a second class citizen. When Sophie's marriage starts to falter, she engages in an email relationship with one of her readers. But then, one of her blogs goes viral and her blog becomes more and more successful; how long will it be until they discover her true identity? Is her marriage strong enough to survive her reader's advances? And will she ever fit in with the Alpha Mums?
When 33-year-old Sophie Bennett moves from a sleepy suburb of Toronto to glitzy West London, she doesn't know where she has landed, Venus or Mars. By a stroke of good luck, her three-year-old daughter Kaya attends Cherry Blossoms Nursery, the most exclusive nursery in London - hence the world - where she meets a sea of Alpha mums: Super Successful, Super Skinny and Super Rich. There, not is all as it seems, and she has to fight against the lure of a cult, a two headed dragon and Mumsolini's dictatorship.
When Sophie struggles to fit in and starts to feel deeply lonely, she starts an anonymous blog, The Beta Mum, dissecting the lives of the Alpha Mums, especially Kelly's, the blonde, beautiful and bitchy class rep who constantly makes her feel like a second class citizen. When Sophie's marriage starts to falter, she engages in an email relationship with one of her readers. But then, one of her blogs goes viral and her blog becomes more and more successful; how long will it be until they discover her true identity? Is her marriage strong enough to survive her reader's advances? And will she ever fit in with the Alpha Mums?
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232 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 2017
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About the author
Isabella Davidson
1 book48 followersIsabella Davidson is the author of the popular blog, Notting Hill Yummy Mummy, which chronicles the entertaining lives of west London residents. Through the blog she has written features for The Times, The Saturday Times Magazine, Corner Magazine, and has been interviewed by Financial Times, Harper's Bazaar, The Spectator, The Times and many more.
She started The Beta Mum during the six-month Faber Academy writing course. Prior to starting to writing career, she worked for a Nobel Prize-winning humanitarian organisation and as a doctor for the National Health Service. She grew up on four continents before settling down in London fifteen years ago. She currently lives in west London with her husband and her two small children.
She started The Beta Mum during the six-month Faber Academy writing course. Prior to starting to writing career, she worked for a Nobel Prize-winning humanitarian organisation and as a doctor for the National Health Service. She grew up on four continents before settling down in London fifteen years ago. She currently lives in west London with her husband and her two small children.
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January 8, 2020
I probably didn't read this with quite the same perspective as someone who is a full-time parent because here's the thing: I have no kids, not of my own. Instead, when me and the hubs got together, I instantly inherited two small people who were able to walk, talk, wipe their own bums and understand that me staring at them over the top of my glasses was not a good sign. And I never did a school run.
"It reminds me of the “popular girls” who looked at me with a lack of interest during lunch, as if I were a piece of litter on the floor rather than a classmate."
Sophie has upped sticks and flown halfway around the world for her husband Michael's career, giving up her own and landing in a foreign land with no support system, all whilst wrangling a 3 year-old whilst aforementioned husband works all the hours god sends. Shy and introverted—the latter something I very much understand—the icing on the cake is the generally unwelcoming mummy clique at their daughters new, exclusive nursery. And with no support being offered by her husband, she starts a blog.
Sophie was very likeable, relatable and travels a real journey: as the story develops, we begin to see her gain confidence and unleash her frustrations and loneliness under the cover of her blog as The Beta Mum bringing realism, hilarity and repercussions.
"I am the first person to know that not only do sticks and stones hurt, but words can hurt too."
I'll be honest, the first 30% of this had me wanting to throttle most of the secondary characters and I had issue with Michael for much of the book: how Sophie backed down and accepted blame during his outbursts bothered me. Yet at the same time it was clearly important to the path of the story because it's one of relationships, marriage, family, and the difficulties, sacrifices, mistakes and compromises that can come with it.
"In the end, they’re just people – richer and thinner, but with problems like everyone else."
Isabella Davidson does a great job in taking you on a journey which has you thinking a little more as to how you judge others. Because let's be fair, we all do it no matter how hard we may try not to. Overall an enjoyable read and I'll certainly be keeping my eye out for more from Isabella in the future.
Copy generously provided by the author in exchange for an honest and unbiased opinion.
"It reminds me of the “popular girls” who looked at me with a lack of interest during lunch, as if I were a piece of litter on the floor rather than a classmate."
Sophie has upped sticks and flown halfway around the world for her husband Michael's career, giving up her own and landing in a foreign land with no support system, all whilst wrangling a 3 year-old whilst aforementioned husband works all the hours god sends. Shy and introverted—the latter something I very much understand—the icing on the cake is the generally unwelcoming mummy clique at their daughters new, exclusive nursery. And with no support being offered by her husband, she starts a blog.
Sophie was very likeable, relatable and travels a real journey: as the story develops, we begin to see her gain confidence and unleash her frustrations and loneliness under the cover of her blog as The Beta Mum bringing realism, hilarity and repercussions.
"I am the first person to know that not only do sticks and stones hurt, but words can hurt too."
I'll be honest, the first 30% of this had me wanting to throttle most of the secondary characters and I had issue with Michael for much of the book: how Sophie backed down and accepted blame during his outbursts bothered me. Yet at the same time it was clearly important to the path of the story because it's one of relationships, marriage, family, and the difficulties, sacrifices, mistakes and compromises that can come with it.
"In the end, they’re just people – richer and thinner, but with problems like everyone else."
Isabella Davidson does a great job in taking you on a journey which has you thinking a little more as to how you judge others. Because let's be fair, we all do it no matter how hard we may try not to. Overall an enjoyable read and I'll certainly be keeping my eye out for more from Isabella in the future.
Copy generously provided by the author in exchange for an honest and unbiased opinion.
May 21, 2017
Many thanks to the author: Isabella Davidson for providing an electronic copy of The Beta Mum, Adventures in Alpha-Land in exchange for an honest review.
Keep an eye on blogger and new author: Isabella Davidson! Her debut novel: The Beta Mum, Adventures in Alpha-Land is funny, relevant, entertaining, a bit suspenseful, and very reminiscent of Sophie Kinsella and Liane Moriarty's love child...if they were to ever have one...you know, in chick-lit land.
Bullying doesn't stop at childhood. The social exclusion, inferior treatment, and walking on eggshells continues on in some situations for many women who try to find social connections with local moms for the sake of their kids. It's happened to me and I've heard it from friends and coworkers too. It's a dysfunctional social hierarchy of controlling women that is often not confronted because we want our little ones to be happy and able to maintain relationships with their friends even if we're miserable. The Beta Mum, Adventures in Alpha-Land shows one woman's way of coping with this dynamic. Blog about it! Venting helps, right? Well, yes and no. I won't say anymore. You'll have to read it to see what I mean. What I can say though is this book is not only about being a mom. It's also about marriage, family, acceptance (of others as well as yourself), and forgiveness. With both laughs and family drama, this fun story has a lot to offer. Check it out!
My favorite quote:
"These days, it wasn’t about getting butterflies in your stomach from dating any more; it was about assessing the body language and gestures of the mum facing you to determine if she was someone you could potentially have a friendship with and make a connection."
Keep an eye on blogger and new author: Isabella Davidson! Her debut novel: The Beta Mum, Adventures in Alpha-Land is funny, relevant, entertaining, a bit suspenseful, and very reminiscent of Sophie Kinsella and Liane Moriarty's love child...if they were to ever have one...you know, in chick-lit land.
Bullying doesn't stop at childhood. The social exclusion, inferior treatment, and walking on eggshells continues on in some situations for many women who try to find social connections with local moms for the sake of their kids. It's happened to me and I've heard it from friends and coworkers too. It's a dysfunctional social hierarchy of controlling women that is often not confronted because we want our little ones to be happy and able to maintain relationships with their friends even if we're miserable. The Beta Mum, Adventures in Alpha-Land shows one woman's way of coping with this dynamic. Blog about it! Venting helps, right? Well, yes and no. I won't say anymore. You'll have to read it to see what I mean. What I can say though is this book is not only about being a mom. It's also about marriage, family, acceptance (of others as well as yourself), and forgiveness. With both laughs and family drama, this fun story has a lot to offer. Check it out!
My favorite quote:
"These days, it wasn’t about getting butterflies in your stomach from dating any more; it was about assessing the body language and gestures of the mum facing you to determine if she was someone you could potentially have a friendship with and make a connection."
June 2, 2017
I loved this fictional story that has a gallery of fascinating super rich mums. The Alpha Women are beautiful. The Alpha Men are rich and powerful. The Alpha children are bright. It's a war who has the cleverest children, the biggest house. Sophie Bennett is living in the shadows of the Alpha. I wonder how long can she last. Do you think you could handle it? Sophie is offered a new in London with a salary that she could never get in Canada. The flat they rented in London was full of worn furniture. When Sophie take Kaya to her nursery school, a crowd of glamorous women looked like they were queuing for a Milan / Paris/ New York fashion week. One mother was a supermodel. Another mother was the wife of one of London's richest oligarchs. What is not here to love. A swarm of black SUVs, Rolls Royces, Bentleys and Mini Coopers in the parking space. Jealousy maybe between some of the mums where one lives in a ten bedroom house with lavish spa and a sauna worth twenty million pounds. Book loving friends you have to read this book with rich characters you will want to read about.
June 22, 2017
"...it seemed like I was the one who taken the wrong tailwind and found myself in an alternate reality where everyone was beautiful, stylish and rich, and I was the frog at the princess ball." (pág. 18)
Isabella Davidson describes in a very entertaining way the daily life of a "normal" mother in an exclusive London nursery, "Alpha Land". In this place all the parents have successful careers, are super rich and look like supermodels. There is always a competition to know who has the biggest house and the most expensive car.
Creating a blog is the way Sophie finds to deal with this new reality. It's on the blog and in an anonymous way that she demonstrates her fears and makes her comments.
Isabella Davidson describes in a very entertaining way the daily life of a "normal" mother in an exclusive London nursery, "Alpha Land". In this place all the parents have successful careers, are super rich and look like supermodels. There is always a competition to know who has the biggest house and the most expensive car.
Creating a blog is the way Sophie finds to deal with this new reality. It's on the blog and in an anonymous way that she demonstrates her fears and makes her comments.
September 8, 2017
I loved this all round super funny entertaining book about modern-day family life of the rich and famous which is set around the mums and occasionally the dads at a London nursery. Sophie, Michael and three-year old Kaya had recently moved from Oakville, Toronto to London, which has put Michael further up the ladder of success but left Sophie still looking for work and rather a lot of time on her hands.
Cherry Blossoms Nursery is a place that prides itself on keeping the prying eyes of reporters away, giving the children and parents a place that feels secure from the outside world. Sophie, being a small town girl, gets quite an eye opener on the first day as these super looking, exquisitely dressed and very confident mums arrive via very expensive cars. She soon feels dull, ignored and very much out of her depth.
The playground of mums is very much a place of “mines bigger than yours”, and “our yacht was moored next to ….”, The Alpha mum of them all was Kelly who made Sophie feel very second-rate. In a fit of rebuff Sophie creates a Blog and uses the name The Beta Mum. What starts as a place to vent frustrations of the Nursery yuppies becomes a regular feature and gets a following.
Absolutely loved this book that takes a look into the lives of the rich and famous through fictional characters. You can see these people at any school. The popular, the hangers-on and the ones that keep themselves to themselves. They are universal just with different issues and stuff to brag about. That is what makes this story so easy to relate to in many ways. The only difference here is the press could have a field day with this “playground” gossip.
This is beautifully written with characters you will pick out as someone similar to people you know, with the exception of the money, unless you are a yuppie of course. Anyway a super holiday book or curled up on the sofa, it makes for cosy reading no matter where you are. I laughed, I cringed and I really thought about social media. A very clever book that gives you so much to think about after you finish.
Cherry Blossoms Nursery is a place that prides itself on keeping the prying eyes of reporters away, giving the children and parents a place that feels secure from the outside world. Sophie, being a small town girl, gets quite an eye opener on the first day as these super looking, exquisitely dressed and very confident mums arrive via very expensive cars. She soon feels dull, ignored and very much out of her depth.
The playground of mums is very much a place of “mines bigger than yours”, and “our yacht was moored next to ….”, The Alpha mum of them all was Kelly who made Sophie feel very second-rate. In a fit of rebuff Sophie creates a Blog and uses the name The Beta Mum. What starts as a place to vent frustrations of the Nursery yuppies becomes a regular feature and gets a following.
Absolutely loved this book that takes a look into the lives of the rich and famous through fictional characters. You can see these people at any school. The popular, the hangers-on and the ones that keep themselves to themselves. They are universal just with different issues and stuff to brag about. That is what makes this story so easy to relate to in many ways. The only difference here is the press could have a field day with this “playground” gossip.
This is beautifully written with characters you will pick out as someone similar to people you know, with the exception of the money, unless you are a yuppie of course. Anyway a super holiday book or curled up on the sofa, it makes for cosy reading no matter where you are. I laughed, I cringed and I really thought about social media. A very clever book that gives you so much to think about after you finish.
June 21, 2017
Well what can I say? Honestly I loved it. From start to finish this book is funny and relatable (even if you don't write a blog).
I think most of us mums are no stranger to the unwelcoming mummy clique at the school gates, you end up feeling like you're back at school yourself sometimes and this can only be made harder when you aren't it a place that you would necessarily call home.
"I am the first person to know that not only do sticks and stones hurt, but words can hurt too."
So how do you get over that feeling? Well as the saying goes, "it's good to talk", but if you feel like you have no friends how can you vent all those pent up feelings? Well in Sophie's case, you blog about it and I can say first hand just how good it feels to type out those frustrations.
What Isabella does in this book is highlight an important issue, in the sense that bullying doesn't always stop at childhood, adults can in fact be more hurtful with their words and their actions, we can all as a society be too quick to judge sometimes .
"These days, it wasn’t about getting butterflies in your stomach from dating any more; it was about assessing the body language and gestures of the mum facing you to determine if she was someone you could potentially have a friendship with and make a connection."
The Beta Mum is an easy to read book filled with laughter and plenty of drama as well as something that bit more meaningful. This one of those books that you'll want to be reading at the side of a pool on holiday this Summer. A fantastic debut.
I think most of us mums are no stranger to the unwelcoming mummy clique at the school gates, you end up feeling like you're back at school yourself sometimes and this can only be made harder when you aren't it a place that you would necessarily call home.
"I am the first person to know that not only do sticks and stones hurt, but words can hurt too."
So how do you get over that feeling? Well as the saying goes, "it's good to talk", but if you feel like you have no friends how can you vent all those pent up feelings? Well in Sophie's case, you blog about it and I can say first hand just how good it feels to type out those frustrations.
What Isabella does in this book is highlight an important issue, in the sense that bullying doesn't always stop at childhood, adults can in fact be more hurtful with their words and their actions, we can all as a society be too quick to judge sometimes .
"These days, it wasn’t about getting butterflies in your stomach from dating any more; it was about assessing the body language and gestures of the mum facing you to determine if she was someone you could potentially have a friendship with and make a connection."
The Beta Mum is an easy to read book filled with laughter and plenty of drama as well as something that bit more meaningful. This one of those books that you'll want to be reading at the side of a pool on holiday this Summer. A fantastic debut.
July 24, 2017
I thoroughly enjoyed The Beta Mum. It's both funny and intriguing. What's more, I can envision this happening in real life! I thought the conclusion was well written too.
June 20, 2017
I was pretty excited about this book as soon as I heard about it. A new city, rivalry, anonymous blogging...it seemed like a promising debut!
When her husband lands a job opportunity that's hard to turn down, Sophie Bennett begins to prepare the family's big move from Toronto to London. Moving to a new city is hard enough, but heading to a new city halfway across the globe is even more difficult - especially when there's Sophie's four-year-old daughter Kaya's schooling to consider.
Luckily, Michael's contacts have landed them the services of a nursery consultant who manages to get Kaya a place at Cherry Blossoms, one of the most exclusive nurseries in Notting Hill. Sophie is sure that taking Kaya to her new school will provide the perfect opportunity to talk to the other mums and make new friends - but as it happens, she couldn't be more wrong.
The mums at Cherry Blossoms are not what Sophie expects; incedibly wealthy, beautiful (one is an actual supermodel) and just a bit judgemental, Sophie's first interactions with the 'Alpha Mums' doesn't exactly go down too well. Feeling self-conscious and out of her depth at the school gates of exclusivity she has not fully experienced before, Sophie vows to try again.
However, she soon becomes certain that she won't fit in with these high-maintenance mums who are always fighting for the top spot in the Alpha Mum roster. Rude, cliquey and fiercely competitive in everything they do, these 'yummy mummies' are desperate to outdo one another and take down anyone who gets in their way.
Lonely and homesick, Sophie takes out her frustration on a blog. Naming herself 'Beta Mum', she anonymously chronicles her day to day life at the school gates, noting some of the conversations and goings-on at some of the vast Cherry Blossoms events. Pretty soon Sophie is gaining followers from all around the world, who are stopping by to share their own amusing tales of school-run woes.
As the blog gains more attention - especially from one man who might just be married to one of the Alphas - Sophie becomes more content, making sure she documents her new life full of overachieving competitive mums for the world to read about. With her blog, people are finally listening to her, making her realise that she's not alone.
That is until one day, when she accidentally reveals the location of the London nursery, and it's only a matter of time before the Alpha's work out the mystery blogger's true identity...
I'm going to stop there in case I spoil any more, and I certainly don't want to do that because this book is downright brilliant. I was hooked from page one, and it didn't take me long to finish because I could hardly put it down. Isabella is funny, with sparkling wit, and her fun writing style shines through. I was rooting for Sophie since the very beginning of the novel.
I'm not a mum, and thus have never experienced the kind of behaviour Sophie has to endure at the nursery, however I have heard similar stories from others who have! It reminds me of high school, where classes were dominated by the typical cliques and bullies. Some people just never seem to grow up, often concealing their own problems and insecurities beneath a false layer of confidence, and I think Isabella has captured this brilliantly.
The Beta Mum: Adventures in Alpha Land is an absolutely wonderful, unputdownable debut.
When her husband lands a job opportunity that's hard to turn down, Sophie Bennett begins to prepare the family's big move from Toronto to London. Moving to a new city is hard enough, but heading to a new city halfway across the globe is even more difficult - especially when there's Sophie's four-year-old daughter Kaya's schooling to consider.
Luckily, Michael's contacts have landed them the services of a nursery consultant who manages to get Kaya a place at Cherry Blossoms, one of the most exclusive nurseries in Notting Hill. Sophie is sure that taking Kaya to her new school will provide the perfect opportunity to talk to the other mums and make new friends - but as it happens, she couldn't be more wrong.
The mums at Cherry Blossoms are not what Sophie expects; incedibly wealthy, beautiful (one is an actual supermodel) and just a bit judgemental, Sophie's first interactions with the 'Alpha Mums' doesn't exactly go down too well. Feeling self-conscious and out of her depth at the school gates of exclusivity she has not fully experienced before, Sophie vows to try again.
However, she soon becomes certain that she won't fit in with these high-maintenance mums who are always fighting for the top spot in the Alpha Mum roster. Rude, cliquey and fiercely competitive in everything they do, these 'yummy mummies' are desperate to outdo one another and take down anyone who gets in their way.
Lonely and homesick, Sophie takes out her frustration on a blog. Naming herself 'Beta Mum', she anonymously chronicles her day to day life at the school gates, noting some of the conversations and goings-on at some of the vast Cherry Blossoms events. Pretty soon Sophie is gaining followers from all around the world, who are stopping by to share their own amusing tales of school-run woes.
As the blog gains more attention - especially from one man who might just be married to one of the Alphas - Sophie becomes more content, making sure she documents her new life full of overachieving competitive mums for the world to read about. With her blog, people are finally listening to her, making her realise that she's not alone.
That is until one day, when she accidentally reveals the location of the London nursery, and it's only a matter of time before the Alpha's work out the mystery blogger's true identity...
I'm going to stop there in case I spoil any more, and I certainly don't want to do that because this book is downright brilliant. I was hooked from page one, and it didn't take me long to finish because I could hardly put it down. Isabella is funny, with sparkling wit, and her fun writing style shines through. I was rooting for Sophie since the very beginning of the novel.
I'm not a mum, and thus have never experienced the kind of behaviour Sophie has to endure at the nursery, however I have heard similar stories from others who have! It reminds me of high school, where classes were dominated by the typical cliques and bullies. Some people just never seem to grow up, often concealing their own problems and insecurities beneath a false layer of confidence, and I think Isabella has captured this brilliantly.
The Beta Mum: Adventures in Alpha Land is an absolutely wonderful, unputdownable debut.
June 26, 2017
Sophie’s gloom started weighing me down
Sophie moves to London, from Oakville, Canada, together with her husband and three-year-old daughter. She finds it hard to make new friends and dreads the move. Once in London, the story is mainly about Sophie’s struggle with the Alpha Mums at the nursery. It’s also about the joys (and dangers) of writing a blog.
I found it easy to relate to Sophie, being on the shy side myself. But Sophie went on a bit too much about being miserable. I got to a point where I thought, alright, I got the picture! It was all too negative and gloomy. The pages are dripping with all the tears that Sophie cries. The book is so so sooooooooooo sad! Having had trouble all my life being shy, just like Sophie, maybe this was too confrontational for me. I started feeling unhappy and lonely just like Sophie, because I could relate a bit too much.
Just when I thought: “Is this whole book going to be about whining about being lonely?” it got better. Sophie finally learns to stand up for herself. A turning point so to speak. But, that was at well over 50% of the book. From then on, the book did get a bit more positive. The second half was more entertaining and overall happier.
But another thing: Sophie hates the fact that the Alpha Mums are so judgemental, but in her blog she is quite judgemental herself… making assumptions about everyone that aren’t always true. It got so gossipy! The pot calling the kettle black… A few times she is actually quite mean! I think she is stooping to the same level that she is complaining about. I really didn’t like that. So vindictive. I dislike people who gloat at another person’s misfortune. And her gossiping gets way too specific. Sophie is playing with fire in more ways than one.
The book claims to be humorous, but until the turning point there was nothing humorous about it. But I am not a mum who has gone through similar experiences as Sophie. So I couldn’t really relate in that particular aspect. Maybe if you are, you WILL find it funny.
I did like the bit right before the ending: karma. And the actual end, I must say, was quite nice, although slightly preachy.
So the end conclusion is: it was too depressing for me. That is not the author’s fault in any way, but my own, in not realising this beforehand. I really thought I was going to love this book, because I found the concept so very interesting. But sadly, no. I can only give it an average score of ‘it was OK’, but nothing more.
I received a complimentary copy of this book and voluntarily provided an honest review.
Sophie moves to London, from Oakville, Canada, together with her husband and three-year-old daughter. She finds it hard to make new friends and dreads the move. Once in London, the story is mainly about Sophie’s struggle with the Alpha Mums at the nursery. It’s also about the joys (and dangers) of writing a blog.
I found it easy to relate to Sophie, being on the shy side myself. But Sophie went on a bit too much about being miserable. I got to a point where I thought, alright, I got the picture! It was all too negative and gloomy. The pages are dripping with all the tears that Sophie cries. The book is so so sooooooooooo sad! Having had trouble all my life being shy, just like Sophie, maybe this was too confrontational for me. I started feeling unhappy and lonely just like Sophie, because I could relate a bit too much.
Just when I thought: “Is this whole book going to be about whining about being lonely?” it got better. Sophie finally learns to stand up for herself. A turning point so to speak. But, that was at well over 50% of the book. From then on, the book did get a bit more positive. The second half was more entertaining and overall happier.
But another thing: Sophie hates the fact that the Alpha Mums are so judgemental, but in her blog she is quite judgemental herself… making assumptions about everyone that aren’t always true. It got so gossipy! The pot calling the kettle black… A few times she is actually quite mean! I think she is stooping to the same level that she is complaining about. I really didn’t like that. So vindictive. I dislike people who gloat at another person’s misfortune. And her gossiping gets way too specific. Sophie is playing with fire in more ways than one.
The book claims to be humorous, but until the turning point there was nothing humorous about it. But I am not a mum who has gone through similar experiences as Sophie. So I couldn’t really relate in that particular aspect. Maybe if you are, you WILL find it funny.
I did like the bit right before the ending: karma. And the actual end, I must say, was quite nice, although slightly preachy.
So the end conclusion is: it was too depressing for me. That is not the author’s fault in any way, but my own, in not realising this beforehand. I really thought I was going to love this book, because I found the concept so very interesting. But sadly, no. I can only give it an average score of ‘it was OK’, but nothing more.
I received a complimentary copy of this book and voluntarily provided an honest review.
June 20, 2017
The Beta Mum: Adventures in Alpha Land
What can I say? I absolutely LOVED this book!
Sophie Bennett has moved to London from Canada and is finding it hard. Her daughter goes to an exclusive nursery and despite numerous attempts, she's finding it hard to make friends and fit in. It could be because they all seem to be 'Alpha Mums'. Models, celebrities, super rich...is Sophie out of her depth? She decides to start a blog chronicling her journey in Alpha Land, she keeps it anonymous until one drunken night she makes the mistake of naming the nursery...
The Beta Mum is a genuine page turner and I couldn't put it down. It made me laugh out loud, cringe and hold my breath. It's so relatable, it doesn't matter if your kids go to the local state school or an exclusive private one, you'll find parents who fit into these slots that they often create for themselves. I've stood and watch mums in the playground moan about how they just couldn't find a skirt they liked anywhere. Like seriously that was the worst thing going on in her life, then there are other mums dealing with infidelity, ill health and grief. There's something that most people can identify with in this book. I would definitely recommend this book and I think that it will appeal to a wide audience because it's so relatable. I think there's scope for this to become a series and I for one cannot wait to see if it does!
Five big fat shiny stars from purplebookstand!
What can I say? I absolutely LOVED this book!
Sophie Bennett has moved to London from Canada and is finding it hard. Her daughter goes to an exclusive nursery and despite numerous attempts, she's finding it hard to make friends and fit in. It could be because they all seem to be 'Alpha Mums'. Models, celebrities, super rich...is Sophie out of her depth? She decides to start a blog chronicling her journey in Alpha Land, she keeps it anonymous until one drunken night she makes the mistake of naming the nursery...
The Beta Mum is a genuine page turner and I couldn't put it down. It made me laugh out loud, cringe and hold my breath. It's so relatable, it doesn't matter if your kids go to the local state school or an exclusive private one, you'll find parents who fit into these slots that they often create for themselves. I've stood and watch mums in the playground moan about how they just couldn't find a skirt they liked anywhere. Like seriously that was the worst thing going on in her life, then there are other mums dealing with infidelity, ill health and grief. There's something that most people can identify with in this book. I would definitely recommend this book and I think that it will appeal to a wide audience because it's so relatable. I think there's scope for this to become a series and I for one cannot wait to see if it does!
Five big fat shiny stars from purplebookstand!
July 2, 2017
Special message brought to you by the FCC: I won this book in a Goodreads giveaway.
Sophie, our protagonist, seems like a nice enough person. It's easy to relate to her loneliness and frustration and finding herself in a fish-out-of-water situation, suddenly surrounded by celebrity and supermodel moms in London as a result of her husband's new job opportunity. As Sophie struggles to fit in among the Alpha-Moms of Cherry Blossoms Nursery, she turns to blogging in the hopes that it will help her feel less isolated.
The story kept me going - I'm pretty much a sucker for stories about misfits - but I did wish that there was a bit more showing than telling going on in this one, and that Sophie's voice was a bit more consistent. (She compares plays in one of the children's costumes to a West End show, but has just moved from Canada -- how on earth would she know?!)
Davidson's prose really shines when she is writing about Sophie as a mom. Interactions between Sophie and Kaya, descriptions of Kaya playing with the other kids - this is where the book feels less like a straightforward description of events and really pulls the reader in.
It's a bit like I imagine a first draft of a Sophie Kinsella novel, before excess wordiness is trimmed and more humor is added in. I'd very likely pick up another book by Davidson a few years down the road.
Sophie, our protagonist, seems like a nice enough person. It's easy to relate to her loneliness and frustration and finding herself in a fish-out-of-water situation, suddenly surrounded by celebrity and supermodel moms in London as a result of her husband's new job opportunity. As Sophie struggles to fit in among the Alpha-Moms of Cherry Blossoms Nursery, she turns to blogging in the hopes that it will help her feel less isolated.
The story kept me going - I'm pretty much a sucker for stories about misfits - but I did wish that there was a bit more showing than telling going on in this one, and that Sophie's voice was a bit more consistent. (She compares plays in one of the children's costumes to a West End show, but has just moved from Canada -- how on earth would she know?!)
Davidson's prose really shines when she is writing about Sophie as a mom. Interactions between Sophie and Kaya, descriptions of Kaya playing with the other kids - this is where the book feels less like a straightforward description of events and really pulls the reader in.
It's a bit like I imagine a first draft of a Sophie Kinsella novel, before excess wordiness is trimmed and more humor is added in. I'd very likely pick up another book by Davidson a few years down the road.
June 17, 2017
The Beta Mum is about Sophie's struggles to fit in with the 'Alpha Mums' at her daughters new, exclusive nursery in London.
What she wants is for her daughter to settle in and be happy and to meet some new mummy friends for herself.
What she gets is an unhappy little girl and a clique of yummy mummy's who are not that interested in befriending someone like Sophie.
Feeling fed up and lonely, she decides to start a blog about the 'Alpha Mums' and their antics in 'Alpha Land'.
Initially the blog is surprisingly successful but things quickly get out of hand leaving Sophie in some hot water.
On the verge of losing everything can Sophie fix the mess made by "The Beta Mum"?
As a mum myself I can definitely relate to some of the issues Sophie encounters and I think most people would have met a 'Kelly' at sometime in their life either at school or work.
The Beta Mum is a genuine page-turner that had me hooked from page 1.
Isabella Davidson's debut novel has everything: Fabulous writing, a great story and well-rounded characters
The author kindly provided an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
What she wants is for her daughter to settle in and be happy and to meet some new mummy friends for herself.
What she gets is an unhappy little girl and a clique of yummy mummy's who are not that interested in befriending someone like Sophie.
Feeling fed up and lonely, she decides to start a blog about the 'Alpha Mums' and their antics in 'Alpha Land'.
Initially the blog is surprisingly successful but things quickly get out of hand leaving Sophie in some hot water.
On the verge of losing everything can Sophie fix the mess made by "The Beta Mum"?
As a mum myself I can definitely relate to some of the issues Sophie encounters and I think most people would have met a 'Kelly' at sometime in their life either at school or work.
The Beta Mum is a genuine page-turner that had me hooked from page 1.
Isabella Davidson's debut novel has everything: Fabulous writing, a great story and well-rounded characters
The author kindly provided an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
May 30, 2017
I really enjoyed this book. It was funny and observant, and I really empathized with Sophie and her plight. I think this book serves as a good reminder that while it's easy to judge others, you just never know what they are going through. Oftentimes, the people who put on the biggest show of having the perfect life have the most turmoil going on behind the scenes; be happy with what you have and try not to worry about everyone else.
Isabella Davidson has some really good insights into marriage after children and the effect that virtual life has on one's real life. Hopefully, this is just the first of many books for her.
Isabella Davidson has some really good insights into marriage after children and the effect that virtual life has on one's real life. Hopefully, this is just the first of many books for her.
June 28, 2017
I'm one of the lucky winners of the giveaway and when I received the book last week I was really happy so I started reading it even though I didnt have a lot of time.
I loved the book. I expected something funny and I was not disappointed but there were also a lot of deep moments that left you thinking. I'm young and I dont have kids or plan to but I still could relate with Sophie. I found some of the alpha moms really fascinating and I would love know more about them. I totally recommend it!
I'm sorry my review is so short but english is not my first language and my writting skills are nonexistent. Thanks to Isabella Davidson for the book
I loved the book. I expected something funny and I was not disappointed but there were also a lot of deep moments that left you thinking. I'm young and I dont have kids or plan to but I still could relate with Sophie. I found some of the alpha moms really fascinating and I would love know more about them. I totally recommend it!
I'm sorry my review is so short but english is not my first language and my writting skills are nonexistent. Thanks to Isabella Davidson for the book
July 16, 2017
Utterly enthralling!
When Sophie Bennett first accedes to her husband's request to relocate their family from Canada to London for three years, she knows nothing of London's Alpha Mum's.
Entirely clueless of the exciting adventures awaiting her; Sophie has never even heard of the elite female clique that rule Notting Hill & neighbouring Kensington as their own private kingdom.
Still acclimatizing to life in England, Sophie is yet to sneak a single glimpse into Alpha Land- the highly exclusive, picture perfect world of opulence that these glamorous, eye wateringly wealthy elite beings inhabit.
Soon Sophie knows far too much.
She knows that the services of nursery consultants commanding a starting fee of £3000 represents a necessary pre-requisite of securing her three year old a nursery school place- at the most prestigious nursery in London.
She knows that the Cherry Blossoms Nursery has instituted a haute couture uniform code for mums, which must be stringently complied with at all times whilst within sight of nursery premises.
She knows that the other mums are an army composed almost entirely of the illustrious: supermodels, philanthropists, eco-warriors, the wonderwomen of the finance world and oligarch spouses.
That in such exalted company, private gym lifestyle memberships with price tags starting at £30,000 are mandatory. Caffeine, refined sugar, alcohol and all processed food represent the ultimate dirty dietary four and are absolutely taboo- to considered on par with heroin/ crack cocaine.
That play dates for the under 4's necessitate the involvement of a hoard of executive assistants, security teams and palatial properties.
Sophie also knows Alpha Lands formidable leadership hierarchy, where the upper echelon “Mumsolinis”, are distinguished by five features:
1) fabulous wealth,
2) a striking physical resemblance to perfect lifesize Barbie dolls,
3) wardrobes that solely accommodate luxury labels,
4) impeccable backgrounds, CV's and contact networks,
5) the fact that these superlative, ultra competitive females open their mouths only to: belittle, brag, berate, breathe fire as dragons do or spew venom like serpents.
Most of all, Sophie knows that the status quo dictates that the dominance of Alpha Mums must never be challenged. Nor rendered subject to public exposure.
Any such occurrence would be absolutely catastrophic; Alpha Land would be rocked to the core if its reigning sovereigns were ever to sample a little dose of their own medicine.
Even within the virtual parameters of cyberspace.
Insightful, heart-warming and hilariously witty, The Beta Mum is a captivating read from start to finish.
Sophie is a fabulous character- articulate, independent and with a uniquely sassy voice- one that not only narrates her experiences but also brings her world vividly to life with a stunning 3D like feast of colour, sound and emotion.
Alpha Land's royalty truly are a perfect measure of contrast- such detestable personalities concealed beneath outwardly perfect visual facades of beauty and success.
The inconsiderate Alpha Mum's are so arrogant, domineering and often downright savage- that some readers may debate whether the elite of Alpha Land are subconsciously willing karma's bite, with subtle invitations to pay them a visit and administer a short sharp shock.
It is truly exhilarating to watch Alpha Land's chiefs incredulously staring down their own mirrored reflections as their cosseted, privileged lives begin to unravel around them- with the whole world watching.
My personal favourite moment was witnessing Mumsolini's eventual realisation that the journey back down to Planet Earth is swiftly approaching for her- and will inevitably entail a bumpy ride.
This scene was absolutely epic- the horrendous Queen Bee totally in denial that her entire empire has reached the point of crisis until finally crumbling into a flood of tears, whilst in the midst of directing one last abusive tirade.
The ultimate Mumsolini moment - as she finally acknowledges the horrifying reality that her house of cards has inextricably come crashing down and her reign of terror is at an end.
The Beta Mum is a fictional masterpiece, almost perfect.
I do wish that the bad karma had been equally apportioned between Mumsolini and Sophie's dreadful husband Michael, instead of Mumsolini receiving the lot and Michael being left unscathed.
It was a bit irritating to watch Nemesis vest her fury upon Mumsolini's head whilst Michael's constant acts of petty tyranny directed against Sophie went entirely unpunished.
It is fabulous for readers to witness calamity strike back at domineering despotic characters and Michael was such an appalling petty tyrant- on equal footing with Mumsolini on practically every level except gender.
Michael came pretty close to non-violent spousal abuse with his pattern of repeated geographical relocations and autocratic diktats; behaviour designed to detach, disorientate and socially isolate Sophie- leaving her almost entirely dependent on him, financially and socially.
The multiple relocations resulted in Sophie being: jobless, cut off from all her friends/parents and with little recourse to any viable support system.
The constant house moves orchestrated by Michael to suit his career whilst simultaneously decimating Sophie's could be considered warning flares, however the arbitrary crazy diktats were in another league altogether- 'don't telephone me', 'I don't have time for you or your problems' and the finest one of them all 'you need my permission to send emails'.
I will never ever forget the final loony decree of Emperor Michael Bennett to the little wife- 'woe betide you if you ever receive emails without my permission'. Absolutely unbelieveable!
Mumsolini's ruthless campaign of vicious tyranny earned her a little karmic gift: public humiliation and financial ruin. Michael too deserved a sizeable dose of that very same medicine.
Michael was every bit as unpleasant as Mumsolini yet got away with all his behaviour, with fate allowing him to continue going through life as a dominating and tyrannical husband.
Author Isabella Davidson is an amazingly funny and authentic writer, who skilfully depicts London- bright world renown cosmopolitan capital city in all its glory.
This novel perfectly encapsulates the very essence of life in London as a global capital brimming with spirit, opportunity and ex-pats.
Her writing seamlessly blends together the historic London steeped in centuries of tradition, with a more modern day post 1980's heritage incorporating neo-liberal capitalism, multiculturalism and a city that never seems to sleep.
The Beta Mum also highlights the London service sector's commitment to excellence; brilliantly depicting the international acclaim accorded to London's top calibre, most highly coveted corporate and educational institutions.
This novel's narrative is so descriptive that readers need only to turn the pages to effortlessly sample all London has to offer- world famous architectural landmarks, a fabulously rainbow social climate, array of tranquil exquisite natural beauty spots and the awesome economic powerhouse that is The City of London district zone.
The scenes of London's exquisite Royal parkland, scenic greenbelt and breathtaking riverside views will really resonate with Londoners; they are portrayed with the kind of vividity and passion that can only originate from somebody that truly treasures 'England's green and pleasant lands'.
With all the sparkle of a 1000 carat diamond, this book's spellbinding power is evident from the first line and its almost magical lustre remains intact until the last words of the final page.
An absolutely dazzling debut from Isabella Davidson.
When Sophie Bennett first accedes to her husband's request to relocate their family from Canada to London for three years, she knows nothing of London's Alpha Mum's.
Entirely clueless of the exciting adventures awaiting her; Sophie has never even heard of the elite female clique that rule Notting Hill & neighbouring Kensington as their own private kingdom.
Still acclimatizing to life in England, Sophie is yet to sneak a single glimpse into Alpha Land- the highly exclusive, picture perfect world of opulence that these glamorous, eye wateringly wealthy elite beings inhabit.
Soon Sophie knows far too much.
She knows that the services of nursery consultants commanding a starting fee of £3000 represents a necessary pre-requisite of securing her three year old a nursery school place- at the most prestigious nursery in London.
She knows that the Cherry Blossoms Nursery has instituted a haute couture uniform code for mums, which must be stringently complied with at all times whilst within sight of nursery premises.
She knows that the other mums are an army composed almost entirely of the illustrious: supermodels, philanthropists, eco-warriors, the wonderwomen of the finance world and oligarch spouses.
That in such exalted company, private gym lifestyle memberships with price tags starting at £30,000 are mandatory. Caffeine, refined sugar, alcohol and all processed food represent the ultimate dirty dietary four and are absolutely taboo- to considered on par with heroin/ crack cocaine.
That play dates for the under 4's necessitate the involvement of a hoard of executive assistants, security teams and palatial properties.
Sophie also knows Alpha Lands formidable leadership hierarchy, where the upper echelon “Mumsolinis”, are distinguished by five features:
1) fabulous wealth,
2) a striking physical resemblance to perfect lifesize Barbie dolls,
3) wardrobes that solely accommodate luxury labels,
4) impeccable backgrounds, CV's and contact networks,
5) the fact that these superlative, ultra competitive females open their mouths only to: belittle, brag, berate, breathe fire as dragons do or spew venom like serpents.
Most of all, Sophie knows that the status quo dictates that the dominance of Alpha Mums must never be challenged. Nor rendered subject to public exposure.
Any such occurrence would be absolutely catastrophic; Alpha Land would be rocked to the core if its reigning sovereigns were ever to sample a little dose of their own medicine.
Even within the virtual parameters of cyberspace.
Insightful, heart-warming and hilariously witty, The Beta Mum is a captivating read from start to finish.
Sophie is a fabulous character- articulate, independent and with a uniquely sassy voice- one that not only narrates her experiences but also brings her world vividly to life with a stunning 3D like feast of colour, sound and emotion.
Alpha Land's royalty truly are a perfect measure of contrast- such detestable personalities concealed beneath outwardly perfect visual facades of beauty and success.
The inconsiderate Alpha Mum's are so arrogant, domineering and often downright savage- that some readers may debate whether the elite of Alpha Land are subconsciously willing karma's bite, with subtle invitations to pay them a visit and administer a short sharp shock.
It is truly exhilarating to watch Alpha Land's chiefs incredulously staring down their own mirrored reflections as their cosseted, privileged lives begin to unravel around them- with the whole world watching.
My personal favourite moment was witnessing Mumsolini's eventual realisation that the journey back down to Planet Earth is swiftly approaching for her- and will inevitably entail a bumpy ride.
This scene was absolutely epic- the horrendous Queen Bee totally in denial that her entire empire has reached the point of crisis until finally crumbling into a flood of tears, whilst in the midst of directing one last abusive tirade.
The ultimate Mumsolini moment - as she finally acknowledges the horrifying reality that her house of cards has inextricably come crashing down and her reign of terror is at an end.
The Beta Mum is a fictional masterpiece, almost perfect.
I do wish that the bad karma had been equally apportioned between Mumsolini and Sophie's dreadful husband Michael, instead of Mumsolini receiving the lot and Michael being left unscathed.
It was a bit irritating to watch Nemesis vest her fury upon Mumsolini's head whilst Michael's constant acts of petty tyranny directed against Sophie went entirely unpunished.
It is fabulous for readers to witness calamity strike back at domineering despotic characters and Michael was such an appalling petty tyrant- on equal footing with Mumsolini on practically every level except gender.
Michael came pretty close to non-violent spousal abuse with his pattern of repeated geographical relocations and autocratic diktats; behaviour designed to detach, disorientate and socially isolate Sophie- leaving her almost entirely dependent on him, financially and socially.
The multiple relocations resulted in Sophie being: jobless, cut off from all her friends/parents and with little recourse to any viable support system.
The constant house moves orchestrated by Michael to suit his career whilst simultaneously decimating Sophie's could be considered warning flares, however the arbitrary crazy diktats were in another league altogether- 'don't telephone me', 'I don't have time for you or your problems' and the finest one of them all 'you need my permission to send emails'.
I will never ever forget the final loony decree of Emperor Michael Bennett to the little wife- 'woe betide you if you ever receive emails without my permission'. Absolutely unbelieveable!
Mumsolini's ruthless campaign of vicious tyranny earned her a little karmic gift: public humiliation and financial ruin. Michael too deserved a sizeable dose of that very same medicine.
Michael was every bit as unpleasant as Mumsolini yet got away with all his behaviour, with fate allowing him to continue going through life as a dominating and tyrannical husband.
Author Isabella Davidson is an amazingly funny and authentic writer, who skilfully depicts London- bright world renown cosmopolitan capital city in all its glory.
This novel perfectly encapsulates the very essence of life in London as a global capital brimming with spirit, opportunity and ex-pats.
Her writing seamlessly blends together the historic London steeped in centuries of tradition, with a more modern day post 1980's heritage incorporating neo-liberal capitalism, multiculturalism and a city that never seems to sleep.
The Beta Mum also highlights the London service sector's commitment to excellence; brilliantly depicting the international acclaim accorded to London's top calibre, most highly coveted corporate and educational institutions.
This novel's narrative is so descriptive that readers need only to turn the pages to effortlessly sample all London has to offer- world famous architectural landmarks, a fabulously rainbow social climate, array of tranquil exquisite natural beauty spots and the awesome economic powerhouse that is The City of London district zone.
The scenes of London's exquisite Royal parkland, scenic greenbelt and breathtaking riverside views will really resonate with Londoners; they are portrayed with the kind of vividity and passion that can only originate from somebody that truly treasures 'England's green and pleasant lands'.
With all the sparkle of a 1000 carat diamond, this book's spellbinding power is evident from the first line and its almost magical lustre remains intact until the last words of the final page.
An absolutely dazzling debut from Isabella Davidson.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
June 13, 2017
This is the very first novel I've read in 24 hours. Yes, all 234 pages in one day. I hardly ever read fiction nowadays (mainly because I prefer history and biography), but I simply couldn't put it down till I turned to the last page.
The story revolves around Sophie and her life in Alpha Land; she reluctantly moved to London from Canada with her husband Michael and three-year old daughter Kaya. Michael had to work long hours leaving his wife and toddler by themselves which made Sophie very lonely and unhappy. Kaya ended up in the best nursery school in the city, Cherry Blossoms, where the kids of the rich and famous attended, and where the mums are always dressed up to the nines for the school runs. Sophie soon finds out that there's a clique among the mothers, what she calls 'Alpha Mums' and she feels like as an outsider therefore she calls herself a 'Beta Mum.' With Sophie's husband being very busy with his new job and not having the time of the day to spend with her and her daughter, much less listen to her personal issues, Sophie turns to the internet and starts a blog, where she could freely express what she's going through. Overnight Sophie’s blog gains a readership from around the world, even from among her co-parents at Cherry Blossoms, the very same people she talks about in her blog.
The drama that transpired next -- from Sophie's secret correspondence with a man, an avid follower of her blog; the backstabbing and catfights among the mums; the extravagant children's birthday parties; the parents having affairs; Sophie's own inner conflict, and the climax of the gripping narrative -- are all exhilarating!
This is an easy read, very engaging and highly entertaining novel. If there's only one contemporary fast-paced fiction I'd recommend, it would be 'The Beta Mum' hands down. A great debut book from Isabella Davidson, and I hope it will be a huge success, and the first of many series.
For a full, detailed review please read https://elnasmith.wordpress.com/2017/...
Many thanks to the author, Isabella Davidson, for providing an electronic copy of the book in exchange for an honest review.
The story revolves around Sophie and her life in Alpha Land; she reluctantly moved to London from Canada with her husband Michael and three-year old daughter Kaya. Michael had to work long hours leaving his wife and toddler by themselves which made Sophie very lonely and unhappy. Kaya ended up in the best nursery school in the city, Cherry Blossoms, where the kids of the rich and famous attended, and where the mums are always dressed up to the nines for the school runs. Sophie soon finds out that there's a clique among the mothers, what she calls 'Alpha Mums' and she feels like as an outsider therefore she calls herself a 'Beta Mum.' With Sophie's husband being very busy with his new job and not having the time of the day to spend with her and her daughter, much less listen to her personal issues, Sophie turns to the internet and starts a blog, where she could freely express what she's going through. Overnight Sophie’s blog gains a readership from around the world, even from among her co-parents at Cherry Blossoms, the very same people she talks about in her blog.
The drama that transpired next -- from Sophie's secret correspondence with a man, an avid follower of her blog; the backstabbing and catfights among the mums; the extravagant children's birthday parties; the parents having affairs; Sophie's own inner conflict, and the climax of the gripping narrative -- are all exhilarating!
This is an easy read, very engaging and highly entertaining novel. If there's only one contemporary fast-paced fiction I'd recommend, it would be 'The Beta Mum' hands down. A great debut book from Isabella Davidson, and I hope it will be a huge success, and the first of many series.
For a full, detailed review please read https://elnasmith.wordpress.com/2017/...
Many thanks to the author, Isabella Davidson, for providing an electronic copy of the book in exchange for an honest review.
July 31, 2017
THE BETA MUM ADVENTURES IN ALPHA LAND by Isabella Davidson is hilariously witty, engaging, and compelling, and is definitely a must-read for mums around the world.
Meet Sophie Bennett. In her early thirties, she is happy living in Canada with her loving husband Michael, and her little girl Kaya. Insecure as a teenager, she is now more comfortable in her skin and content with her family and friends. But when Michael gets a job offer that he cannot turn down, Sophie finds herself transported to London in the UK, with Kaya attending one of the most prestigious nursery's in the country, courtesy of Michael's employers. Suddenly all of Sophie's shyness and insecurities come rushing back as she feels she cannot compete with these picture-perfect, slim, millionaire mummies who seem so strange to what she is used to. As she struggles to make new friendships and connections, her little girl is struggling too, and as Michael seems to be working more and caring less, it is not long before Sophie feels like she is losing everything she holds dear. But when she starts to blog anonymously about her feelings and bizarre experiences as a beta mum in an alpha world, Sophie starts to claw back some semblance of normality and even manages to make some online friends. But everything comes with a price. And as Sophie's feelings change, and her blog becomes well-known among the Alpha set, could it cost Sophie everything?
Funny, moving, and thoroughly entertaining, THE BETA MUM ADVENTURES IN ALPHA LAND by Isabella Davidson really hit the perfect note for me. Sophie was likeable and really relatable, and the other assortment of characters in this novel were superb too. The world of the rich and famous was opened up in front of my very eyes but like all things in life, nothing is ever quite what it seems. Well-paced and entertaining from start to finish, THE BETA MUM ADVENTURES IN ALPHA LAND by Isabella Davidson is the perfect tonic after a hard day, and I highly recommend it.
*I voluntarily reviewed this book from the author
Meet Sophie Bennett. In her early thirties, she is happy living in Canada with her loving husband Michael, and her little girl Kaya. Insecure as a teenager, she is now more comfortable in her skin and content with her family and friends. But when Michael gets a job offer that he cannot turn down, Sophie finds herself transported to London in the UK, with Kaya attending one of the most prestigious nursery's in the country, courtesy of Michael's employers. Suddenly all of Sophie's shyness and insecurities come rushing back as she feels she cannot compete with these picture-perfect, slim, millionaire mummies who seem so strange to what she is used to. As she struggles to make new friendships and connections, her little girl is struggling too, and as Michael seems to be working more and caring less, it is not long before Sophie feels like she is losing everything she holds dear. But when she starts to blog anonymously about her feelings and bizarre experiences as a beta mum in an alpha world, Sophie starts to claw back some semblance of normality and even manages to make some online friends. But everything comes with a price. And as Sophie's feelings change, and her blog becomes well-known among the Alpha set, could it cost Sophie everything?
Funny, moving, and thoroughly entertaining, THE BETA MUM ADVENTURES IN ALPHA LAND by Isabella Davidson really hit the perfect note for me. Sophie was likeable and really relatable, and the other assortment of characters in this novel were superb too. The world of the rich and famous was opened up in front of my very eyes but like all things in life, nothing is ever quite what it seems. Well-paced and entertaining from start to finish, THE BETA MUM ADVENTURES IN ALPHA LAND by Isabella Davidson is the perfect tonic after a hard day, and I highly recommend it.
*I voluntarily reviewed this book from the author
June 25, 2017
Review to come
June 25, 2017
What worked as a blog is not so successful as a full length novel. The characterisation is more like caricature, and I didn't care about any of the main players. Over-extended, false in feel and too often comes across as being written by someone who needs help for her depression.
June 29, 2017
This book was stunningly well written and had me hooked from the get-go. Sophie, a very 'normal' and middle of the road type of woman suddenly finds herself moving from her cosy home in Canada where she has a place carved for herself in the world, to the posh end of London where toddlers have tutors and bodyguards.
These Alpha-mum escapades are really entertaining to read from the perspective of Sophie's blog, but there's a tinge of alarm when you realise that there really are people out there who put this level of pressure on 3 year olds.
I loved the humour that went into this book and the consideration of all the different types of mums out there in the super-rich community.
Best yet, the protagonist isn't a perfect mother or human being who is in a position to be judging all of these other women and they way they choose to raise their children. This book isn't as fluffy as you'd expect from the cover and description, Sophie has some serious depth to her and is well worth following as a main character.
My only complaint is about the portrayal of her husband in this book. To me, he's a dick. He spends all of his time working and barely even comes home to sleep and seems surprised that Sophie is unhappy with the situation. He gets angry and dismissive of her and everything she says, and she takes it with a 'well, it is my fault' attitude, personally I would rather this was either toned down or addressed for the deeply unhealthy relationship it is.
If you're a chick lit fan, need a giggle or want to see how the other half live - please pick up this book! It's opened me up to a whole new world of literature and I can't wait to see how far down the rabbit hole I go!
These Alpha-mum escapades are really entertaining to read from the perspective of Sophie's blog, but there's a tinge of alarm when you realise that there really are people out there who put this level of pressure on 3 year olds.
I loved the humour that went into this book and the consideration of all the different types of mums out there in the super-rich community.
Best yet, the protagonist isn't a perfect mother or human being who is in a position to be judging all of these other women and they way they choose to raise their children. This book isn't as fluffy as you'd expect from the cover and description, Sophie has some serious depth to her and is well worth following as a main character.
My only complaint is about the portrayal of her husband in this book. To me, he's a dick. He spends all of his time working and barely even comes home to sleep and seems surprised that Sophie is unhappy with the situation. He gets angry and dismissive of her and everything she says, and she takes it with a 'well, it is my fault' attitude, personally I would rather this was either toned down or addressed for the deeply unhealthy relationship it is.
If you're a chick lit fan, need a giggle or want to see how the other half live - please pick up this book! It's opened me up to a whole new world of literature and I can't wait to see how far down the rabbit hole I go!
July 1, 2017
An entertaining, funny and delightful book. A fascinating alternative to the combination of Bridget Jones Diary and Bad Moms.
I really loved this book. As a single person I can say you don't need to be married or have kids to enjoy this story.
'Was this a case of the emperor's new clothes, and was I the only one who had clothes on?'
The protagonist is so realistic and relatable. I mean who hasn't felt like an 'outsider' at some point in their lives. Plus it's great to read a character who isn't self-assured and perfect, but can take you on a journey of self-discovery.
The journey itself is well put together. The story flows effortlessly. The writing and narrative is smooth and compelling. I have to admit that at one point I did sit there and think OMG! Why did Sophie do that! No no No! Don't do it. I would never...! It's amazing how Isabella Davidson made me look at myself and think wow I am as criticising as the characters portrayed in this book. That one big mistake and we are ready to take out the pitchforks and torches. LOL. Yes our relatable protagonist is flawed just like the rest of us IRL, but we all deserve second chances.
When I chose to read this story it was the cover and the title that enticed me. I didn't want any spoilers so I never read the blurb. I mean the title says it all. The romantic drawing of the Gherkin and Old Bailey with it's blue and purple hues prepare us for our adventure in the chaotic city of London, which contrasts nicely with the calming and peaceful effect of the pale blue background.
Thank you Isabella Davidson for a wonderful story. It is definitely a must read.
I really loved this book. As a single person I can say you don't need to be married or have kids to enjoy this story.
'Was this a case of the emperor's new clothes, and was I the only one who had clothes on?'
The protagonist is so realistic and relatable. I mean who hasn't felt like an 'outsider' at some point in their lives. Plus it's great to read a character who isn't self-assured and perfect, but can take you on a journey of self-discovery.
The journey itself is well put together. The story flows effortlessly. The writing and narrative is smooth and compelling. I have to admit that at one point I did sit there and think OMG! Why did Sophie do that! No no No! Don't do it. I would never...! It's amazing how Isabella Davidson made me look at myself and think wow I am as criticising as the characters portrayed in this book. That one big mistake and we are ready to take out the pitchforks and torches. LOL. Yes our relatable protagonist is flawed just like the rest of us IRL, but we all deserve second chances.
When I chose to read this story it was the cover and the title that enticed me. I didn't want any spoilers so I never read the blurb. I mean the title says it all. The romantic drawing of the Gherkin and Old Bailey with it's blue and purple hues prepare us for our adventure in the chaotic city of London, which contrasts nicely with the calming and peaceful effect of the pale blue background.
Thank you Isabella Davidson for a wonderful story. It is definitely a must read.
May 9, 2017
When I was offered a copy of this to read pre-release I thought why not, and I'm glad that I did!
When Sophie moves to London, from Canada, with her husband in the pursuit of his career little does she know how life was going to turn out for her and their daughter Kaya. Taken away from everything she knows, her friends and her family Sophie finds herself as an outsider, a Beta mum in the land of the Alpha's!
After struggling to make friends at the school gates, and finding herself of the receiving end of stares and comments, Sophie takes herself online and starts a blog documenting the Alpha filled world that she is living in, and the bubble that is Cherry Blossom Nursery where her daughter attends.
Little does she know when she first presses publish, just what the Alpha world has in store for this Beta mom, oops Mum now that she's in London!
This was a really enjoyable book, and I found myself fully identifying with Sophie as he finds herself as a total outsider, and the insight into the Alpha world was thoroughly enjoyable, if at times totally out of this world.
Anyone who has had the PTA experience will relate to many of the larger than life characters, and can probably even add new names.
A great debut book from Isabella Davidson, and I hope it will be the first of many.
When Sophie moves to London, from Canada, with her husband in the pursuit of his career little does she know how life was going to turn out for her and their daughter Kaya. Taken away from everything she knows, her friends and her family Sophie finds herself as an outsider, a Beta mum in the land of the Alpha's!
After struggling to make friends at the school gates, and finding herself of the receiving end of stares and comments, Sophie takes herself online and starts a blog documenting the Alpha filled world that she is living in, and the bubble that is Cherry Blossom Nursery where her daughter attends.
Little does she know when she first presses publish, just what the Alpha world has in store for this Beta mom, oops Mum now that she's in London!
This was a really enjoyable book, and I found myself fully identifying with Sophie as he finds herself as a total outsider, and the insight into the Alpha world was thoroughly enjoyable, if at times totally out of this world.
Anyone who has had the PTA experience will relate to many of the larger than life characters, and can probably even add new names.
A great debut book from Isabella Davidson, and I hope it will be the first of many.
October 11, 2024
1.5 if that. This book is a bit of a clanger all around. I read some of the author’s blog posts and found her quite interesting and snarky. This doesn’t translate into the book at all. The main character is super mopey, neurotic and a downer. The husband comes off as a gaslighting master manipulator (but I don’t think he’s supposed to be that) and the child seems like a fake, personality-less, silent child. The main story is very dull and goes down a bit of a ‘you’ve got mail’ road - except the setting is in 2019 or thereabouts so it makes no sense whatsoever. The weird moralising at the end as well is a bit off-putting. I came for the snarky stories of the crazy alpha mums and got very little of that. Quite dull and clangy.
September 12, 2017
I won a copy of this book in a Goodreads giveaway, thank you. It tells the story of a mum struggling with a move to a new country and new nursery for her daughter. I found the book a little slow at first but it became more amusing as it progressed. I'm sure many people will identify with the situations written about.
July 1, 2017
Very nice, light-feeling read. Great for commutes!
July 5, 2017
Review to follow
February 3, 2018
Could picture it all as we used to live in Notting Hill : )
October 4, 2018
Fun short read if you live in West London and getting ready/ is part of the described community.
December 8, 2021
this book made me want to start a blog. and have a baby.
August 11, 2017
I really enjoyed the Beta Mum, it was one of those wonderful books that you felt as if you knew the characters personally, in fact, they could have quite easily stepped straight out of my world and into the pages of this book.
Sophie was immediately likeable and I could relate to her. I think most of us have at some time in our life felt like Sophie did, lonely and isolated. The blog was her lifeline and it literally did save her. The Beta Mum shows you a glimpse of how addictive and all consuming blogging can be and also how it can so easily go wrong!
The mystery of the anonymous cyberdad kept me turning the pages, as did the need to know if Sophie’s cover is blown. The Alpha Mum’s are very true to life, I was once, many moons ago a nanny and believe you me the the Cherry Blossom Mums definitely brought back some memories for me!
This book is beautifully written, comfortable, familiar and a joy to read. Isabella creates her characters so they jump off the page and make you want to return…often!
This is a great read and one that needs to be added to your TBR pile!
Sophie was immediately likeable and I could relate to her. I think most of us have at some time in our life felt like Sophie did, lonely and isolated. The blog was her lifeline and it literally did save her. The Beta Mum shows you a glimpse of how addictive and all consuming blogging can be and also how it can so easily go wrong!
The mystery of the anonymous cyberdad kept me turning the pages, as did the need to know if Sophie’s cover is blown. The Alpha Mum’s are very true to life, I was once, many moons ago a nanny and believe you me the the Cherry Blossom Mums definitely brought back some memories for me!
This book is beautifully written, comfortable, familiar and a joy to read. Isabella creates her characters so they jump off the page and make you want to return…often!
This is a great read and one that needs to be added to your TBR pile!
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