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Overcome Neediness and Get the Love You Want
ARE YOU A VICTIM OF YOUR OWN GOOD INTENTIONS? Always trying to make your relationship better, but somehow only making your partner withdraw, get upset, or break up with you? Do you work much harder than others to get more from your relationship, but somehow end up with much less? If your answer to these questions is “yes,” you won’t want to miss learning the methods in this book.
HOW DOES YOUR PARTNER SEE YOU? In this practical guide, Marriage and Relationship Coach Jack Ito will help you to see yourself the way your partner sees you so you can begin to become more attractive today. With clear, easy to follow examples of needy and secure behavior, you will be able to begin improving your relationship right away. You will learn how to end the neediness cycle which transforms so many relationships into tragic breakups. You will learn how to become more secure and attractive just by focusing on seven essential behaviors. Single and married people alike will benefit.
IF YOU ARE SINGLE, you can become secure to be able to date people who were previously out of your league, giving you far better prospects for marriage.
IF YOU ARE ALREADY MARRIED, then you can become more secure to restore a closer relationship by helping your spouse to enjoy being with you again.
*Overcome neediness to improve dating success
*Overcome neediness to be more attractive
*Overcome neediness to be less anxious
*Overcome neediness to get your partner to commit
*Overcome neediness to be more socially popular
*Overcome neediness to resolve a relationship crisis
*Overcome neediness to stop being jealous
…And Many More
Learn to help your partner to overcome his or her neediness—even if your partner does not see the need for it.
ABOUT JACK ITO, PH.D.
Dr. Jack Ito (Coach Jack) is a licensed clinical psychologist, who works as a marriage and relationship coach and specializes in reconciling on the edge marriages. He believes that most people divorce not because their relationships can’t be improved but because people don’t know how to improve them. His teaching is based on the principle “when we change the way we relate to others; they change the way they relate to us.” Coach Jack holds a doctorate in clinical psychology from Fuller Theological Seminary Graduate School of Psychology and has over 20 years of experience in the field of counseling and relationship coaching. A former clinical assistant professor of psychology at Geneva College in Beaver Falls, Pa., Coach Jack has also worked with the U.S. Navy, helping Marines cope with post traumatic stress and reconnecting with their spouses, post-deployment. He is the author of four books, “Overcome Neediness and Get the Love You Want,” “What to do When He Won’t Change,” “Connecting Through Yes!” and “Therapy Beyond All Expectations,” published by Loving Solutions Publishing. For more information about Dr. Jack Ito and for free relationship articles, please visit www.coachjackito.com.
HOW DOES YOUR PARTNER SEE YOU? In this practical guide, Marriage and Relationship Coach Jack Ito will help you to see yourself the way your partner sees you so you can begin to become more attractive today. With clear, easy to follow examples of needy and secure behavior, you will be able to begin improving your relationship right away. You will learn how to end the neediness cycle which transforms so many relationships into tragic breakups. You will learn how to become more secure and attractive just by focusing on seven essential behaviors. Single and married people alike will benefit.
IF YOU ARE SINGLE, you can become secure to be able to date people who were previously out of your league, giving you far better prospects for marriage.
IF YOU ARE ALREADY MARRIED, then you can become more secure to restore a closer relationship by helping your spouse to enjoy being with you again.
*Overcome neediness to improve dating success
*Overcome neediness to be more attractive
*Overcome neediness to be less anxious
*Overcome neediness to get your partner to commit
*Overcome neediness to be more socially popular
*Overcome neediness to resolve a relationship crisis
*Overcome neediness to stop being jealous
…And Many More
Learn to help your partner to overcome his or her neediness—even if your partner does not see the need for it.
ABOUT JACK ITO, PH.D.
Dr. Jack Ito (Coach Jack) is a licensed clinical psychologist, who works as a marriage and relationship coach and specializes in reconciling on the edge marriages. He believes that most people divorce not because their relationships can’t be improved but because people don’t know how to improve them. His teaching is based on the principle “when we change the way we relate to others; they change the way they relate to us.” Coach Jack holds a doctorate in clinical psychology from Fuller Theological Seminary Graduate School of Psychology and has over 20 years of experience in the field of counseling and relationship coaching. A former clinical assistant professor of psychology at Geneva College in Beaver Falls, Pa., Coach Jack has also worked with the U.S. Navy, helping Marines cope with post traumatic stress and reconnecting with their spouses, post-deployment. He is the author of four books, “Overcome Neediness and Get the Love You Want,” “What to do When He Won’t Change,” “Connecting Through Yes!” and “Therapy Beyond All Expectations,” published by Loving Solutions Publishing. For more information about Dr. Jack Ito and for free relationship articles, please visit www.coachjackito.com.
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276 pages, Kindle Edition
Published August 11, 2016
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April 4, 2019
Excellent
This book touched me deeply. I am motivated to get my life on the secure path. It tells you everything that you are. I just wish it was more to how to overcome it but if I think about what I actually want and how I want my relationship to be, then I will model and practice according yo the book. This is a huge stepping stone. Great read.
This book touched me deeply. I am motivated to get my life on the secure path. It tells you everything that you are. I just wish it was more to how to overcome it but if I think about what I actually want and how I want my relationship to be, then I will model and practice according yo the book. This is a huge stepping stone. Great read.
July 19, 2019
Great insight
Helped me realize how needy I was and how it has affected him so badly. This book also gave me clear guidance for what to do to be a more secure person - be less selfish and more loving.
Helped me realize how needy I was and how it has affected him so badly. This book also gave me clear guidance for what to do to be a more secure person - be less selfish and more loving.
April 10, 2022
I wish I had read this book many years ago, it's really impressive how one can relate to what doctor Ito writes in this book and even more impressive is how one never notices the wrong things we do in relationships by having a needy behavior. I highly recommend this book.
January 4, 2022
An enlightening book about dating and its history -- for those dealing with it. For one, exclusivity historically was after engagement, but now we do it soon after dating.
March 24, 2022
Good foundational reading
Clear and directive. Views are quite unique to the author. However, some hard and classic truths underpin the philosophy. Good book overall
Clear and directive. Views are quite unique to the author. However, some hard and classic truths underpin the philosophy. Good book overall
January 12, 2025
Eye opening
I was able to really see myself and my lifelong behaviors and how I have created and fed negative behaviors in my closest relationships. I highly recommend this book.
I was able to really see myself and my lifelong behaviors and how I have created and fed negative behaviors in my closest relationships. I highly recommend this book.
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