Researchers at Minneapolis-based Search Institute have identified 40 Developmental Assets that all kids need in their lives—good things like family support, a caring neighborhood, and resistance skills. Communities across the nation have embraced the book’s quick-read, commonsense suggestions for helping kids lead healthy, productive, positive lives and stay out of trouble. This revised and updated third edition draws on findings from a 2010 survey of about 90,000 kids (grades 6–12) from communities across the United States. The new data confirms the power of Developmental Assets in young people’s lives, reflecting updated levels of assets young people experience as well as the power that assets have to prevent high-risk behaviors and increase thriving behaviors.
2.5 round up to 3. Picked this up on a whim at the library. Quite unfortunate that faith and a “faith community” is so heavily portrayed in this book — as if a non-religious family could never have successful children. On that note, it’s no surprise there’s an emphasis on abstinence and failed programs like D.A.R.E. Does not appear to bring in the most recent evidence. There are some good tips, largely aimed at teenagers, though I imagine I could find a better book if I was looking for that age range. I did not find tops for younger children, though the title would suggest otherwise.
TLDR: treat your kids with respect, be involved with your kids, live in a caring neighborhood where you know your neighbors and your neighbors are invested in the success of your children and you’ll be alright.