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NY Dares #2

Dare to Submit

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Decklan Dare knows about the unexpected loss of loved ones and for this reason, he values control in all areas of his life. Amanda Collins enjoys the freedom she finds in casual encounters without the emotional connection a relationship brings. They meet and their physical attraction is mutual but both experience feelings that could run deeper – if they drop their guard and let each other in. Decklan is first to trust, but when he discovers the secret Amanda’s been hiding, will he forgive? Or will he rebuild every wall before she has a chance to explain?

230 pages, ebook

First published August 9, 2014

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Carly Phillips

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NY Times, Wall Street Journal, and USA Today Bestseller, Carly Phillips is the queen of Alpha Heroes, at least according to The Harlequin Junkie Reviewer.. Carly married her college sweetheart and lives in Purchase, NY along with her crazy dogs who are featured on her Facebook and Instagram pages. The author of over 75 romance novels, she has raised two incredible daughters and is now an empty nester. Carly’s book, The Bachelor, was chosen by Kelly Ripa as her first romance club pick. Carly loves social media and interacting with her readers. Want to keep up with Carly? Sign up for her newsletter and receive TWO FREE books at www.carlyphillips.com.

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Profile Image for Jamie *Gypsy Smut-a-teer*.
484 reviews264 followers
December 31, 2014
Ohmygosh!! I have really enjoyed this series so far.

This was Decklan and Amanda's story. They both have some pretty major issues and start out meeting in a odd situation at a BDSM club. Amanda is looking for something, something that I don't think she even knows for sure what it is, but with the use of her best friend/bosses private plane she keeps coming back to this BDSM club. She gets off on the submission, but never actually goes through with the actual intercourse because every man she's with she can't let herself go there with. But when one dude won't take no for an answer Decklan, who has been watching Amanda from afar and wanting her for a while, but wouldn't give into himself, he finally steps in, and for him there is no going back until he haves her. Oddly enough, Amanda had been wanting Decklan to approach her too just as bad, but no way would she have ever came to him. So, Decklan and Amanda decide one night together, that's it. But with a one night stand like the one they had, they both realize one night will never be quiet enough.

I still stand by that Gabe's story was my fave of the series so far, but wow Decklan was one hot mofo, lol. Sadly he is what made the whole story in my opinion...Now don't get me wrong, I'm a female, I totally know what it's like to be insecure. I think every single female known to man is insecure about SOMETHING, but I tend to love a strong, witty, smart female lead, and in my opinion Amanda just wasn't it. Yes, it's because of her horrible mother and a loser from her past, but this chick needed some therapy, lol. No, she really was just in her head too much and tended to over think way too much.

Now, Decklan, don't get me wrong, he had some issues too. My gosh, these two were quiet a pair with all of their insecurities. I hope they make each other stronger rather than destroy anything they may have. But damn, he was soo hot and demanding and determined lol, it made up for anything negative. I will say at a certain part of the story, I FELT, he may have overreacted a little. Yes, she didn't tell him the whole truth, but it wasn't like anything was going on. LOL, and I guess that's all I can really say about that without spoiling.

Needless to say, I can't wait for more from the series. If I remember right, the next story goes back to the original brothers and sisters, instead of the cousins. I can't wait for more. :)
Profile Image for RachelW (BamaGal).
746 reviews75 followers
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June 3, 2017
Kindle/Amazon freebie - 7/20...

DNF…so many things wrong with this one. This is a mainstream romance author's take on what she considers a BDSM relationship; which consisted of barked commands and orders, and sexual situations that don't at all fit what is being presented. Not a lick of research into the lifestyle, it was used simply to make the romance edgy. Whenever Amanda comes to town, they meet at the sex club, then leave to go to Decklan’s place for sex? If you are going to put it in there, use it; don't make it just a prop because you don't know what to do with it.

Oh, and Amanda’s ‘big secret’ (which takes up way too much story time) was absolutely ridiculous. Her best friend/boss needs to man up and quit hiding behind her skirts so they both can have a normal life.

I just can't get over how laughable the whole story was…sanitized and vanilla D/s with what I considered to be an unsafe and freaky 'Dom'...
Profile Image for ☆☆Hannah☆☆.
3,182 reviews45 followers
June 8, 2021
This was a good read. Decklan and Amanda meet at a club. They both have some issues. So just having this casual fling works for them. However, soon this becomes something more. The problem is that Amanda has a secret and when it comes out things get messy. Luckily it all works out and they get their happy ending.
Profile Image for QuinnReads.
3,656 reviews197 followers
April 4, 2025
Carly Phillips Dare to Love bk 04 NY Dares bk 02 Dare to Submit

Heal Thy Dom

He's her knight in dinged armor. Amanda Collins and Decklan Dare both have baggage, baggage that quickly starts to come to light. I like that they slowly heal each other in small ways throughout.

I do admire Amanda's commitment to her best friend, a friend that has been there for her as much as she's been there for him. That said, Brad's parents ticked me off. Yes, I love their support when the chips are down, but they should've been selfless and put an end to some things sooner. Ugh! People! Yeah, I know they're fictional, but there are plenty like this IRL, and it drives me bonkers. 🙃😵‍💫

She was just another female and not one he’d ever played with, at that. But she was soft and rounded in just the right places, curvy in a way that appealed to him when no one before had ever reached that deep.
-- Decklan Dare

I love the BDSM elements. There are mistakes made, but I enjoy the exploration.

This ends with an HFN that has great promise for these two relationship avoiders. I wish we got a little more from their ending. Still, it's entertaining, and I like it. 😉

I borrowed the audio book for my second read. The narrator is Sophie Eastlake. I like her, and she's growing on me, but a second narrator likely would've been a better experience.

Story: 4 stars
Narration: 3.5 stars
Listening Speed: 1.8x

H & h = mid- to late 20s
Profile Image for Tracey.
975 reviews18 followers
September 8, 2014
Decklan Dare likes control. He wants and needs to be the one holding it. Amanda Collins desires the freedom that comes with letting someone else be in control, the escape that comes with submission. When the two of them come together, boundaries will be tested and redrawn.

Carly Phillips, thank you, thank you, thank you. I have read and loved every single one of the DARE series, and have found each and every one of the Dare men hot and sexy. But Decklan, oh, my goodness, Decklan. Maybe it's that he's a man in uniform. Or that he knows what he wants when it comes to women and is DEFINITELY not shy about letting them know. Or that he loves his family completely and would do anything for them. Okay, it's everything about this guy. He is the total package, except, well, he's definitely not looking for the 'C' word. You know, commitment. He knows all too well that the ones you love can be ripped from you with no warning. He's been through it, and is determined to guard his heart to prevent feeling that loss ever again. But, the heart wants what the heart wants, and his wants Amanda.

I love the relationship between Decklan and Amanda. Despite being adamant that he doesn't 'do' relationships, he is hyper-protective from their first encounter. He sees how her self-esteem has been damaged by those closest to her, and will do anything to assure her that she is precious. And Amanda truly understands Decklan, and sees how he has come to the place that he's in emotionally. They are like the perfect yin yang, the perfect fit for each other.

DARE TO SUBMIT is five hot and sexy stars for me, and I cannot wait for DARE TO TOUCH, Olivia's book.
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1,566 reviews35 followers
July 23, 2015
4 Stars

This is the fourth book in Phillips' Dare to Love series. This time around we get Decklan's story.
If you have the read the series, he is Gabe's brother from the last book Dare to Surrender.
Decklan is a member of a BDSM club and this is where he meets Amanda. Decklan and Amanda each have their own issues for going to the club. Neither has had an interest in relationships, Decklan due to his concern for losing someone he loves and Amanda due to deep seated self-esteem issues. Despite this, their draw to each other winds up being for more than just one night. Their issues and Amanda's arrangement with her best friend threaten their chance at a HEA.

This is the first book I have read by Phillips so obviously I have not read others in this series. I do not feel that it took away from my enjoyment of the book at all. The story was a rather quick read as I finished it in just a few hours. For those looking for a racy BDSM book, you would likely be disappointed as little is spent on this aspect and was relatively tame.

The characters are likable and there is not too much drama in the book, just enough to keep you interested. I would have liked a little more sizzle in this couple's chemistry. There is a brief encounter with Olivia, Gabe and Decklan's sister. She will be the heroine in the next storyDare to Touch. So overall, this was a decent book which though being part of a series was easily read as a stand alone.

Thanks to NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Profile Image for Michele.
899 reviews11 followers
August 6, 2017
So much better..

This book was so much better then the first. I can relate to Amanda in so many ways. I felt her insecurities, I felt her sadness and knowing her head believes she's beautiful but her heart was a different story. So many times I have felt this way and it just pulled at my heart strings. She was a beautiful person and Decklan was the right person to tell her otherwise. He was strong and brave where she wasn't. I loved the storyline with both of them and I loved the drama that was there. It brought tears to my eyes when he gave in and allowed her to do the one thing he had a hard time allowing.

I absolutely loved this book. I loved the D/S relationship and how it grew.
Profile Image for Shannon The Co-Captain.
985 reviews
January 15, 2025
4 Kinky ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

This book was hot 🔥 I wasn’t expecting it to be as good as it was based on the first book. But, it was surprisingly really good. Declan + Kink… 💯 YES! I just wish we had gotten a little bit more of Declan’s job in the book. I loved meeting him on the job in the first book and I love the interaction between him and his brother, Gabriel. These are some of my favorite Dares. The storyline with Amanda was interesting as well. This book has me excited about Lucy’s story. These Dare books are trashy as all get out but they’re addictive as hell.
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1,803 reviews17 followers
April 9, 2021
Holy Molly. This book had my head spinning. There are so many twists and turns ... a constant back and forth ... my gosh!
Decklan and Amanda are great characters, profound and multi-layered personalities. Their attraction is palpable and threatened to set my Kindle on fire. Their backstory is moving, tinged with loss and abandonment ...
Another gripping novel in this series and in the Dare universe.
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2,523 reviews270 followers
July 23, 2016
1 star as in "bad", but it's not a negative rating. It's not rant worthy, negative stars "if I only could" rating.

Simply, it has nothing good to talk about. There's instalove, no character coherence, a story I could not believe in. At all. The kink was weird, and totally unsafe. No, not that good erotica. We are talking about discarding all rules just to show how good they are as a couple. Pity this meant 2 strangers having sex with no supervision. So you create all this BSDM frame to discard it. Meh. I didn't get it, sorry.

No pleasure in reading this story, no heat either.
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5,006 reviews152 followers
January 1, 2017
Decklan Dare knows himself and knows that loss dose not work for him. Amanda Collins enjoys life to its fullest and never felt at a lost for anything. That was until she had a very steamy encounter with Decklan. Trust is earned once lost it may never be recovered. Amanda was keeping a secret and it just was splashed all over the television for the world to see.
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351 reviews10 followers
July 6, 2016
4.25 Stars
Profile Image for Sammie.
844 reviews2 followers
December 19, 2018
It was good but kinda short ,overall not a bad read.


I liked both Amanda and Decklan ,they both don't do relationships because of issues from their pasts ,but the more they get to know each over the more they see what they have been missing and in the end they both push passed their walls and let each other in .


I like this series but its not one of my favorites from Carly Phillips but i do really want to read Lucy and Max's book :) it sounds really good.
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Profile Image for Cindy (BKind2Books).
1,827 reviews40 followers
November 24, 2020
Fun, fluffy read that's not very taxing to read. This is mostly steamy action, but the plot is decent enough to keep it all together. Decklan and Amanda have been smoldering at each other from afar at the private club. They each have reasons that keep them from acting on their desires. They finally give in and sparks fly. There are no real surprises here, but it is a fun escapist read.
Profile Image for Misty (Reds Romance Reviews).
3,378 reviews6 followers
November 9, 2018
Nobody does romance quite like Ms. Phillips, the moment I started this one I knew I was in for a good story, it was engaging, heartfelt, and extremely sexy! Highly recommend this one, the instant you meet Decklan Dare you will lose your heart!!
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640 reviews23 followers
November 10, 2014
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“He needed control. She shredded his.”

Sadly this is my first Carly Phillips books. I say sadly because this book was amazing. I loved it! I devoured this story in one night. I wish I had read the other books in the Dare series just because if this one was this good the others must be just as good.

Decklan Dare needs control. He lost his parents at a young age and now he is so afraid of losing someone he loves again he avoids relationships. He keeps his encounters one night stands and leaves it at that. The control he uses keeps the women tied up and unable to make their way into his heart. Until he finally gets a night with the women he has been watching for six months.

“He wasn’t about to live in fear anymore. And he wasn’t about to live without Amanda.”

Amanda has be verbally abused by her mother her entire life. Now she looks for BDSM relationships so that she can feel that she has pleased someone. She keeps them to one night stands so that she can keep her best friends secret as well. She hasn’t found someone who gives her what she needs until the man that has been watching her saves her in the club.

Decklan and Amanda both have their own issues that keep them away from relationships. Decklan is the first to fall and be ok with it. Decklan was one sexy man in this book. When he realized what he had he was going to work to keep it. He managed to get over his baggage for the most part. Amanda was a good character too. She has body issues but she lets Decklan help her get over them. She kept her secret for a while but I can understand why she did. Even though she had her issues she was still a strong character.

“His eyes dilated. “We’re celebrating forever, baby. That’s what we’re celebrating.” And that was perfectly fine with her.”

Let me tell you. Carly Phillips knows how to write a sex scene. Those scenes were steamy, sexy, and downright hot. Even though the scenes were hot there was still love at its base, even in the beginning. You could feel the emotions that they were both trying to deny.

This book was hot, sexy, and full of emotion. The writing was done well and the flow was perfect. There wasn’t a moment in this book were I was skipping, skimming, or getting bored. I enjoyed every minutes of reading Decklan and Amanda fall and fight for their love. I will definitely be picking up the other books in the Dare clan!

You should too!
Profile Image for Roxanne.
850 reviews58 followers
November 7, 2014
Thank you to Netgalley and CP Publishing for allowing me to read and review an advanced copy of this book.

Honestly, when I read the first page of this book, I cringed. The opening scene was set in a BDSM club, and automatically I thought, "Oh great, here we go again! What was I thinking requesting this title? I told myself no more BDSM!" Luckily I kept reading instead of giving up after the first chapter, because I was pleasantly surprised by "Dare to Submit". The BDSM aspect in no way took over the plot - it was part of the story, but more like a footnote. I instead found myself completely drawn into the drama between Decklan and Amanda, eagerly anticipating each interaction rather than dreading the distasteful spankings I've witnessed in other books.

Decklan and Amanda are easy to love. They have everything I'm looking for when I want a heartfelt, romantic read, but they've also got that spiciness that keeps it all from being a bit too PG-rated for my taste. Decklan is masculine, but not too domineering. He's strong, but with a dose of vulnerability on the side. Amanda has body image issues, but instead of constantly whining about her size, she's attempting to come to peace with her body and just be happy with herself. Her struggles only endeared me more to her!

The sincere affection and chemistry between these two characters kept me turning the pages, but the smooth and polished writing is what helped "Dare to Submit" earn a relatively high rating from me. It also convinced me to buy the others in the series as well. Can't wait to read more from Carly Phillips!
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7,046 reviews870 followers
September 12, 2014
Shelly

Shelly‘s review posted on Guilty Pleasures Book Reviews

4 STARS

Review copy provided for an honest review


Decklan Dare is a hot, sexy, alpha cop. He does not want a relationship which makes the BDSM club the perfect place for him to fulfill his needs and desires. Amanda Collins is a beautiful, curvy woman that has image issues, thanks to her very critical mother, which is why she goes to BDSM clubs to fulfill her needs. They have seen each other, but have never had a relationship at the club, until one night when an encounter goes wrong and Decklan steps in. They agree to a one-night stand, but one night is not enough for either of them and as they continue to learn more and more about each other love starts to grow, but Amanda has a secret that could be a game changer for both of them.
This is not a hard-core BDSM book. I know this is a part of a series, but is a good stand alone as well, I have not read the others and didn’t feel like I was missing anything. The secondary characters in the book, mostly Decklan’s sibling make you want to read their stories as well. Great love story of overcoming trust issues by both Amanda and Decklan.
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3,247 reviews1 follower
September 7, 2014
Dare to Submit by Carly Phillips

Dare to Submitis another HOT read by Carly Phillips. Once again we are reading about the Dare Family. This time it is Decklan Dare, the hot NY cop that is highlighted. He meets Amanda in a BDSM club and invites her to scene with him and he ends up taking her home. Decklan and Amanda are both scarred from their life and skittish of any kind of a relationship.

Carly Phillips is able to show the duality in her characters. They so want to be loved and so do not want relationships. It is fun watching the web draw them closer and closer. I always wish the books were longer because I am so not ready for the books to end. I want to stay in their fantasy for as long as possible.

With each book the couples seem to get hotter and hotter. I think this one may be the hottest yet. I am going to have a hard time waiting until the next one in the series is available. Fab Sexy Hot Read.
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3,723 reviews40 followers
January 17, 2015
"I received a free copy of this book to read and review for Wicked Reads."

Having just read Gabe's story in Dare to Surrender, it was fun to see his brother go through a very similar scenario. I liked that Amanda was torn between loyalty and love, and enjoyed watching it unravel and then be restored. It was hot, passionate and entertaining reading. The opportunity to get snippets of the previous Dare family members who have found happiness is also gratifying. I'm very much looking forward to Olivia's story in the next book, as the Dare boys have been getting all the action!



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Profile Image for Mandy.
1,559 reviews233 followers
September 7, 2014
This is my first Carly Phillips book. I really enjoyed this one. Amanda goes to a BDSM club where she meets the very sexy dom, Decklan. Both Amanda and Decklan are not looking for relationships for their own reasons but sometimes when you meet someone you connect with, you can't help but develop feelings. Amanda and Decklan together are HOT!!! This book had a lot of really sexy times and an interesting storyline. Looking forward to reading more in this series!


**ARC provided in exchange for an honest review**
Profile Image for Nadine.
739 reviews103 followers
July 29, 2016
Decklan and Amanda meet in a sex club, looking for casual sex, but what develops between them is much more.
In the first third there was not much story just erotic encounters between the hero and the heroine. They were a bit tame given the way they had met and the whole SM club backstory.
The characters were ok, I really liked the supporting characters, which obviously had/ have their own books in which they feature(d) as the main characters.
All in all it was ok, but a bit boring. A quick and forgettable read.
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1,959 reviews9 followers
November 30, 2019
Hot with a hint of dangsr

“We’ll get there. I promise. I just want to celebrate.” Love this couple, while dealing with their Individual issues they engage in an affair, recognizing the hot connection they have, not expecting to fall for each other
Profile Image for Alison.
1,122 reviews13 followers
September 16, 2015
love the right amount of angst, alpha and really hot love story
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Author 64 books745 followers
October 19, 2016
Loved!

You can never go wrong with Carly Phillips! I'm always a fan and this book kept my engaged the entire time:) Love me some Decklan!
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