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Why Straight Women Love Gay Romance
It’s one of the world’s biggest secrets, and it’s about to come out … Why do straight women love gay romance?
What is it that attracts straight women to the idea of two men falling in love? Is it the muscles? The mystery of the male mind? The idea of true love overcoming all odds? How has it changed who these women are and how they see the world? And how powerful is this once-silent army of readers in the fight for equality?
32 women across 9 countries and 4 continents – from the world’s best selling romance authors to the biggest female fans of Gay Male Romance — are about to reveal — Why Straight Women Love Gay Romance.
What is it that attracts straight women to the idea of two men falling in love? Is it the muscles? The mystery of the male mind? The idea of true love overcoming all odds? How has it changed who these women are and how they see the world? And how powerful is this once-silent army of readers in the fight for equality?
32 women across 9 countries and 4 continents – from the world’s best selling romance authors to the biggest female fans of Gay Male Romance — are about to reveal — Why Straight Women Love Gay Romance.
189 pages, Kindle Edition
First published September 7, 2012
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Geoffrey Knight
75 books350 followersGeoffrey Knight is the author of more than 30 gay fiction novels, novellas and short stories, ranging in genre from gay adventure, gay romance, gay suspense and gay comedies.
The heroes of Geoffrey's books love to spend their time jumping off the page, seeking lost treasures, unraveling mysteries or falling in love.
Geoffrey is the recipient of two Rainbow Awards including Best Mystery Winner and Best Overall Gay Fiction Runner-up. His work has been featured in several anthologies including Best Gay Erotica 2013, and he appeared as Guest of Honor at the inaugural Rainbow Con in Florida, 2014.
Geoffrey has worked in advertising, politics, journalism and event management, but nothing is as fun as telling stories. He lives with his partner, their young daughter and their small furry family in a rambling old house in North Queensland, Australia, where the paint is fraying and life is good.
You can find everything you need to know about Geoffrey and his books at— https://linktr.ee/authorgeoffreyknight
The heroes of Geoffrey's books love to spend their time jumping off the page, seeking lost treasures, unraveling mysteries or falling in love.
Geoffrey is the recipient of two Rainbow Awards including Best Mystery Winner and Best Overall Gay Fiction Runner-up. His work has been featured in several anthologies including Best Gay Erotica 2013, and he appeared as Guest of Honor at the inaugural Rainbow Con in Florida, 2014.
Geoffrey has worked in advertising, politics, journalism and event management, but nothing is as fun as telling stories. He lives with his partner, their young daughter and their small furry family in a rambling old house in North Queensland, Australia, where the paint is fraying and life is good.
You can find everything you need to know about Geoffrey and his books at— https://linktr.ee/authorgeoffreyknight
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May 29, 2013
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For M/M Romance Lovers, Haters and Everyone Else!!!
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If you’ve read my reviews you know that I’ve developed a format that I use to review most of the books I read. I was a little conflicted whether or not I could use that format for this book, it is after all not fiction, or is it? In the “disclaimer” section it is called a “work of fiction” but it certainly doesn’t read that way; I suspect this is just a legal catch-all. This book reads as, and I believe is intended to be, informative and educational. Nonetheless, I’ve decided to go ahead and use my pre-arranged format. I think I can make it work well here.
I need to give a caveat for reviewing this book. I’m biased. I am addicted/obsessed with male/male romance and I’m sure that I read this book with an eye towards learning something about me. To be sure, some will pick up this book with an eye toward dismissing the genre and it’s readers. Or hopefully, there will be those who want to see if there is really a “movement” to grab on to here. I think there is.
THE CHARACTERS
Geoffrey Knight (The Author and Guide). This is my first read from Mr. Knight but I should point out that we’ve had a couple of exchanges online. He strikes me, both online and in print, as someone who is light-hearted, genuine, humorous and motivated.
The Women (The Interviewees). When I say that, here, I found my friends, I mean to say that these are women I would love to meet, know and learn from. The diversity of these women is terrific. Some are like me; married with children and well over 40. Some are very young (to me), single and may never want children. Others fall in between. I was delighted to find honest, articulate, fresh, strong and passionate women who were able to express what I personally have had a hard time putting my finger on. From business women, to stay-at-home moms, to deeply religious to equality advocates, I found a group that I can identify with because of their open minds.
THE STORY
Oh boy, I could look at this from several angles. This could be a book about women finding a passion, and trying to find the freedom and confidence to express that passion with others. Or, this could be a book about women who love men and ALL the sexiness that they are. This might be a book about advocacy and agendas. It could also be a book about a man, a gay man, who has been taken advantage of by a movement of women. Women who are using him to advance their goal of getting more fabulous m/m or gay romance books to market. I love smart women.
What I really think this book is about will be up to you. As I said, it’s diverse but in more ways than just the women who share their thoughts. There is something here for almost everyone; for straight women who have fallen into what I have called “a rabbit hole that I don’t want to climb out of”. For the un-indoctrinated who just can’t understand why a women would want to read about sex between men. Oh, let me tell you honey, these women will tell you why. There is also something here for men. For the husband trying to understand his wife (which is funny to me because so often the women reading these books are trying to understand men).
Also, for the gay man who needs to know that there is an army of women out there that care about them and are interested in understanding their lives better. All of these people will find a terrific resource to more information on the subject of the m/m genre, including a glossary and contact information for many of the contributor’s websites and blogs.
THE WRITING
I read this straight through, it's quick paced, humorous and at times emotional. Like I said earlier though, I’m obsessed with the subject and I’ve been waiting for answers to help me understand my addiction.
The book begins by introducing you to the women who contribute to the Why Straight Women Read Gay Romance. By way of interview questions you learn a good bit about each one and easily find those you will identify with most. I found myself paying a little more attention to those women who seemed most like me, at first. I quickly realized I was interested in everyone’s opinion.
The book continues the interview process but with specific questions related to the topic. We learn how these women came to read or write, edit or artistically enhance the m/m genre. The discussion delves into what they’ve learned about themselves, men, gay men and sex. Plus, the subject was broached: Is admitting to reading m/m romance or erotica similar to coming out of the closet? I really connected with this one.
There could be a tendency to want to read this as a manual. Flipping back and forth between those women you, a) know from reading their books or blogs, or b)jumping ahead to read a specific comment by someone you earlier identified with. I would suggest you refrain from this, at least, for the first read. First, my kindle made that a little difficult to do. It’s easy to go back but harder to jump forward and keep your place. Second, I don’t think you want to miss anything said here. I found most all the viewpoints and comments valid.
~ ~ ~ ~
Highly Recommended - Nearly a Must Read (especially for those involved, interested or invested in the gay romance genre).
For me, this book answered many, many questions. It also allowed me to be more comfortable with my love of m/m books. I knew I wasn’t alone in my obsession but now I feel more connected than ever. Thank you Geoffrey, you made this a fun and enlightening journey.
~ ~ ~ ~
My thanks to ManLoveRomance Press mlrpress.com for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Take a look at my Male/Male Romance Book Blog:
http://www.attentionisarbitrary.blogspot.com
For M/M Romance Lovers, Haters and Everyone Else!!!
Take the Related Poll - Here:
https://www.goodreads.com/poll/show/7...
If you’ve read my reviews you know that I’ve developed a format that I use to review most of the books I read. I was a little conflicted whether or not I could use that format for this book, it is after all not fiction, or is it? In the “disclaimer” section it is called a “work of fiction” but it certainly doesn’t read that way; I suspect this is just a legal catch-all. This book reads as, and I believe is intended to be, informative and educational. Nonetheless, I’ve decided to go ahead and use my pre-arranged format. I think I can make it work well here.
I need to give a caveat for reviewing this book. I’m biased. I am addicted/obsessed with male/male romance and I’m sure that I read this book with an eye towards learning something about me. To be sure, some will pick up this book with an eye toward dismissing the genre and it’s readers. Or hopefully, there will be those who want to see if there is really a “movement” to grab on to here. I think there is.
THE CHARACTERS
"...I'm now allowed to use the word cock. That's the difference between a textbook and a sex book! If I were writing a textbook right now, I would have used the word penis. But let's face it, the word cock is sexier, a lot more fun, and just feels good in your mouth."
Geoffrey Knight (The Author and Guide). This is my first read from Mr. Knight but I should point out that we’ve had a couple of exchanges online. He strikes me, both online and in print, as someone who is light-hearted, genuine, humorous and motivated.
"...they are one of the strongest, and most surprising, waves of support for equal rights on the planet--and most of the world, both gay and straight, doesn't even know it. Well all that's about to change."
The Women (The Interviewees). When I say that, here, I found my friends, I mean to say that these are women I would love to meet, know and learn from. The diversity of these women is terrific. Some are like me; married with children and well over 40. Some are very young (to me), single and may never want children. Others fall in between. I was delighted to find honest, articulate, fresh, strong and passionate women who were able to express what I personally have had a hard time putting my finger on. From business women, to stay-at-home moms, to deeply religious to equality advocates, I found a group that I can identify with because of their open minds.
THE STORY
Oh boy, I could look at this from several angles. This could be a book about women finding a passion, and trying to find the freedom and confidence to express that passion with others. Or, this could be a book about women who love men and ALL the sexiness that they are. This might be a book about advocacy and agendas. It could also be a book about a man, a gay man, who has been taken advantage of by a movement of women. Women who are using him to advance their goal of getting more fabulous m/m or gay romance books to market. I love smart women.
What I really think this book is about will be up to you. As I said, it’s diverse but in more ways than just the women who share their thoughts. There is something here for almost everyone; for straight women who have fallen into what I have called “a rabbit hole that I don’t want to climb out of”. For the un-indoctrinated who just can’t understand why a women would want to read about sex between men. Oh, let me tell you honey, these women will tell you why. There is also something here for men. For the husband trying to understand his wife (which is funny to me because so often the women reading these books are trying to understand men).
Also, for the gay man who needs to know that there is an army of women out there that care about them and are interested in understanding their lives better. All of these people will find a terrific resource to more information on the subject of the m/m genre, including a glossary and contact information for many of the contributor’s websites and blogs.
THE WRITING
I read this straight through, it's quick paced, humorous and at times emotional. Like I said earlier though, I’m obsessed with the subject and I’ve been waiting for answers to help me understand my addiction.
The book begins by introducing you to the women who contribute to the Why Straight Women Read Gay Romance. By way of interview questions you learn a good bit about each one and easily find those you will identify with most. I found myself paying a little more attention to those women who seemed most like me, at first. I quickly realized I was interested in everyone’s opinion.
The book continues the interview process but with specific questions related to the topic. We learn how these women came to read or write, edit or artistically enhance the m/m genre. The discussion delves into what they’ve learned about themselves, men, gay men and sex. Plus, the subject was broached: Is admitting to reading m/m romance or erotica similar to coming out of the closet? I really connected with this one.
There could be a tendency to want to read this as a manual. Flipping back and forth between those women you, a) know from reading their books or blogs, or b)jumping ahead to read a specific comment by someone you earlier identified with. I would suggest you refrain from this, at least, for the first read. First, my kindle made that a little difficult to do. It’s easy to go back but harder to jump forward and keep your place. Second, I don’t think you want to miss anything said here. I found most all the viewpoints and comments valid.
~ ~ ~ ~
Highly Recommended - Nearly a Must Read (especially for those involved, interested or invested in the gay romance genre).
For me, this book answered many, many questions. It also allowed me to be more comfortable with my love of m/m books. I knew I wasn’t alone in my obsession but now I feel more connected than ever. Thank you Geoffrey, you made this a fun and enlightening journey.
~ ~ ~ ~
My thanks to ManLoveRomance Press mlrpress.com for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Take a look at my Male/Male Romance Book Blog:
http://www.attentionisarbitrary.blogspot.com
December 3, 2012
Okay - it was a funny read and very entertaining.
I wonder if J.R. Ward knows how much she is resonsible for all the m/m readers...because like 3 other woman in this book - I started m/m because of BDB, too.
What I really liked about the book was that a gay man took his time to ask. Seriously, I've met a kind of "reversed" homophobia on boards/blogs, gay men being downright angry about the increasing interest in m/m books and accusing "all that thick middleaged woman writing just for money".
So - I loved when Geoffrey Knight wrote how these women will educate their children to better and toleranter people. That is just so right. Same with the hightening awareness of the problems of LGBT people.
I found myself in some of the stories and I'm glad I read the book.
I wonder if J.R. Ward knows how much she is resonsible for all the m/m readers...because like 3 other woman in this book - I started m/m because of BDB, too.
What I really liked about the book was that a gay man took his time to ask. Seriously, I've met a kind of "reversed" homophobia on boards/blogs, gay men being downright angry about the increasing interest in m/m books and accusing "all that thick middleaged woman writing just for money".
So - I loved when Geoffrey Knight wrote how these women will educate their children to better and toleranter people. That is just so right. Same with the hightening awareness of the problems of LGBT people.
I found myself in some of the stories and I'm glad I read the book.
September 10, 2012
When I first learned about this book I got excited and couldn’t wait for it to be released so I could read it. I’ve often wondered and been asked every time people hear I read Gay Romance, why I read it?! I was hoping to find the answer in this book or at least something I could tell people other than “I just love it!” Did I find my answers? Not really *LOL* but I did find a whole lot of very interesting opinions and personal stories from a bunch of really interesting and wonderful women, two of whom I know one being a very dear, very special personal friend. Oh and not to leave Geoffrey Knight out, what a great idea putting this all into a book.
While I may not have found my answers directly from the book it did have me discussing this subject with a friend and I think I now know why....maybe....I love the equality of the relationships in Gay Romance unlike Het Romance where there is almost always a damsel in distress and some big hero that comes to her rescue, that became tiresome reading for me. I also love that it’s all so honest there aren’t those silly games you see in Het Romance between the main characters. If I had to come up with one sentence to describe why I read it I would have to say...Gay Romance is fun, sweet, romantic, loving, sexy and sometimes oh so hot *fans myself* and bonus it’s about men, what’s not to love!
This was a really great read something I would highly recommend especially to those that have never read Gay Romance it’s a book I will be telling my “real life” friends to read while I continue to try and convert them!
The short story at the end by Geoffrey Knight I loved it...please Geoffrey I want more of these two!
While I may not have found my answers directly from the book it did have me discussing this subject with a friend and I think I now know why....maybe....I love the equality of the relationships in Gay Romance unlike Het Romance where there is almost always a damsel in distress and some big hero that comes to her rescue, that became tiresome reading for me. I also love that it’s all so honest there aren’t those silly games you see in Het Romance between the main characters. If I had to come up with one sentence to describe why I read it I would have to say...Gay Romance is fun, sweet, romantic, loving, sexy and sometimes oh so hot *fans myself* and bonus it’s about men, what’s not to love!
This was a really great read something I would highly recommend especially to those that have never read Gay Romance it’s a book I will be telling my “real life” friends to read while I continue to try and convert them!
The short story at the end by Geoffrey Knight I loved it...please Geoffrey I want more of these two!
March 23, 2018
A fun, insiteful book by a brilliant author. I raise my hand to JR Ward too. We're here because of her. Geoffrey Knight could write anything and I'd love every word.
September 10, 2012
Totally FASCINATING doesn't cover it! Thank you Geoffrey Knight for writing this book! I could relate to so many of the interviewees & felt like I was reading a life-changing-event! I'm still reeling from the revelations!
I'm a liberal minded mother of 3 in a very conservative area & pretty sure one of my twin boys is gay. I have a huge circle of friends & family who are amazing BUT I have a hard time feeling especially close to many or really any w/the exception of my sister whom I just came-out of my MM obsession closet to very recently. She was the one to suggest that maybe part of it is to prepare myself for what lies ahead as my son approaches puberty.....she might be right.
I have had many gay friends all my life regardless of where I've lived thanks to my work in the beauty industry. I watched my dearest childhood friend growing up a gay Mormon....ouch! Yet I still have felt unprepared especially w/the twin dynamic.....unprepared yet grateful.
Suzanne Brockmann's opening was very emotional & inspiring for me having listened to many of her books on audio, yes audio is easier to get your reading fix in bc you can multi-task...a must as a busy working mom *hint hint PUBLISHERS*.....I know I know supply & demand BUT I'm guessing it's like "you build it they wil come" as I am also speculating many women are going to be cruising for more great smut once they have passed their 50 SHADES obsession;-)
I really just feel relieved & not alone which honestly means the most to me from reading this AMAZING, insightful book! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU GEOFFREY KNIGHT & all the people who participated!!!!!!!!
I'm a liberal minded mother of 3 in a very conservative area & pretty sure one of my twin boys is gay. I have a huge circle of friends & family who are amazing BUT I have a hard time feeling especially close to many or really any w/the exception of my sister whom I just came-out of my MM obsession closet to very recently. She was the one to suggest that maybe part of it is to prepare myself for what lies ahead as my son approaches puberty.....she might be right.
I have had many gay friends all my life regardless of where I've lived thanks to my work in the beauty industry. I watched my dearest childhood friend growing up a gay Mormon....ouch! Yet I still have felt unprepared especially w/the twin dynamic.....unprepared yet grateful.
Suzanne Brockmann's opening was very emotional & inspiring for me having listened to many of her books on audio, yes audio is easier to get your reading fix in bc you can multi-task...a must as a busy working mom *hint hint PUBLISHERS*.....I know I know supply & demand BUT I'm guessing it's like "you build it they wil come" as I am also speculating many women are going to be cruising for more great smut once they have passed their 50 SHADES obsession;-)
I really just feel relieved & not alone which honestly means the most to me from reading this AMAZING, insightful book! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU GEOFFREY KNIGHT & all the people who participated!!!!!!!!
June 21, 2013
Most of the book is interviews, which are nice enough, but there's no analysis, and it's entirely uncritical of any problematic aspects of the genre. Enthusiastic, a pleasant read, but it didn't give me much in the way of new insights.
December 23, 2019
3.5 por el esfuerzo de preparar las entrevistas y querer hacer un libro sobre un tema del que se habla muy poco y me parece muy curioso.
No me ha dado todas las respuestas que quería y algunas respuestas casi me dejan sin ojos, pero, haré vídeo sobre este libro e intentaré contestar también a las preguntas que el propio autor plantea a sus entrevistadas (aunque no soy hetero, sí soy mujer).
Las mujeres no son sólo de EEUU o países de habla inglés, sino de Alemania, Japón, etc. Y algunas son solo lectoras y otras ilustradoras, escritoras, editoras.. siempre dentro del mundo m/m.
Si tenéis curiosidad, os lo recomiendo. Es muy fácil y rápido de leer, aunque no se profundiza en la cuestión central, solo se dan pareceres.
Además, el.autor nos deja un mini relato suyo en el contexto del día de San Valentín totalmente ridículo que te deja con una sonrisa en la boca.
No me ha dado todas las respuestas que quería y algunas respuestas casi me dejan sin ojos, pero, haré vídeo sobre este libro e intentaré contestar también a las preguntas que el propio autor plantea a sus entrevistadas (aunque no soy hetero, sí soy mujer).
Las mujeres no son sólo de EEUU o países de habla inglés, sino de Alemania, Japón, etc. Y algunas son solo lectoras y otras ilustradoras, escritoras, editoras.. siempre dentro del mundo m/m.
Si tenéis curiosidad, os lo recomiendo. Es muy fácil y rápido de leer, aunque no se profundiza en la cuestión central, solo se dan pareceres.
Además, el.autor nos deja un mini relato suyo en el contexto del día de San Valentín totalmente ridículo que te deja con una sonrisa en la boca.
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June 30, 2013I was curious as to whether this book would give me any new insight, but as this is already a topic I've read and thought about extensively, there wasn't anything new to me within the pages (except for a rather cute story from Geoffrey Knight at the end). That's not to say it wasn't interesting to hear the contributions from all the women who took part.
One thing I found curious is that the participants keep referring to gay romance being for and by straight women and gay men. There was no mention of the fact that many readers and writers are bisexual men and women, trans or lesbian women. It would be interesting to see an exploration of this. I found that my reasons for reading and writing gay romance were different in some key ways from the women in this book, and I'm sure that's a result of my bisexuality.
I'd recommend this to anyone new to the genre who wants to find out more, but it probably doesn't hold any surprises to those who've been reading/discussing it for a while. Perhaps the group who might find it the most enlightening are gay men who just can't fathom why women are reading and writing gay romance.
One thing I found curious is that the participants keep referring to gay romance being for and by straight women and gay men. There was no mention of the fact that many readers and writers are bisexual men and women, trans or lesbian women. It would be interesting to see an exploration of this. I found that my reasons for reading and writing gay romance were different in some key ways from the women in this book, and I'm sure that's a result of my bisexuality.
I'd recommend this to anyone new to the genre who wants to find out more, but it probably doesn't hold any surprises to those who've been reading/discussing it for a while. Perhaps the group who might find it the most enlightening are gay men who just can't fathom why women are reading and writing gay romance.
Want to read
August 25, 2012Hehehe, you'll see a little miss Iceland among those 32 women ;) Can't wait to read about the other 31 women.
Want to read
August 25, 2012This one is MUST READ book !
Want to read
August 25, 2012oh gezz *laugh*
must read the book
i wanna know the answer
why straight women love gay romance
because....
ow Mr. Geoffrey Knight... please answer the question :) your book made me curious.
And please help me, pinch the man of your book cover :P he's cute
owww that dimple!
must read the book
i wanna know the answer
why straight women love gay romance
because....
ow Mr. Geoffrey Knight... please answer the question :) your book made me curious.
And please help me, pinch the man of your book cover :P he's cute
owww that dimple!
glbt-to-read
August 27, 2012When does this come out? When? Damn not for 2 weeks...damn..I want it now!!
September 20, 2012
3.5 to 4 stars
This was a fairly light read with some very satisfying moments. The women who were interviewed are all warm, interesting, and sometimes humorous; and there are a couple of very touching stories about having a gay child. I was very pleased how all of the interviewees have become interested in or active in gay rights issues, and author Knight has provided a nice list of online resources at the end of the book.
I thought it was respectful of Knight to give such a thorough introduction to each of the women he interviewed. However, the interview format of the book in general--loosely organized by chapters--sometimes felt a bit choppy, with some off-topic things ending up in various chapters.
I'll hasten to say that I can only imagine the sheer number of hours each woman spent providing her answers, and the staggering amount of time it took for Knight to edit the pieces into a finished book. However, the text might have progressed more smoothly if the interviews had been integrated into a narrative format, perhaps with a greater or deeper context--e.g., additional insights or feedback from Knight's perspective as a gay man. (I recognize, of course, that this would have required a change of title.)
In the opening line of this review I referred to the book as a fairly light read. This had partly to do with my expectations. Although I enjoyed hearing why particular other women love gay romance, I was hoping that the book might also include a bit of psycho-sociological theory. Of its type, this was a very decent book. It made me realize, though, that I was actually looking for a little more. (If anyone knows of any online essays or blogs that have dealt with some of the deeper aspects of this topic, please share in comments!)
This was a fairly light read with some very satisfying moments. The women who were interviewed are all warm, interesting, and sometimes humorous; and there are a couple of very touching stories about having a gay child. I was very pleased how all of the interviewees have become interested in or active in gay rights issues, and author Knight has provided a nice list of online resources at the end of the book.
I thought it was respectful of Knight to give such a thorough introduction to each of the women he interviewed. However, the interview format of the book in general--loosely organized by chapters--sometimes felt a bit choppy, with some off-topic things ending up in various chapters.
I'll hasten to say that I can only imagine the sheer number of hours each woman spent providing her answers, and the staggering amount of time it took for Knight to edit the pieces into a finished book. However, the text might have progressed more smoothly if the interviews had been integrated into a narrative format, perhaps with a greater or deeper context--e.g., additional insights or feedback from Knight's perspective as a gay man. (I recognize, of course, that this would have required a change of title.)
In the opening line of this review I referred to the book as a fairly light read. This had partly to do with my expectations. Although I enjoyed hearing why particular other women love gay romance, I was hoping that the book might also include a bit of psycho-sociological theory. Of its type, this was a very decent book. It made me realize, though, that I was actually looking for a little more. (If anyone knows of any online essays or blogs that have dealt with some of the deeper aspects of this topic, please share in comments!)
September 26, 2014
Книга не увлекательная, но интересная.
Большая часть ответов читалей жанра совпадала с моими мыслями, тут ничего нового я для себя не открыла.
Но очень любопытно было почитать ответы самих авторов - как они пришли в этот жанр, как они борятся за издание и продажи своего творчества в широкие массы и т.д. И интересны были факты от жительниц других стран.
Кроме того, книга заставила обдумать некоторые моменты, которые раньше не приходили в голову. Сделать для себя какие-то выводы.
Также книга побудила обратить мое внимание на упомянутые в ней книги и фильмы, которые я возможно прочитаю и посмотрю.
Спасибо автору за проделанную работу и маленький бонус для читателей в конце книги.
Большая часть ответов читалей жанра совпадала с моими мыслями, тут ничего нового я для себя не открыла.
Но очень любопытно было почитать ответы самих авторов - как они пришли в этот жанр, как они борятся за издание и продажи своего творчества в широкие массы и т.д. И интересны были факты от жительниц других стран.
Кроме того, книга заставила обдумать некоторые моменты, которые раньше не приходили в голову. Сделать для себя какие-то выводы.
Также книга побудила обратить мое внимание на упомянутые в ней книги и фильмы, которые я возможно прочитаю и посмотрю.
Спасибо автору за проделанную работу и маленький бонус для читателей в конце книги.
September 27, 2014
Размышления и истории давних читателей/писателей жанра, безусловно, интересны, но лично мне в книге с подобным названием очень не хватало аналитики и более серьезного подхода. За последние 10 лет слэш повсеместно стал невероятно популярен. ИМХО, пора уже психологам разбираться почему.
Из интервьюируемых больше всего понравились ответы A.J. Rose - самый трезвый и взвешенный взгляд на вещи.
И не могу не отдать должное. В очередной раз мой поклон и уважение авторам, которые годами в своих гетных книгах целенаправленно проводили работу по изменению сознания читателей, постепенно подводя тех к мысли, что и геи могут быть притягательными главными героями любовных романов.
Из интервьюируемых больше всего понравились ответы A.J. Rose - самый трезвый и взвешенный взгляд на вещи.
И не могу не отдать должное. В очередной раз мой поклон и уважение авторам, которые годами в своих гетных книгах целенаправленно проводили работу по изменению сознания читателей, постепенно подводя тех к мысли, что и геи могут быть притягательными главными героями любовных романов.
dnf
March 5, 2013DNF
I stopped reading at ca. 40%. I was interested in understanding the fascination of m/m romance for straight women (for obvious reasons). This is more like some 30 interviews about this topic put together without real discussion or analysis (at least not until 40%), and to be honest it was plain boring to me as it also had a very long introduction of the interviewees of whom every second made the obvious joke about "married with kids" (reference to the Al Bundy tv show...).
I stopped reading at ca. 40%. I was interested in understanding the fascination of m/m romance for straight women (for obvious reasons). This is more like some 30 interviews about this topic put together without real discussion or analysis (at least not until 40%), and to be honest it was plain boring to me as it also had a very long introduction of the interviewees of whom every second made the obvious joke about "married with kids" (reference to the Al Bundy tv show...).
September 12, 2012
This is an insightful and interesting look at a genre that deserves a much wider readership. Bravo!
March 22, 2015
Review can be found at The Armchair Reader
This site is down. Here is the review.
When I heard that Geoff Knight was doing this book with Kris Jacen editing, I knew I had to read it as soon as possible because I knew it would be fascinating and enlightening. I’ve read a few articles and posts about this topic on various sites since I started reading M/M stories back in November of 2010, some written by men and quite condescending and a bit insulting in tone. I knew we would not get that with Geoff and Kris and I am exactly who this book is talking about and to. I’m a middle-aged straight woman who has been reading almost exclusively m/m stories for the past nearly two years. I went to GRL last year and I belong to another RL book club that is focused on M/M stories. I will also say that in a bout of insomnia, I read this entire book at one sitting (well – one reclining I suppose) from about 2:30 a.m. onward.
The questions that were asked to the very diverse group of women were definitely thought provoking. Some I had thought about before, some were completely new to me and many of the answers that these women gave brought clarity to my own views about why I enjoy these stories so much. I’ve read other Freudian reasons some purport to explain the popularity of these books, but I have to say I didn’t buy into them. However, I found these women to be very articulate about why they read, write, review and enjoy these stories.
The introduction by Suzanne Brockman was particularly insightful as she explained her decisions about her best-selling series that has included a gay male protagonist and has given him his own HEA. I have not read her books in the past, but this makes me want to go out and buy them. She is the proud and loving mother of a gay son and the work she has done is admirable.
One of the most revealing questions and the subsequent answers in this book had to do with whether women read these books to get some sort of insight into the male mind. Do we feel like we understand men better after reading these books? This is a question I had not though of in the past. But I’m happy to say that the answer was a resounding no. Most assuredly we do not. Every individual is different and every character is different and I don’t think any of us confuse the characters we read with the real people we meet.
Another of the interesting questions (for me anyway) is why we find male/male relationships beyond friendship so fascinating. I do agree (at least partially) with a number of the readers/writers/reviewers that it is a relationship that is for lack of a better term “exotic” to women. As females, we will never ever be in such a relationship so this is sort of our view into it. I also agree that right or wrong, two men are “equals” in society’s eyes, while there is a completely different dynamic to male/female relationships. And let’s face it – if like me, you read a lot of romance in your 20s, you were pretty much done with the TSTL female characters waiting to be rescued that were stock and trade. In fact, I pretty much stopped reading romance quite a while before I turned 30 (and when I figured out I would have to be my own hero) and for close to 20 years read only literary and historical fiction and non-fiction. Then in about 2008, I started reading what is now call YA fiction and urban fantasy and finally m/m in late 2010.
Geoff asked all of these women who they have told they read M/M romances and the answers were as diverse as the women. Some have only told a few friends or family members. Some have told only a couple of people in real life. Some only have online friends that know they read these stories. And the reasons for not telling people were also quite varied from person to person and culture to culture. I found myself relating to many of these answers. At first only a couple of my friends knew I read these books – and one of those was the one who got me hooked in the first place! Because I am lucky enough to live next to a very large city, we also have a real life book club that meets once a month to discuss our m/m books and writing and what’s going on – so I have another group of 8-10 people who know what I read. Then there are the lovely online friends that I met at GRL last year, including our dear Cole. However, my family and none of my other RL friends know. Even though we live in a small conservative town and I know that my mother and sister both believe in equality and have gay friends they love and admire, I am pretty sure they would never understand why I read these books and they would be very uncomfortable with it. So I figure what they don’t know won’t hurt them.
Finally, Geoff confirmed what I think is possibly the most positive consequences of the popularity of m/m stories: the surge of support and activism among these women in the fight for equality for LGBTQ people all over the world. We all know that there is still a long way to go, but with the support of allies much can be achieved. These women have joined the fight in large and small ways. I know I personally have become a member of the HRC, financially supported LGBTQ friendly candidates, attended PRIDE events, spoken out even as far as arguing with my mother as to why marriage equality and equal protection under the law is essential, donated to charities like The Trevor Project, etc. While I was always aware of these issues on some level, I have become passionate in doing my part.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who wants more insight into why we love these stories and why we are passionate about making the world a better place for all of us.
This site is down. Here is the review.
When I heard that Geoff Knight was doing this book with Kris Jacen editing, I knew I had to read it as soon as possible because I knew it would be fascinating and enlightening. I’ve read a few articles and posts about this topic on various sites since I started reading M/M stories back in November of 2010, some written by men and quite condescending and a bit insulting in tone. I knew we would not get that with Geoff and Kris and I am exactly who this book is talking about and to. I’m a middle-aged straight woman who has been reading almost exclusively m/m stories for the past nearly two years. I went to GRL last year and I belong to another RL book club that is focused on M/M stories. I will also say that in a bout of insomnia, I read this entire book at one sitting (well – one reclining I suppose) from about 2:30 a.m. onward.
The questions that were asked to the very diverse group of women were definitely thought provoking. Some I had thought about before, some were completely new to me and many of the answers that these women gave brought clarity to my own views about why I enjoy these stories so much. I’ve read other Freudian reasons some purport to explain the popularity of these books, but I have to say I didn’t buy into them. However, I found these women to be very articulate about why they read, write, review and enjoy these stories.
The introduction by Suzanne Brockman was particularly insightful as she explained her decisions about her best-selling series that has included a gay male protagonist and has given him his own HEA. I have not read her books in the past, but this makes me want to go out and buy them. She is the proud and loving mother of a gay son and the work she has done is admirable.
One of the most revealing questions and the subsequent answers in this book had to do with whether women read these books to get some sort of insight into the male mind. Do we feel like we understand men better after reading these books? This is a question I had not though of in the past. But I’m happy to say that the answer was a resounding no. Most assuredly we do not. Every individual is different and every character is different and I don’t think any of us confuse the characters we read with the real people we meet.
Another of the interesting questions (for me anyway) is why we find male/male relationships beyond friendship so fascinating. I do agree (at least partially) with a number of the readers/writers/reviewers that it is a relationship that is for lack of a better term “exotic” to women. As females, we will never ever be in such a relationship so this is sort of our view into it. I also agree that right or wrong, two men are “equals” in society’s eyes, while there is a completely different dynamic to male/female relationships. And let’s face it – if like me, you read a lot of romance in your 20s, you were pretty much done with the TSTL female characters waiting to be rescued that were stock and trade. In fact, I pretty much stopped reading romance quite a while before I turned 30 (and when I figured out I would have to be my own hero) and for close to 20 years read only literary and historical fiction and non-fiction. Then in about 2008, I started reading what is now call YA fiction and urban fantasy and finally m/m in late 2010.
Geoff asked all of these women who they have told they read M/M romances and the answers were as diverse as the women. Some have only told a few friends or family members. Some have told only a couple of people in real life. Some only have online friends that know they read these stories. And the reasons for not telling people were also quite varied from person to person and culture to culture. I found myself relating to many of these answers. At first only a couple of my friends knew I read these books – and one of those was the one who got me hooked in the first place! Because I am lucky enough to live next to a very large city, we also have a real life book club that meets once a month to discuss our m/m books and writing and what’s going on – so I have another group of 8-10 people who know what I read. Then there are the lovely online friends that I met at GRL last year, including our dear Cole. However, my family and none of my other RL friends know. Even though we live in a small conservative town and I know that my mother and sister both believe in equality and have gay friends they love and admire, I am pretty sure they would never understand why I read these books and they would be very uncomfortable with it. So I figure what they don’t know won’t hurt them.
Finally, Geoff confirmed what I think is possibly the most positive consequences of the popularity of m/m stories: the surge of support and activism among these women in the fight for equality for LGBTQ people all over the world. We all know that there is still a long way to go, but with the support of allies much can be achieved. These women have joined the fight in large and small ways. I know I personally have become a member of the HRC, financially supported LGBTQ friendly candidates, attended PRIDE events, spoken out even as far as arguing with my mother as to why marriage equality and equal protection under the law is essential, donated to charities like The Trevor Project, etc. While I was always aware of these issues on some level, I have become passionate in doing my part.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who wants more insight into why we love these stories and why we are passionate about making the world a better place for all of us.
December 27, 2012
I'm a little torn on this one.
On the one hand, I felt like the various interviews were interesting, and I liked getting other reader's perspectives. Some of the personal stories were very powerful, esp. those who wrote about their children coming out, being bullied, etc. The connections made through m/m romance can be very strong and it was great to see that my circle of friends is not the only group that has experienced the same thing.
However, I was expecting something a bit more academic. I know that there are studies of all kinds out there- hasn't anyone looked into this topic yet?
I attended some presentations at a popular culture academic conference this year and there are studies on everything, people studying all sorts of minutia, so I find it hard to believe that there aren't people in academic settings looking into the question of what draws straight women to gay romances.
Basically, I wanted to have a higher level view because I have spoken to a lot of women on a one-on-one level as a slash reader and writer for years- I was hoping for a bit more than what I've already read.
I felt like there were opportunities to dig into some of the respondents answers that were missed or ignored by the author, which was disappointing for sure.
This is a great idea but I would love to see it taken further.
Also, I felt like it was a bit unfair that the actual interview portion of the book ends at roughly 80% of the book (I read it on Kindle so don't have an exact page number) and the rest of the book was a bit of fiction that I didn't really care for. I paid for this book and I wanted it to be ALL about women reading gay romance- I didn't buy it for an actual gay romance story. Maybe I'm just picky but it actually kind of pissed me off.
YMMV.
On the one hand, I felt like the various interviews were interesting, and I liked getting other reader's perspectives. Some of the personal stories were very powerful, esp. those who wrote about their children coming out, being bullied, etc. The connections made through m/m romance can be very strong and it was great to see that my circle of friends is not the only group that has experienced the same thing.
However, I was expecting something a bit more academic. I know that there are studies of all kinds out there- hasn't anyone looked into this topic yet?
I attended some presentations at a popular culture academic conference this year and there are studies on everything, people studying all sorts of minutia, so I find it hard to believe that there aren't people in academic settings looking into the question of what draws straight women to gay romances.
Basically, I wanted to have a higher level view because I have spoken to a lot of women on a one-on-one level as a slash reader and writer for years- I was hoping for a bit more than what I've already read.
I felt like there were opportunities to dig into some of the respondents answers that were missed or ignored by the author, which was disappointing for sure.
This is a great idea but I would love to see it taken further.
Also, I felt like it was a bit unfair that the actual interview portion of the book ends at roughly 80% of the book (I read it on Kindle so don't have an exact page number) and the rest of the book was a bit of fiction that I didn't really care for. I paid for this book and I wanted it to be ALL about women reading gay romance- I didn't buy it for an actual gay romance story. Maybe I'm just picky but it actually kind of pissed me off.
YMMV.
April 20, 2016
This sat on my local library new books shelf. I was well aware that both straight women read and wrote gay romance & erotica, so I was interested in what this book would have to say.
Readers, writers, editors and people in the industry are invited to answer a series of questions. This is OK, but the squeeing during the introductions from Knight is annoying. It is a little repetitive and on retrospect, I think a synopsis of the results and just fragments from the answers would have been far more enjoyable to read. But, that makes this book a proper social science study & the people involved lack those sort of skills & background.
If you want an answer to the question, you need to do so through reflection of the answers supplied and this done by the half way mark.
Just like straight men get sexually excited with lesbians having sex, so too do straight women fantasise over two muscly gay men kissing, foreplay and finally having sex.
Some of the answers regarding changes in homophobic attitudes border onto the twee and are annoying if you happen to be gay. I found it interesting that straight women asked other straight women how to write gay sex scenes, which sort of explains why I find gay romance/ erotica written by a woman to be lacking in a certain "something". I would have liked a small section on interviewing gay romance writers and then having a discussion by hte women on their feelings on their statements.
It isn't a strong book, and even though not that thick, could have been shortened to an article.
Readers, writers, editors and people in the industry are invited to answer a series of questions. This is OK, but the squeeing during the introductions from Knight is annoying. It is a little repetitive and on retrospect, I think a synopsis of the results and just fragments from the answers would have been far more enjoyable to read. But, that makes this book a proper social science study & the people involved lack those sort of skills & background.
If you want an answer to the question, you need to do so through reflection of the answers supplied and this done by the half way mark.
Just like straight men get sexually excited with lesbians having sex, so too do straight women fantasise over two muscly gay men kissing, foreplay and finally having sex.
Some of the answers regarding changes in homophobic attitudes border onto the twee and are annoying if you happen to be gay. I found it interesting that straight women asked other straight women how to write gay sex scenes, which sort of explains why I find gay romance/ erotica written by a woman to be lacking in a certain "something". I would have liked a small section on interviewing gay romance writers and then having a discussion by hte women on their feelings on their statements.
It isn't a strong book, and even though not that thick, could have been shortened to an article.
Want to read
September 6, 2012I definitely want to read your book when it comes out, Mr. Knight! can't wait to read.
PS : oh almost forgot, the book cover is so yummyyyy. i love it <3
PS : oh almost forgot, the book cover is so yummyyyy. i love it <3
January 2, 2015
I'm not good with expressing myself with words, so...thank you so much to all who were involved in writing this book. I loved it!
December 16, 2021
This was interesting but not what I expected. The author interviews straight women readers/writers of gay romance about their thoughts, with questions such as, Did reading gay romance improve your sex life? or, Have other people's attitudes about you reading gay romance ever surprised you? There are also some essays by the women and a delightful short story by the author to end the book.
I think I expected a more academic book with conclusions and maybe some charts (what can I say, I'm a nerd!) and that I had hoped to learn more about why I like reading gay romance. Also, the book is from 2012, and (happily) a lot has changed since self-publishing allowed authors to bypass the gatekeepers of the publishing world. So some of the comments seems dated, like the idea that most readers don't know that gay romance exists. (I could be wrong though.)
I think I expected a more academic book with conclusions and maybe some charts (what can I say, I'm a nerd!) and that I had hoped to learn more about why I like reading gay romance. Also, the book is from 2012, and (happily) a lot has changed since self-publishing allowed authors to bypass the gatekeepers of the publishing world. So some of the comments seems dated, like the idea that most readers don't know that gay romance exists. (I could be wrong though.)
July 26, 2016
I apologize for my long response to this book, it seems I really can't speak my mind out without doing it like I'm writing a whole book. And even with this, I feel like I haven't even touched the depths of what I want to convey in this reponse. Though, I can most certainly relate to Laura Baumbach take on M/M romance, though not the author part but her beginning and motivation for loving M/M stories. So please bear with me.
Maybe the most essential reason why I truly like this kind of books because it has the message of equality and acceptance. As a woman, and women in general, we have fought for the same acceptance and equality all our lives. And it is still a raging battle. Women might have been placed higher in first world countries nowadayas but here, in one of the third world countries, the lives of women were still suppresed and forced to the norms. The reason that maybe most women like M/M romance might be for the reaon that they sympathize with the battle these people are facing. Its like camaraderie in action. Because who else will emphatize with each other than the same people who received the same ridicule. The message behind this stories made me more courageous in my views and beliefs. An attitude and knowledge most men still find dangerous for a woman to possess here in our country. But I am nothing but stubborn. Besides reading straight romance is a stressful hobby. Aside from a strong urge to strangle the heroine for being too stupid to live, or too deeply inlove to be stupid, it is always an unequal dynamic. Sure, I like men who can provide and take care of me but more than that, I want to be an equal partner. Not some clingy, whiny woman who already have the love and devotion of one man but still asks for so much more. Straight romance mostly depicts women, though independent, fall blindly into love that was borderline stupid and whose lives then revolves around their love, consequences be damned. And that is why I am so damned picky in these kind of romances. Whereas, in MM romance, albeit few good written books, you can see a different light to the relationship dynamic of the couple. It might not be totally equal but atleast both side can speak out their minds and insecurities, men who have flaws but didn't make them any uglier and annoying. It made them who they are, and may or may not need each other to fix their own flaws and hang-ups. Add in the realistic obstacles of life (i.e. hate for gays) and it became a much more fulfilling read. It got me thinking that there might be hope in the world.
Personally, I am drawn to this kind of romance because of the possibility of love. It made me believe that maybe, love do truly exist. You see, I have never loved and be loved before. I have all this kinds of self-consciousness and self-doubt, questions on why I can't be loved. Maybe I am too weird, too pragmatic, too realistic and too independent. I look and understand the world differently than other people. And in this backward town I am currently at, there is no hope for me to be understood. I aspire the greatness the world can offer, I can and want to embrace the diversity of each and everyone. And still, there's this invisible force that is holding me back. But here, in this world (m/m romance), the impossibility became a reality. For two men, for gay men who believe that they will never have their own happily ever after and then have it, it was such a wonderful feeling. It was inspiring. For these people to be able to love and be loved in return inspite of all hate, criticism and fear give me hope that maybe, someday I can be loved too. For this people who bravely fought for acceptance, understanding and equality and still earn more hate and little respect made me more motivated to let my voice be heard too. Not only for the gay people I treasure and love, but also for all the people I know who have been abused and can't defend themselves.
I hope more authors can make and breath life more books containing this amazing stories that can inspire and motivate people like us to fight for our own rights and the acceptance and equality of our dear brothers and sisters who are ridiculed for their own skin. Spread LOVE, NOT hate.
Maybe the most essential reason why I truly like this kind of books because it has the message of equality and acceptance. As a woman, and women in general, we have fought for the same acceptance and equality all our lives. And it is still a raging battle. Women might have been placed higher in first world countries nowadayas but here, in one of the third world countries, the lives of women were still suppresed and forced to the norms. The reason that maybe most women like M/M romance might be for the reaon that they sympathize with the battle these people are facing. Its like camaraderie in action. Because who else will emphatize with each other than the same people who received the same ridicule. The message behind this stories made me more courageous in my views and beliefs. An attitude and knowledge most men still find dangerous for a woman to possess here in our country. But I am nothing but stubborn. Besides reading straight romance is a stressful hobby. Aside from a strong urge to strangle the heroine for being too stupid to live, or too deeply inlove to be stupid, it is always an unequal dynamic. Sure, I like men who can provide and take care of me but more than that, I want to be an equal partner. Not some clingy, whiny woman who already have the love and devotion of one man but still asks for so much more. Straight romance mostly depicts women, though independent, fall blindly into love that was borderline stupid and whose lives then revolves around their love, consequences be damned. And that is why I am so damned picky in these kind of romances. Whereas, in MM romance, albeit few good written books, you can see a different light to the relationship dynamic of the couple. It might not be totally equal but atleast both side can speak out their minds and insecurities, men who have flaws but didn't make them any uglier and annoying. It made them who they are, and may or may not need each other to fix their own flaws and hang-ups. Add in the realistic obstacles of life (i.e. hate for gays) and it became a much more fulfilling read. It got me thinking that there might be hope in the world.
Personally, I am drawn to this kind of romance because of the possibility of love. It made me believe that maybe, love do truly exist. You see, I have never loved and be loved before. I have all this kinds of self-consciousness and self-doubt, questions on why I can't be loved. Maybe I am too weird, too pragmatic, too realistic and too independent. I look and understand the world differently than other people. And in this backward town I am currently at, there is no hope for me to be understood. I aspire the greatness the world can offer, I can and want to embrace the diversity of each and everyone. And still, there's this invisible force that is holding me back. But here, in this world (m/m romance), the impossibility became a reality. For two men, for gay men who believe that they will never have their own happily ever after and then have it, it was such a wonderful feeling. It was inspiring. For these people to be able to love and be loved in return inspite of all hate, criticism and fear give me hope that maybe, someday I can be loved too. For this people who bravely fought for acceptance, understanding and equality and still earn more hate and little respect made me more motivated to let my voice be heard too. Not only for the gay people I treasure and love, but also for all the people I know who have been abused and can't defend themselves.
I hope more authors can make and breath life more books containing this amazing stories that can inspire and motivate people like us to fight for our own rights and the acceptance and equality of our dear brothers and sisters who are ridiculed for their own skin. Spread LOVE, NOT hate.
September 30, 2012
This was such a great book!
I've wondered sometimes how to put into words why I read MM fiction because just saying "I like it better" never seems to do the authors and books I read justice!
This was a great insight into the minds of authors, readers, editors, publishers and reviewers with the genre, and I absolutely identified with so many of the points - how I got into reading it, what I like, how powerful it could be beyond the page, the insights I've had as a result of reading the books. One of the best things? Finding out just how many women read this genre, I don't feel at all weird that I like reading what I do, especially when so many like the same things about it!!!
Some of my favorite authors were part of this project, but I also discovered some new ones to add to my list and yes, more books were purchased as a direct result of reading this!!! But that's okay, there are many great authors in this genre, and apparently there are a lot of women waiting to read their books!
I hope a print version of the book will come out at some point - it would be even easier to refer to the blogs and authors!
Thanks to Geoffrey and Kris for taking on such a massive project, and for anyone who has wondered how this genre seems to be taking off so much, and why it's becoming so popular - whether they are husbands, boyfriends, kids, friends or even other authors, check out this book!
There is humor, heart, heat, honesty and even a few tears - how often do you find that kind of description with a non fiction book?!?
I've wondered sometimes how to put into words why I read MM fiction because just saying "I like it better" never seems to do the authors and books I read justice!
This was a great insight into the minds of authors, readers, editors, publishers and reviewers with the genre, and I absolutely identified with so many of the points - how I got into reading it, what I like, how powerful it could be beyond the page, the insights I've had as a result of reading the books. One of the best things? Finding out just how many women read this genre, I don't feel at all weird that I like reading what I do, especially when so many like the same things about it!!!
Some of my favorite authors were part of this project, but I also discovered some new ones to add to my list and yes, more books were purchased as a direct result of reading this!!! But that's okay, there are many great authors in this genre, and apparently there are a lot of women waiting to read their books!
I hope a print version of the book will come out at some point - it would be even easier to refer to the blogs and authors!
Thanks to Geoffrey and Kris for taking on such a massive project, and for anyone who has wondered how this genre seems to be taking off so much, and why it's becoming so popular - whether they are husbands, boyfriends, kids, friends or even other authors, check out this book!
There is humor, heart, heat, honesty and even a few tears - how often do you find that kind of description with a non fiction book?!?
September 30, 2012
So many people, when they find out I read gay romance, ask me "why?" and I tell them "I just like it." In this book, author Geoffrey Knight interviews women who write, read, and publish gay romance. He asks them why they enjoy it, why they write it, and what their experiences have been.
I think this is a fantastic book. First because it shows me that I am NOT alone (which I already knew!), but it also gives me more insight into my favorite authors, like Ally Blue. Second, when people still tell me "I don't get it," I'll just hand over this book for them to check out.
I've got my aunt hooked on some of the other romances I've read... maybe I can turn her towards these! After all, they're too good to keep to myself.
I think this is a fantastic book. First because it shows me that I am NOT alone (which I already knew!), but it also gives me more insight into my favorite authors, like Ally Blue. Second, when people still tell me "I don't get it," I'll just hand over this book for them to check out.
I've got my aunt hooked on some of the other romances I've read... maybe I can turn her towards these! After all, they're too good to keep to myself.
December 12, 2012
This book helped me identify certain points/reasons for my own interest in gay romance that I hadn't really been able to put into words myself before. It covers an interesting array of topics/questions and has a good variety of view-points as well. I found it a little unnecessary that the author chose to include one of his own short stories at the end of the book (especially considering he seemed to imply that it would be a way of introducing the reader to what the genre had to offer, which seems a little ridiculous because really...if you're reading this book I really doubt that you're a stranger to the M/M genre). But anyways...it was good all in all - interesting. I'm glad I read it.
December 10, 2012
Very Interesting and informative. Questions I had about "how", "why" "Sex scenes are so hot? how...smh", were addressed or touched on to a degree. I liked reading the authors,editors and readers perspectives regarding m/m romance and it's conception, ideas and future" I found myself agreeing with the discussion on "who knows you read m/m erotic romance?" and shaking my head no one knows, no one to discuss a good story with exceptions beyond a statement or comment to the author or other readers", Hmmm have to find a way to change that. LOL enjoyed how J.R.Ward kinda introduced myself as others to this genre. Enjoyable read.
November 12, 2012
I'm not sure that Mr. Knight tackled all the issues regarding the oddity of heterosexual women fantasizing about men having sex with each other, but one possibility I'd like to add: women in general are control freaks and since gay men are traditionally "off limits" this is how they try to get their clutches on even them (notice how the majority of gay male titles are now written by women?). Just a thought. Regardless of reasons, this was a fun, informative, well-written read, and I would consider it for college English special interest courses.
March 16, 2013
See my review on March 16, 2013 at http://mrsconditreadsbooks.com/index....
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