Slow Sex Secrets: Lessons from the Master Masseur

by Adam Tokunaga, Marc Adler (Translator)

Have you had great sex? Oh, you may think you have, at times eliciting vocal responses or squirms of seeming pleasure from your partner. And in comparison to your peers, your intimate moments may be a step above the curve. But according to author of Slow Sex Lessons from the Master Masseur Adam Tokunaga, you haven't. Why? Because only he has had truly earthshattering sex, and because only he has unlocked the secrets to the kind of sex that even the ancient Indian masters of the Kama Sutra envy.A word-of-mouth bestseller in Japan, Slow Sex Lessons from the Master Masseur enlightens today’s selfish man to the debilitating effects of self-centered sex. Through in-depth analyses, based on more than a thousand sexual encounters with women, Japanese sexpert Adam Tokunaga reveals the secrets to having mind-blowing sex. Concepts and strategies    • “Time”—the magic word. But don’t be fooled; “longer” is not necessarily the key, but an important facet to be married with “quality.”    • The plague of “junk sex”—men’s concept of orgasming as if the act were the finish line of a race to be run as quickly as possible, leaving women to become disillusioned with sex, causing them to become “frigid.”   • The “Adam Touch”—Tokunaga’s secret massage-derived technique that drives women wild.   • Adam’s G-spot, the amazing T-spot, and uncovering the secrets of the mysterious A-spot.

Genres: Sexuality, Nonfiction

160 pages, Kindle Edition

First published September 16, 2008

Reviews

[Anna · Rating 1 out of 5]

Really? "for a man to become a mature adult, reaching a higher plane of emotional and sexual awareness. Men today are selfish, stupid and short-sighted". Some people are selfish, and some aren't. Sweeping generalizations about men today as opposed to the men from the 1800's are just ridiculous. This isn't a "how-to" book so much as a "see how much more enlightened I am than anyone else" monologue. Save your time and money, read some smut that lights your fire then experiment with someone you like, or love

[Dez Van Der Voort · Rating 5 out of 5]

Writing: 4/5
Knowledge Gained: 5/5
Enjoyment: 4/5

Great book on slow sex, I've read a few, and this is the best. If you're curious about the actual method, it's in the last third of the book, the author details it clearly, with easy diagrams.

The author believes that a good sex should last at least an hour, on average 2 hours. Best, forget the time, throw out the clock, have some 1 hour foreplay, 2 hours penetration, no afterplay, because by the end, both of you will reach serenity, and fall asleep together peacefully, delighting in each other. Author is quite negative regarding oral sex, as he believes that the tongue is rough compared to the fingers, and saliva doesn't moisten/lubricate as good as oil, and it leaves a bad after-smell. His method contains 4-5 different penetrating methods, with the first 2 or 3 focusing exclusively on the hands and fingers, especially the fingers.

Great writing too, and cut to the quick in 200 or so pages.

Disclaimer: I haven't tried it out with my spouse yet, we'll try it out and see if Tokunaga is a snakes oil salesman, or a method revolutionary.

[Aimee · Rating 2 out of 5]

2.5 stars This book was poorly written and a little too self-congratulatory. The idea of focusing on pleasure rather than orgasm is a great one and a few of the techniques were interesting, but a good bit of the book focused on practices that I would never condone.

[Kristen Lancaster · Rating 4 out of 5]

If you can look past the overgeneralizations and egocentric writing style, this book is full of great information. I recommend to anyone interested in pleasing a woman and any woman interested in learning about her sexual potential.

“Ideal sex is sex that satisfies both the man and the woman—that focuses on each other’s pleasures and forgets the clock.”

[Sasha · Rating 2 out of 5]

Certainly an odd book. I think the information in here is good, although he spends much more time in the negative perspective of what is wrong about the way people have sex, and is perfunctory in describing what his actual recommendations are. Short, efficient read. You can't take every single turn of phrase too seriously.

[Tamara]

Disclaimer: Luke, cover your ears.

Ok, I am not really going to read this, but I thought it was HILARIOUS that Publisher's Weekly featured it with the tagline "You're Doing it Wrong." LOL!