4.5/5. Heady but RICH.
"Pastoral work is that aspect of Christian ministry which specializes in the ordinary" (1).
"the work which has to do with the human's relation to God & God's will for the human does not come from knowing more about the times but from knowing humanity--and God...That being the case, we are far more likely to get help from those whose experience has been tested in a variety of climates & cultures, & been demonstrated in the testing to be trustworthy" (2) rather than new behavioral sciences, etc.
"It is essential to stay in touch, almost literally, with the biblical material & pastoral traditions where specific God-person exchanges take place" (6).
"I need encouragement to attend to God with steadfast faithfulness & the patience to immerse myself in the local & the personal. But our society marshals enormous resources & ingenuity to make things happen" (8).
"pastoral work gathers expertise not by acquiring knowledge but by assimilating old wisdom, not by new reading the latest books but by digesting the oldest ones" (10).
"Pastoral work takes place between Sundays, between the first & the eighth day, between the boundaries of creation & resurrection, between Genesis 1 and Revelation 21. Sunday worship establishes the life of the community of faith in & on the word of God; weekday pastoral work unfolds the implications in the ordinary lives of people as they work, love, suffer, grieve, play, learn, & grow in times of crisis & times of routine. Worship calls a congregation to attention before God's words, coordinates responses of praise & obedience, & then sends the people out into the community to live out the meaning of that praise & obedience. But they are not only sent, they are accompanied, & pastoral work is the ministry of that accompaniment. Pastoral work begins at the Pulpit, the Font, the Table; it continues in the hospital room, the family room, the counseling room, the committee room. The pastor who leads people in worship is companion to those same people between acts of worship" (19).
"High on the agenda for the rebuilding of a biblical pastoral work is the acquisition of facility in the idiom of the local, the specific, the personal" (20). T.S. Eliot: "A local speech on a local issue is likely to be more intelligible than one addressed to a whole nation."
Sexuality and prayer "are both aspects of a single, created thing: a capacity for intimacy. Much of pastoral work has to do with nurturing intimacy, that is, developing relationships in which love is successfully expressed & received--shared...Pastors are assigned the task of helping persons develop their everyday relationships in such a way that they discover God's will & love at the center of every encounter" (22-3).
"The word 'salvation' in the course of its biblical usage developed both the sense of 'rescue from destruction' & 'restoration to health'" (28).
"Pastoral work, in large part, deals with the difficulty everyone has in staying alert to the magnificence of salvation...The pastor, working in the midst of the symbols & artifacts of transcendence, is faced, both in himself or herself and among the faithful, with this dangerous drift towards the shoals of nonchalance. Praying, the most personal aspect of life, becomes riddled with cliches, a sure indication that it has ceased being personal" (31).
"The pastor deals with people in the context of the historical & institutional, but always in order to bring about personal, intimate participation in the saving love that is ritualized in the forms of worship & the disciplines of the institution... Pastoral work is a commitment to the everyday: it is an act of faith that the great truths of salvation are workable in the 'ordinary universe'" (32-3).
"Salvation is not an intensification of the ego, the solitary soul deepening into mystical profundities, nor is it an abstraction from the self, an idealization of the personal into some fragment of feeling or thought. Salvation is a personal relationship that is nurtured by the Word that creates & by words that praise" (43).
"Covenant, in effect, means that humanity cannot understand life apart from a defined & revealed relationship with God" (44).
"Life, to be meaningful, must be joined: intimacy is a requirement of wholeness" (46).
"It is not the pastor's job to simplify the spiritual life, to devise common-denominator formulas, to smooth out the path of discipleship. Some difficulties are inherent in the way of spiritual growth--to deny them, to minimize them, or to offer shortcuts is to divert the person from true growth. It is the pastor's task, rather, to be companion to persons who are in the midst of difficulty, to acknowledge the difficulty & thereby give it significance, & to converse & pray with them through the time so that the loneliness is lightened, somewhat, & hope is maintained, somehow" (51).
"Seeking for intimacy at any level--with God or with persons--is not a venture that gets the support of many people. Intimacy is not good for business. It is inefficient, it lacks 'glamour.' If love of God can be reduced to a ritualized hour of worship, if love of another can be reduced to an act of sexual intercourse, then routines are simple & the world can be run efficiently" (53).
"In prayer the desires are not talked about, they are expressed to God. In prayer the difficulties are not analyzed & studied, they are worked through with God" (55).
"There is no clear line separating the conversations that a pastor has with people & the continuation of those conversations in prayer... It means that the conversation in which they have just been engaged will be continued with God as partner to the conversation...for how else will a pastor work at the center as intercessor before God on behalf of the deep desires & the persistent difficulties that concentrate on their force in each person?" (60-1).
"A sense of hurry in pastoral work disqualifies one for the work of conversation & prayer that develops relationships that meet personal needs...the pastor must not be 'busy.' Busyness is an illness of spirit, a rush from one thing to another because there is no ballast of vocational integrity & no confidence in the primacy of grace" (61-2).
"the most important thing a pastor can do for a person is to be grateful to God for that particular person; celebrate with joy the sheer existence of this particular instance of God's creation without regard to moral quality or spiritual maturity" (65).
"A pastor should not complain about his congregation, certainly never to other people, but also not to God. A congregation has not been entrusted to him in order that he should become its accuser before God & men." - Dietrich Bonhoeffer
"his banner over me was love" (Song 2:4). "God's love is an assault on our indifference & a victory over our rebellion" (67).
"Prayers do not calculate their chances by evaluating a person's past; they are awakened to action by the word of promise. Christ's love brings fresh vigor to lives as it announces the springtime of resurrection. Prayer is the place where chill doubts that result from disappointment & failure are dispelled & a warm faith in resurrection love is created" (68).
"The Sinai event is a kind of axle for holding together two basic realities: one, everything God does involves me (election); and two, everything I do is therefore significant (covenant). Because I am chosen, I have consequence. Election creates a unique identity; covenant describes a responsible relationship. Election is the declaration that God has designs upon me; covenant is the description of how the things I do fit into those designs" (78-9).
"Sinai, in short, is a realization that we count & what we do counts" (79).
"Because the Hebrews had this lively sense of story, they did not look upon the covenant, which was, in a sense, the syntax of the story, as a legal burden to be borne; it was evidence, rather, of the significance & interrelated meanings of every detail in history. The Hebrews would no more have considered the covenant ten command ments as a burden in living a life of faith than a person would call nouns, verbs, & prepositions a burden in carrying on a conversation" (81).
Ruth "brings the lofty concept of covenant into vital contact with day-to-day life, not at the royal court or in the temple, but right here in the narrow compass of village life" (Edward Campbell). "For the pastor this is important, for it means that we have a model for taking seriously each person, however obscure, however unimportant, however 'out of it'" (83).
"By taking a storyteller's approach to the outsider, pastoral work is saved from two egregious (but, unfortunately, common) errors, namely, moralism & condescension. Pastoral moralism focuses on what is wrong with the misfit and, by concentrating on the trouble, alienates him or her even further... Pastors are historians, not moralists... Biblical pastoral work 'takes a history' & with that raw material creates a story of salvation" (85-6).
"Pastors are very frequently bored with dull people, irritated with difficult people, & frustrated by incalcitrant people...But if these same persons are approached with the interests & expectations of a storyteller, everything changes. If each parishioner is a key person in a story, everything is alive & interesting. All the details of the day are relevant" (86).
"talking is not the first step in pastoral storytelling. Listening is the first step" (87).
"by taking everyday things in a serious vein, an inner structure is realized in them-- random persons and events are embedded in the structures of salvation history...The pastor begins this work, then, not so much as a storyteller, but as one who believes that there is a story to be told, the curiosity to be attentive to the life of another, & the determination to listen through the apparently rambling digressions until a plot begins to emerge" (88).
"visitation & counseling provide the conditions in which a short story of salvation can be constructed out of the everyday materials that come to light in such conversations" (89).
"Good counseling does not aim to be 'successful,' & has no control over how the newly introduced or uncovered reality will be used. The pastor cannot 'write' the story alone--only collaborate with the other in the writing, & the telling, of it. The pastor participates in the making of a story, not in an adjustment; the primary interest is in getting at usable truth, & then taking the person seriously as an equal so that there is confidence and freedom to be creative with the material. By resisting 'secularization,' that is, refusing to be used apart from or in place of God, the pastor forces the person to deal with God on his or her own" (92).
"The secularization of pastoral visitation takes place when the pastor gives up the uncertain & somewhat modest work of being companion to persons in pilgrimage and takes on the job of public relations agent for the congregation" (e.g. raising money) (93).
"The pastoral visit is not the condescending visit of the superior to the inferior, and not the professional visit of one who has something to one who does not have it. It is an act of collaboration in order to demonstrate the mutuality of the Christian discipleship" (94).
"The pastor doesn't introduce God into anyone's life...The pastor simply calls attention to what is already there" (96).
"The pastor provides in his or her vocation the confidence that the materials for a story are there" (97).
"The pastor can help a person 'get into the story' by assisting in the formulation of complaints, making out list of grievances, clarifying where God has failed to do his part, and drawing up an indictment against him. The pastor doesn't always have to be on God’s side, defending him; there are times when the biblical position is at the plaintiff's side" (99). -> e.g. Naomi
"There are times when the pastor collaborates in storymaking by encouraging persons to step out and speak their own lines...speaking up on one's own and asking for what we want" (102). -> e.g. Ruth
"Pastors are in a position to collaborate in the making of these [wealthy, influential] persons' stories in such a way that they no longer see themselves as a center to which fame, possessions, and power naturally gravitate, but at the center of a circle of responsibilities -> e.g. Boaz
"The biblical revelation neither explains nor eliminates suffering. It shows, rather, God entering into the life suffering humanity, accepting & sharing the suffering" (114).
"Lamentations...functions as a pastoral ministry by dealing with the suffering in such a way as to direct the despair that ordinarily accompanies guilt toward God & not away from him...Any religion that takes seriously God's judgment has the pastoral task of realizing God's mercy, demonstrating in a credible way that judgment and mercy are not opposites but complements. The task of pastoral work is to comfort without in any way avoiding the human realities of guilt or denying the divine realities of judgment" (117).
In Lamentations, the acrostic is used "to guarantee that the griet & despair are expressed completely. The acrostic patiently, & carefully, goes through the letters of the alphabet & covers the ground of suffering. Every detail of suffering comes under consideration... It is important to pay attention to everything that God says; but it is also important to pay attention to everything that men & women feel, especially when that feeling is as full of pain & puzzlement as suffering" (118-9).
"The acrostic form makes certain that nothing is left out, but it also, just as certainly, puts limits upon the repetitions. If there is a beginning to evil, there is also an end to it" (122). e.g., "the simple act of making an appt to return to listen again to the tale of tragedy or sorrow or whatever begins to put boundaries around it. Order begins to infiltrate the chaos of the sufferer in the very prosaic act of making another appt, three to seven days hence...There is some reason initially to listen to persons for as long as they want to talk, but probably not more than once. After that, the conversation should be bound by agreed-upon time. Not because the pastor has so many demands that he or she must schedule the time, but because the sorrow must be bound, placed within limits, told within the scheme" (123-4).
"Names, places, buildings, dates are ways of tethering suffering, holding it within the framework of history. Suffering assumes its place as one among other things. It is not everything. It is not the whole world. It is not an entire history...History is necessary, not to explain, but to anchor" (125-6).
"When a pastor asks, 'What happened?' (after having asked, 'How do you feel?") it is not in order to minimize suffering, or to 'put it in perspective.' It is, rather, to pin it to the actual & so make it accessible to the grace that operates, as we know from biblical accounts, in the historical" (129).
"God's anger, among the Hebrews, was always evidence of his concern" (130). "The moment anger is eliminated from God, suffering is depersonalized, for anger is an insistence on the personal... Our very pain is a sign of God's remembrance of us, for it would be much worse if we were left in ghastly isolation" (131-2).
"God's anger is not incalculable or arbitrary-- it takes place within a clearly defined, well-known structure" (i.e. the covenant) (134).
"Pastoral work joins the sufferer, shares the experience of God's anger, enters into the pain, the hurt, the sense of absurdity, the descent into the depths. It is not the task of the pastor to alleviate suffering, to minimize it, or to mitigate it, but to share it after the example of our Lord Messiah" (135).
"Pastoral work in suffering is like Jacobean wrestling with the angel at Peniel: 'I will not let you go till you tell me your name.' Pastors grapple with the dark assailants & demand they cough up their meaning" (136).
"Pastors have no business interfering with another's sorrow, or manipulating it. Suffering is an event in which we are particularly vulnerable to grace, able to recognize dimensions in God & depths in the self. To treat it as a 'problem' is to demean the person" (139).
"Encouraged by Lamentations, the pastor will have the strength to do far less in relation to suffering, and be far more. Pastors will not give in to the temptation to fix the sufferer & will engage in a ministry that honors the sufferer. Nothing, in the long run, does more to demean the person who suffers than to condescendingly busy oneself in fixing him or her up, and nothing can provide more meaning to suffering than resolute & quiet faithfulness in taking the suffering seriously & offering a companionship through the time of waiting for the morning" (141).
"One of the strategies of pastoral work is to enter private grief & make a shared event of it... response to suffering is a function of the congregation" (142). "When others join the sufferer, there is 'consensual validation' that the suffering means something" (143).
"Since 'no one has seen God at any time' and the pastor is perfectly visible at most times, the expectations that people have of God are often focused the pastor, the bull's-eye for God-targeted expectations... Pastors are in the awkward position of refusing give to what a great many people assume it is our assigned job to give. We are in the embarrassing position of disappointing people in what they think they have a perfect right to get from us. We are asked to pray for an appropriate miracle; we are called upon to declare our us to an an authoritative answer. But our calling equips us for neither. In fact, it forbids us to engage in either the miracle business or the answer business" (150, 152-3).
"The pastor reads Ecclesiastes to get scrubbed clean from illusion & sentiment, from ideas that are idolatrous & feelings that cloy. It is an exposé & rejection of every pretentious & presumptuous expectation aimed at God & routed through the pastor" (155-6).
"The pervasive danger in [pastoral] work is that while developing & encouraging personal relationships with God, the difference between God & humanity is denied & the distance between holiness & sinfulness is obscured" (157).
"That word ['yes'] expresses, perhaps better than any other, the gospel message. God says yes to humanity. Humanity returns the yes. Pastoral work consists in repeating the Gospel yes in every conceivable life situation & encouraging the yes answer of faith" (159).
"...A religion that promises the fulfillment of all needs is thus distorted into a religion that manipulates God for the satisfaction of all wants. When that happens the pastor has to say no" (163).
"We must demonstrate that the trumpet sentence 'in him it is always yes' can only be sounded in a world in which Job's doubt and pain are affirmed, a world in which David's disintegrating family and harassed kingship are accepted, a world in which Peter's denials and bitter weeping are acknowledged--a world of shipwreck and rejection, famine and plague, a world in which Jesus Christ hangs on a cross feeling in every nerve-end the physical and spiritual disorder of a world that says no to God" (164).
"Knowledge of God comes from scriptures proclaimed and obeyed in the community of the people of God...When religious knowledge becomes an impersonal item of information, or is used impersonally, it ceases to be biblical. If it is used to put distance between persons, something has gone wrong. If it is used to put another person in his or her 'place,' then something has gone wrong. If it is used to improve life apart from faith in God, something has gone wrong" (172-3).
"Miracles are evidence that there are dimensions to God that with all our knowledge we have not been able to anticipate" (174).
....and more!