If a married woman were to list the significant personal relationships in her life, it would be assumed that the most significant, most deeply felt, most comforting, most interactive would be with her spouse. Love those men (or women) as we may, oftentimes they would not fill the role as adequately as a trusted female friend. I had (have) such a friend. For 18 years I spoke every day with her about the significant and the mundane details of my life. The experience was never finished until I told her about it and heard her take on it. We had a standing lunch date at a local Mexican restaurant for 18 years. We now live very far away from each other and the relationship is changed by that distance but never again have I found such a friend.
This wonderful book reminded me of Maryell and our outstanding friendship and likewise, how much I miss it. I love my husband and my daughters, my sisters, my sons-in-law, my mothers, my grandchild, each with a deep and abiding affection and emotion. But none of them fills the void that a very good friend can, a trusted soul to whom you can tell anything, the good, the bad, the things you are most proud of, the things you are deeply ashamed of.
Read this book. Then go call your friend and tell her about it.