This is undoubtably one of the best books I have ever read. At the beginning of the year, Matthew 6 solidified itself into my daily life and became a frequent topic of conversation throughout the year. When it comes to anxiety and worry, my default is to work harder, prayer louder and more often, and strive in my flesh to defeat my own mind. What I should be doing—and what God commands his people to do—is fix my gaze on Christ and all that he is. Jonny Ardavanis took the words of Jesus recorded in Matthew 6, "Consider the lilies," and wrote an incredibly convicting book exhorting us to do exactly that: To turn our eyes upon Jesus and his character and rest in his perfect love.
Here are some of my favorite quotes:
"Natural temperament is never an excuse for ungodly worry."
"Worry is meditation. Whatever we worry about, we fixate on. And when we fixate unduly on our fears, concerns, and cares, we fail to exercise our faith in who God is as our heavenly Father."
"When we pool our anxieties rather than channel them toward God, we live as functional atheists. We may claim to believe in God, but when our hearts are weighed down by cares and concerns to the degree that we become anxious about them, Jesus said we are living exactly as the Gentiles who didn't know God at all."
"Fashions change. Minds dim. Faces wrinkle. The most beautiful flower begins to die the moment you pluck it. This world is passing away, so Jesus asks, "Why would you live for it?" If we do live for this world, of course we will be anxious! Because everything in this world is fleeting, fragile, and unpredictable. But if we set up for ourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves don't break in and steal, we will live our lives with a blessed detachment from this world."
"Worry is the offspring of the mind not actively governed by faith in our Father."
"God doesn't simply want to remove your worry, he wants to replace your worry with trust. Praying "God, take away my worry!" is not the same thing as "God, help me to trust you as I feed my mind the truth of your word, meditate on your matchless character, fix my mind and set my gaze on your love, wisdom, and sovereignty, and give me a peace that can only come from you." The opposite of anxiety is not the absence thereof, but the presence of something only God can provide: perfect peace."
"Small thoughts of God and shallow levels of intimacy with him will always result in a small degree of peace and shallow levels of trust. Your stability amid the storms of life is in direct proportion to the degree that your mind is fixed on God."
"If He (God) is not sovereign, then you cannot trust him. If God is not in control, then our entire lives are out of control and we are left straining and striving to control all things ourselves, which only serves to perpetuate our anxiety and fear. Moreover, a failure to fix our gaze on the sovereignty of our Heavenly Father not only accelerates our anxiety, but it diminishes the entirety of the way we view God's character. Why? Because our Father's sovereignty is necessary for any of his other attributes to have any value or meaning to us. For example, if God is good and kind but lacks the sovereignty to extend and express his goodness and kindness, what good would his goodness be? If he is wise but lacks the sovereignty to carry out the wisdom of his will, what good would his wisdom be? If he is love, but his hands are tied and his fingers crossed because he lacks control, the value of his love would be diminished and the entirety of his character would be distorted. If God is not sovereign, he is not God."
"God's commandments are his enablings. Therefore, joy and pain and affliction is not only possible, it is a promised fruit for all who walk in the Spirit. Our Father not only offers his anxious and weary children a way out of the black pit of despair and anxiety, he offers us hope and joy in Christ Jesus."