“Making a film was for him not a display of power and mastery, but rather an act of humility. It did not involve virtuosic arrangement and masterful organization, but patient exploration and tentative discovery. As he himself often said, for his actors, his crew, his viewers, and himself, it was a matter of asking questions to which you didn't know the answers and holding yourself tenderly open, ready to come across new questions at any moment. The work that resulted was an admission of what you didn't know and might never be able to understand. It was not about moving from confusion to clarity - for the actor, the director, or the viewer. Getting lost was the goal - being forced to break your old habits and understandings, giving up your old forms of complacency. The way to wisdom was through not-knowing. The master plot of Cassavetes work - for himself, his actors, his characters, and his viewers - is an antivirtuosic one: to move out of positions of power and control and into places of fear and uncertainty. That is why the narratives themselves are almost always about going out of control. To allow yourself to let go, to lose control, was part of learning anything.”