The Uncomfortable Truth

by Gayton McKenzie

‘I am not a love guru. I am the guy love gurus
have been trying to figure out.’


Gayton McKenzie knows a thing or two about women.


But what he could never quite understand was how reluctant so many women seem to be to face up to the uncomfortable realities about men, themselves and their relationships.


Not knowing and accepting these ‘truths’ can get women into deep trouble, cause heartache and result in even greater damage. Because a woman who accepts a man’s obvious lies – or lies to herself about the kind of man she’s with and the kind of relationship she’s in – will always get hurt.


Gayton McKenzie has young daughters. This is the book he would want them to read – to warn them against the kind of man he has so often been himself.


As Gloria Steinem once said: ‘The truth will set you free,
but first it will piss you off.’


So what you will read in this book may be uncomfortable. But it will make you ask the hard questions about yourself ... and men. It will also sometimes make you laugh and ultimately give you hope that you can find the love you really need and the love you truly deserve.

Genres: Self Help

ebook

First published November 2, 2014

About the author

Gayton McKenzie is a South African politician and businessman.

Reviews

[Ame · Rating 2 out of 5]

I'm a bit half and half with regards to this novel, so I rate it 2.5

[Thabisile Kubeka]

Interested to wthe truth which is uncomfortable!

[Logi Naidoo · Rating 4 out of 5]

The book offers "food for thought."
Some topics did resonate with me (reminded of people) who went through some of his "Uncomfortable Truth"
Just my personal observation - one should read the book open-minded. At times, I debated his reasoning on issues.
Sharing my book with friends for some good discussions in the future

[Kamogelo · Rating 1 out of 5]

"Uncomfortable Truth" is a masterpiece of uncomfortable truths, forcing readers to confront the harsh realities of our world. Gayton's writing is both brutal and beautiful, making this book an unforgettable read. If you're willing to face the uncomfortable truth, this book is a must-read.

[Lerato Jaca · Rating 4 out of 5]

Quite a nice book, give it to your daughter to read whilst she is still in high school.
Many things though are based on the author's opinions

[Dineo]

**Warning: this text may contain spoilers** His friends

[Sbusiso Dlamini · Rating 5 out of 5]

Gayton tells the truth as it is .

[Petros Dube · Rating 5 out of 5]

good

[Monique Plaatjies · Rating 5 out of 5]

I have heard so much about this book and I really want to read the book.I think it will make me understand more about myself I'm I true to myself.

[Simon Mabena · Rating 5 out of 5]

So good

[Ruth Molawa · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good

[Lorraine · Rating 4 out of 5]

Gayton's greatest wish for his daughters is "...love truly. And be truly loved". THAT is the essence of this book.

Very informative. I wish I'd come across it in my twenties. On the other hand, learning from first hand experience is the mother of all lessons.

To all the ladies out there, this here is your bible. All there is to know about players, gold digging, meeting the parents, dealing with baby-mammas and supporting your FUNemployed guy and everything in between.

A fun read. Roused a few chuckles. A few "Aha" moments and a few quizzical eyebrows. Well written from the heart.

4 stars.

[Kamo Mosia · Rating 2 out of 5]

Written as raw as we have come to know the author to be...this one I will recommend to my younger sisters and brothers who are just finishing high school, who are in tertiary or who are just starting to work, pearls of relationship wisdom for them. Most appropriate for newbies in the relationship circles. It made me cringe most of the time because of how raw it was written, as it challenged my sometimes conventional self...Otherwise.. not for over 30's..

[Lebogang Madise · Rating 4 out of 5]

This was my first book by Gayton McKenzie, I enjoyed the book, was an eye-opener in some areas but more than anything I love the fact that it was well structured, he clearly communicated his thoughts and advice to the reader in a way that one would feel that they're getting fatherly advice in person.

I recommend it for people who what to figure out how some guys think when it comes to relationships.

[Ntombezinhle Nzama · Rating 5 out of 5]

well written, simple and straight to the point! things one needs to hear as a woman from the man's perspective...thank you Gayton for the Uncomfortable Truth

[Kagiso · Rating 3 out of 5]

I'm hoping to learn as much as I can about relationships and men, more especially after breaking up with a serial cheater whom I stayed with for over 6 years...

[Cynthia · Rating 5 out of 5]

would it read it again & again