Autistics' Guide to Dating: A Book by Autistics, for Autistics and Those Who Love Them or Who Are in Love with Them

by Emilia Murray Ramey, Jody John Ramey (Contributor)

For people on the autism spectrum dating is so often an elusive art form, requiring the very skills--in communication, and in social perception--that don't come naturally to them. This book presents strategies for overcoming social skills deficits and sensory issues, to make for relationship success. Emilia Murry Ramey and Jody John Ramey, both on the spectrum, reflect on their dating experiences and provide recommendations for relationships in both the short- and long-term. Their advice includes how to choose venues for meeting people that are free from discomfiting features; coping with typical experiences in the light of sensory issues such as close proximity with a partner, eye-contact, and physical intimacy; and moving on to extended, committed relationships, co-habiting and continuing to date after marriage. Thorough, accessible, and very encouraging, this book is a must-read for Autistic people, those who love them, and those who are in love with them.

Genres: Nonfiction, Autistic Spectrum Disorder

126 pages, Paperback

First published March 15, 2008

Reviews

[Susanna · Rating 2 out of 5]

It isn't mentioned anywhere, but this book is strongly from a Christian perspective. Talks about dating vs. courting, quotes some Bible verses, and primarily acknowledges non-heterosexual relationships in the context that people could face rejection and scandal from their families or religious communities if they date someone of the same sex.

[Montgomery Webster · Rating 3 out of 5]

The best thing about the book, and what the authors describe as their motivation for writing altogether, are that they relate both sides of all stages of their relationship, from their initial encounter and subsequent "dorting" (romance) to post-marriage dating.

[Julie · Rating 4 out of 5]

Written in a very engaging style. Both personal & practical. Focuses on good communication. A very enjoyable read.