Emily Nemens’s Clutch follows a group of five friends as they navigate the biggest challenges of their lives, When you’re hanging on by your fingernails, how can you extend a hand to the ones you love?
As undergrads, Gregg, Reba, Hillary, Bella, and Carson formed the kind of rare bond that college brochures promise—friendship that lasts a lifetime. Two decades later, the women are spread across the country but remain firmly tethered through their ever-unfurling group chat. They’ve made it through COVID and childbirth and midcareer challenges, but no one can anticipate what’s coming down the pike.
The five women converge on Palm Springs for a long overdue Gregg, who has forged a path as a progressive Texas legislator, is facing a huge decision about her political future. Reba, who moved back to the Bay Area after decades away, is deep in IVF treatments while caring for her aging parents and navigating a San Francisco she hardly recognizes. Hillary's medical career in Chicago is going great—but at home, her husband's struggles with addiction have derailed their life. In New York City, Bella faces the biggest case in her career as a litigator while her home life crumbles around her, and across the river in Brooklyn, Carson is working on a new novel as well as forging a possible relationship with the father she's never met.
Twenty years into their shared friendship, the stakes are higher than ever, and they must help one another reconcile professional ambition with personal tumult. Clutch is a big, beautiful, and deeply absorbing novel that asks how much space and heart we can give to our friends and our families, and what space we can save for ourselves.
Emily Nemens’s debut novel, The Cactus League, was a New York Times Book Review Editors’ Choice and named one of NPR’s and Lit Hub’s favorite books of 2020. Her stories have appeared in BOMB, The Gettysburg Review, n+1, and elsewhere; her illustrations have appeared in The New Yorker and in collaboration with Harvey Pekar. Nemens spent over a decade editing literary quarterlies, including leading The Paris Review and serving as co-editor and prose editor of The Southern Review. She held the 2022–23 Picador Professorship (University of Leipzig) and teaches in the MFA program at Bennington College. She lives in central New Jersey with her husband and dog.
This is a big-hearted, clear-eyed novel about five women—Reba, Hillary, Carson, Gregg, and Bella—who’ve known one another long enough to finish each other’s sentences and still be shocked by what the next season of life demands. Nemens builds a whole ecosystem of work, love, caregiving, ambition, and regret, then throws a reunion in Palm Springs like a match into dry grass. From there, she follows each woman across cities and crises—a politician weighing power and principle, a doctor holding a marriage together while addiction razes the foundation, a lawyer chasing a career-defining case as the home front splinters, a writer reaching for the page and a parent she’s never had, and a daughter juggling IVF with elder care. The book keeps asking the question that undoes me: when your own fingernails are barely hanging on, how do you still reach for your people?
What dazzled me most is the precision: scene to scene, Nemens slides between perspectives with the confidence of a director who knows every blocking mark. The observations are knife-clean but generous—smart without sneer, tender without treacle. The group dynamic rings painfully true: the splintering into duos and trios, the micro-alliances, the unspoken tallies, the way one phone buzz can reroute a day. It’s also refreshingly honest about trade-offs: how “having it all” often means “holding too much,” and how friendship can be the clutch—both the grasp and the mechanism—that keeps the engine from stalling. If you love contemporary fiction that respects adult complexity (careers, money, health, politics, parenting, desire) and still believes in joy, this is your lane.
Tiny quibbles? With five voices, the on-ramp takes a couple chapters to settle (worth it), and a thread or two lingers in a purposeful gray that invites discussion. But the cumulative effect is immersive and deeply human. I closed the book feeling wrung out in the best way and weirdly hopeful—like I’d watched five separate storms blow through and leave a clearer sky.
Verdict: absorbing, thoughtful, and emotionally aerobic. Perfect for readers who crave character-driven storytelling with real stakes, real consequences, and a sincere belief that friendship—imperfect, evolving, stubborn—still saves us.
A very huge thanks to NetGalley and Zando | Tin House for sharing this meaningful, beautifully written women’s fiction digital reviewer copy in exchange for my honest opinions.
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Well I can breathe a sigh of relief now that's over. I'm afraid this book simply wasn't for me despite thinking the premise sounded interesting.
Five college friends get together for a weekend. They have been friends for twenty years but this year will bring more challenges and shocks than they have dealt with for a long time. Gregg is unhappily pregnant and wanting to run for Congress; Reba is desperate to become pregnant and worried about her ageing parents; Hillary is dealing with her estranged husband's drug addiction; Carson has just sent her latest novel to her agent but has heard nothing back; and Bella is running on empty dealing with two young children, a selfish husband and with a big trial to prepare for. Whilst the women are always "there" for each other their own lives will be tested to breaking point.
I am afraid that I found each of the women incredibly unlikeable and didn't warm to any. They all seemed incredibly privileged, one way or another (except perhaps Hillary) but none of them appreciated their good fortune. I have to confess to being somewhat sympathetic to the men in their lives and yet really quite irritated with the women for taking the consequences of their past decisions lying down.
I confess to having yelled at this book quite a lot and also speed reading quite lengthy sections towards the end.
Not my cup of tea at all.
Thankyou to Netgalley and Zando Projects for the advance review copy.
I grabbed this because it's the latest from Tin House press. I've enjoyed their releases over the years, mostly litfic with a subversive edge. I grabbed this book, expecting to find something different and maybe a little experimental.
I didn't enjoy it though. And I found out in my research that the Tin House I knew closed five years ago. Just recently, the imprint was purchased. So, new editors, and thus new, more mainstream direction.
This book is like a weird combination between Ducks, Newburyport and an elder millennial version of Mary McCarthy’s The Group. I liked both of those books, and I imagine this one will likely be appreciated and respected as well. But while it was all perfectly competent enough, it just wasn’t quite for me.
I really liked a LOT of this book’s features: sort of epic (and it’s pretty long), intertwined stories of a friend group’s members coming of age and relationships over time, from college to midlife, coping with family, interpersonal, and career challenges and other life problems and stressors, all related in a stream of consciousness-style narration with alternating character perspectives. However, I struggled to invest in the book or connect with its characters, or to generally feel like I had some significant stake in its offerings.
Some of this may be due to factors other reviewers have mentioned, including some reliance on heavily written metaphor, weird occasional extended use of the pluperfect tense, unlikeable characters who seem pretty privileged and entitled, and lack of diverse character rep overall. But it’s hard to put my finger on exactly why this book wasn’t a good fit. As other reviewers have suggested, it just landed kind of oddly with me.
I think one major barrier is that when compared with many similar books — Meg Wolitzer’s The Interestings is a favorite that comes to mind — this one doesn’t quite hold up. There are an awful lot of books like this, and I’m afraid the point of this particular one was lost on me. Yet I think it’s a fine enough book, and this well may be a matter of taste or timing. I remember the author’s preceding novel was commended by many.
I should mention that there is some animal cruelty that I could have done without, but it seems like this turned out okay in the very end.
Thank you so much to the author, NetGalley, and Zando/Tin House for the ARC. Clutch is due out on February 3, 2026.
Unfortunately I have to dnf this at 20%. I find it very hard to remember who is who, and I dislike the narration style. There is a lot of text in past perfect tense, giving you pieces of backstory of a character during the current scene, which is in past simple tense, it was kind of exhausting to read. I think I could have followed this better if we first established each character and their backstory separately, then entered the current events. As it is, I can't get invested in the characters and keep zoning out of the storyline.
This was a great book! I love books that follow friendships over several decades. It’s so relatable with the issues they’re all trying to navigate. Also very relevant given that it covers Covid and beyond to current times. As their lives ebb and flow, they try to lean on each other. I loved the character development and the relationships between the friend group. This is a book I will always treasure.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
4.25 stars. Five women, Harvard alums—best friends since college and now in their forties, embark on a trip to Palm Springs for an intimate gathering to share the tea on the last two decades. Clutch felt realistic, and am happy to find inside these pages is a beautifully written story praising friendship and womanhood through life’s challenges of career, motherhood, troubling relationships, addiction, love and marriage.. all as it flows through varied emotions of grief, pain and joy. You feel moved by their distinct connection to one another, and are shown the individuality of each woman. Fantastic story. Pub. 2/3/26
Many thanks to NetGalley and Zando // Tin House for an advance reader’s copy. All opinions are my own.
This book about a group of 5 women friends and their ties to each other since college, and now as they are turning 40, reads like a frenetic stream of consciousness. Sometimes the narrator switched from one paragraph to another as the intertwined stories careened along.
Millennials will relate to all the angst of parenthood and infertility and “having it all” and making one’s mark in whatever profession you’ve chosen or rejected.
The men in the story are albatrosses and sometimes shockingly cruel.
The end left me reeling and I was relieved to step off this wild ride.
Thank you to NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for my honest review.
A beautiful mediation on friendship told in a kaleidoscopic, wide ranging omniscient POV. Immediately you're plunged into the worlds of all five friends, simultaneously and continuously dipping in and out of their lives as they process the chaos of being in their forties.
Dense at times, and definitely some chapters that were there for texture and color- Nemens is a great writer who created five swirling lives for the reader to immerse themselves in and ponder the meaning of connection across decades.
I really tried to get into this book. I read up to 40% but I just found the characters so bland and uninteresting. I received an ARC from the publisher and Netgalley. I am sorry but this book just did not hold my interest.
3.5 need to unpack why dislikable characters affected my reading experience more than normal here. But one line made me cry, so obviously something clicked. The men in this book, oof.
Friendship is a vital part of our lives, and its scope changes dramatically as we do. As our obligations and social structures evolve, our bonds do, too. That's the focus of this novel, centering on five women who were close in college and are still bound by time, shared experience, and of course love.
Structurally, I FELT the passage of time, and that was periodically a barrier. Mimicking actual life, there are moments that seem to really slow and get a lot of attention and detail and others that fly by. From a reader's perspective, this can pose challenges with engagement. Additionally, there are one to two too many friends in this group. As is always the case when dealing with either a family or friend structure like this, some characters are more compelling than others. I did have a hard time keeping some of them straight and being equally concerned with each character's outcomes. Often, I thought I'd have enjoyed getting to know a smaller group better versus the diluted version with an extra (IMO) character or two.
This is the kind of book that hits right at a certain age and experience. Folks who have gone through multiple seasons of life and through associated friendship transitions will appreciate the way those details are handled and modeled here. At the same time, they may also struggle - as I did - with the long journey.
I enjoyed this read overall and will look forward to more from this author.
*Special thanks to NetGalley and Tin House for this arc, which I received in exchange for an honest review. The opinions expressed here are my own.
Clutch is the story of 5 friends from college, all women who are at and around 40, dealing with the life of it all. They have spouses or don't, have kids or don't, and struggle to make time to catch up. The book starts with the crew taking a trip to Palm Springs together, and what happens there? A lot of nothing, for chapter upon chapter upon chapter.
But at the start of the book, I thought, this writing is kind of fun. It's very flowery, but sort of inside-the-head and giving what seems to be soundness to each character. It never stopped, though. The flowery language just kept going, frustrating me as whole chapters would go by, circling the drain of the story, then finally hitting maybe like a sentence's worth of action. And then boom, it was time for the next chapter, and half the time it would change characters, locations, and context. It became an infuriating read by the end, and I only finished it because I wanted so badly to know there was a reason for the story.
There was not.
The moral of the story is that men suck? Women suck? Don't hitch your wagon to anything because it will inevitably fall off? I think it was meant to be an ode to realistic friendship, but it struggled to even show that these women were friends, save a few instances of individual friendships, not as a whole group of five. The final scene was maybe the best scene of friendship and even it INFURIATED me.
In conclusion, at least this book made me feel something, I'll give it that. Unfortunately, that feeling was deep dislike.
Clutch by Emily Nemens is a sprawling novel that details the lives of five women who have just turned 40, having been best friends since college. It was laconic, gorgeous writing; I was grateful to have a long plane ride to plow through Clutch because otherwise it would have taken me a week. The story grabbed me, I loved the characters, and yet, it moved slowly.
I found Nemens’s writing remarkable: the way she can tell what’s happening for multiple characters simultaneously in any given moment felt unique and skillful. A small example: “(Some of the women thought this was the ultimate settled, while others considered it settling … that wee gerund bore so much judgment.)”
And it’s not lost on me that part of why this book rang so true is life stage. These women turned 40 the same year as me. Their twenties were filled with the same cultural moments as my own. Their 40s, the same (now-ish).
Gregg is a Texas politician, a la Wendy Davis, championing for reproductive rights while married to an Elon Musk lookalike. Carson is a novelist, who isn’t exactly successful or unsuccessful, but hopes to hit it big with book 2. Bella is a lawyer at a cutthroat firm, but her pregnancy history and time as a mother have made it hard for her to make a name for herself. Reba, independently wealthy and already retired, is aiding her aging parents in the Bay Area while working overtime to become a mother. And Hillary, a physician and mother married to a drug addict.
After not seeing each other as a quintet for years, they get together in Palm Springs. It’s lovely and bittersweet. They’re the same and not. And so they make a commitment to see each other more, not realizing how soon life will spiral for each of them, requiring a lot more face time than anyone could have imagined. This also rang true for me, as one of my best childhood friends had an analogous experience to one of the characters this year, pushing us together across thousands of miles three times in close succession.
Overall, I loved Clutch and now want to read Nemens’s other work. It was long, happy, hard, sad, victorious, and ultimately, worth it. I’ll be thinking about these characters for a while.
Highly recommended. Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Some favorite passages: “But there is cognizance, and there is self-regulation, and sometimes, despite the former, her bossiness still showed up like a flash of gold in the back of her mouth.”
“‘Why do you think Tim Cook created that screen time report?’ “To make us feel inadequate anew, Bella thought.”
“That algorithm knew her so well. Better than Bill, anyway…”
“‘Live shooter training,’ Gregg said, adding that everyone in the capitol complex had to do it, along with modules on sexual harassment and anticorruption. Gregg spat into the sink before she continued. ‘I know how to identify nepotism and avoid getting stabbed in the neck.’”
“Of course Reba had regrets. They all did, and more would invariably come. Steering clear wasn’t the project, it was accepting them and finding ways to make them productively dissipate. Theirs was a long-term project of regret management, supporting one another as each tried to control her remorse like it was the water level on some persnickety reservoir. They each had access to a series of spigots, inflows and out-, and had to factor in evaporation. That they might have total control of their emotional lake was as likely as claiming the control of nature, which was unattainable…”
“That getting high did not make him happy, but he could not be happy when all he thought of was his next score?”
“Bella gathered their mail from the mail room: a package (a pair of sneakers, another Instagram impulse buy; it was remarkable what she could purchase on days when it felt like she was too busy to chew, much less swallow)…”
Thank you to Zando for providing this ARC for review consideration via NetGalley. All opinions are my own.
Clutch by Emily Nemens is a contemporary fiction story about five friends-since-college in their second decade of friendship. All hovering around forty, they’re a decidedly elite group of politicians, litigators, ENT physicians, and talented yet underexposed writers. The book follows a pivotal six-month or so period in their lives as they all grapple with challenges that test, strengthen, and define their friendship.
There’s a phrase in creative writing that gets thrown around “murder your darlings.” An author that treats their characters with kid gloves is no fun, being the point. While Nemens “darling” may make it to the end of the book alive, they are far from unscathed. A litany of blows reigns down on the women from every direction. While not EVERY one of these miseries springs forth from a man, a sure lot of them do. Whether it’s from perimenopause, mental health, or their aging parents, these women know no peace. If you don’t enjoy a book in which there’s no respite from miniature tortures, this could be something off putting. However, if you’ve got the stomach for a book that leaves you thinking “dear GOD, NOW WHAT?” Then this is the exact sort of quotidienne sadism you may enjoy.
And yet, there’s one issue from this book that made it somewhat off putting to me. Despite failed marriages and tanking libidos, these women are all either white or their racial makeup is unimportant and wealthy. Even Carson, the “poor” character is a starving artist. Her rent, while split, is paid, and she has the ability to change her social situation if she wasn’t singlemindedly dogged in pursuit of artistic purity. Is it realistic that five women in their early forties who graduated from an elite college would go on to being either wealthy or very successful? Sure. But at times there felt like there was a donut hole or blindness towards the relative ease and wealth these women lived with. Sure some had absentee parents, but they also could afford in home child care, cocktails at the Met, and advanced degrees.
This book is well written. The friendships are structured in a way that are both tender and fraught with human error. The stories are relatively gripping, which can be a difficult balancing with five main characters. As far as my personal opinion is concerned, it was a difficult rating to achieve. I didn’t dislike the book, and if fact finished it quite quickly. But I didn’t love it. I didn’t feel myself motivated to emotionally connect with a billionaire’s wife or a slick corporate lawyer. I think it’s well written, but it simply wasn’t a selection I’d make again. 3/5 with the recommendation that for someone in search of a realistic story of female friendship this may be much more your speed.
Five women become friends and we see their friendship through marriages, children, midlife, and more.
This was an interesting take on female friendships and one that was a bit hard to get into. It's definitely literary fiction as you go through the ups an downs of their lives, there is no real plot other than their own life dramas.
The women are really hard to like, at first. They are privileged and competitive and seem to only hold onto the friendship to have someone to compare lives with (and make themselves feel better). It was nice to see them age and get older and really start to grow and become better people and friends, especially as they got to know themselves better. It was a bit of a slow read and one that I struggled to stay engaged with. Just wasn't my cup of tea.
A huge thank you to the author and publisher for providing an e-ARC via Netgalley. This does not affect my opinion regarding the book.
A women's fiction novel about lifelong friendship. I really liked the characters and their stories. The storeylines were relatable. The book sucks you in and is such an easy read.
3.5/5. This was a nice, character-driven novel about what happens to friendships in the years after college. I thought the intersections the characters had were really beautiful, and I liked how much of each person's backstory we got.
That said, it was a bit hard for me to get through. I found myself getting a bit bored at parts, and I think there were times that were frustrating in terms of the characters' communication. Overall though, this was a very solid novel and I'd recommend it to those interested in female friendship novels.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC in exchange for my honest review.
Thanks for the opportunity to read a review copy. Unfortunately, despite the promising premise, I had a difficult time following the story and remembering which character was which. In frustration, I DNFd the book, but trust it will find its audience.
Maybe it's because I'm the same age as the women in this book (along with most of my friends) so it resonated, but I really enjoyed this book. I loved the characters and how different they all are, but how they've remained friends all these years. I loved how texting was the thread that that connected all the chapters and connected the women together and I just loved their storylines. I thought it was so rich and engaging. I'll admit that I do think it is probably not for everyone and I could see how some people would find these women "unlikeable" but I found them complicated and difficult, which is real! Women are complicated and difficult at times. It was raw and real and I felt like I was a member of this group of friends by the end.
I really enjoyed that—what an ending! It really is, as the blurbs say, an elder-Millennial version of The Group. Emily Nemens can really paint a picture.
Almost immediately, I could tell this novel was not for me. I have read stream of consciousness writing before, but it is always a bit of a slog. When combined with characters that are unsympathetic, it became hard to continue. This may get many plaudits from critics. I just did not care for it.
This was an absolute grower of a story. At first, I wasn’t fully sold. I thought the women were self-absorbed, and the narrative style wasn’t necessarily working for me. Until suddenly it did. Suddenly the friendship shone through, and it hit beautifully. I love the way this group (or at times segments of this group) support and show up for one another. The acknowledgment that friendships ebb and flow with life changes and chaos. It’s a very real depiction of adult friendship (Reba literally yelling at the group that she just wanted one day back with her friends who cared about things other than the consistency of their kids’ crap = relatable af). The men were pretty uniformly awful, the women won me over. Ladies rock. 3.75 ⭐️
Thanks to NetGalley and Zando for the opportunity to read this ARC!
Thank you to Net Galley and the Publishers for the ARC !
Clutch is a layered story about friendship over the years, full of tension, hurt, and the beauty of sticking together. Nemens shows that friendship isn’t always safe—it’s messy, full of cracks, repair, and tenderness.
That said, this book wasn’t for me. I couldn’t keep the characters or plot straight, and even the bigger events felt distant. I could see the story was strong, but I just couldn’t care enough about the characters’ lives. I really wanted to like this book more.
I loved this character driven beautifully written novel that examines and explores much to reflect on while reading as Literary Fiction often can be relied upon for its depth. Some readers found this difficult to relate to because they didn't like the characters which for me as an older reader admit that there's a theme among them being affluent for the most part. I could tell right within the first few pages that this new to me Author, EMILY NEVENS wrote from the expertise of highly sophisticated style that signified to me that this was going to be a narrative that I was going to love. I was rewarded by a reading experience of, "CLUTCH, by my instincts proven correct by her masterful approach that followed from beginning to end. I'm still thinking about these intriguing relationships that were so well developed that linger about five women who met in College, and how often those connections stay with us as we carry those friendships into our future. That's the case with these five women who have stayed in touch for two decades with them sharply distinctive making them easy for me to keep their initial appearance of some in this quintet having achieved various success at one aspect of their respective lives. The very heart of the story that upon closer examination of each of these five friends who decide to gather together in Palm Springs reveals that what some have accomplished that on the surface some have as the novel depicts would be that each individual has underlying issues that everything is not what it seems. While they are younger than I am they reminded me to be Millennial's who came of age during the millennium that navigated their way through the earlier digital era with the early period of the Internet or the early social media which it's impossible to deny since the very beginning of the novel there's a am example of their communication through a Group Chat. They are also associated with their generation with Millennial also comes to mind which are also referred to as Generation Y, or Gen Y They are mentioned as surviving COVID which didn't we all, but they are to have experienced other significant historical events such as 911, and the Great Recession which I thought influenced how I gathered what caused their widely original life circumstances which ranged from varying degrees of vocations, relationship status, living arrangements, etc. For example: one being an Ear, Nose, and Throat specialization doctor, one a lawyer, one being a writer, one in Texas Politics, some married with children, with serious problems. Crumbling marriages, imploding careers, the messiness of life takes place with both realism, but ultimately hopeful since there's sharp humor so I never felt this was too heavy. The last time these five women were all together was four years ago, when celebrating a baby shower. Two of these five best friends are still in New York that gives them the opportunity to meet much more often. Even though the other three are further away what struck me was their generation had it harder financially than the previous generation, but the current one has it harder than all the previous ones. I was also struck with how technologically savvy they are when the author goes back in forth in time within the same pages providing their backstory. I think that I admired this author's sophisticated writing prowess, it is not going to be appreciated by the wider audience of readers. While the Author, Emily Nevens wrote a captivating narrative, and I marveled at her fantastic vocabulary I was shocked that when I posted my review to see that there were only one reviewer friend agreed with my rating. The Author does provide a thoughtful and helpful chart in the beginning, my biggest piece of advice to future readers to enjoy this Exquisite superbly crafted novel named "CLUTCH," is to take a few minutes to familiarize yourself with that chart, since it will be informative of all five friends, and their associated side characters, Reba, Hillary. Carson, Bella, and Gregg. The writing is incisive, razor sharp, and incredibly witty. Ultimately this should resonate with most women that is enjoyable and entertaining that delivers how much as to paraphrase another author that I agree with which there's plenty of dysfunction that this author writes both from a pen that contains both the poison, and the antidote in equal measure. Most women are innately nurturers, but as much as we love our inner circle we must hold a space for ourselves.
Publication Date: February 3, 2026
Thank you to Net Galley, Emily Nemens, and Zando--Tin House for generously providing me with my ARC, in exchange for a fair and honest review. All opinions are my own, as always.