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Why Did You Have to Get a Divorce? And When Can I Get a Hamster? A Guide to Parenting Through Divorce
Definitive advice from the author of the bestselling "Get out of my life" .
Divorce, argues Anthony E. Wolf, does not have to do long-term damage to a child. In his groundbreaking new book, he shows parents how to steer children through the pain and the complex feelings engendered by divorce, feelings that, if not resolved, can create continuing problems for a child. Wolf also explains how to deal with the difficult issues that so frequently accompany a divorce. How do you tell your child about the divorce? How do you keep your children from being caught between you and your ex-partner? What do you do if that other parent gradually fades out of their lives? Or, how do you maintain strong ties with your children if you are not the primary custodial parent? How do you help them cope with new living arrangements, as well as stepparents or stepsiblings?
"Why did you have to get a divorce?" is filled with stories that parents will recognize with relief. Positive, at times even funny, and, above all, effective, this guide will speak directly to divorcing and divorced parents.
Divorce, argues Anthony E. Wolf, does not have to do long-term damage to a child. In his groundbreaking new book, he shows parents how to steer children through the pain and the complex feelings engendered by divorce, feelings that, if not resolved, can create continuing problems for a child. Wolf also explains how to deal with the difficult issues that so frequently accompany a divorce. How do you tell your child about the divorce? How do you keep your children from being caught between you and your ex-partner? What do you do if that other parent gradually fades out of their lives? Or, how do you maintain strong ties with your children if you are not the primary custodial parent? How do you help them cope with new living arrangements, as well as stepparents or stepsiblings?
"Why did you have to get a divorce?" is filled with stories that parents will recognize with relief. Positive, at times even funny, and, above all, effective, this guide will speak directly to divorcing and divorced parents.
- GenresParentingNonfiction
256 pages, Paperback
First published August 20, 1998
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June 12, 2008
The author has example conversations to illustrate points from different situations. I was about half way through the book before I realized that these were not conservations he had actually had during talk therapy with clients; no, he made these conversations up. The conversational examples are often over-exaggerated and trite. Not much help, and that is a large portion of the book.
October 27, 2011
2.5 stars
Has some good bits, but also some lousy suggestions, and nothing that can't be found elsewhere.
Has some good bits, but also some lousy suggestions, and nothing that can't be found elsewhere.
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