This book is full of wonderful examples of faithful women from the scriptures, some well-known, others less know, but there is much we can learn from each. Here are a few of my favorite quotes:
"We have a stereotype of the man as the protector, but the wife also surrounds, protects, and aids her husband. The spirit and influence of wives and mothers make our homes places where we are surrounded by peace and love and protected from the contention, temptations, and opposition of the world (p. 7)."
"Eve realized that it was better for her and for Adam to pass through the sorrow of mortality that they might know good from evil, understand the joy of their redemption, and receive the blessings of posterity (p. 13)."
"The Lord did not give the commandment to multiply and replenish the earth solely to provide bodies for his spirit children. He also knew that of all the labors a couple share, parenting is the most conducive to unity. Parents simply must work together to be effective (p. 19)."
"Sarah had faith that the Lord would fulfill his promise of children as numberless as the sands of the sea or the stars of the heavens. She waited years for the Lord to grant her desire. Her example gives hope to those who have been promised blessings from the Lord and have yet received them (p. 24)."
"Sarah's portrait gives us strength and inspiration. It reminds us that faith in the Lord and in his counsel is the only sure way of surviving an evil world. It teaches us to make eternity our covering and our rock and our salvation, of the need to be strangers and pilgrims, always seeking that better world and trusting the promise that one day we will find it. 'Patience and faith in the Lord's promises will always bring their fulfillment even though one must wait many, many years,' she seems to whisper. We learn from her that difficult decisions, even painful ones, must be made. Her portrait teaches us that through life's trials and hardships we will be blessed, if we learn to trust in the Lord and patiently wait for his promised blessings (p. 29)."
"The Savior counsels us to not look back to the things of the world we are leaving. If we seek the temporal things of Sodom we shall lose the eternal things of the Lord (p. 33)."
"When we add to a principle, we often diminish from another (p. 37)."
"Holy men need holy women to stand by their sides. Brigham Young taught, 'There is not a young man in our community who would not be willing to travel from here to England to be married right, if he understood things as they are; there is not a young woman in our community, who loves the Gospel and wishes its blessings, that would be married in any the way (p. 39).'"
""We have all seen modern Rebekahs run to draw living water for a Primary or Young Women class. I have watched many of my students leave their studies and graciously draw living water for people of many different countries. Every time we see these modern Rebekahs coming up from the well with their pitchers dripping, we, like Abraham's servant, wonder at seeing such unrehearsed demonstrations of character (p. 41)."
"In Rebekah's willingness to obey the Lord's will, we are reminded of Mary's sweet words, 'Behold the handmaid of the Lord' (Luke 1:38). Her words also echo the Savior's own words in the premortal existence when he said, 'Here am I, send me' (Abraham 3:27) (p. 43)."
"When questions arose in their lives, the women of the scriptures sought counsel. Latter-day Saint women do the same.... Women across the Church, like Rebekah, enquire of the Lord. In his own way and his own time, he answers them (p. 44)."
"A man courts a woman for a short while to win her for time, but he must court her for a lifetime to win her for eternity (p. 52)."
"Many latter-day Rachels hunger for children that they cannot bear. Not all women will have this hunger satisfied in his life, but the Lord will bless them eternally for their desires (p. 54)."
"Shiprah and Puah faced a dilemma discussed again and again throughout history: Should an individual defy government when its commands are repugnant to moral sensibilities (p. 61)?"
"By the Lord's foreknowledge of the natural sympathies of this particular woman, Moses was placed in the safest place in Egypt, Pharaoh's own house. The Lord knew before she was born that she would have compassion upon a crying baby. He knew she would desire to keep the child and rear him as her own. Once again, a woman of compassion defied unrighteous authority to save Moses' life (p. 63)."
"The Lord's daughters, even those who are prophetesses, make mistakes, but they receive correction and repent (p. 65)."
"Deborah stands out as a woman of wisdom and integrity in a time of wickedness and foolishness. 'The children of Israel came up to her for judgment' (Judges 4:5). In the scriptures 'to judge' often means to minister or to serve. Deborah judged her people by drawing upon the spiritual gifts the Lord had given her. Latter-day Saint women also live in an atmosphere of wickedness and foolishness. Deborah is an example to them of the necessity of being filled with the spirit of prophecy, of the testimony of Jesus (see Revelations 19:10), that their wisdom may guide their families, friends, and communities (p. 75)."
"All sisters are given spiritual gifts through the Holy Ghost which enable them to bless the lives of others and contribute to the edification of the Church (see D&C 46:11). Often we are unaware of the power of our gifts, because we do not understand the many ways in which these gifts manifest themselves (p. 76)."
"A lone woman could defeat the mightiest warrior. The theme of the weak defeating the mighty through the help of the Lord is repeated throughout the Old Testament. Jael's story teaches us that one need not be mighty to accomplish the Lord's work or to save her people. Many fought in the battle that day, but the Lord reserved the defeat of the general to a woman at home in her tent. Any woman may win the greatest victories in the spiritual battles against Satan, just as Jael triumphed over Israel's greatest enemy (p. 79)."
"In addition to her discerning spirit, Samson's mother exemplified one of the most treasured aspects of a mother--the desire to rear her children in a manner pleasing to the Lord. She and her husband asked the Lord to 'teach us what we shall do unto the child that shall be born.' When the angel returned, they asked him, 'How shall we order the child, and how shall we do unto him?' (Judges 13:8, 12). What wonderful questions! Many righteous women have petitioned the Lord in like manner. Samson's mother and father were asking this question even before their child was born. The Lord has instructed us, 'Bring up your child in light and truth' (D&C 93:40). If light and truth have not been taught in the early years, it is often too late (p. 82)."
"Unlike Delilah, a righteous woman seeks to know the heart of the man she loves in order to help and support him, not to manipulate and destroy him (p. 85)."
"All of us from time to time have felt like Hannah. She provides a beautiful example of what we can do when we find ourselves troubled with sorrow. In conjunction with her fasting, Hannah took her heart full of grief and poured it out at the feet of the Lord: I 'have poured out my soul before the Lord' (1 Samuel 1:15). There is great relief in openly sharing our sorrows. Hannah chose one of the best possible places to do this at the house of the Lord. Occasionally we hold back some of our grief, bitterness, sorrow, or complaint, because we don't want to appear ungrateful or to accuse or bother the Lord. In the midst of these thoughts, if we listen carefully, we may hear the voice of the spirit whisper, 'The Lord already knows what is in your heart. You do not need to try and conceal it. Lay it at his feet.' The Spirit will help us make the distinction between pouring out our souls to the Lord and murmuring or complaining to him (p. 92)."
"When we desire great blessings from the Lord, it is also appropriate to renew our vows of consecration to him. It is pleasing to the Lord when we acknowledge that we belong to him, and that all we possess is his (p. 94)."
"The eternal purpose of our existence is to become like our Father in Heaven and his Son. Life is designed to help us become like them--perfect. Which experiences best increase love, compassion, mercy, kindness, and patience? Which experiences best focus the need for justice? Suffering creates and enhances those and other needful characteristics. When others sin against us, we learn to forgive and show mercy. When we see others suffer, compassion, empathy, and love are born in our hearts (p. 102)."
"The prophet Alma taught that the controlling, or bridling, of passion fills one with love: 'See that ye bridle your passions, that ye may be filed with love' (Alma 38:12) (p. 114)."
"The portrait of this poor widow teaches us to put the Lord first in our lives and trust his promises. Fulfilling his commandments must be our priority, even when obedience demands sacrifice or tests faith. We must believe and practice the counsel the Lord gave on the day the Church was organized: 'Thou shalt give heed unto all [the prophet's] words and commandments which he shall give unto you as he receiveth them, ...for his word ye shall receive, as if from mine down mouth, in all patience and faith' (D&C 21:4-5). It often takes patience and faith to follow the prophet. The widow of Zarephath reminds us to trust in the Lord's promises (p. 118)."
"The Lord in his goodness and mercy will from time to time renew our faith and silence our fears (p. 120)."
"The Lord often gives us more than we ask. The widow was concerned only with her payment to the creditor, but the Lord provided sufficient for her family to live on (p. 121)."
"Each of us is tested in different ways. I testify that if we live a life of faithfulness, a life of following the prophets in a world where few obey, and if we use what we have, the Lord will multiply it so that we will have sufficient and beyond (p. 122)."
"I am impressed with her words, 'I perceive that this is an holy man of God.' In a society where most could not perceive men of God, she could. Our society, like hers, fails to recognize 'holy men of God.' .... It takes the Spirit to recognize the Spirit in others. Her recognition of a man of God and her willingness to act on that knowledge produced great blessings in her life (p. 123)."
"I have at times received my desires from the Lord only to discover they did not bring the fulfillment I had anticipated. Other times I have been denied what I wanted only to discover the Lord had chosen a better path for me (p. 124)."
"When we look at the portrait of the Shunammite woman, we see one who served without expectation of reward. We are reminded that the Lord will grant us the blessings that will bring us the greatest growth and joy. We see one who perceives when men are holy, desires their company, and goes to them for help with faith and confidence. Hers is a portrait we shall not forget (p. 125)."
"There is a wisdom that teaches and a wisdom that desires to learn (p. 130)."
"We see the strength and loyalty that women often give one another in times of trial (p. 143)."
"Latter-day women often find themselves in a similar position. If they are to save the home, their families, and the foundations of society, they will find themselves increasingly believing and doing things that go against the customs and conventions of their day (p. 144)."
"The virtuous woman is compassionate and charitable (p. 149)."
"When it would be easy to accuse God or doubt his wisdom and love, let us recall the portrait of Job's wife and draw upon our last reserves of trust and faith to endure. Many women have carried tremendous burdens of sorrow and pain and yet continued to love, believe, and serve God when every sing of his presence seemed to have vanished. Their courage and patience witness that Satan's assertion that we love God only when things are going well is not true (p. 156)."
"Of all the images the Lord could have chosen to depict his Church in her glory, he chose this one. The dress itself symbolizes the righteousness of his Saints. The Lord's people, like a bride, desire to be beautiful for him. They array themselves in layer upon layer of righteousness. How wonderful it would be if every member of the Church felt toward the Savior the way a bride feels toward her bridegroom on the day they are united for eternity (p. 163)."
"Many women have a natural capacity to be as thrilled over their sisters' blessings as over their own. This is a godly quality--one we would all do well to emulate. It is a quality that destroys envy, jealousy, and pride. Such women also feel the pains of others as if they were their own (p. 171)."
"Mary not only magnified the Lord but rejoiced in him: 'My spirit hath rejoiced in God my Savior' (Luke 1:47). The purpose of our existence is to be happy. Some try to find happiness without God. Others find only secondary joy in the gospel. Mary rejoiced in the Lord and in his work. She rejoiced in her contribution to it. We can teach our children the joys our Father has prepared for those who love him both now and in eternity (p. 173)."
"When spiritual experiences took place in Mary's life, such as the visit of the shepherds or Jesus teaching in the temple, we read the words, 'Mary kept all these things, and pondered them in her heart' (Luke 2:19, see also v. 51). Mary is a great example of the Lord's counsel to 'treasure these things up in your hearts, and let the solemnities of eternity rest upon your minds' (D&C 43:34) (p. 174)."
"Countless Marys quietly and without attention--and too often without hearing expressions of gratitude--teach, guide, direct, comfort, weep with, and pray for their children, who then grow to live lives of service and dignity (p. 178)."
"It is one thing to be righteous when everything is going right. It is quite another to do so when the greatest desire of your life is denied, when your prayers are not answered even after years of pleading (p. 181)."
"What did Anna choose to do during her years of widowhood? Luke tells us she 'departed not from the temple, but served God with fastings and prayers night and day' (Luke 2:37). Anna's life was a life of service (p. 184)."
"Anna did not keep her joy and gratitude to herself.... She fulfilled Peter's admonition to be 'ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear' (1 Peter 3:15) (p. 185)."
"Many of the women in the New Testament were widowed or unmarried. In an apostate world of unbelief and hostility, their mildness, love, and devotion served as a calm in the midst of the storm encircling Jesus. Their sacrifice and dedication inspire us all and set standards of true discipleship (p. 188)."
"Martha's home was a haven of peace for Jesus in a troubled world. He often visited to rest (p. 189)."
"The portraits of Mary and Martha remind us of the need for balance in our lives. We are invited both to serve and to search out the opportunities to rest at the Savior's feet. That may be difficult, but when we do take the time to rest and refresh ourselves at the Savior's feet, we find our spirits rejuvenated to serve (p. 191)."
"How long had she kept that alabaster box of ointment? It was a gift of great expense, and yet to Mary, I am sure, it was not sufficient to show her love for the Master. The very best she had to offer belonged to the Savior, and she poured out that offering willingly, grateful to show her devotion.... This virtuous woman of Bethany demonstrated what all disciples need to do. Willingly, gratefully, lovingly we must offer our very best (p. 194)."
"With what joy Mary must have run to give the news to the disciples. Her tears had been wiped away (p. 197)."
"When I was a new bishop, I was told to focus my efforts on the youth. Eager to do everything I could for the youth, I planned to put the best teachers in the ward in Young Men, Young Women, and youth Sunday School programs. When the Primary president was told that another one of her teachers was going to be taken from the Primary, she came to see me in my office. With deep emotion, she said, 'Bishop, little children are important, too!' The Spirit bore strong testimony to me of the truth of her words. I love that Primary president for the lesson she taught me (p. 204)."
"President Gordon B. Hinckley expressed the influence of this widow's life on his own: 'I keep on the credenza behind my desk a widow's mite that was given me in Jerusalem many years ago as a reminder, a constant reminder, of the sanctity of the funds with which we have to deal. They come from the widow…and they are to be used with care and discretion for the purposes of the Lord (p. 210).'"
"I cannot adequately express how much admiration I have for this woman of Canaan who refused to be offended either by Jesus' silence or by his words. She simply chose not to take offense. How many of us, if we had endured the Savior's silence or heard his reference to dogs, would have walked away, never to return (p. 212)?"
"There is no more beautiful picture than that of a penitent person doing what she can do to have the stains of her sins taken away. We feel her repentance (p. 216)."
"Neither birth nor position establishes us as citizens in the kingdom of God but rather humility, faith, and a willingness to declare and testify (p. 218)."
"Let us likewise constantly affirm the reality of the presence of living prophets who are among us in this dispensation, even when others doubt and even when others mock (p. 226)."
"The home of Priscilla and Aquila was a center of the Church, and meetings were held there. That would have necessitated some labor, especially on the part of Priscilla. Church members must have gravitated to them and received strength from their testimonies (p. 230)."
"The childlike faith of Abish strikes us deeply (p. 251)."
"Faith sometimes requires the ultimate sacrifice. These Nephite women were willing to pay that price (p. 257)."
"One critical measure of a civilized people is its treatment of women and children (p. 265)."
"The comforting words in Emma's letter produced in her husband a spirit that invited the Lord to reveal to him some of the most loved and beautiful words in latter-day revelation. They were the catalyst for the comfort that only the Lord's spirit can bring. How often did Emma's influence give Joseph the calm he needed to receive inspiration (p. 277)?"
"'Much of the major growth that is coming to the Church in the last days will come because many of the good women of the world...will be drawn to the Church in large numbers. This will happen to the degree that the women of the Church reflect righteousness and articulateness in their lives and to the degree that the women of the Church are seen as distinct and different--in happy ways--from the women of the world (President Spencer W. Kimball, p. 285).’"
“When the virtuous woman delights in her husband and in others, she creates in them a confidence that helps them become all that the Lord desires. This delight brings out the best in those who receive it (p. 287).”
“All of us, men and women, owe a debt of gratitude to the Lord’s daughters…. I have seen God’s majesty and strength in great men I have known and studied. I have seen his purity in the guileless innocence of little children. But it has been in women that I have seen his heart (p. 292).”