I found this in my local library, remembered it was on the challenged list and decided to give it a read. It's not something I'd give to a pre-teen...it doesn't even seem to be marketed toward that age group. It covers a vast array of topics, many of them very mature and many of them considered very controversial. But it takes a very upfront and honest viewpoint, it avoids making judgements about various activities and is very informative. As a woman, I feel like I learned a lot about male adolescents and how their minds think. This would even be valuable to a teenage girl, so that they might understand that mostly boys think about sex. all. the. time. And that the guy they want to date, he doesn't really just want to hold her hand...