What Southern Women Know About Flirting: The Fine Art of Social, Courtship, and Seductive Flirting to Get the Best Things in Life

by Ronda Rich

Ronda Rich, a true Southern belle, enlightens women on the age-old art of flirting—an art that any woman can master. She reveals the techniques and secrets for making the most of every woman’s natural female instincts—whether at home, in the office, or in any social situation that calls for a little extra honeysuckle. With good humor, real-life anecdotes, and plenty of savvy know-how, Ronda shows readers how • Win others over with grace, confidence, and charm
• Master the art of social, courtship, and romantic flirting (and know the differences between them)
• Use sincere flattery to get you everywhere
• Be a good storyteller and a good listener
• Exude courtesy, gratitude, and kindness as you truly connect with others

Genres: Nonfiction

224 pages, Paperback

First published June 1, 2004

About the author

Ronda Rich, an eleventh-generation Southerner, is the bestselling author of What Southern Women Know (That Every Woman Should) and a popular national columnist. She speaks with Southern charm and humor at over a hundred events each year. She has appeared on dozens of television and radio shows. Ronda and her dachshund, Dixie Dew, make their home among the red clay hills of her native homeland.

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Reviews

[Emily · Rating 5 out of 5]

It's good for dating, but great for just relating to other people and feeling good because you make them feel good being around you. I'm not naturally a charming person so this book is a big help.

[Juli · Rating 3 out of 5]

There was some ridiculous stuff in here, but also some good advice and interesting tips. An enjoyable (if sometimes eye-roll-inducing) quick read. A solid 3.5.

[Emmy Williams · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a fun book. I love books on becoming a better flirt! Anything that can give a girl an advantage. I thought that this book had a fun and different point of view. If you have read any of the books by the author you will have to skim some of the same subject matter. What I do like about this book is how flirting is essentially having fun and making the other person have fun. Good informative book.

[Hilary · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book deserves a review. I first found it in the Montgomery Museum of Fine Arts with Tatiana. When we bought it, it was for fun. But I have come to love this book and everything that it inspires. The Southern voice is wonderful and entertaining. It may not make one think about the deepest parts of human existence, but it is a wonderful read.

[Stephanie · Rating 4 out of 5]

I really enjoyed this book. I had to sift through a number of incompatible values that the author and I have, but there are many, many treasures to be found. I also believe she could help to soften a feminist audience to the idea of femininity. The last section of the book is for more mature readers and preferably for ones who are married or about to be so. :-)

[Elsa · Rating 2 out of 5]

I’m basically reading this for a laugh. I came across it at the free library. As a southern woman—- this book is pretty ridiculous so far. It’s oldschool in the sense that the type of flirting RR is writing about doesn’t translate well to modern day. A lot has changed since 2005. I’m not going to get a cheaper price on paint from being nice and showing the painters around my house and cutting them a piece of pecan pie and winking at them these days. And the ridiculous sayings—- like moss on treetops and bs like that, it’s too much.

And flirting is a gift given to women by God? Girl what church did YOU attend?

If you want a silly narcissistic book with some twisted views on how God thinks women should act, then read this book.

I will update if I find anything redeemable about this book other than “be nice.”

Ok final update: This lady had me nodding and agreeing with several points, and then on the next page would have me rolling my eyes. Ugh. Read this one with a grain of salt. Only take the good points. A lot are unrealistic and exhausting.

[Renee Propes · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is a fun read! It's really just common sense stuff about how to make other people feel comfortable in your presence. The author calls it flirting - and southern women really know how to flirt. Pour yourself a glass of iced tea, curl up in your favorite chair on the beach or at the pool, and look forward to this entertaining book that will lift your spirits and leave you in a state of joy.

[Payton · Rating 2 out of 5]

I thought I would hate this book, but it actually had me laughing and kind of on board with some of Rich's advice before I was even halfway finished. There was, of course, quite a bit I didn't agree with but I think I'll give "feminine feminism" a try.

[Diane · Rating 4 out of 5]

I have read this several times and loved it and learned something new each time.
Don't let the title fool you into thinking it is only romantic flirting. It had wonderful sections on social and business flirting, which were incredibly helpful.
In fact, I recently recommended it to a colleague for help with dealing with our customers and getting the information we need from them. And I believe one of my teenagers has it currently, since I can't locate it to let him borrow.

[Natalie y · Rating 3 out of 5]

I got it in the bargain book section. There are some cool recipies (to woo him) and I guess it reminded me not to lose my charm. If it's on sale, it is a fun read :) (By the way, I'm from the South so nothing really applied since it has been ingrained in me at an early age).

[Beth · Rating 3 out of 5]

I already know all this information! ;)

[Angela Good · Rating 5 out of 5]

FUN, EASY READ!!!!

Be charming to everyone!!! :) Great advice!

I picked this up on a whim at the library! Sooo thankful I did....

[Suzanne Bradbury]

When I originally picked this book up, I had no expectation of getting much more out of it than amusement. I had to read a non-fiction book for an English assignment and figured this would be an easy read. As I read, however, I realized it actually had some helpful tips, not only for getting attention from boys, but also being someone that people want to be around. When I saw that the book was about flirting, I expected to be told how to get boys to like me. However, I was surprised when the book explained about other types of flirting, not just romantic. Ronda Rich, the author of this book, really knows what she’s talking about. This book made me laugh and ended up helping me. Even though it wasn’t what I thought it would be, it was interesting to read.