As a parent of a child with Autism I tend to read everything I can get my hands on concerning Autism, so when I saw this on Netgalley, in exchange for an honest review, I jumped on it.
There is no parent who doesn't wish their delightful bundle of joy aka a child came with an instruction manual...well, imagine if everything you've even known, heard, or believed about raising a child is then thrown out of the window and challenge after challenge after super-sized challenge gets thrown at you over and over and over again, with family, friends, teachers, doctors, therapists, etc. and even total strangers telling you to do all manner of different things to 'fix' your child - some advice sounds odd, odder, maybe illegal, abusive, useless, reasonable, but mostly, confusing - would you do just about anything for an instruction manual then?
That's what raising a child with Autism feels like, except there's no way to describe it...everyday you start at the top of the highest roller-coaster in the world, then before you can even splash some water on your face the roller-coaster plunges down, then up, then down...except instead of having fun, you just get the terror of wondering if the whole thing is going to go off the rails and you don't know if you actually know how to stop it.
This will, of course, start again the next day, and every day, or often, if you're as tired as you think you could be, it will even start during the night, after all, why not?
The weirdest part, is that you love your child with all your heart and soul and mind, and all you can think when that roller-coaster plunges again is, how can I help my beautiful, amazing, brilliant child express all the wonder that's inside him so he can be happy and reach his potential, which leads parents like me to books like this.
I can't say this book is an instruction manual for your child with Autism, after all, each child with Autism, like each child and person, is unique, but this has excellent, practical, non-judgmental (you have no idea how welcome that is), doable advice to deal with the day to day challenges. All I can say is, thank you, Kate and I've got to go, the roller-coaster is about to plunge down again.