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368 pages, Hardcover
First published September 1, 2011
The regret that torments him, the failure he dreads, is not the loss of a function or purpose, but the loss of status ………. In our insecurity we seek ways to make others feel insecure. We’re like shipwrecked sailors all struggling to climb onto a life raft. We believe that each person who gets on the raft lessens our own chances of survival, so even as we fight for a handhold, we push our companions back into the water. And then safe on the raft, we survivors eye each other wearily, knowing that supplies are limited …. There’s no friendship possible in such a world, only alliances of mutual convenience ……………… [But] there is another world, where people form and nurture bonds with each other; where the success of one is the success of all …… Why is this not evident in his own life? Because the people he mixes with a re high achievers, greedy for attention
Demand a life of ever-mounting achievement and of course disappointment lies ahead. But such a demand is self-created, unachievable, foolish. Life is not a staircase. To each age certain ways of being are appropriate. There are high points and low points …. Income, status, health and happiness all peak and trough at differing times …. Look on your life not as a race which must end in victory or defeat, but as an adventure into the unknown. As long as you live there’s more to be discovered, more to be enjoyed. The magical virtue called humility sets you free.