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Please Write: Finding Joy and Meaning in the Soulful Art of Handwritten Letters
Would you like to give a gift that is memorable, meaningful , and leaves a legacy for future generations? Through facts, personal memoir, and anecdotes from other letter enthusiasts, Lynne M. Kolze makes the case that handwritten letters are still a highly relevant and irreplaceable form of communication, sorely needed in a time of disconnection, epidemic loneliness, and stress. Inside Please Write , you will find dozens of reasons to familiarize yourself with, or simply remind yourself of, the joys of letter writing―from the physical and emotional rewards it provides, to the historical value our authentic words can offer future generations. Please Write is a call to action for those who value deeper and more lasting forms of communication.
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320 pages, Hardcover
First published May 9, 2023
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About the author
Lynne M. Kolze
1 book1 followerWinner of a 2024 Midwest Book Award Gold Medal for Inspirational Non-Fiction, a Silver Medal for the 2023 Living Now Book Award; a Silver Medal for the 2024 IPPY Book Award; a Silver Medal for the 2024 Nautilus Book Award; and Finalist in the 2023 Best Book and the Chanticleer International Book Awards for Nonfiction.
I began my life in suburban Chicago, then followed my dream of becoming involved in environmental protection. I received Bachelor’s degrees in Water Resources and Natural Resources Management from the University of Wisconsin, and a Master’s degree in Public Affairs from Indiana University. I spent over 30 years in public service, mostly working on water protection efforts in Chicago, Washington, DC, and Minnesota. During these years, I advocated for better citizen engagement in water planning efforts. I enjoyed working with citizens most, finding joy in their knowledge and ideas, as well as the comradery and connections I made.
In many ways, letter writing and public service are similar pursuits: each involves sharing, storytelling, listening, connecting, and building community through reciprocal giving. Both have given me great satisfaction and contributed to my growth as a person.
I currently live in the “Twin Cities” in Minnesota, not far from the Mississippi River, with my husband. I enjoy spending time with him in nature, visiting with my two adult children, letter writing, reading, gardening, and dabbling in amateur photography.
My new mantra is: “Kindness is underrated. Be a letter writer. Change a life!”
I began my life in suburban Chicago, then followed my dream of becoming involved in environmental protection. I received Bachelor’s degrees in Water Resources and Natural Resources Management from the University of Wisconsin, and a Master’s degree in Public Affairs from Indiana University. I spent over 30 years in public service, mostly working on water protection efforts in Chicago, Washington, DC, and Minnesota. During these years, I advocated for better citizen engagement in water planning efforts. I enjoyed working with citizens most, finding joy in their knowledge and ideas, as well as the comradery and connections I made.
In many ways, letter writing and public service are similar pursuits: each involves sharing, storytelling, listening, connecting, and building community through reciprocal giving. Both have given me great satisfaction and contributed to my growth as a person.
I currently live in the “Twin Cities” in Minnesota, not far from the Mississippi River, with my husband. I enjoy spending time with him in nature, visiting with my two adult children, letter writing, reading, gardening, and dabbling in amateur photography.
My new mantra is: “Kindness is underrated. Be a letter writer. Change a life!”
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August 7, 2023
In a world that sometimes feels frantic and abbreviated in everything it offers, where anticipation is lost with the ease of immediate gratification, and the keyboard is the tool of choice for all things written, Lynne Kolze has written a charming book about handwritten letters and how they should still have a fundamental place in our technology-centred world. And I have to say I agree.
Kolze's focus is the writing of letters, yes - but it is so much more than that. There is no doubting her passion for the subject and her writing is precise and structured and engaging throughout. The book is split into chapters which address a particular aspect of handwritten letter-writing in turn and its many contexts. She discusses her personal enjoyment of writing them and receiving them; their history and development; their delivery; their stamps; the stationery and pens used to write them; postcards! I could go on.
Personally, I found the sections about the history of letters the most illuminating and especially the anecdotes that Kolze includes about letters in relation to known world incidences, like the Titanic and Columbus' discovery of the New World.
But the personal relevance of letters to Kolze was also interesting and the inclusion of examples from her family's past as well as her reflection on letters she has sent and received all added to her appeal to us readers to give snail mail a go.
There is no doubt that handwriting is a dying art but Kolze discusses pockets of die-hard letter writers who value the emotional response that the paper and its contained script can create and are making it their personal mission to spread the word (pardon the pun). Kolze puts forward a compelling argument for us to reconsider our communication options, extolling the deeper meaning that letters can engender beyond their immediate receipt.
And it is true: there is something more satisfying about a letter, more than an email or text. Whether it's the time taken or the sentiment enclosed or the physicality of it, I don't know but I'm sold and will be writing letters imminently, having my first recipient earmarked already.
A real homage, charmingly told and well worth a read.
Kolze's focus is the writing of letters, yes - but it is so much more than that. There is no doubting her passion for the subject and her writing is precise and structured and engaging throughout. The book is split into chapters which address a particular aspect of handwritten letter-writing in turn and its many contexts. She discusses her personal enjoyment of writing them and receiving them; their history and development; their delivery; their stamps; the stationery and pens used to write them; postcards! I could go on.
Personally, I found the sections about the history of letters the most illuminating and especially the anecdotes that Kolze includes about letters in relation to known world incidences, like the Titanic and Columbus' discovery of the New World.
But the personal relevance of letters to Kolze was also interesting and the inclusion of examples from her family's past as well as her reflection on letters she has sent and received all added to her appeal to us readers to give snail mail a go.
There is no doubt that handwriting is a dying art but Kolze discusses pockets of die-hard letter writers who value the emotional response that the paper and its contained script can create and are making it their personal mission to spread the word (pardon the pun). Kolze puts forward a compelling argument for us to reconsider our communication options, extolling the deeper meaning that letters can engender beyond their immediate receipt.
And it is true: there is something more satisfying about a letter, more than an email or text. Whether it's the time taken or the sentiment enclosed or the physicality of it, I don't know but I'm sold and will be writing letters imminently, having my first recipient earmarked already.
A real homage, charmingly told and well worth a read.
June 23, 2023
I received a free copy of this book from Readers Favorites. This does not impact my review.
Please Write, by Lynne M. Kolze, is a heartwarming self-help book about the importance of letter writing and the legacy it creates. The book is divided into 6 sections. Section 1, Introduction, presents a brief but poignant argument about the almost sacred quality of letter writing. Section 2, The Legacy of Letter Writing, details the mental health benefits that are associated with letter writing, while Section 3, Letters We Remember, showcases the nostalgia and almost bittersweet effects letter writing can have on our lives. Section 4, Letters Inspire Art, details the whimsical and creative ways we can implement in letter writing, while Section 5, The Curious, Quirky, and Fascinating World of Letter Writing illustrates the almost childlike ways letter writing has impacted our community, as well as the weird ways it can nourish ties, even for complete strangers. Finally, Section 6, Writing the New and Preserving the Old, teaches how we can preserve letter writing as a momento mori, whether it be for ourselves or future generations.
I have to admit; I was equally surprised and enthralled when I discovered a book dedicated to letter writing. And pleasantly enough, I wasn’t disappointed; more often than not I recommend letter writing to clients who have experienced trauma, low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, ect. Because of this, I especially enjoyed Section 2. Moreover, I’ve volunteered with organizations such as Letters Against Depression, and have sent one too many greeting cards to members of my church when they’re having a hard time, or the sisters from my circle when they find life a little too difficult. My husband has written letters to me on our anniversary, and to this day I still treasure them.
That being said, I absolutely loved the stories that Kolze included. I like the idea of an ancient tree encouraging lovers to stick together by holding their love letters (the fact it has an address still stuns me!). The man who became the first human package delighted me also. Then of course, you have the avid stamp collectors (my father-in-law, father, and little sister), the packrats (me), and the romantic seal sealers (my husband). I’m sure this book would reaffirm familial ties just by reading it, but it also has fun activities for loved ones to try. The activities might not mean much initially, but nothing beats looking back at the plethora of letters you’ve written to someone, or letters someone has written to you, and rereading them.
Because of this, I would give this book a 5 out of 5 stars, and would recommend this book for parents, grandparents, and romantics who are easily swept away by fairytales.
Please Write, by Lynne M. Kolze, is a heartwarming self-help book about the importance of letter writing and the legacy it creates. The book is divided into 6 sections. Section 1, Introduction, presents a brief but poignant argument about the almost sacred quality of letter writing. Section 2, The Legacy of Letter Writing, details the mental health benefits that are associated with letter writing, while Section 3, Letters We Remember, showcases the nostalgia and almost bittersweet effects letter writing can have on our lives. Section 4, Letters Inspire Art, details the whimsical and creative ways we can implement in letter writing, while Section 5, The Curious, Quirky, and Fascinating World of Letter Writing illustrates the almost childlike ways letter writing has impacted our community, as well as the weird ways it can nourish ties, even for complete strangers. Finally, Section 6, Writing the New and Preserving the Old, teaches how we can preserve letter writing as a momento mori, whether it be for ourselves or future generations.
I have to admit; I was equally surprised and enthralled when I discovered a book dedicated to letter writing. And pleasantly enough, I wasn’t disappointed; more often than not I recommend letter writing to clients who have experienced trauma, low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, ect. Because of this, I especially enjoyed Section 2. Moreover, I’ve volunteered with organizations such as Letters Against Depression, and have sent one too many greeting cards to members of my church when they’re having a hard time, or the sisters from my circle when they find life a little too difficult. My husband has written letters to me on our anniversary, and to this day I still treasure them.
That being said, I absolutely loved the stories that Kolze included. I like the idea of an ancient tree encouraging lovers to stick together by holding their love letters (the fact it has an address still stuns me!). The man who became the first human package delighted me also. Then of course, you have the avid stamp collectors (my father-in-law, father, and little sister), the packrats (me), and the romantic seal sealers (my husband). I’m sure this book would reaffirm familial ties just by reading it, but it also has fun activities for loved ones to try. The activities might not mean much initially, but nothing beats looking back at the plethora of letters you’ve written to someone, or letters someone has written to you, and rereading them.
Because of this, I would give this book a 5 out of 5 stars, and would recommend this book for parents, grandparents, and romantics who are easily swept away by fairytales.
April 21, 2025
Lynne Kolze's Please Write is that rare book that feels both like a warm conversation and a revelation. In an age of rapid-fire digital communication, Kolze makes a compelling case for the enduring power of handwritten letters—not as a nostalgic relic, but as a vital practice of mindfulness and human connection.
What struck me most was how Kolze frames letter-writing as an act of courage and generosity. Her insights about the slow art of correspondence—the way it demands our full presence, how it creates space for reflection and vulnerability—resonated deeply. As someone who's always instinctively valued letters but sometimes struggled to articulate why, I found myself nodding along in recognition. She gives language to what many of us letter-writers feel but can't quite express.
The book's structure mirrors its subject beautifully: thoughtful, meandering yet purposeful. Kolze weaves together personal anecdotes, historical context, and practical wisdom without ever slipping into sentimentality or prescriptiveness. Her chapter on Letters as Time Capsules particularly moved me, as did her reflections on how handwriting carries the physical imprint of our emotions.
Please Write has permanently changed how I approach correspondence. I now more fully see my letter-writing habit as a radical act of preservation—of relationships, of thoughtfulness, of our shared humanity. I've already gifted this book twice, knowing its message will resonate differently with each reader.
Perfect for: Anyone who's ever saved a special letter, felt the thrill of seeing familiar handwriting in their mailbox, or wants to cultivate more meaningful connections in our disconnected world.
P.S. To the author: Thank you for this gift of a book!
What struck me most was how Kolze frames letter-writing as an act of courage and generosity. Her insights about the slow art of correspondence—the way it demands our full presence, how it creates space for reflection and vulnerability—resonated deeply. As someone who's always instinctively valued letters but sometimes struggled to articulate why, I found myself nodding along in recognition. She gives language to what many of us letter-writers feel but can't quite express.
The book's structure mirrors its subject beautifully: thoughtful, meandering yet purposeful. Kolze weaves together personal anecdotes, historical context, and practical wisdom without ever slipping into sentimentality or prescriptiveness. Her chapter on Letters as Time Capsules particularly moved me, as did her reflections on how handwriting carries the physical imprint of our emotions.
Please Write has permanently changed how I approach correspondence. I now more fully see my letter-writing habit as a radical act of preservation—of relationships, of thoughtfulness, of our shared humanity. I've already gifted this book twice, knowing its message will resonate differently with each reader.
Perfect for: Anyone who's ever saved a special letter, felt the thrill of seeing familiar handwriting in their mailbox, or wants to cultivate more meaningful connections in our disconnected world.
P.S. To the author: Thank you for this gift of a book!
June 15, 2023
Please Write is a book by Lynne M. Kolze. Attempting to resurrect an age-old art, the author shares her stance on writing physical letters. She shares a deeply personal history, and in many ways, the book records her family’s past and showcases particular events or periods of time. Kolze includes a timeline about the history and development of writing, and the story behind Dear John/Dear Jane letters and using pigeons to securely send letters. She cites the benefits of letter writing, like increased vocabulary, improved understanding of the written word, and the chance to practice new writing forms, like cursive or calligraphy, without pressing her readers to completely abandon digital communication.
Lynne M. Kolze has written a book that demands attention! With references to statistics, Kolze explores the emotional benefits of writing letters or notes and connects it to a decrease in loneliness, depression, and disconnection while acknowledging organizations that write letters to decrease the effects of depression. Particularly interesting are the author’s sections on Round Robin letters in the United States, creating other artwork to accompany a message, secret messages with postage stamps, legacy letters, messages in a bottle, and letters as they are portrayed in books and movies. Between meaningful notes, letters from caring television personalities, love letters, and pen pals, the author illustrates the need for handwritten correspondence and declares a call to action to preserve it. Please Write is a great selection for anyone who is interested in the history, safeguarding, and benefits of missives and penned communication.
Lynne M. Kolze has written a book that demands attention! With references to statistics, Kolze explores the emotional benefits of writing letters or notes and connects it to a decrease in loneliness, depression, and disconnection while acknowledging organizations that write letters to decrease the effects of depression. Particularly interesting are the author’s sections on Round Robin letters in the United States, creating other artwork to accompany a message, secret messages with postage stamps, legacy letters, messages in a bottle, and letters as they are portrayed in books and movies. Between meaningful notes, letters from caring television personalities, love letters, and pen pals, the author illustrates the need for handwritten correspondence and declares a call to action to preserve it. Please Write is a great selection for anyone who is interested in the history, safeguarding, and benefits of missives and penned communication.
February 22, 2025
Lynne M. Kolze’s “Please Write: Finding Joy and Meaning in the Soulful Art of Handwritten Letters” is an inspiring read that beautifully captures the essence of letter writing. The book delves into how handwritten letters can be a profound expression of love, care, and connection in an increasingly digital world. Kolze describes letter writing as one of the most heartfelt and meaningful ways to communicate.
Writing letters is more than just putting words on paper—it’s a meditative practice that fosters mindfulness, clarity, and emotional depth. A single letter can uplift a struggling soul, offering comfort in ways that digital messages often cannot. One of the most memorable chapters, “Thank-You Letters: Why Showing Appreciation Never Goes Out of Style”, highlights the enduring impact of gratitude in written form. Another touching section, A Soldier’s Letters Home, reminds us of the emotional weight and historical significance letters can carry.
This book is a powerful reminder to revive the lost art of letter writing. It left me reflecting on the warmth and sincerity that only a handwritten note can convey. Kolze’s work is not just a book—it’s an invitation to reconnect with our loved ones through the simple, yet deeply personal, act of writing.
Writing letters is more than just putting words on paper—it’s a meditative practice that fosters mindfulness, clarity, and emotional depth. A single letter can uplift a struggling soul, offering comfort in ways that digital messages often cannot. One of the most memorable chapters, “Thank-You Letters: Why Showing Appreciation Never Goes Out of Style”, highlights the enduring impact of gratitude in written form. Another touching section, A Soldier’s Letters Home, reminds us of the emotional weight and historical significance letters can carry.
This book is a powerful reminder to revive the lost art of letter writing. It left me reflecting on the warmth and sincerity that only a handwritten note can convey. Kolze’s work is not just a book—it’s an invitation to reconnect with our loved ones through the simple, yet deeply personal, act of writing.
April 17, 2024
Please Write is a delightful mix of appreciation, how-to, and historical relevance of the letter. The book is broken up into small chapters which are beautifully written and illustrated.
Lynne M. Kolze covers the gamut of all associated aspects of letter writing and makes a strong case for keeping letters in our lives. From the anticipation of receiving a letter to the uncertainty of what to write in a letter, Ms. Kolze covers it all and more!
She shares some personal stories and letters as well as the role missives have played in others' lives.
She has a deft hand and an easy writing style that will draw you in and keep you engaged for the entire 288 pages of this well written and well researched book on 'finding joy and meaning in the soulful art of handwriten letters.'
Lynne M. Kolze covers the gamut of all associated aspects of letter writing and makes a strong case for keeping letters in our lives. From the anticipation of receiving a letter to the uncertainty of what to write in a letter, Ms. Kolze covers it all and more!
She shares some personal stories and letters as well as the role missives have played in others' lives.
She has a deft hand and an easy writing style that will draw you in and keep you engaged for the entire 288 pages of this well written and well researched book on 'finding joy and meaning in the soulful art of handwriten letters.'
March 7, 2024
Please Write by Lynne Kolze is an inspiring and lovingly written book. Reading it reminded me of why I love sending and receiving cards and letters. I was moved to transcribe and share special saved letters with members of my family, and to carefully preserve the originals.
The book is well researched with a history of letter writing and writing instruments, and with examples of all kinds of letters one might write with some heart-warming samples. Each chapter ends with words of encouragement, which left me feeling that I can make a difference and improve our world by the simple act of writing. You will want to pick up a pen and start writing when you read this book!
The book is well researched with a history of letter writing and writing instruments, and with examples of all kinds of letters one might write with some heart-warming samples. Each chapter ends with words of encouragement, which left me feeling that I can make a difference and improve our world by the simple act of writing. You will want to pick up a pen and start writing when you read this book!
December 4, 2023
A Beauty Journey of the Heart
Wow! This brought me into a place of reflection, and appreciation for the people in my life. Never knew a book like this will touch you at your deepest core. I recall having pen pals & anxiously waiting for aerograms from my friends worldwide. The excitement in receiving beautiful notes is something we need to keep alive.
Wow! This brought me into a place of reflection, and appreciation for the people in my life. Never knew a book like this will touch you at your deepest core. I recall having pen pals & anxiously waiting for aerograms from my friends worldwide. The excitement in receiving beautiful notes is something we need to keep alive.
December 9, 2024
I have been suggested this book by one of teacher ...looking forward it to read
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