Enfants de manipulateurs : Comment les protéger?

by Christel Petitcollin

Quand on est un manipulateur, on l'est avec tout le monde : sa famille, son conjoint, ses voisins, ses collègues, la police, la justice... Alors, par quel miracle ne le serait-on pas avec ses enfants?

Genres: Psychology

346 pages, Hardcover

First published January 1, 2013

About the author

Conseil et Formatrice en Communication et Développement Personnel
Conférencière et Ecrivain
Formatrice professionnelle indépendante

Reviews

[Emmanuelle · Rating 5 out of 5]

It is a very powerful book that is dedicated, like a chess game, to gather all the tactics and strategies to use to protect yourself, protect your children, and finally, slowly arm yourself to face the pressure of a divorce, a separation that will not be, in all cases, ordinary, but a real bomb to know how to handle with skill so that it does not explode in your face. ...and all this if you are under the influence of someone, man or woman, what we call the manipulators or narcissistic perverts. It is a book that wants to be a part because it was not by a victim (are we all different, nor theorists who play dogmas, principles without knowing the least the life of victims and the profile of persecutors). Stockholm's syndrome is well underlined and the author, who is as sharp as a razor blade, aims to shake us up (and she succeeds in doing so in order to know what stage we are at and what we still have to do... so much to get out of it in the face of an untrained and inadequate Justice that spoils many children's and women's/men's lives) The author has worked more than 20 years helping in psychotherapy this one profile of the victim and is recommended to the courts. This book will upset you, but it will also make you laugh. The end is beautiful, an honor for me to have read this book, a tribute that she pays to the children of the world in a state of permanent suffering, France being the bad pupil, condemned by the European Court of Justice for not applying the law of protection of minors in the case of pedophilia or incest. If you are a victim if you still have questions after reading X books on the subject: don't hesitate any longer, this is the one that will help you to get out of the hell with its complement that I will read for myself "How to divorce a manipulator"... There are so many tricks to know because the NPS doesn't think like us, and the author has the gift of knowing how to anticipate (by dint of practice with victims) so as not to fall into other traps, to be more clear-sighted, more psychorigid as a couple and to have the anticipated proofs to produce in Justice to have sole custody of her children and thus, protect them. This is what I had to say: buy it, you will be greatly surprised by the lack of unrealism of other books on this subject with too many biases.

[Bruno Sbille · Rating 3 out of 5]

Ce livre est utile, notamment par le rappel des techniques utilisées par les manipulateurs.

Je suis un grand fan de l'auteur mais j'ai moins apprécié ce livre, j'y ai senti un côté revendicatif (féministe ?) plus marqués que dans ses autres ouvrages.
Dans la série "je pense trop" on sent vraiment l'empathie de l'auteur par rapport à ceux qui peuvent être HP. Je n'ai pas senti ça dans ce livre.

Les nombreux témoignages aident, même si c'est pour se rendre compte d'une réalité difficile... souvent dans notre système actuel, c'est le manipulateur qui gagne...

[Jessica D · Rating 4 out of 5]

Excellent ouvrage. Très bons exemples concrets.