The best parts were the direct quotes from the Shakers, the worst parts (more numerous) were when Skees got in the way of their stories with her Eat Pray Love personal narrative of living among them—a narrative made less convincing by the fact that she didn't actually live among them (she lived nearby) and that she visited them for a relatively brief period of time (she never says exactly how long, but it felt like three or so months—hardly a year-long mid-life pilgrimage).
But here are some quotes from the Shakers.
On how the commitment required of monogamy means sacrificing the ability to love without exclusion:
"What makes you think we're giving up on something? ... How do you know we don't have the better way and that actually the people who choose the nuclear family life have given up something?" (148).
On changing traditions to ensure that everyone can participate:
"Union is like a golden chain, and if even one link of that chain is broken, then the whole chain has to suffer ... Whatever we do, it has to be something that everyone in the community is able to join in" (179/180).
On a non-anthropomorphic God:
"Father/Mother God is a spirit, and God is love ... I think our God is an awful lot easier to believe in than the God of the average orthodox Christian" (212).
On the promise of faith, from a recent semi-convert to Shakerism:
"As I was driving along, I looked out the window and saw the sun shining so beautifully on this perfect day, and a feeling of incredible happiness just flowed through me. I can't explain it, but this sort of thing has happened several times lately. It's a feeling of sheer, unexpected joy" (258).