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I Need Some Help Here!: Hope For When Your Kids Don't Go According To Plan
Popular speaker helps moms pray with boldness and confidence by offering Scripture-based prayers focused on 14 specific areas of their children's lives.
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176 pages, Paperback
First published May 27, 2014
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Kathi Lipp
42 books338 followersKathi loves giving real help and how-tos to move people forward in every area of their lives. With humor and wisdom, Kathi offers hope paired with practical steps to live with meaning.
Kathi Lipp is the Publisher Weekly bestselling author of 17 books including Clutter Free, The Get Yourself Organized Project, The Husband Project, and Overwhelmed.
She is the host of Clutter Free Academy the Podcast, runs the Facebook group Clutter Free Academy where 8000 women (and a few brave men) learn to live free from clutter. Kathi speaks at conferences across the US.
She is featured on Focus on the Family, MOPS International, Crosswalk.com, Girlfriends in God and Proverbs 31 Ministries as well as a number of other media outlets around the country. And she’s a featured expert on clutter for Women’s World Magazine and has been named “Best of Broadcast” on Focus on the Family twice.
Kathi Lipp is the Publisher Weekly bestselling author of 17 books including Clutter Free, The Get Yourself Organized Project, The Husband Project, and Overwhelmed.
She is the host of Clutter Free Academy the Podcast, runs the Facebook group Clutter Free Academy where 8000 women (and a few brave men) learn to live free from clutter. Kathi speaks at conferences across the US.
She is featured on Focus on the Family, MOPS International, Crosswalk.com, Girlfriends in God and Proverbs 31 Ministries as well as a number of other media outlets around the country. And she’s a featured expert on clutter for Women’s World Magazine and has been named “Best of Broadcast” on Focus on the Family twice.
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May 27, 2014
About the Book:
It's easy to feel overwhelmed as a parent--and worried and anxious. There are so many areas of a child's life that can go wrong along the way. What's a mom to do?
With wit and wisdom, Kathi Lipp meets moms where they are and offers the most powerful hope they have--prayer--for both their kids and themselves. Chapters include
When Your Child Is Running Away from God
When Your Child Makes Poor Choices
When Your Child Is Struggling
When Your Child Is Left Out
When Your Child Is Different
Moms who are overwhelmed or simply need a little support will cherish this expert guidance on praying for their kids--from toddler to teenager--with boldness and confidence.
About the Author:
Kathi Lipp is a full-time speaker and writer as well as being the parent of four young adults with her husband, Roger in San Jose, CA. When she is not doing laundry, she is speaking at retreats, conferences and women's events across the US.
Kathi's articles have appeared in Focus on the Family, Today's Christian Woman and Christian Parenting Today. Her books, The Husband Project, The Marriage Project, The Me Project, The "What's for Dinner?" Solution, The Get Yourself Organized Solution and 21 Ways to Connect with Your Kids are all published by Harvest House and now Praying God's Word for Your Husband has been released by Revell. Find out more about Kathi at http://www.kathilipp.com
My Review:
Talking about the right book to surface at the right time, this book was "it" for me. We have been noticing and even caught one of our children in something we disapproved of as well as seeing some character traits that we didn't understand. We on one hand would say to God we hand over this child to you, but on the other hand would constantly wonder "how we were going to fix them".I think that mentality is common in most parents, you want to hand over your child to God but yet you find it hard not to stick your nose all in what He is trying to do. I think we mean the best by doing this, its just that our trust in Him is sometimes forgotten to the point that "we" try to fix the problem, all the while knowing that we can't.
I know for our family, we want our children to never forget that they are God's child not ours and that His opinion is worth more and comes at a highest cost than ours. This book is such a help to me and my husband and it would be a great help to you no matter the circumstance. Some of the chapter titles will definitely stir your curiosity, titles such as When My Child Is Running Away From God, When My Child Is Lacking Character, and When My Child Is Struggling. The information that the author gives is tried&true and very inspiring&encouraging. The times we live in are alot harder than they were when I was a child. The technology leads to bigger and bigger problems today among our youth and I believe that is where most of the struggle comes from.
When we finally do what we should of done in the first place is when things will be revealed and start to turn around. God loves them and even though sometimes it seems that He isn't with them, He really is. We need to step out of His way and let Him do His thing because alot of times we are preventing Him to complete His work and therefore it will be a longer struggle as a result.
**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from Revell.
It's easy to feel overwhelmed as a parent--and worried and anxious. There are so many areas of a child's life that can go wrong along the way. What's a mom to do?
With wit and wisdom, Kathi Lipp meets moms where they are and offers the most powerful hope they have--prayer--for both their kids and themselves. Chapters include
When Your Child Is Running Away from God
When Your Child Makes Poor Choices
When Your Child Is Struggling
When Your Child Is Left Out
When Your Child Is Different
Moms who are overwhelmed or simply need a little support will cherish this expert guidance on praying for their kids--from toddler to teenager--with boldness and confidence.
About the Author:
Kathi Lipp is a full-time speaker and writer as well as being the parent of four young adults with her husband, Roger in San Jose, CA. When she is not doing laundry, she is speaking at retreats, conferences and women's events across the US.
Kathi's articles have appeared in Focus on the Family, Today's Christian Woman and Christian Parenting Today. Her books, The Husband Project, The Marriage Project, The Me Project, The "What's for Dinner?" Solution, The Get Yourself Organized Solution and 21 Ways to Connect with Your Kids are all published by Harvest House and now Praying God's Word for Your Husband has been released by Revell. Find out more about Kathi at http://www.kathilipp.com
My Review:
Talking about the right book to surface at the right time, this book was "it" for me. We have been noticing and even caught one of our children in something we disapproved of as well as seeing some character traits that we didn't understand. We on one hand would say to God we hand over this child to you, but on the other hand would constantly wonder "how we were going to fix them".I think that mentality is common in most parents, you want to hand over your child to God but yet you find it hard not to stick your nose all in what He is trying to do. I think we mean the best by doing this, its just that our trust in Him is sometimes forgotten to the point that "we" try to fix the problem, all the while knowing that we can't.
I know for our family, we want our children to never forget that they are God's child not ours and that His opinion is worth more and comes at a highest cost than ours. This book is such a help to me and my husband and it would be a great help to you no matter the circumstance. Some of the chapter titles will definitely stir your curiosity, titles such as When My Child Is Running Away From God, When My Child Is Lacking Character, and When My Child Is Struggling. The information that the author gives is tried&true and very inspiring&encouraging. The times we live in are alot harder than they were when I was a child. The technology leads to bigger and bigger problems today among our youth and I believe that is where most of the struggle comes from.
When we finally do what we should of done in the first place is when things will be revealed and start to turn around. God loves them and even though sometimes it seems that He isn't with them, He really is. We need to step out of His way and let Him do His thing because alot of times we are preventing Him to complete His work and therefore it will be a longer struggle as a result.
**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from Revell.
June 11, 2014
Moms are an interesting lot. We have a constant fear of failing hanging over our heads. We’re pretty darn sure we’re warping our children for life, and will indeed spend billions of dollars on the million hours of therapy our children will need. We’re desperate for help as our hope drains to nothing. But we’re so darn stinking afraid to ask for the help we need. We don’t want anyone else to know we’re screwing up, lost hope around the time our children came home from the hospital, or if we’re lucky at least by their first birthday.
We don’t share our struggles for a number of reasons. We judge our inside by someone else’s outside. We look at other moms and how they act/interact with their children and automatically conclude she has it altogether and would never in a million years understand our struggle.
We fear rejection and judgement. If someone knew our struggle, or knew what our child was doing, or is really like they would think twice about associating with us. Maybe we think this for good reason. Maybe we have experienced this. Or maybe we felt this way when we heard of another mom’s struggle.
We measure ourselves and always come up lacking. We lack mercy, grace, love, knowledge, skills to name a few. I fear our social media society makes it entirely too easy to judge and utter hurtful words to each other.
I know I am not alone in struggling with raising my children. Children who are born with the same sin nature we all have. Children who don’t always follow the plan. Children who don’t always follow God like we would like. Children who act in ways we don’t want other parents to know because we fear how their behavior reflects on us.
found online at http://www.jenifermetzger.org
We all struggle with being a Bad Mom. But we aren’t alone! My friend, Kathi Lipp has written another stellar book. A book that offers hope and encouragement to every Momma in the trenches. Please don’t let the cover photo make you think it is only for Mommas of young children, this is a must read for Mommas in every stage of mothering. We all struggle. And we all need help and hope.
And we all need friends who are willing to offer that help, to infuse us with hope. We all need to be those kinds of friends.
This book is jam-packed with real life stories, with real-life struggles. With real hope.
This is not a “how-to have perfect children” book. This is a book filled with grace and love for when we do mess up, for when our children don’t go according to plan (and really who’s children do?)
Take it from me, another Momma in the trenches, go to amazon.com and order this book. I will warn you, the response has been amazing lately and they have trouble keeping this book in stock so you better order it sooner rather than later.
I received a free copy of this book from the author/publisher for the purpose of review.
We don’t share our struggles for a number of reasons. We judge our inside by someone else’s outside. We look at other moms and how they act/interact with their children and automatically conclude she has it altogether and would never in a million years understand our struggle.
We fear rejection and judgement. If someone knew our struggle, or knew what our child was doing, or is really like they would think twice about associating with us. Maybe we think this for good reason. Maybe we have experienced this. Or maybe we felt this way when we heard of another mom’s struggle.
We measure ourselves and always come up lacking. We lack mercy, grace, love, knowledge, skills to name a few. I fear our social media society makes it entirely too easy to judge and utter hurtful words to each other.
I know I am not alone in struggling with raising my children. Children who are born with the same sin nature we all have. Children who don’t always follow the plan. Children who don’t always follow God like we would like. Children who act in ways we don’t want other parents to know because we fear how their behavior reflects on us.
found online at http://www.jenifermetzger.org
We all struggle with being a Bad Mom. But we aren’t alone! My friend, Kathi Lipp has written another stellar book. A book that offers hope and encouragement to every Momma in the trenches. Please don’t let the cover photo make you think it is only for Mommas of young children, this is a must read for Mommas in every stage of mothering. We all struggle. And we all need help and hope.
And we all need friends who are willing to offer that help, to infuse us with hope. We all need to be those kinds of friends.
This book is jam-packed with real life stories, with real-life struggles. With real hope.
This is not a “how-to have perfect children” book. This is a book filled with grace and love for when we do mess up, for when our children don’t go according to plan (and really who’s children do?)
Take it from me, another Momma in the trenches, go to amazon.com and order this book. I will warn you, the response has been amazing lately and they have trouble keeping this book in stock so you better order it sooner rather than later.
I received a free copy of this book from the author/publisher for the purpose of review.
August 15, 2014
I had the privilege of reading I Need Some Help Here! by Kathi Lipp. What a great book and what great timing. We have children that are entering Kindergarten, middle school, and high school so even though I’ve “done middle school and kindergarten before” with each child it’s a new experience. This book was so encouraging to me. It reminded me that there is no such thing as a perfect parent (except for God’s example as a Father to us) and He doesn’t expect perfection from me…so I can let myself off the hook as well. I love how the author kept turning us back to the best example of a Father we have - God. She reminded me that the most effective parenting tool I have is prayer first and foremost, then support from other moms in the trenches - either in the same phase of childhood as my children or mentors who have been there/done that and can offer me wisdom. She also reminded me that childhood and parenting are meant to be embraced and laughter is my best friend.
Probably the statement that impacted me the most was this one: She stated how she has a core group of friends that she knows she can be completely honest with about the struggles she faces as a parent and can talk freely about the trials and challenges her children are facing - without fear of judgment. As much as she knows her friends have her back regarding the things her children have done, she knows they love her children as much as she does and they are able to separate the child from the difficult behavior. When interacting with her friends’ children or they with hers, she knows that each mother sees the children for the wonderful people they are - not as a label or as the difficult behavior they are struggling with. That’s every mother’s dream - to be able to share openly with other mothers who “get it” without worry that their children will forever be labeled with a difficult phase they needed to go through. Without having to hide behind the wall of perfection...mother or child.
This was a great book - one I will be recommending to others, rereading throughout the years for encouragement (as I will have two more teenagers yet to come) and to remind me to find the joy in these years because they do go by way too fast.
I have been reading it as a Bible study in the mornings supplementing my devotions but it would work as a book to read straight through, a book to read with my best friend, a couple to read through and talk together about the different techniques suggested in the book or as a Bible study at a church or Book Club. So many ways this book would be effectively used to help encourage, challenge, and most importantly, always point back to the One who loves our children more than we do.
I received this book for free in exchange for my honest review.
Probably the statement that impacted me the most was this one: She stated how she has a core group of friends that she knows she can be completely honest with about the struggles she faces as a parent and can talk freely about the trials and challenges her children are facing - without fear of judgment. As much as she knows her friends have her back regarding the things her children have done, she knows they love her children as much as she does and they are able to separate the child from the difficult behavior. When interacting with her friends’ children or they with hers, she knows that each mother sees the children for the wonderful people they are - not as a label or as the difficult behavior they are struggling with. That’s every mother’s dream - to be able to share openly with other mothers who “get it” without worry that their children will forever be labeled with a difficult phase they needed to go through. Without having to hide behind the wall of perfection...mother or child.
This was a great book - one I will be recommending to others, rereading throughout the years for encouragement (as I will have two more teenagers yet to come) and to remind me to find the joy in these years because they do go by way too fast.
I have been reading it as a Bible study in the mornings supplementing my devotions but it would work as a book to read straight through, a book to read with my best friend, a couple to read through and talk together about the different techniques suggested in the book or as a Bible study at a church or Book Club. So many ways this book would be effectively used to help encourage, challenge, and most importantly, always point back to the One who loves our children more than we do.
I received this book for free in exchange for my honest review.
June 10, 2014
This cover cracked me up! I Need Some Help in Here is definitely one of those books that grabbed my attention by the picture alone but the title; that is what sealed the deal as a must read for me!
Parenting is HARD; much harder than I could have imagined. While my kids are still pretty little at 6, 4 and 5 months; they are growing up way too fast. Right now I'm dealing with issues on a small scale and there are plenty of things that don't go my way or according to what I had planned. But I need to learn how to handle that with grace and love now so that when minor issues like tantrums turn into major ones like deception and disobedience.
I really liked Kathi Lipp's down to earth, honest and frank way of writing. It's just like talking to a fellow mom whose been there and gets it. I didn't feel like I was being lectured or talked AT but WITH. Lipp is very honest with her own struggles in parenting and how she handled those disappointments, trials and challenges.
I'm sure there are many situations where we all wish we had a "do-over" but we don't! We get one shot at this parenting gig. If we fail at one situation are we a complete failure? Nope, tomorrow is another day. I liked that Lipp and her friends called themselves "The Bad Moms Club." Are they bad moms? No but we all feel like that at times. But her group of friends were there to share, support, encourage and pray.
A lot of these scenarios that she discusses really applies to older kids like "When My Child is Running Away from God" or "When My Child is Lacking Character." But there are also plenty of sections that I could apply to my kids now and the rest I tucked away in my memory for future reference. Again, many of these things that are on a small scale later can be on a much larger one later.
I liked that Lipp used specific, real life examples and wasn't ashamed or embarrassed to discuss when she felt were her failures, as well as her kids. It's that open vulnerability that makes her so relatable and believable in what she says.
I also appreciated the sections at the end of each chapter "Prayers for Myself" and "Prayers for my Child." I pray for my kids ALL the time but I think I forget to pray for myself and how I will handle these situations. Moms are notorious for forgetting themselves for the sake of their children but prayer is one area we can't afford to forget ourselves.
I found Lipp's book I Need Some Help in Here so helpful while also funny and relatable. It's a must read for mommies!
Parenting is HARD; much harder than I could have imagined. While my kids are still pretty little at 6, 4 and 5 months; they are growing up way too fast. Right now I'm dealing with issues on a small scale and there are plenty of things that don't go my way or according to what I had planned. But I need to learn how to handle that with grace and love now so that when minor issues like tantrums turn into major ones like deception and disobedience.
I really liked Kathi Lipp's down to earth, honest and frank way of writing. It's just like talking to a fellow mom whose been there and gets it. I didn't feel like I was being lectured or talked AT but WITH. Lipp is very honest with her own struggles in parenting and how she handled those disappointments, trials and challenges.
I'm sure there are many situations where we all wish we had a "do-over" but we don't! We get one shot at this parenting gig. If we fail at one situation are we a complete failure? Nope, tomorrow is another day. I liked that Lipp and her friends called themselves "The Bad Moms Club." Are they bad moms? No but we all feel like that at times. But her group of friends were there to share, support, encourage and pray.
A lot of these scenarios that she discusses really applies to older kids like "When My Child is Running Away from God" or "When My Child is Lacking Character." But there are also plenty of sections that I could apply to my kids now and the rest I tucked away in my memory for future reference. Again, many of these things that are on a small scale later can be on a much larger one later.
I liked that Lipp used specific, real life examples and wasn't ashamed or embarrassed to discuss when she felt were her failures, as well as her kids. It's that open vulnerability that makes her so relatable and believable in what she says.
I also appreciated the sections at the end of each chapter "Prayers for Myself" and "Prayers for my Child." I pray for my kids ALL the time but I think I forget to pray for myself and how I will handle these situations. Moms are notorious for forgetting themselves for the sake of their children but prayer is one area we can't afford to forget ourselves.
I found Lipp's book I Need Some Help in Here so helpful while also funny and relatable. It's a must read for mommies!
June 4, 2014
"One of the most powerful sentences in the English language is "Me too!" It helps us discover who our people are. You move from sympathy to empathy when you hear that someone is in the same battle you are." from, "I Need Some Help Here! by Kathi Lipp
"Me too", are powerful words and particularly when you are a Mom who feels like maybe you're the only one and in todays world, despite the prevalence of social media, it gets pretty easy to feel like you are the only one.
As I read through, "I Need Some Help Here", I notice that Kathi covers a wide range of topics from when a child is running away to God to when my child is left out.....
Broken into twelve chapters, each chapter covering an issue that moms today and well anytime, would find themselves struggling with, Kathi balances her writing and encouragement, not only with personal anecdotes to help moms realize, that they're not alone but biblical based stories and scripture that are applicable during the rough seasons of a moms life.
The bible translations that Kathi uses are the NIV, NASB and the NLT and these are actually really good translations to use since they are more widely used and tend to be considered more of the "truer" translations of the Bible.
Kathi is very transparent as she shares her own thoughts and experiences and this really helps the reader know....she knows what she is talking about...she should...she's been there...and so has other moms, so for the struggling mom, she is not alone.
Even the prayers are personal and heart touching and helps give strength to moms who find themselves having a difficult day and maybe they are not reading the whole book at the time but only the chapter that is relevant, but it helps gives mom a grounding that she may need that day.
I would have like to see, maybe an addition of study questions to go with this and felt this makes a great book for either a womans bible study at church, at home or even in a moms group,and if you know a new mom in your life, be it for the first time, second or many time, this is a really great book to have on the shelf for those times when you need a , "Me too" and just don't know where to turn to be transparent and know, you're not alone.
"Me too", are powerful words and particularly when you are a Mom who feels like maybe you're the only one and in todays world, despite the prevalence of social media, it gets pretty easy to feel like you are the only one.
As I read through, "I Need Some Help Here", I notice that Kathi covers a wide range of topics from when a child is running away to God to when my child is left out.....
Broken into twelve chapters, each chapter covering an issue that moms today and well anytime, would find themselves struggling with, Kathi balances her writing and encouragement, not only with personal anecdotes to help moms realize, that they're not alone but biblical based stories and scripture that are applicable during the rough seasons of a moms life.
The bible translations that Kathi uses are the NIV, NASB and the NLT and these are actually really good translations to use since they are more widely used and tend to be considered more of the "truer" translations of the Bible.
Kathi is very transparent as she shares her own thoughts and experiences and this really helps the reader know....she knows what she is talking about...she should...she's been there...and so has other moms, so for the struggling mom, she is not alone.
Even the prayers are personal and heart touching and helps give strength to moms who find themselves having a difficult day and maybe they are not reading the whole book at the time but only the chapter that is relevant, but it helps gives mom a grounding that she may need that day.
I would have like to see, maybe an addition of study questions to go with this and felt this makes a great book for either a womans bible study at church, at home or even in a moms group,and if you know a new mom in your life, be it for the first time, second or many time, this is a really great book to have on the shelf for those times when you need a , "Me too" and just don't know where to turn to be transparent and know, you're not alone.
June 19, 2014
Kathi Lipp in her new book, “I Need Some Help Here!” published by Revell gives us Hope for When Your Kids Don’t Go According to Plan.
From the Back Cover: For every overwhelmed mom–there is help and hope.
It’s easy to feel worried and anxious as a parent. There are so many areas of your child’s life that can go wrong along the way. What’s a mom to do?
With wit and wisdom, Kathi Lipp meets you in your moments of panic or despair and offers the most powerful tools you have–prayer and practical steps–for both your kid and yourself. She covers the stages of your child’s life from toddler to teenager and tackles the most common issues that cause you stress and anxiety, sharing
· practical wisdom when your child makes poor choices
· how to pray when your child is running away from God
· comforting words for when your child feels left out
· “been there, done that” advice for when your child is different than other kids
Whether you are at the end of your rope or simply need a little extra support as you walk the parenting road, you’ll cherish Kathi’s heart and her humor.
Being a mom is difficult. If you have more than one each child is different and has to be dealt with according to the needs of that child. Outside of The Bible there is no manual for parenting. So where do you go when you need help? Kathi Lipp has the answer. Ms. Lipp is a mom and she has friends that are moms and they have all gone through bringing up their children. Do they have all the answers? No. However that was never their intention. Ms. Lipp provides twelve chapters with advice on what to do when your child is in a certain situation. If you are in the early stages of your child’s life this book will help. If you are in the later stages then this book will help a lot. I think it will be a book you will refer to often. I also think it would make a great gift for all moms everywhere. I recommend this book highly.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Revell. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
From the Back Cover: For every overwhelmed mom–there is help and hope.
It’s easy to feel worried and anxious as a parent. There are so many areas of your child’s life that can go wrong along the way. What’s a mom to do?
With wit and wisdom, Kathi Lipp meets you in your moments of panic or despair and offers the most powerful tools you have–prayer and practical steps–for both your kid and yourself. She covers the stages of your child’s life from toddler to teenager and tackles the most common issues that cause you stress and anxiety, sharing
· practical wisdom when your child makes poor choices
· how to pray when your child is running away from God
· comforting words for when your child feels left out
· “been there, done that” advice for when your child is different than other kids
Whether you are at the end of your rope or simply need a little extra support as you walk the parenting road, you’ll cherish Kathi’s heart and her humor.
Being a mom is difficult. If you have more than one each child is different and has to be dealt with according to the needs of that child. Outside of The Bible there is no manual for parenting. So where do you go when you need help? Kathi Lipp has the answer. Ms. Lipp is a mom and she has friends that are moms and they have all gone through bringing up their children. Do they have all the answers? No. However that was never their intention. Ms. Lipp provides twelve chapters with advice on what to do when your child is in a certain situation. If you are in the early stages of your child’s life this book will help. If you are in the later stages then this book will help a lot. I think it will be a book you will refer to often. I also think it would make a great gift for all moms everywhere. I recommend this book highly.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Revell. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
September 7, 2016
Children are the best at ruining plans and changing what your ideas of things are. I'm not saying that's a bad thing either. Kids I believe are God's reminder that we aren't in charge and we can't control everything around us, even though we would love to at times. As much as you plan and have ideas laid down for how you want your kiddo's to live their lives, they have a wonderful ability to counter that idea or shatter it into a billion pieces. They also help us to see that there is no perfect parent or parenting style. Even the best of parents can screw-up and a kid can go down the wrong path or can be thrown a hard situation to handle.
I Need Some Help Here! is an informative book that lets a parent know that it is OK. And despite the situations that you have been handed, you are not alone. That is a wonderful reminder, because in today's society, the standards that are set to be a perfect mother are so unattainable. Society is just screwed up in general and it's wise to not follow that.
I enjoyed reading through this book. Granted, my child is not in some of the age ranges discussed, but it is a book that is helpful for all, even if it is just to prepare yourself for the years to come. Everyone at some point in their childhood has struggled with being left out, struggled with questions on God, struggled with who they are and our kids now face the same struggle, just in different forms and at times in harder circumstances. Sometimes as a parent you can help, other times, the kid has to help themselves. This book helps a parent to see that.
I enjoyed how the chapters closed out with a prayer/thought for the kid and a prayer/thought for the moms. Goodness knows, they are needed.
Thank you to the Revell Blog Tour, I received a copy of this book for free in exchange for an honest review.
I Need Some Help Here! is an informative book that lets a parent know that it is OK. And despite the situations that you have been handed, you are not alone. That is a wonderful reminder, because in today's society, the standards that are set to be a perfect mother are so unattainable. Society is just screwed up in general and it's wise to not follow that.
I enjoyed reading through this book. Granted, my child is not in some of the age ranges discussed, but it is a book that is helpful for all, even if it is just to prepare yourself for the years to come. Everyone at some point in their childhood has struggled with being left out, struggled with questions on God, struggled with who they are and our kids now face the same struggle, just in different forms and at times in harder circumstances. Sometimes as a parent you can help, other times, the kid has to help themselves. This book helps a parent to see that.
I enjoyed how the chapters closed out with a prayer/thought for the kid and a prayer/thought for the moms. Goodness knows, they are needed.
Thank you to the Revell Blog Tour, I received a copy of this book for free in exchange for an honest review.
July 23, 2016
The first time I looked through this book I thought how wonderful this would be for a first time parent struggling with children who seem to be anything but what they should. I didn't give it much more than a cursory glance through that first time. Each subsequent time I picked it up to read and review I found myself easily distracted with my children and other parts of life that always seem to demand my attention. I eventually forgot about the book. It wasn't until a good friend of mine was asking me for advice on how to handle a situation developing with one of her children that I thought about this book. I brought it with me that evening and together we looked up a relevant topic. We ended up going through a bit more of the book that night, with pauses for prayer and tending to the needs of family. I left the book with her. The next time we sat down together she told me this book has changed her life. No more does she feel frazzled and unsure how to handle each crisis with one of her children. Instead, she turns to this book and with prayer she feels confident she's making the right choices. Her children are much happier and headed in the right direction. Just seeing her less stressed makes me feel great. So, no, I didn't read and review this book but I can say with all honesty that it's a great resource and a perfect gift for any patent. I originally received a free copy through Baker Publishing in exchange for a review but I have since purchased two more copies for two families who I feel could really use this.
September 8, 2014
I read this book and before I was even to the third chapter was recommending it to friends. Kathi Lipp has written a book that is helpful and encouraging to parents who are struggling with kids that have seemingly gone wrong. Parenting is hard. It is easy to feel responsible when our kids make decisions that harm them and those they love. In this book, Kathi comes along beside us to remind us that we are not alone. There are others going through similar circumstances and more importantly, God is always with us and He loves our kids more than we do.
One of the statements that made a lasting impression on me was from a mom who felt ostracized from the Christian community when her life went drastically off course and her son started using drugs. We often say, "But for the grace of God, there go I." And while this is certainly often the case, sometimes it is because of the grace of God that we can face difficult situations.
This book handles subjects such as drugs, bad decisions, mental health issues, bullying, and much more. Each chapter deals with a different topic and includes a story "from the trenches" from a mom who's been there. Ther are many scripture references and prayers to encourage and strengthen us.
I believe I will often revisit this book in my parenting journey. That is, if I get it back from friends I loan it to!
I received a copy of this book from The Book Club Network and the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion, which I have given.
One of the statements that made a lasting impression on me was from a mom who felt ostracized from the Christian community when her life went drastically off course and her son started using drugs. We often say, "But for the grace of God, there go I." And while this is certainly often the case, sometimes it is because of the grace of God that we can face difficult situations.
This book handles subjects such as drugs, bad decisions, mental health issues, bullying, and much more. Each chapter deals with a different topic and includes a story "from the trenches" from a mom who's been there. Ther are many scripture references and prayers to encourage and strengthen us.
I believe I will often revisit this book in my parenting journey. That is, if I get it back from friends I loan it to!
I received a copy of this book from The Book Club Network and the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion, which I have given.
June 17, 2014
This book provides readers hope and the realization that they aren't the only one with this problem (even if that's how they feel). Kathi Lipp addresses the most common heartbreaking problems parents face: a child who is different, overwhelmed, troubled, sick/ injured, and left out; she also addresses children who make poor choices, run away from God, struggle, and lack character.
Each chapter includes an introduction to the issue, a story from a mom who has experience with it, practical steps to deal with it, and prayers for the child and parent.
Chapter 8, "When My Child Makes Poor Choices," was my favorite chapter. Lipp's wisdom in that chapter can be applied to most situations that cause angst. She writes what parents sometimes feel: "Oh, wouldn't it be so much easier if my kids were living their lives just to please me!" (106). The wish is followed with "Instead of getting angry or depressed or hopeless, you can choose to be a strong advocate, a prayer warrior, an encourager, a hoper. Because regardless of what your kids are doing now, I can assure you that God is doing much, much more" (108).
As a companion to this book, I highly recommend my favorite Kathi Lipp book, 21 Ways to Connect With Your Kids.
Each chapter includes an introduction to the issue, a story from a mom who has experience with it, practical steps to deal with it, and prayers for the child and parent.
Chapter 8, "When My Child Makes Poor Choices," was my favorite chapter. Lipp's wisdom in that chapter can be applied to most situations that cause angst. She writes what parents sometimes feel: "Oh, wouldn't it be so much easier if my kids were living their lives just to please me!" (106). The wish is followed with "Instead of getting angry or depressed or hopeless, you can choose to be a strong advocate, a prayer warrior, an encourager, a hoper. Because regardless of what your kids are doing now, I can assure you that God is doing much, much more" (108).
As a companion to this book, I highly recommend my favorite Kathi Lipp book, 21 Ways to Connect With Your Kids.
July 8, 2014
Absolutely fabulous! Kathi Lipp offers the best advice for coping with the tough "what do I do now" questions that smack you in the face as a mom. It's not if, it's when it will happen that your child doesn't go according to plan. Each chapter covers a challenge, presents real life illustrations,and offers practical help. Then Kathi takes the reader to scripture and prayer for the child and the mom. I wish I had had this book when I was mothering. In fact, this book still helped me rethink and heal from events that occurred in the past and will assist in how I parent my adult children. I felt the warm hugs Kathi sends through her words to the hurting, confused, and challenged mom. She comes right alongside the reader and one feels as though she is a good friend who understands and who accepts your craziness with no judgement. She encourages reaching out to find friends who can support, uplift, and pray for you as childhood brings unexpected events into your cozy life. Well, you will need to read this great book to discover yourself the other suggestions she makes! I highly recommend, I Need Some Help Here!
I received a complimentary copy of I Need Some Help Here in exchange for an honest review, which I have given.
I received a complimentary copy of I Need Some Help Here in exchange for an honest review, which I have given.
July 30, 2014
I Need Some Help Here! if the title doesn’t clue you in, let this review help. Kathi Lipp writes a great book about parenting beyond the typical, textbook situations. She writes about situations that occur in everyday real life. I think one of the best parts of this book is that she identifies the relationship between parent and child and doesn’t act as if the two are totally inseparable. She recognizes that children do have minds of their own and that as they grow, they make their own decisions sometimes despite all of the things they’ve been taught. She speaks to parents about their responsibilities as well as to the parent who is taking too much responsibility for their child’s decisions.
With interesting and transparent stories from real life mothers, I Need Some Help Here! illustrates life happening. Sometimes the best help is just knowing you’re not alone. In this book Ms. Lipp talks about everything from temper tantrums to drug addiction. Each section ends with prayers specific to that topic.
Ms. Lipp is an interesting and informative speaker and author. I Need Some Help Here! is a great book for parents of all ages.
I received this book from the Book Club Network in exchange for my honest opinion.
With interesting and transparent stories from real life mothers, I Need Some Help Here! illustrates life happening. Sometimes the best help is just knowing you’re not alone. In this book Ms. Lipp talks about everything from temper tantrums to drug addiction. Each section ends with prayers specific to that topic.
Ms. Lipp is an interesting and informative speaker and author. I Need Some Help Here! is a great book for parents of all ages.
I received this book from the Book Club Network in exchange for my honest opinion.
June 12, 2014
Hi, all! I am an experienced mom, actually nearing the end of my every-day, hands-on parenting years. But this book…one of the few I wish I’d had as a younger mom. Full of encouragement and wise counsel, the Holy Spirit breathes through the prayers and scriptures given for each heart-wrenching topic. Very good perspective for parents who need to cling more tightly to their faith and apply it to their mindset and heart. I do recommend this book. It’s worth the time and cost.
One possible touch of the negative…Something I don’t like about some current parenting/womanhood books is that they are full of reasons to excuse all failures and weaknesses. This book doesn’t exactly go there, but it does definitely speak to easing the parents’ minds and giving them serenity — I won’t say it goes too far, but there is a tinge.
I still recommend the book, and it includes topics I haven’t seen elsewhere– Topics such as : When my child is Struggling, When my child is Left Out, When my child is Lacking Character…and much more. Excellent chapters, each with at least one or more pertinent illustrative anecdotes.
One possible touch of the negative…Something I don’t like about some current parenting/womanhood books is that they are full of reasons to excuse all failures and weaknesses. This book doesn’t exactly go there, but it does definitely speak to easing the parents’ minds and giving them serenity — I won’t say it goes too far, but there is a tinge.
I still recommend the book, and it includes topics I haven’t seen elsewhere– Topics such as : When my child is Struggling, When my child is Left Out, When my child is Lacking Character…and much more. Excellent chapters, each with at least one or more pertinent illustrative anecdotes.
July 7, 2014
i need some help here!
By: Kathi Lipp
It's easy to feel overwhelmed as a parent--and worried and anxious. There are so many areas of a child's life that can go wrong along the way. What's a mom to do?
With wit and wisdom, Kathi Lipp meets moms where they are and offers the most powerful hope they have--prayer--for both their kids and themselves. Chapters include
When Your Child Is Running Away from God
When Your Child Makes Poor Choices
When Your Child Is Struggling
When Your Child Is Left Out
When Your Child Is Different
Moms who are overwhelmed or simply need a little support will cherish this expert guidance on praying for their kids--from toddler to teenager--with boldness and confidence.
I loved this book. I have raised my kids but there are grandchildren. I loved all the scripture that was put in it. Prayer time at the end of each chapter. There are powerful tools in the book to use not only for your children but for yourself as well. No two children are alike. We can gain the proper control with a God lead home. Great book. This would be a great study for young mom's having a tuff time. There is help and hope.
By: Kathi Lipp
It's easy to feel overwhelmed as a parent--and worried and anxious. There are so many areas of a child's life that can go wrong along the way. What's a mom to do?
With wit and wisdom, Kathi Lipp meets moms where they are and offers the most powerful hope they have--prayer--for both their kids and themselves. Chapters include
When Your Child Is Running Away from God
When Your Child Makes Poor Choices
When Your Child Is Struggling
When Your Child Is Left Out
When Your Child Is Different
Moms who are overwhelmed or simply need a little support will cherish this expert guidance on praying for their kids--from toddler to teenager--with boldness and confidence.
I loved this book. I have raised my kids but there are grandchildren. I loved all the scripture that was put in it. Prayer time at the end of each chapter. There are powerful tools in the book to use not only for your children but for yourself as well. No two children are alike. We can gain the proper control with a God lead home. Great book. This would be a great study for young mom's having a tuff time. There is help and hope.
June 4, 2014
It's time we start talking about the underbelly of parenting. Our kids aren't perfect. Sometimes they choose to sleep with their boyfriends before marriage. Sometimes they run from God. We aren't perfect. We push too hard, or lose sight of the fact that God loves our children immeasurably more than we can fathom.
What is your family dealing with today? Poor choices? Bullying at school? Depression?
Read this book.
Scripture is peppered throughout. Prayers end each chapter. You will be encouraged.
And you will find practical tips to grab on to and implement today. Stories 'from the trenches' prove there are other moms who have been there, and that some of us are 'there' right now.
I have four children and almost every day I find myself at a loss on how to help maneuver their ascension into adulthood.
'I need some help here' left me buoyed as a mom, encouraged as a believer, and hopeful as a lover of my kids.
The pages of this book are sure to be worn out soon.
-Gillian Marchenko
author of Sun Shine Down
What is your family dealing with today? Poor choices? Bullying at school? Depression?
Read this book.
Scripture is peppered throughout. Prayers end each chapter. You will be encouraged.
And you will find practical tips to grab on to and implement today. Stories 'from the trenches' prove there are other moms who have been there, and that some of us are 'there' right now.
I have four children and almost every day I find myself at a loss on how to help maneuver their ascension into adulthood.
'I need some help here' left me buoyed as a mom, encouraged as a believer, and hopeful as a lover of my kids.
The pages of this book are sure to be worn out soon.
-Gillian Marchenko
author of Sun Shine Down
June 29, 2014
This book is a fantastic resource for any parent. Whether your children are struggling or not, I think we all can relate to something. We are NOT alone. EVER! Praise God for that!
Kathi does a fantastic job in this book. I couldn't put it down. I really enjoyed how she incorporated various stories, with different verses - I feel this is such a good resource. I think this would make an excellent gift to give to new parents, and just lots of different people. Comparsion is really the joy stealer and we need to be so careful to not compare!
I love all the prayers. I will be coming back to this book often, I will be keeping it on my desk to refer to it. I really enjoyed the practical steps part the best I think. The prayers for myself as well. You can't change your kids. You can pray for them, but prayers for them and yourself, yes!
I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion.
Kathi does a fantastic job in this book. I couldn't put it down. I really enjoyed how she incorporated various stories, with different verses - I feel this is such a good resource. I think this would make an excellent gift to give to new parents, and just lots of different people. Comparsion is really the joy stealer and we need to be so careful to not compare!
I love all the prayers. I will be coming back to this book often, I will be keeping it on my desk to refer to it. I really enjoyed the practical steps part the best I think. The prayers for myself as well. You can't change your kids. You can pray for them, but prayers for them and yourself, yes!
I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion.
July 22, 2014
I Need Some Help Here! Shows how you are not alone when dealing with issues involving your children. It could be: being different, being overwhelmed, running away from God, lacking character, struggling, and being left out. Chapter twelve, which is titled Being Left Out, interested me the most, because my daughter will be starting school soon and I fear that she will have to deal with the mean girls and bullies.
Since my children are so young, most of the chapters did not describe any of my current situations. I do believe the book will be good advice as my children get older, though.
The book had some humorous moments, as well as, serious situations that parents have to deal with while raising their children. I think this book would be helpful for parents of middle school age to high school age children.
I give this book 4 stars.
I received this from bookfun.org in exchange for my honest review which was given.
Since my children are so young, most of the chapters did not describe any of my current situations. I do believe the book will be good advice as my children get older, though.
The book had some humorous moments, as well as, serious situations that parents have to deal with while raising their children. I think this book would be helpful for parents of middle school age to high school age children.
I give this book 4 stars.
I received this from bookfun.org in exchange for my honest review which was given.
February 20, 2015
What a wonderful book by Kathi Lipp! This book is excellent for Mommies of any age - whether you are a first time Mommy or an experienced one! I really think it's for everyone!
This book covers so many important topics from bullying, drugs, to much more...all from a Mom who has been through it. I am so thankful to see a book that helps move away from an expectation of "perfection", to help let go of controlling what we can not control. No one is perfect - Thank the Lord for Hid grace! Such a reminder that God is in control, even though we are not. He's got this, and really we just need to let go and let Him. He will help us through it all.
I love the prayers at the end of each chapter to pray for yourself and your child/children! I highly recommend this book!
I was given this book in exchange for for my honest review by bookfun.org.
This book covers so many important topics from bullying, drugs, to much more...all from a Mom who has been through it. I am so thankful to see a book that helps move away from an expectation of "perfection", to help let go of controlling what we can not control. No one is perfect - Thank the Lord for Hid grace! Such a reminder that God is in control, even though we are not. He's got this, and really we just need to let go and let Him. He will help us through it all.
I love the prayers at the end of each chapter to pray for yourself and your child/children! I highly recommend this book!
I was given this book in exchange for for my honest review by bookfun.org.
July 2, 2014
I have to confess that I did not read the description of this book very carefully when I entered the Goodreads Giveaways for this book as I did not realize that this title would be so heavily religious. I am not very religious myself so much of the message was lost on me. If I would have known I would have removed myself from the giveaway so that it could have gone to someone that was a part of the intended audience. Apart from that I did find some very good advice in this book. The author has a lovely style of writing that if I were more aligned with the faith in the book I believe would have really enjoyed it. I will be passing this book along to a christian mother who is a very good friend of mine and will ask her to give her honest review of the book.
June 10, 2014
Is the front cover of this book NOT hilarious?
I think all moms can appreciate the action going on there!
This is a great book to help encourage moms, and offers something for everyone. Whether you're a brand new mom or a veteran, Kathi Lipp touches on subjects that all moms can relate to.
She includes "stories from the trenches" which are real life excerpts from moms who are facing difficult, stressful situations. These stories help readers to realize they are not alone. She also includes prayers for readers to pray for themselves, and for their children.
Overall, this book was easy to read and conversational in tone. It felt like meeting up with an old friend. Moms from all walks of life - single, married, widowed, step-parent, etc will benefit from reading this book.
I think all moms can appreciate the action going on there!
This is a great book to help encourage moms, and offers something for everyone. Whether you're a brand new mom or a veteran, Kathi Lipp touches on subjects that all moms can relate to.
She includes "stories from the trenches" which are real life excerpts from moms who are facing difficult, stressful situations. These stories help readers to realize they are not alone. She also includes prayers for readers to pray for themselves, and for their children.
Overall, this book was easy to read and conversational in tone. It felt like meeting up with an old friend. Moms from all walks of life - single, married, widowed, step-parent, etc will benefit from reading this book.
June 16, 2014
I wanted to give this 3.5 stars, but that wasn't an option, but I couldn't stretch it to 4, so it's 3. :) Anyway, This is a difficult book for me to review because it's more of an anecdotal book. What I mean is it's the type where you search for certain issues your child is having, rather than just sitting and reading it cover to cover. I tried reading it cover to cover and was unable to maintain interest. The material is worthwhile and well written, but most of the scenarios did not apply to my children right now, so it did not really resonate with me. The beginning of the book dealt with struggles of mothers, which I enjoyed and related to. I will certainly keep this book as a reference for the future, when scenarios arise for which I need counsel.
September 5, 2014
What a fantastic book! Really should be given to moms when their oldest turns 12! I loved how Kathi not only shared honestly her own stories but also gave stories “from the trenches” of other moms – and how when our babies are born we don’t think “I hope this baby grows up to be a heroin addict or has a teenage pregnancy.” Furthermore, doing all the “right” things does not guarantee our child will make right choices. It seemed to me that Kathi Lipp covered so many difficult situations moms encounter. What hope and encouragement this book gives moms whose teens might be making bad choices – so bad you think you can’t talk to your church friends about your child or cry if you do! Really excellent book! I received this book from TBCN in return for my honest opinion.
August 7, 2014
“I need some help here” was a very good and informative book. Kathi Lipp gives some very good encouraging words to help us in raising our children. Whether you are just a first time parent or have older children, this book would be very helpful for you. Some of things she writes in her book are things I have already heard before, but I needed to be reminded of them. This book has humor and serious notes in it. At the end of each chapter are prayers for you to pray for yourself and your child. Kathi Lipp is a very good author and I will read other books by her. I would recommend this book to everyone. I received this book from bookfun for my honest opinion.
June 15, 2014
I loved that this was an easy read and that the author gave real life examples on how to solve real life issues. I also thought that it was great that the author talked about common issues that a lot of parents face. There was also a lot of mention of the Bible and how we are all alike. Mothers are not alone, and there are other people going through the same issues. I recommend this book to all moms. I am giving this book a 4/5. I was given a copy to review from Revell, however all opinions are my own.
September 9, 2014
When I first read the title I wasn't sure this book would be much different from other parenting books that I've read. When I started reading it I realized what I liked about it, it's got it all. It has practical advice, scripture and the everyday issues that we deal with. This book is one to keep on the shelves that you can go back to time and time again. I think it's also great because it doesn't seem to be geared to a particular age. The advice that is in the book could work with any age child. It looks like this author has some other great books that are worth checking into.
July 28, 2014
This was an easy, inspirational read. It continually reinforced the theme you can try to do everything right, but you cannot be everything to your child. You need to point them to God and help them grow their own relationship with Jesus Christ. That is the only place where they can find true hope and peace.
I found the "Story from the Trenches" sections encouraging. Reminds you that all parents go through struggles with their children - it doesn't need to define your self-worth. Turn your troubles and struggles over to Jesus and let Him see you and your children through.
I found the "Story from the Trenches" sections encouraging. Reminds you that all parents go through struggles with their children - it doesn't need to define your self-worth. Turn your troubles and struggles over to Jesus and let Him see you and your children through.
November 9, 2014
I Need Some Help Here by Kathi Lipp is a very informative book. It is one that will stay on my night-stand with other reference books I keep handy. It is down to earth and written with heart. It is prayer based which is important. I have already recommended this book to many of my friends with children approaching their tween years. This book is definitely encouraging when faced with problematic and difficult decisions.
I received this book from the Book Club Network in exchange for my honest opinion.
I received this book from the Book Club Network in exchange for my honest opinion.
April 20, 2015
This book was a wonderful, encouraging read.
As a mother of six children, ranging from seventeen to one, it hit me in many spots in which I was at. Informative on things such as when your child is different, overwhelmed, running from God and many, many more, it’s perfect for whatever season you and your children may be in.
I give this book a five star review!
I was given this book by the Book Club Network for my honest review, which I have given.
As a mother of six children, ranging from seventeen to one, it hit me in many spots in which I was at. Informative on things such as when your child is different, overwhelmed, running from God and many, many more, it’s perfect for whatever season you and your children may be in.
I give this book a five star review!
I was given this book by the Book Club Network for my honest review, which I have given.
June 6, 2014
Okay Mommas - listen up. FINALLY we have a book that speaks the truth in love and says what we've ALL felt or thought throughout our mothering career. Read this book! Find the contentment, peace and encouragement you might have lost in the mommy-guilt that can so easily sneak into our lives. I loved this book!!!!!
September 12, 2014
This book is great for two parent homes, single parents, foster parents. Ms. Lipp meets parents where they are with humor and candidness. She does not talk down to parents or come across as though she is a know-it-all; she offers great advice and suggestions for parenting. Take what you want and leave the rest, but honestly, most of her tips will be takeaways.
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