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The Heart of the Amish: Life Lessons on Peacemaking and the Power of Forgiveness
Everyone has been hurt. Everyone experiences conflict, great and small. Everyone has someone to forgive. But sometimes we just can't bring ourselves to forgive someone who has wronged us or we don't take the need to forgive seriously--not like the Amish do. Forgiving others in order to live at peace is woven into the very fabric of their faith. To the Amish way of thinking, "You can't love the stream without knowing the source. " We must forgive others, they believe, because God forgave us.
"The Heart of the Amish" invites readers into the world of a people renowned for their ability to forgive. Through true stories gathered from a variety of Amish communities, bestselling author Suzanne Woods Fisher illustrates how they are able to release their pain and desire for revenge, and live at peace with others. Her in-depth, personal research uncovers the astounding yet fundamental way the Amish can forgive anyone from the angry customer at the grocery store to the shooter at Nickel Mines. Readers will learn how to invite God into "their" stories, apply lessons from the Amish to their own circumstances, and find the freedom that comes with true forgiveness.
"The Heart of the Amish" invites readers into the world of a people renowned for their ability to forgive. Through true stories gathered from a variety of Amish communities, bestselling author Suzanne Woods Fisher illustrates how they are able to release their pain and desire for revenge, and live at peace with others. Her in-depth, personal research uncovers the astounding yet fundamental way the Amish can forgive anyone from the angry customer at the grocery store to the shooter at Nickel Mines. Readers will learn how to invite God into "their" stories, apply lessons from the Amish to their own circumstances, and find the freedom that comes with true forgiveness.
192 pages, Paperback
First published April 28, 2015
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About the author
Suzanne Woods Fisher
73 books3,976 followersSuzanne Woods Fisher is the bestselling, award winning author of fiction and non-fiction books about the Old Order Amish for Revell Books, host of the radio-show-turned-blog Amish Wisdom, a columnist for Christian Post and Cooking & Such magazine.
Her interest in the Amish began with her grandfather, who was raised Plain. A theme in her books (her life!) is that you don’t have to “go Amish” to incorporate the principles of simple living.
Suzanne lives in California with her family and raises puppies for Guide Dogs for the Blind. To her way of thinking, you just can't life too seriously when a puppy is tearing through your house with someone's underwear in its mouth.
Suzanne can be found on-line at: www.suzannewoodsfisher.com
Her interest in the Amish began with her grandfather, who was raised Plain. A theme in her books (her life!) is that you don’t have to “go Amish” to incorporate the principles of simple living.
Suzanne lives in California with her family and raises puppies for Guide Dogs for the Blind. To her way of thinking, you just can't life too seriously when a puppy is tearing through your house with someone's underwear in its mouth.
Suzanne can be found on-line at: www.suzannewoodsfisher.com
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May 1, 2015
I will be honest in that when I received this book I was unsure of exactly all it would be about. In the introduction the author tells the reader that this book will change their lives and it's true. A truly wonderful book.
The author explores the act of forgiveness from many, different angles and gives insight as to how a person may look at or handle forgiveness. Most Christians today believe that forgiveness begins with God forgiving them, but the author gives us a perspective of how Amish view forgiveness and how we might apply it to our own lives. She is not in any way suggesting that we live an Amish live, but that in using the principals or applying them can lead them to a more peaceful life.
Forgiveness is woven into the very everyday life of the Amish and they believe that to forgive is to follow Jesus's instructions on forgiveness and His example. The Amish rests on the literal interpretation of
Matt. 6:14-15
"For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if you forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive you trespasses." (KJV)
This book is divided into two sections. Each sections is divided into stories or scenarios of an encounter that requires forgiveness. At the end of each story the author gives us an area of reflection. This area, for me, is designed to ask questions or give insight into how to handle the situation from a variety of different angles. It's an area for the reader to reflect on how they might handle the situation that could bring a peaceable closer. Then there is an area called "Plain Truth" which gives the reader an insight into some Amish facts.
I think this is a wonderful book for anyone. The author has put a lot of research into this book. We all have something or someone that we need to forgive within our lives. This book will help in your everyday lives to put forgiveness into perspective so that you may have a happier life. I love the layout of the book, because in each story you are given the opportunity to reflect on how you might handle each scenario and give time for reflection. I would recommend this book to anyone. Regardless is you have something large or small in your life nudging you, let this book help you explore it and learn how to deal with it.
I received this book from Revell to give a honest review without bias or outside influences as stated above. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
The author explores the act of forgiveness from many, different angles and gives insight as to how a person may look at or handle forgiveness. Most Christians today believe that forgiveness begins with God forgiving them, but the author gives us a perspective of how Amish view forgiveness and how we might apply it to our own lives. She is not in any way suggesting that we live an Amish live, but that in using the principals or applying them can lead them to a more peaceful life.
Forgiveness is woven into the very everyday life of the Amish and they believe that to forgive is to follow Jesus's instructions on forgiveness and His example. The Amish rests on the literal interpretation of
Matt. 6:14-15
"For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if you forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive you trespasses." (KJV)
This book is divided into two sections. Each sections is divided into stories or scenarios of an encounter that requires forgiveness. At the end of each story the author gives us an area of reflection. This area, for me, is designed to ask questions or give insight into how to handle the situation from a variety of different angles. It's an area for the reader to reflect on how they might handle the situation that could bring a peaceable closer. Then there is an area called "Plain Truth" which gives the reader an insight into some Amish facts.
I think this is a wonderful book for anyone. The author has put a lot of research into this book. We all have something or someone that we need to forgive within our lives. This book will help in your everyday lives to put forgiveness into perspective so that you may have a happier life. I love the layout of the book, because in each story you are given the opportunity to reflect on how you might handle each scenario and give time for reflection. I would recommend this book to anyone. Regardless is you have something large or small in your life nudging you, let this book help you explore it and learn how to deal with it.
I received this book from Revell to give a honest review without bias or outside influences as stated above. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
April 24, 2015
Title: THE HEART OF THE AMISH
Author: Suzanne Woods Fisher
Publisher: Revell
May 2015
ISBN: 978-0-8007-2203-6
Genre: Nonfiction/Christian living
Everyone has been hurt. Everyone experiences conflict, great and small. Everyone has someone to forgive. But sometimes we just can't bring ourselves to forgive someone who has wronged us or we don't take the need to forgive seriously--not like the Amish do. Forgiving others in order to live at peace is woven into the very fabric of their faith. To the Amish way of thinking, "You can't love the stream without knowing the source. " We must forgive others, they believe, because God forgave us.
The Heart of the Amish invites readers into the world of a people renowned for their ability to forgive. Through true stories gathered from a variety of Amish communities, bestselling author Suzanne Woods Fisher illustrates how they are able to release their pain and desire for revenge, and live at peace with others. Her in-depth, personal research uncovers the astounding yet fundamental way the Amish can forgive anyone from the angry customer at the grocery store to the shooter at Nickel Mines. Readers will learn how to invite God into their stories, apply lessons from the Amish to their own circumstances, and find the freedom that comes with true forgiveness.
THE HEART OF THE AMISH is a great nonfiction book… I really enjoyed some of the stories included, such as the juicy fruit gum one. That was so sweet. There are other great ones such as the Amish store keeper who refunded money for pickles when he didn’t even carry the brand in his store. So many more.
There is a lot of wisdom in this book. Each chapter starts with an Amish proverb. There are tidbits about the Amish sprinkled through-out. Each chapter ends with reflections – questions for you to consider. You might want to keep a notebook and pen handy if you want to record your thoughts. Recommended for church libraries, those interested in the Amish, and those who struggle with forgiveness.
4 stars. Available in ebook and paperback. 192 pages.
This book was provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
Author: Suzanne Woods Fisher
Publisher: Revell
May 2015
ISBN: 978-0-8007-2203-6
Genre: Nonfiction/Christian living
Everyone has been hurt. Everyone experiences conflict, great and small. Everyone has someone to forgive. But sometimes we just can't bring ourselves to forgive someone who has wronged us or we don't take the need to forgive seriously--not like the Amish do. Forgiving others in order to live at peace is woven into the very fabric of their faith. To the Amish way of thinking, "You can't love the stream without knowing the source. " We must forgive others, they believe, because God forgave us.
The Heart of the Amish invites readers into the world of a people renowned for their ability to forgive. Through true stories gathered from a variety of Amish communities, bestselling author Suzanne Woods Fisher illustrates how they are able to release their pain and desire for revenge, and live at peace with others. Her in-depth, personal research uncovers the astounding yet fundamental way the Amish can forgive anyone from the angry customer at the grocery store to the shooter at Nickel Mines. Readers will learn how to invite God into their stories, apply lessons from the Amish to their own circumstances, and find the freedom that comes with true forgiveness.
THE HEART OF THE AMISH is a great nonfiction book… I really enjoyed some of the stories included, such as the juicy fruit gum one. That was so sweet. There are other great ones such as the Amish store keeper who refunded money for pickles when he didn’t even carry the brand in his store. So many more.
There is a lot of wisdom in this book. Each chapter starts with an Amish proverb. There are tidbits about the Amish sprinkled through-out. Each chapter ends with reflections – questions for you to consider. You might want to keep a notebook and pen handy if you want to record your thoughts. Recommended for church libraries, those interested in the Amish, and those who struggle with forgiveness.
4 stars. Available in ebook and paperback. 192 pages.
This book was provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
May 26, 2015
What a wonderfully refreshing book about peace and forgiveness. It has help me with some of the heartaches and pain that I am dealing with. I know that I will be referring back to this book from time to time when I am dealing with a very difficult time. I for one have always had a hard time at forgiving someone and moving on and finding that peace. This book is a remind of that that we need to let go and move forward with our lives. I so love the reflections and the plain truths that are in this book also. It is a must read book. Be sure to get your copy today. Remember that it also makes a great gift!
December 21, 2019
For 2019, I followed a suggestion from Gretchen Rubin's "Happiness" podcast and chose a keyword for the year. My word was "Contentment". It is interesting that in focusing on this keyword, I learned a lot about humility and forgiveness, too.
This excellent book ended up being the perfect way to end my nonfiction reading for 2019. The chapters are short, and I actually read this over a longer period of time. Each chapter was insightful; many were surprising. All of them had some great reflective questions a the end that aided in meditating and mulling over how it all applied to my own life.
Best of all (for me) . . . the connection between forgiveness and contentment is spelled out by the end of this book. So I seem to have come full circle.
This excellent book ended up being the perfect way to end my nonfiction reading for 2019. The chapters are short, and I actually read this over a longer period of time. Each chapter was insightful; many were surprising. All of them had some great reflective questions a the end that aided in meditating and mulling over how it all applied to my own life.
Best of all (for me) . . . the connection between forgiveness and contentment is spelled out by the end of this book. So I seem to have come full circle.
June 11, 2018
This book was way better than I anticipated. The stories show how human and yet deeply spiritual the Amish people are. The depth of forgiveness shown is truly mind boggling. The stories in the book are written in such a way that the profound forgiveness the Amish practice is clearly authentic. I suggest reading this book.
May 26, 2015
This is a very special and practical book about forgiveness. I am so glad to have chosen The Heart Of The Amish by Suzanne Woods Fisher as a tool to learn about forgiveness. Each anecdote makes the heart beat faster. Some of the personal experience stories of other people from different sects of the Amish church made me cry. Each story made me want to dig deeper into my life. I am now more aware of the importance of forgiving those I have hurt or those who have hurt me. Life is never worth holding a grudge. Suzanne Woods Fisher writes about the part of the brain which is stimulated by a vengeful spirit. It is good to know about that there are churches where forgiveness is so important to the congregation.
When I read some of the stories, I had to sit back and wonder at the courage of the people to step forward and forgive. Teenagers and older adults can feel afraid or beaten down by the one commandment involving a promise, Honour your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.— Exodus 20:12 Other people have to come forward and ask for an intervention in their parents' lives. Parents feeling shame or guilt find the Heart of God to forgive those who have stolen their children from them. The book made me feel warm inside just thinking of the outcome of a forgiving heart. At the end of the chapters, there are ways listed to meditate or reflect upon what was in the given chapter.
I liked the boxed information at the end of the chapters. I was surprised to learn about the mental health experts now available to the Amish communities. I learned about the Amish transportation. Why the buggy is chosen and the hazards or dangerous situations that can develop riding a buggy. Again, I was most moved by the heartfelt stories chosen by Suzanne Woods Fisher. I didn't expect to read about such disturbing circumstances. It brought home the point that each person carries a burden. Sometimes the burden makes it impossible to forgive ourselves. I am left with the thought that it is God who gives us the power to give forgiveness and to accept forgiveness.suzannewoodsfisher.com/
When I read some of the stories, I had to sit back and wonder at the courage of the people to step forward and forgive. Teenagers and older adults can feel afraid or beaten down by the one commandment involving a promise, Honour your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.— Exodus 20:12 Other people have to come forward and ask for an intervention in their parents' lives. Parents feeling shame or guilt find the Heart of God to forgive those who have stolen their children from them. The book made me feel warm inside just thinking of the outcome of a forgiving heart. At the end of the chapters, there are ways listed to meditate or reflect upon what was in the given chapter.
I liked the boxed information at the end of the chapters. I was surprised to learn about the mental health experts now available to the Amish communities. I learned about the Amish transportation. Why the buggy is chosen and the hazards or dangerous situations that can develop riding a buggy. Again, I was most moved by the heartfelt stories chosen by Suzanne Woods Fisher. I didn't expect to read about such disturbing circumstances. It brought home the point that each person carries a burden. Sometimes the burden makes it impossible to forgive ourselves. I am left with the thought that it is God who gives us the power to give forgiveness and to accept forgiveness.suzannewoodsfisher.com/
May 3, 2015
I love Amish proverbs. I pretty much love everything about the Amish (after having my daughter, I wanted to move to one of their communities to raise her), but one thing I have to say is that they have really great proverbs and life learning lessons. In this book Suzanne Woods Fisher, takes you on a journey through the lives of different people and shows you how you can forgive and be at peace with yourself. Not all of the stories happen to Amish people, but they are linked to them in some sort of way. At the beginning of each story, is an Amish proverb. After that, the author goes into the story that tells of one and their means of forgiveness. At the end of each story is a reflection where she asks questions of the reader. I really enjoyed this part. I felt like it helped me get more involved with the stories and helped me think about my life and certain situations that I have been in. At the end of each reflection is a "plain truth". This section gives us some background on the Amish, Mennonites, or Hutterites.
The book is a really great one to read and ponder over. I even read them to my daughter and asked her some of the questions. It was interesting to see her think about some of the situations she and her friends have been in and also whether it would be easy for her to forgive if she was put in some of these situations.
I think that everyone should get a copy of this book and read it. I know I found it very beneficial. And like I stated before, I love Amish proverbs and the book is filled with them. My daughter even found some that she liked. So yes, this book is for both the young and the old.
The book is a really great one to read and ponder over. I even read them to my daughter and asked her some of the questions. It was interesting to see her think about some of the situations she and her friends have been in and also whether it would be easy for her to forgive if she was put in some of these situations.
I think that everyone should get a copy of this book and read it. I know I found it very beneficial. And like I stated before, I love Amish proverbs and the book is filled with them. My daughter even found some that she liked. So yes, this book is for both the young and the old.
May 2, 2015
The Heart of the Amish: Life Lessons on Peacemaking and the Power of Forgiveness by Suzanne Woods Fisher is a collection of touching stories about the Amish. I have always enjoyed reading books about the Amish, and this book was a very insightful and respectful look into some of their lives. It was great reading about the spirit of forgiveness that the Amish promote, and learning about different events that occurred and how various individuals reacted was very encouraging. Though the Amish are not perfect, outsiders can learn a lot of lessons by looking at how their communities operate. The sections of the book talking about the Nickel Mines tragedy were very sad, and I found myself near tears at times. However, this book focuses on how the Amish overcome hardships, making it an uplifting book. The reflection questions at the end of each chapter were very helpful, spurring further discussion. Reading this book was a wonderful, pleasant journey, and the variety of stories in some ways reminded me of those “Chicken Soup for the Soul” books. For people who do not live near Amish communities, the Amish may seem mysterious, but this book removes some of that mystery.
I received a review copy from Revell.
I received a review copy from Revell.
June 8, 2015
The Heart of the Amish: Life Lessons on Peacemaking and the Power of Forgiveness is an amazing book. The accounts that Suzanne Woods Fisher collected as illustrations will fill your soul. The depictions of forgiveness reveal the deep devotion the Amish have to God and the innateness of forgiveness in their communities. Their ability to let go of the most horrendous acts, such as the Nikel Mines school shooting of ten Amish girls in 2006. Suzanne includes several people's stories from this event including the wife of the shooter.
The chapters are brief, pointed, and begin with Amish quotes. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book! It's amazing how healing forgiveness is in relationships and in life. Anyone struggling with pain in their heart from someone else's actions or their own needs to read this book. The freedom to live without bitterness, grudges, or hate toward another person is clearly shown the way to live. Sometimes the biggest offenses are the easier ones to put down and walk away. I highly recommend reading The Heart of the Amish. You will not regret it and will learn a more peaceful way of life. Whether you have a strong belief system such as Christianity or not this is a valuable book for moving on from the past.
The chapters are brief, pointed, and begin with Amish quotes. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book! It's amazing how healing forgiveness is in relationships and in life. Anyone struggling with pain in their heart from someone else's actions or their own needs to read this book. The freedom to live without bitterness, grudges, or hate toward another person is clearly shown the way to live. Sometimes the biggest offenses are the easier ones to put down and walk away. I highly recommend reading The Heart of the Amish. You will not regret it and will learn a more peaceful way of life. Whether you have a strong belief system such as Christianity or not this is a valuable book for moving on from the past.
May 5, 2015
WARNING! Don't read Suzanne Woods Fisher's The Heart of the Amish if you can't handle at least a little conviction! As you work your way read the stories, you will most likely find at least one instance that makes you think something like this: "Wow! If that person could exhibit peace and forgiveness after going through that experience, then I certainly don't have any excuse for not doing the same."
Not all the stories are directly Amish-related. Some are from Mennonite individuals, and others have a little more distant connection to the Plain people. But all teach important lessons about the benefits that come from trying to follow God's plan of peace and forgiveness, both for those who are wronged and those who have done wrong. And the Amish proverbs and tidbits of information scattered throughout are a pleasure to read as well.
This book can easily be read in just a few sittings, or it can be enjoyed one story at a time. Either way is certain to encourage some moments of review and reflection.
Thanks to Revell Publishing for providing a copy of The Heart of the Amish in exchange for my honest review.
Not all the stories are directly Amish-related. Some are from Mennonite individuals, and others have a little more distant connection to the Plain people. But all teach important lessons about the benefits that come from trying to follow God's plan of peace and forgiveness, both for those who are wronged and those who have done wrong. And the Amish proverbs and tidbits of information scattered throughout are a pleasure to read as well.
This book can easily be read in just a few sittings, or it can be enjoyed one story at a time. Either way is certain to encourage some moments of review and reflection.
Thanks to Revell Publishing for providing a copy of The Heart of the Amish in exchange for my honest review.
September 29, 2015
I think this is the type of book that you should savor when reading, not read it through all at once (which is what I did), but I don't think that hindered my enjoyment of the book. I definitely plan to read this again, but more slowly to absorb more of the details of it. The stories in the book are quite short, perfect for reading one a day for a month which I think would be the best way to read it.
I liked how each chapter began with an Amish proverb, followed by the story/lesson, then a reflection and a truth. This was a very nice layout and made it very easy to read.
If the book sounds interesting to you I say give it a read.
I liked how each chapter began with an Amish proverb, followed by the story/lesson, then a reflection and a truth. This was a very nice layout and made it very easy to read.
If the book sounds interesting to you I say give it a read.
December 28, 2019
Is it truly possible to live a life of forgiveness in a world that is so full of evil? Using true stories, some from recent history, the author shares how the Amish seek to live what they teach. Some of the stories are as horrendous as the shooting at the Nickel Mines School in 2006. Others deal with hurts that were caused by things as simple as someone wearing a red coat. You have to read the book to see what that was all about. The key point of the book is the manner in which the Amish and other Anabaptist groups handle these situations to bring about forgiveness and to make peace with their fellowmen. I love the statement on the page opposite the copyright page: “For those who need forgiveness and those who need to forgive. Lord, have mercy on us.” I would say that includes everyone. We need the Lord’s help to live at peace as the Amish seek to do. The book is not saying that the Amish are the only ones who get this right. However, living a life of forgiveness is drilled into them from a very early age. I encourage all Christ followers to read this important book.
May 7, 2017
Different religious communities excel at embodying certain principles of truth. The Amish live the principal of forgiveness in a way that can be very instructive for the rest of us. I enjoyed the book and it made me think about my own life too.
November 12, 2018
Quick read...worth every minute
The stories go right to the core and the forgiving attitude of the Amish is heart-warming. I especially liked the summary and reflections after each chapter.
The stories go right to the core and the forgiving attitude of the Amish is heart-warming. I especially liked the summary and reflections after each chapter.
August 30, 2021
I thought I was great at forgiveness until I read this book. I came away inspired by these examples from the Amish community. It is kind of a “chicken soup for the soul” type of book, which I didn’t expect, but it was still pretty decent.
November 4, 2018
Interesting read.
August 9, 2020
Loved this book and the Amish take on the importance of forgiveness.
May 13, 2022
This book gave me a lot to think about. The forgiving by the Amish is so amazing. They truly live their faith.
April 24, 2023
This gave a very interesting Amish perspective on forgiveness. The way it was written reminded me of the Chicken Soup for the soul books. I really enjoyed it!
September 1, 2023
Beautiful lessons and examples of how forgiveness really does bring peace, especially in the heart of the one offering forgiveness.
January 10, 2024
Really makes you think about what forgiveness means.
March 29, 2024
I really enjoyed this book. There were a lot of good lessons to be learned from it.
June 5, 2025
This was full of many thought provoking and challenging life lessons. I don't have a teacher's heart, but would be inclined to do a group study with this one. Thank you Suzanne.
September 21, 2025
Good for anyone seeking progress and freedom.
June 23, 2025
Very impactful stories about the grace and strength of forgiveness.
May 25, 2015
Title: The Heart of the Amish: Life Lessons on Peacemaking and the Power of Forgiveness
Author: Suzanne Woods Fisher
Publishing House/Publication Date: Revell/2015
Genres: Christian Living; Amish Non-Fiction; Inspirational Non-Fiction; Devotional
Number of Pages: 192
You should read this book if… You enjoy learning about the lifestyles and value systems of the Amish and Mennonite communities – what they believe and how they portray their faith in everyday situations. In addition, this book may also greatly benefit those of us who are not familiar with the Plain way of life, but who are seeking examples of forgiveness so extraordinary that they could only come from God.
Theme and Message: Obviously not much needs to be said about the theme and underlying message of The Heart of the Amish… Each chapter spotlights a different story of forgiveness – some are quiet and personal, others are shocking and far-reaching, but each one points straight to the Author of mercy and grace - and forgiveness
Writing Style and Voice: Fittingly, the words that reveal each story in this book very much reflect the people at its heart – basic and unpretentious. Numerous quotations from various, pastoral publications are woven into the chapters as well, providing deeper insight into the nature of forgiveness and how it affects each person involved.
Structure and Organization: The book is divided into two parts: Everyday Friction and Turning Points. As the author explains, “ The first section includes stories of forgiveness in day-to-day life, where most of our people problems lie. The stories in the second section might be the ones that stick with you long after reading this book. They are profound. You will see how only God could provide the ability to forgive in such circumstances. These stories flip the telescope.” Each section is divided into 13 stand-alone chapters, complete with corresponding reflection questions and an interesting, perhaps little-known fact about the Amish way of life.
Questionable Content: As can be expected from a book about forgiveness, some of the actions requiring forgiveness from the victims are extremely difficult to read. Stories of deceit, various forms of abuse, and even murder make for powerful but difficult reading. Of course the capacity of God-provided forgiveness is best showcased in situations like these, but it does not make the stories any easier to get through. Accordingly, mature readers should step into this book well prepared.
Conclusion: Whether or not you enjoy reading Amish fiction, this little non-fiction book is certain to illuminate the life-altering strength of forgiveness. Though we may not decide to adopt the Amish lifestyle as our own, we can undoubtedly learn invaluable lessons from the choices these people make. As Ms. Fisher explains, “Their entire world perspective rests on the sovereignty of God. They can leave justice in God’s hands because they have a quiet confidence that in the end God will be a merciful and just judge. They believe God will, indeed, ultimately ‘take care of it’.” Though many of the chapters contain material that is uncomfortable to read, it does serve the purpose of showcasing the mighty power of a forgiving heart. In the end, it is up to each individual reader to decide his or her readiness to encounter the horrendous circumstances portrayed in the book, keeping in mind that in the end, God’s love and forgiveness of the world cannot help but radiate through.
Book has been provided courtesy of Baker Publishing Group and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc.
Author: Suzanne Woods Fisher
Publishing House/Publication Date: Revell/2015
Genres: Christian Living; Amish Non-Fiction; Inspirational Non-Fiction; Devotional
Number of Pages: 192
You should read this book if… You enjoy learning about the lifestyles and value systems of the Amish and Mennonite communities – what they believe and how they portray their faith in everyday situations. In addition, this book may also greatly benefit those of us who are not familiar with the Plain way of life, but who are seeking examples of forgiveness so extraordinary that they could only come from God.
Theme and Message: Obviously not much needs to be said about the theme and underlying message of The Heart of the Amish… Each chapter spotlights a different story of forgiveness – some are quiet and personal, others are shocking and far-reaching, but each one points straight to the Author of mercy and grace - and forgiveness
Writing Style and Voice: Fittingly, the words that reveal each story in this book very much reflect the people at its heart – basic and unpretentious. Numerous quotations from various, pastoral publications are woven into the chapters as well, providing deeper insight into the nature of forgiveness and how it affects each person involved.
Structure and Organization: The book is divided into two parts: Everyday Friction and Turning Points. As the author explains, “ The first section includes stories of forgiveness in day-to-day life, where most of our people problems lie. The stories in the second section might be the ones that stick with you long after reading this book. They are profound. You will see how only God could provide the ability to forgive in such circumstances. These stories flip the telescope.” Each section is divided into 13 stand-alone chapters, complete with corresponding reflection questions and an interesting, perhaps little-known fact about the Amish way of life.
Questionable Content: As can be expected from a book about forgiveness, some of the actions requiring forgiveness from the victims are extremely difficult to read. Stories of deceit, various forms of abuse, and even murder make for powerful but difficult reading. Of course the capacity of God-provided forgiveness is best showcased in situations like these, but it does not make the stories any easier to get through. Accordingly, mature readers should step into this book well prepared.
Conclusion: Whether or not you enjoy reading Amish fiction, this little non-fiction book is certain to illuminate the life-altering strength of forgiveness. Though we may not decide to adopt the Amish lifestyle as our own, we can undoubtedly learn invaluable lessons from the choices these people make. As Ms. Fisher explains, “Their entire world perspective rests on the sovereignty of God. They can leave justice in God’s hands because they have a quiet confidence that in the end God will be a merciful and just judge. They believe God will, indeed, ultimately ‘take care of it’.” Though many of the chapters contain material that is uncomfortable to read, it does serve the purpose of showcasing the mighty power of a forgiving heart. In the end, it is up to each individual reader to decide his or her readiness to encounter the horrendous circumstances portrayed in the book, keeping in mind that in the end, God’s love and forgiveness of the world cannot help but radiate through.
Book has been provided courtesy of Baker Publishing Group and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc.
March 7, 2017
This would make an excellent book club selection. It has thoughtful questions at the end of each chapter that ask you to think about your own understanding and thoughts about peace and forgiveness. Each short chapter is a story about someone who faced difficult situations and responded with forgiveness. Several of the stories near the end of the book were related to the shooting of 10 little Amish girls, five of whom died. The illustrations of forgiveness give all of us a pause to think about how we might have reacted in the same difficult circumstances.
Well worth the read.
Well worth the read.
April 28, 2015
About the Book:
Everyone has been hurt. Everyone experiences conflict, great and small. Everyone has someone to forgive. But sometimes we just can't bring ourselves to forgive someone who has wronged us or we don't take the need to forgive seriously--not like the Amish do. Forgiving others in order to live at peace is woven into the very fabric of their faith. To the Amish way of thinking, "You can't love the stream without knowing the source. " We must forgive others, they believe, because God forgave us.
"The Heart of the Amish" invites readers into the world of a people renowned for their ability to forgive. Through true stories gathered from a variety of Amish communities, bestselling author Suzanne Woods Fisher illustrates how they are able to release their pain and desire for revenge, and live at peace with others. Her in-depth, personal research uncovers the astounding yet fundamental way the Amish can forgive anyone from the angry customer at the grocery store to the shooter at Nickel Mines. Readers will learn how to invite God into "their" stories, apply lessons from the Amish to their own circumstances, and find the freedom that comes with true forgiveness.
My Review:
Forgiveness is a hard one. Especially if you are the one that has to forgive even though you know that you are not at fault. I have been stuck in several situations where the person that is angry at me doesn't know the full story and they assume you feel this way or that and are angry with you about it. I have had to several times take a step back, pray about it and ask God what to do, mainly because I was so incredibly upset at the other persons behavior.
But never fear God is there and He will be there with us through it all, even through adversity. He shows us and guides us through the process of forgiveness. He gets us to a better place, we could never do it on our own. He is awesome, that way. And He knows what it feels like to have to forgive even when we know we aren't at fault and that others just don't get us. I'm grateful that He gets it!
The Amish and Anabaptist movement leave by forgiveness. They practice it everyday and to be honest I bet it is easier for them to do because they have to do it so much. The author, Suzanne Woods Fisher knows this all too well because she has written about, studied, and researched these movements for many years. As a result she has put together some things that may benefit those of us that are trying to engrain forgiveness into our lives to be better for Christ.
Included in The Heart of the Amish provide stories and lessons of deep forgiveness at the end of each there is a place of reflecting. I really like that part. My favorite quote from the book is "If you have 70,000 thoughts per day, you have 70,000 chances to do it better. This book will really help you "to do it better!"
**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from Revell.
Everyone has been hurt. Everyone experiences conflict, great and small. Everyone has someone to forgive. But sometimes we just can't bring ourselves to forgive someone who has wronged us or we don't take the need to forgive seriously--not like the Amish do. Forgiving others in order to live at peace is woven into the very fabric of their faith. To the Amish way of thinking, "You can't love the stream without knowing the source. " We must forgive others, they believe, because God forgave us.
"The Heart of the Amish" invites readers into the world of a people renowned for their ability to forgive. Through true stories gathered from a variety of Amish communities, bestselling author Suzanne Woods Fisher illustrates how they are able to release their pain and desire for revenge, and live at peace with others. Her in-depth, personal research uncovers the astounding yet fundamental way the Amish can forgive anyone from the angry customer at the grocery store to the shooter at Nickel Mines. Readers will learn how to invite God into "their" stories, apply lessons from the Amish to their own circumstances, and find the freedom that comes with true forgiveness.
My Review:
Forgiveness is a hard one. Especially if you are the one that has to forgive even though you know that you are not at fault. I have been stuck in several situations where the person that is angry at me doesn't know the full story and they assume you feel this way or that and are angry with you about it. I have had to several times take a step back, pray about it and ask God what to do, mainly because I was so incredibly upset at the other persons behavior.
But never fear God is there and He will be there with us through it all, even through adversity. He shows us and guides us through the process of forgiveness. He gets us to a better place, we could never do it on our own. He is awesome, that way. And He knows what it feels like to have to forgive even when we know we aren't at fault and that others just don't get us. I'm grateful that He gets it!
The Amish and Anabaptist movement leave by forgiveness. They practice it everyday and to be honest I bet it is easier for them to do because they have to do it so much. The author, Suzanne Woods Fisher knows this all too well because she has written about, studied, and researched these movements for many years. As a result she has put together some things that may benefit those of us that are trying to engrain forgiveness into our lives to be better for Christ.
Included in The Heart of the Amish provide stories and lessons of deep forgiveness at the end of each there is a place of reflecting. I really like that part. My favorite quote from the book is "If you have 70,000 thoughts per day, you have 70,000 chances to do it better. This book will really help you "to do it better!"
**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from Revell.
June 10, 2015
The Lord is my strength and my shield, my heart trusts in him and he helps me. My heart leaps for joy, and with my song I praise Him. (Psalm 28:7). The truth about forgiveness is that it all flows from God. Big or small-it is not in our nature to forgive. It is God’s nature, His business, and it is only by God’s equipping that we can forgive others. Only God. John Stott wrote, Our calling is not to conformity to the world around us but to a radical nonconformity. What, truly, could be more radical nonconformity than displaying authentic forgiveness in our daily life? God wants to free, encourage, and heal your heart so that your story ends well. Will you let Him? Ask and you shall receive(Matt 7:7-8). That is a promise.
The heart of the Amish is about forgiveness, community, and making things right. Each short chapter shares how forgiveness is how a story ends well. The circumstances may not, but the story will. A story about an Amish father after harsh words to his son recognizes how tender a heart his son has and makes amends to cherish his son’s heart. A daughter that was sexually abused by her father how she was able to overcome and find peace thru forgiveness and justice. Forgiveness is not a lack of justice.
The Nickel Mines Schoolhouse shooting on October 2, 2006 displayed God’s glory when the Amish extended grace and forgiveness to the family of the shooter and how the shooter’s family in that grace was able to find redemption.
The following are quotes that spoke to my heart and maybe they will speak to yours.
The Amish have a saying. It isn’t the mountains ahead that wear you out; it’s the grain of sand in your shoes.
The best way to get the last word in is to apologize.
Regrets over yesterday and the fear of tomorrow are twin thieves that rob us of the moment.
If I am only 2 percent responsible for a conflict, I am 100 percent responsible for the 2 percent. Confessing your fault to the person you offended is the way you can fully own your part of a conflict.
You will be blessed as you see forgiveness is the better way. It is the way forward. It is the way to peace. The examples of forgiveness are just as important. Dealing with conflict is the start of forgiveness. The Amish also have a good understanding of sin unlike the church. As we argue about what sin is greater, the Amish know and deal with all sin as against God and that all sin harms. We may think that if sin does not hurt anyone, that it is not sin.
Because of sin, God has made a way thru forgiveness. Do we life in the lifestyle of forgiveness? It makes for a beautiful life indeed.
A Special Thank you to Revell and Netgalley for ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
The heart of the Amish is about forgiveness, community, and making things right. Each short chapter shares how forgiveness is how a story ends well. The circumstances may not, but the story will. A story about an Amish father after harsh words to his son recognizes how tender a heart his son has and makes amends to cherish his son’s heart. A daughter that was sexually abused by her father how she was able to overcome and find peace thru forgiveness and justice. Forgiveness is not a lack of justice.
The Nickel Mines Schoolhouse shooting on October 2, 2006 displayed God’s glory when the Amish extended grace and forgiveness to the family of the shooter and how the shooter’s family in that grace was able to find redemption.
The following are quotes that spoke to my heart and maybe they will speak to yours.
The Amish have a saying. It isn’t the mountains ahead that wear you out; it’s the grain of sand in your shoes.
The best way to get the last word in is to apologize.
Regrets over yesterday and the fear of tomorrow are twin thieves that rob us of the moment.
If I am only 2 percent responsible for a conflict, I am 100 percent responsible for the 2 percent. Confessing your fault to the person you offended is the way you can fully own your part of a conflict.
You will be blessed as you see forgiveness is the better way. It is the way forward. It is the way to peace. The examples of forgiveness are just as important. Dealing with conflict is the start of forgiveness. The Amish also have a good understanding of sin unlike the church. As we argue about what sin is greater, the Amish know and deal with all sin as against God and that all sin harms. We may think that if sin does not hurt anyone, that it is not sin.
Because of sin, God has made a way thru forgiveness. Do we life in the lifestyle of forgiveness? It makes for a beautiful life indeed.
A Special Thank you to Revell and Netgalley for ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
June 8, 2015
Reviewed at The Power of Words: http://bit.ly/1A8uGo0
Wow, where do I even begin? I'll just go ahead and say it right up front . . . This is a book that convicts. Well written, moving, thought provoking, relevant, important - and convicting. Most of us are familiar with Christ's words . . .
"For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."
Matthew 6:14-15 NIV
We may know this intellectually, realize it's a command with promise, and even think we're pretty good at following through, but these stories and testimonies from the Amish take it to a much deeper level. Even those not familiar with the Amish are probably aware of their emphasis on forgiveness - and the unprecedented speed with which they seem to grant it. These stories, along with Suzanne's thoughtful application, give us a glimpse into the Amish heart - their strong belief contrasted with the same doubt and struggles that we face. I've always felt that there is a lot we can learn from this peaceful group of people, things that shouldn't be unique to the Amish, and forgiveness is one of the most important.
Suzanne writes in the Introduction that this book's goal is "to help you make a habit of forgiving," and that will certainly be the effect for all who immerse themselves in these stories with humble hearts. The Heart of the Amish could be read straight through, but I recommend using it as a devotional resource . . . the only problem being that you might find yourself needing to spend more than one day on each chapter! There are approximately 25 fairly short chapters, borrowing examples from the Amish and other Anabaptist groups. Section 1 contains stories of forgiveness in day-to-day life, while section 2 features profound stories that will definitely stick with you long after reading the book. Each chapter ends with some very thought-provoking questions posed by Suzanne, "Reflections on Peacemaking."
The importance of instilling forgiveness at a young age . . . the idea of community, being inside a ring of protection . . . knowing how to get healing from the inside . . . how difficult it is for us to give up our right for justification or revenge . . . These are just a few thoughts that gave me much upon which to reflect. Suzanne ends with a quote from John Stott - "Our calling is not to conformity to the world around us but to a radical nonconformity" - and then asks, What, truly, could be a more radical nonconformity than displaying authentic forgiveness in our daily life?
The Heart of the Amish is a book with much insight, personal application, and takeaway value. Highly recommended.
Thank you to Revell for providing a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
Wow, where do I even begin? I'll just go ahead and say it right up front . . . This is a book that convicts. Well written, moving, thought provoking, relevant, important - and convicting. Most of us are familiar with Christ's words . . .
"For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."
Matthew 6:14-15 NIV
We may know this intellectually, realize it's a command with promise, and even think we're pretty good at following through, but these stories and testimonies from the Amish take it to a much deeper level. Even those not familiar with the Amish are probably aware of their emphasis on forgiveness - and the unprecedented speed with which they seem to grant it. These stories, along with Suzanne's thoughtful application, give us a glimpse into the Amish heart - their strong belief contrasted with the same doubt and struggles that we face. I've always felt that there is a lot we can learn from this peaceful group of people, things that shouldn't be unique to the Amish, and forgiveness is one of the most important.
Suzanne writes in the Introduction that this book's goal is "to help you make a habit of forgiving," and that will certainly be the effect for all who immerse themselves in these stories with humble hearts. The Heart of the Amish could be read straight through, but I recommend using it as a devotional resource . . . the only problem being that you might find yourself needing to spend more than one day on each chapter! There are approximately 25 fairly short chapters, borrowing examples from the Amish and other Anabaptist groups. Section 1 contains stories of forgiveness in day-to-day life, while section 2 features profound stories that will definitely stick with you long after reading the book. Each chapter ends with some very thought-provoking questions posed by Suzanne, "Reflections on Peacemaking."
The importance of instilling forgiveness at a young age . . . the idea of community, being inside a ring of protection . . . knowing how to get healing from the inside . . . how difficult it is for us to give up our right for justification or revenge . . . These are just a few thoughts that gave me much upon which to reflect. Suzanne ends with a quote from John Stott - "Our calling is not to conformity to the world around us but to a radical nonconformity" - and then asks, What, truly, could be a more radical nonconformity than displaying authentic forgiveness in our daily life?
The Heart of the Amish is a book with much insight, personal application, and takeaway value. Highly recommended.
Thank you to Revell for providing a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
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