Quick recap:
Some parts were helpful, some were a bit rambly and not helpful. Overall, an accessible read that would be a good place to start for someone new to the topic.
Notes/thoughts I wrote down as I read:
- I dislike how the book assumes a female readership. “We” as women, “you” as the reader. What if MEN need to know these things too?
- I like her discussion of Strong Helper as a translation of *ezer*
- She says that the line, “it is not good for man to be alone” applies to the male gender - but I would argue that is too specific of a reading. “Man” = humanity, not just men. It is not good for the human to be alone. would be a better translation. (Same word as “let us make man/humanity in our own image” in Genesis 1:26) At the very least, אָדָם -'āḏām - means "mankind/the man." It refers to both. So it is not good for the human, who is a man, to be alone.
- Makes the point that “good” the Bible tells us about is eternal good and communal good - which are both different from our culture’s typical definition of good.
- I really enjoyed her insight on some difficult passages in the Hebrew Bible, particularly Deuteronomy 22, where it is said that if a man rapes a woman, he has to marry her. She carefully details how in that culture, a woman who was no longer a virgin would have lost all dignity and would be unable to find another husband. In their honor/shame culture (she doesn’t use that term tho), rape would ruin her life. By commanding the man to marry her, and pay a dowry, she is given back her honor and status, as well as protection and provision.
- Dinah’s story → Deut 22 → Jesus & the Woman Caught in Adulatory. It traces the arc through the Bible from pain towards redemption. She writes, “There is no condemnation for the sins against us, though many cultures still project shame on victims of such sin. But there is also no condemnation for the sins we have committed. Yet trough it all, Jesus doesn’t normalize sin. His bloody crucifixion shows us the heaviness of the sins you and I have committed against God and others have committed against us. Your sins are forgiven… go, and sin no more.” I've never seen these stories connected before, so I was intrigued by this chapter.
- Women instructed to wear a head covering: shaved & uncovered heads were a sign of a prostitute. So not only would it be a woman appearing to be a prostitute, it would also make it appear that a man had that authority over her as a slave master. But in Christ, wives “submit to your own husbands” - not to anyone else’s husband, and not to a slave master.
- I also liked her emphasis on “husbands are the head of the wife” does not mean that every man has authority over every woman.
- In our Churches and our marriages, this is the kind of leadership toward which God is calling men. It is a servant leadership, in which the leader lays down his life for those under his care.” (190)
- Chapter 10- is God good for Women? She discusses how modern feminism and the Church have split on values, citing abortion as one topic. “The fork in the road seems to center on the concept of independence. Western women’s rights discussions often focus on the fact that woman is an autonomous self and no one can tell her what to do. In the case of abortion, the Supreme Court gave the woman absolute rights over her body… The Bible never supports such independence. Scripture first presents a story of humankind utterly dependent on God. Then it lays a foundation of male and female interdependence. From the first moment man and woman entered the scene - well before the fall of man - they were interdependent. ‘Bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh,’ Adam marveled at the woman.” (192-193) I love this.
- God’s people should uphold the dignity of his image-bearers. They should seek justice for the oppressed. They should be gracious, especially to those without the means to be gracious in return. This is Biblical feminism.