You've GOT to read this Great Conversations series: (The others are 1) New Birth or Rebirth-Jesus Talks with Krishna; 2) The Lamb and the Fuhrer--Jesus Talks with Hitler; 3) Sense and Sensuality--Jesus Talks with Oscar Wilde; & 4) Prince and the Prophet--Jesus Talks with Mohammed [to be released posthumously])! Actually, I've read most in this series years ago, but have decided to re-read them since they're so good and relevant to teaching World Religions and my life in general. They are all fictional stories, but are based on who these leaders were based on the scriptures or their autobiographies. So, in other words, they are imaginary dialogues but based on what they taught and represented in their lives. Zacharias imagines what might they say to each other based on who they were.
In this particular dialogue, The Lotus and the Cross: Jesus Talks with Buddha, Ravi introduces Priya, who was a real person who killed herself in a fire and died with AIDS after having been promised a better life in the big city only to be raped by the man who made the promise and later subjecting her to a lifestyle of prostitution [Unfortunately, this is a common story in Bangkok, which is a center for human/sex trafficking]. This book also includes a Boat Driver, a fictional character who travels to Bangkok in order eavesdrop into the conversation of them all as a seeker of truth [just as the reader of the book].
Reading this week me to post this on Facebook: "If all religions are basically the same, as so many people are saying today, why do people get so bothered when people from one religion convert to another? Or, for that matter, even consider other religions as real options?"
The book covers the following topics in an easy to read, highly informative format:
" The problem with humanity: sinful nature [Christianity] vs. ignorance & craving [Buddhism]
" The evil one, the Devil [who tempted Jesus & His followers] vs. Mara [who tempted Siddhartha Gautama]
" Forgiveness of sin [Christianity] vs. karma and reincarnation [Buddhism]
" Responding to suffering by people in the Bible vs. Buddha's teachings
" One life of Jesus [and the rest of humanity] vs. previous lives of the Buddha
" The self and one's soul [Christianity] vs. anatman (Sanskrit) or anatta (Pali), which is the Buddhist doctrine that there is no soul or self
" Jesus being perfect as God vs. the Buddha being enlightened and perfect in knowledge, yet changing "his" mind about a couple things (i.e. followers of his needed to get parental permission, which his dad, Suddhodhana, pressed him for; his mother pressed him to change his stance on allowing women to join his ranks, which he did after her persistence)
" Grace and mercy vs. superstition and legalism
" Communion vs. union/desolation
" Eternal life vs. impermanence
So, in the end, this book has LOTS of ideas to wrestle with that are primed for conversations with your Buddhist friends [or seekers who don't really know what they believe in yet]. It's a springboard for further discussions and research to determine what one should believe and build their lives upon.
Here are my notes from the reading
One day we will all find out that being respectful and sincere does not give us a license to be wrong. (8)
Prologue
The income from prostitution, they declare, exceeds the entire national budget. (10)
This dialogue is about what might Jesus and Buddha talk about in Bangkok-especially as it relates to a young girl named Priya [before she killed herself in a fire] who died with AIDS after having been promised a better life in the big city only to be raped by the man who made the promise and later subjecting her to a lifestyle of prostitution.
Jesus: Priya means "sweetheart" or "beloved." (15)
Priya: When each heartbeat sends a fresh, searing jolt of pain, why would I want it to keep beating? You know, we have a common saying in my culture when anything goes wrong-it basically means "Never mind" or "It will all work out." I heard it a dozen times a day growing up. But I don't believe that anymore. (15)
Jesus: Time isn't just a fleeting thing. It never moves forward without engraving its mark upon the heart [for better or worse]. (17)
…That's the deceit of the human heart…and of the evil one. He enticed you, as he entices everyone, in small increments. It happens all too often.
You know, when the imagination is beguiled-which is where it all begins-and the will succumbs, the mind is unwittingly taken prisoner. With each breakdown of the will comes a greater imprisonment of the mind. You end up doing what you don't want to do, and not doing what you should do. How wretched you feel then! (18)
Buddha: I, too, feel compassion for this woman, and I don't want her distracted by the things you're suggesting. Spiritual death, the Word of God, forgiveness-those are crutched for the spiritually weak. They're not realities but illusions!
And as for the evil one having some part here, I no longer believe these things in my enlightened condition. (19)
Jesus: And your followers well know that debate and disagreement aren't exactly unfamiliar terrain to you.
Buddha: Woman, you don't realize it, but everything you've lived through is the fruit of all that you yourself have sown. You were not free from debt when you were born, and you won't be free from debt when you die. You were born with a cup half full; (21)
you have filled it the rest of the way. And your every act, word, and deed has to be paid for.
Jesus: Carved into their consciences is this enormous moral debt you speak of. What an unbearable burden you're laying upon humanity, Gautama!
How does one pay? With what does one pay? And to whom does one pay? The creditor haunts but isn't there.
Buddha: But I didn't just arbitrarily make up this philosophy. Years of thought went into it. Where do I begin to explain it?
A moral law of cause and effect exists in the human consciousness. This has nothing to do with God or the evil one. Whether they exist or not is completely immaterial. The collective moral capital with which you were born, Priya, is something you had nothing to do with-that, at least, should bring you comfort.
But your present moral bankruptcy is because of the way you spent your life-that should bring you responsibility. You (22)
came into being bearing another's debt. Your choice was to reduce the debt or to pay it.
The word is karma-the karma of lives gone by or your own karma. This combination of what is inherited and what is spent is like a wheel that will either crush you or enable you to break free from its repetition when you've lived a pure life. You won't escape the results of what you've done.
There's hope, though! The sum of your good deeds and bad deeds will reappear in another life. You've made your deposit into an account that will be drawn from in a reborn life.
Priya: So I'll be reincarnated with another chance at payment, right?
Buddha: Not quite as simple as that. You're mistakenly using the term reincarnated. You're not technically incarnated again…you're reborn because you don't return as yourself. Another life will make its entrance after you're gone. That's the difference between what I call "rebirth" and what the Hindus call "reincarnation." I teach that another consciousness with the moral deposit reaped from your indebtedness will be born.
Priya: Whose karma is being worked out when each life is wrapped around so many? I wonder: Are my parents also paying for past lives through my tragedy? Are my customers paying when I sell (23)
my diseased body to them? What about the baby that I gave up? Was that its karma, even before it knew anything about good or bad? I mean, trying to reach for an answer in this karmic cycle is like putting your hand in a bucket of glue and then trying to wipe it clean. Everything you touch becomes sticky and there's nowhere to wash it off.
Buddha: I have a technical term for all this: dependent origination. Your origin is dependent upon innumerable causes, Priya.
Invest in a life of good deeds that will outweigh the bad ones. That's your only hope. (24)
I had three palaces, one for each season [growing up]. (26)
Actually, just seven days after I was born my mother died and I was raised by my aunt, whom my father married after the death of my mother.
Jesus: Centuries before pain and suffering became your pursuit, one of the patriarchs of old, a man by the name of Job, wrestled with it day and night. (27)
And in his story, Satan played a pivotal role-even as he did in yours (29)
Those who define truth by the calendar run afoul of Him who created time.
Buddha: But I see your point: How can time argue with eternity? (29)
I left the very night our son was born. I named him Rahula, which means "fetters" or "shackles." (30)
I was born a Hindu and had studied under two great Brahman [Brahmin?] teachers. Among other doctrines, I disagreed with the authority of the Vedas.
In fact, anytime my followers are uncomfortable with some of my teachings, they blame it on some Hindu influence I hadn't completely shaken off.
Then in one stretch of several days I sat motionless under a fig tree in a place called Bodhgaya. As I was meditating, something strange and wonderful happened. There came upon me a transcending memory of all my thousands-indeed, infinite number-of previous lives, and everything past, present, and future opened up like a book before me. I was in a state of unparalleled tranquility. I would call it a life of perfect balance… I saw as I had never seen before. I saw the illusion with which humanity lives. At the same time, something was extinguished as it had never been extinguished before. Every passion, every craving, every desire was gone. I was unmoved by either joy or sorrow. I became unshackled from desire.
Jesus: You determined not to give up your personal pursuit, did you say?
Buddha: I was concerned with one fundamental matter-Truth. I have since told my disciples never to follow anything or anyone just because someone else says so. You must taste and see for yourself whether something is true or false. To that I am firmly committed.
Jesus: An incredible ideal. Just think about it. How can it be possible that all desires are wrong? (33)
Think of Nathaniel [in the Gospels]…I revealed to him the innermost inclinations of his heart…Few experiences are as jolting as really knowing yourself for the first time through meeting someone else. That's the power and unpretentiousness of truth.
In fact, even as I observe your followers, they work hard at being compassionate and selfless. Some of my followers can learn much from their simplicity.
But something else quickly stands out: rules, scores of rules, like a noose tauntingly above the head, ready at the hint of one wrong move to be tightened around the neck. (34)
Take a look at this catalog of rules by which one builds his merit: 4 sets of rules for great offenses, 13 rules required for formal participation in the brotherhood, 30 rules to curb greed and possessions, 92 rules of offenses under yet another category, 75 rules for proper behavior of novices who seek admission to the order, and 7 ways of settling disputes.
The list goes on-227 rules for the male monk and 311 for the female-plus scores of fine-print contingencies. This is the Rule Book of rule books!
I see the wandering monks with their bowls in their hands, beginning each day with the hope of bringing themselves under these precepts, none ever quite sure if they've made it.
The fact is that countless numbers have sought the way of renunciation. Some have sat in caves [Tibet] for a lifetime [or decades] in meditative silence. I see them even now. I hear them in their wordless cries-but Gautama, you've not seen their hearts as I have. (35)
Buddha: In fact, many of my followers have written about how close your teachings are to mine.
Jesus: But, sad to say, those very scholars have taken the lighter matters of what I have taught and have neglected the weightier matters at the heart of my teaching.
When you mix falsehood with truth, you create a more destructive lie. In fact, many of these very scholars have even distorted what you have taught. You know, Gautama, morality as a badge of attainment breeds the deadliest state of mind-a delusion of absolute autonomy. (38)
A young ruler, also very rich, once came to me and told me that he had kept all the moral precepts, yet was still looking for life. It had eluded him
By contrast, one who sees his or her spiritual poverty and comes to God for help is far closer to God's kingdom. It's a bit like standing on a mountain and looking down at a city below. If the only path down the mountain winds around it, at times you may actually find yourself farther from the city, sometimes even losing sight of it, in order to get closer to the city.
Buddha: Life is suffering [dukkha] (40)
If I were to take two words to summarize the dilemma of being human, they would be ignorance and craving. Take Priya, for example. I pity her very much, but her life-destroying error lay in her ignorance of who she really is, not just in her existence but in her essence. In that ignorance, thinking she was pleasing herself, she went hungering after money, comfort, and success, and now she lies here shattered and dying…and she has taken others with her. Had she been devoid of her "self" and her victims devoid of their "selves," this would never have happened.
Jesus: Here we approach the first major point of surface similarity but substantive difference. When you say that (41)
she needs to free herself from the idea of self, there's a world of difference between what you're meaning and what I mean when I say that one must deny himself before following me.
Buddha: …after I realized enlightenment, I actually thought of spending my life without uttering a word of what I'd found. I was convinced that my discovery was unique and to most people unfathomable. But I broke my silence partly because my followers assured me that I was wrong in my appraisal that they wouldn't be able to understand the truth of my realizing nirvana.
But this much she must understand: that she has to shake off this notion of a personal self. You're hoping we get back to her personal quest, Jesus, but I hope exactly the opposite. I hope that she will bury the personal pursuit once and for all. (43)
Jesus: You say that you had reached a place of perfect knowledge and understanding; yet you were corrected by your disciples, not merely on the timing, but on the very mission you ultimately set upon. Please tell me, doesn't that sound a bit odd?
Knowledge was complete. No more desire. Yet the "unenlightened" were able to correct the "enlightened" and change your conclusion…and you condescended? I'm not sure it makes sense… And there were numerous other serious matters on which you yielded to their pressure.
Buddha: Yes, that's true. Long after my enlightenment my father came to me and requested that no young person join my (44)
ranks without parental permission. He had a reason for that, of course: because I had left home without his permission. So I made that a precondition for any man who wanted to join my ranks.
As for my stepmother…well, that's another story! She came to me three times and pleaded to be allowed in the ranks of the monks, and I didn't permit her to do so because I was uncertain about women being in the order. I felt it wasn't possible for women to really pay the price. Then she, along with several hundred women, shaved their heads and came once again, this time represented by my disciple Ananda, who persuaded me to accept them by reminding me of how she had sacrificially taken care of me. I finally relented and admitted them. I suppose these are the things you're thinking of.
But Jesus, my followers have pointed out how God, too, changed His mind at the entreaty of Moses and Abraham. So what's the difference?
Jesus: …one of the biggest mistakes people make is to see a small point of similarity and forget the world of difference behind it. (46)
You see, Gautama, God has given His followers the privilege of prayer and intercession. Prayer is a constant reminder that the human being is not autonomous. Prayer in its most basic form is the surging of the human spirit in its weakness, grasping at the Spirit of God in His strength. Sometimes mere words cannot give shape to the longing of the heart… God answers every prayer by either giving what is asked for or reminding the petitioner that God's provision is built on His wisdom and executed in His time. But the answer is always for the instruction and nurture of the soul. Never is any new knowledge added to the mind of God.
God doesn't respond because someone opens up some new insight for Him. No. In persistent, fervent prayer, God prepares the soil of one's heart to make room for the seed of His answer, from which will flower an alignment with His will.
That's why I often told my disciples to be persistent and pray in faith. When the seed meets the soil and the season is right, the bloom touches heaven.
Buddha: But prayer is a dimension that doesn't fit in with my teaching.
Jesus: Exactly! When you changed your mind, it wasn't because something had changed in the petitioner; something had changed in you. You drastically altered the very makeup of your following because you were moved from a place of disbelieving something to believing it. (47)
That's the reason I was careful to say that your disciples were able to change your assumptions and your conclusions-not the form, but the very substance.
That is never true of God, who knows the beginning from the end. A plea for mercy does not diminish God's perfect knowledge. In fact, it is part of the very pattern God has designed for responding to the sincere heart.
Priya: How often I dreamed that my prayer-that my cry-was heard by some power greater than mine.
Jesus: Isn't this also a core difference, Gautama? Just as the call of karma demands payment of a debt when there is no creditor to receive it, so with the desire of your followers to make a petition for their needs, there is no one to whom they can go.
Buddha: Yes, there are cardinal differences between one who prays and one who meditates. One looks beyond and the other looks within… with my followers prayer does "slip in," as you say. That's when reason is set aside and emotion triumphs. (49)
The truth is that I lived for forty-five years after realizing nirvana before my parinirvana, my departure into oblivion, at death. But during those forty-five years there was a process of clarification for me. All understanding takes time. And I was no different.
Jesus: I only raised the point because there's much more at stake here than just clarification.
You were emphatic that there was no need for God to explain the created order and no need for God to be your teacher. You said repeatedly that each person was his or her own refuge. Yet it's evident there was so much you still did not know. Your admission I respect; your reasoning on this doesn't comport with reality.
There are mysteries to life that are still beyond you, yet you claim to have arrived. Is this not troublesome to you?
Buddha: No, because I believe I have arrived.
Jesus: How do you break free from the tension? You insist on the pursuit of truth wherever it leads but get snared by this breakdown in your own claim. You not only claimed to know everything, but you also said that you knew even more than God. Job thought he knew everything, too, and when God confronted him with a flurry of questions, Job was thoroughly embarrassed about how much he did not know.