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The Big, Fun, Sexy Sex Book
From the New York Times bestselling authors of She Comes First and Rinnavation comes a fun and effective guide to improving your marriage by rejuvenating your sex life.
JUST SAY O!
• Have flannel pj’ s replaced your silky negligees?
• Are you more likely to nod off cuddling the remote—instead of your partner?
• Are you too tired for sex?
• Is foreplay becoming “boreplay”?
Sure, being comfortable in your relationship is great. You can finish each other’s sentences, love your partner’s extra ten pounds, and know just the right buttons to push in bed (or at least think you do). But too much comfort can strip your sex life of its XXX rating and render your love life . . . lifeless.
New York Times bestselling author and nationally recognized sex counselor Ian Kerner and vivacious television personality Lisa Rinna, who spoke candidly about rediscovering her own lost libido in her New York Times bestseller Rinnavation, are on a mission to help you get from “no-go” to the Big O.
Mind-blowing sex is just pages away! Turn down the lights and cozy up under the sheets with this intimate bedside guide to igniting your mojo. Overflowing with candid advice, tips, techniques, personal revelations, sexercises, and even a ten-step plan guaranteed to rejuvenate your relationship and keep you and your partner coming back for more, The Big, Fun, Sexy Sex Book proves that knowledge isn’t just power—it’s also pleasure!
Now, let’s have some fun!
***
HE SAYS: “What happens outside the bedroom affects what happens in the bedroom, and when couples are connected intimately, their relationship can be more vital and stronger than they ever imagined.”
SHE SAYS: “Don’t underestimate a real woman. You want to know about great sex? I’ll show you great sex. You want a cougar? I’ll give you a tigress! I’m just show you great sex. You want a cougar? I’ll give you a tigress! I’m just reaching my peak, and I feel sexier than ever—and so can you!”
IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO GET THE SEX LIFE YOU ALWAYS WANTED!
* Sexy scenarios and hot new moves to amp up the adventure!
* The best sexual positions to make you climax
* Confidence boosters that make you feel sexier than ever and bring out your inner thrill-seeker
* Oral sex and hand job tips that will make his body go nuclear
* Fixes for common bedroom problems such as low desire, mismatched libidos, and sexual boredom
* Tips for coping with sexual “male-functions” such as premature ejaculation, erectile disorder, and a propensity for porn
* The ten-step sex workout
* The most amazing sex of your life—at any age, even after kids!
JUST SAY O!
• Have flannel pj’ s replaced your silky negligees?
• Are you more likely to nod off cuddling the remote—instead of your partner?
• Are you too tired for sex?
• Is foreplay becoming “boreplay”?
Sure, being comfortable in your relationship is great. You can finish each other’s sentences, love your partner’s extra ten pounds, and know just the right buttons to push in bed (or at least think you do). But too much comfort can strip your sex life of its XXX rating and render your love life . . . lifeless.
New York Times bestselling author and nationally recognized sex counselor Ian Kerner and vivacious television personality Lisa Rinna, who spoke candidly about rediscovering her own lost libido in her New York Times bestseller Rinnavation, are on a mission to help you get from “no-go” to the Big O.
Mind-blowing sex is just pages away! Turn down the lights and cozy up under the sheets with this intimate bedside guide to igniting your mojo. Overflowing with candid advice, tips, techniques, personal revelations, sexercises, and even a ten-step plan guaranteed to rejuvenate your relationship and keep you and your partner coming back for more, The Big, Fun, Sexy Sex Book proves that knowledge isn’t just power—it’s also pleasure!
Now, let’s have some fun!
***
HE SAYS: “What happens outside the bedroom affects what happens in the bedroom, and when couples are connected intimately, their relationship can be more vital and stronger than they ever imagined.”
SHE SAYS: “Don’t underestimate a real woman. You want to know about great sex? I’ll show you great sex. You want a cougar? I’ll give you a tigress! I’m just show you great sex. You want a cougar? I’ll give you a tigress! I’m just reaching my peak, and I feel sexier than ever—and so can you!”
IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO GET THE SEX LIFE YOU ALWAYS WANTED!
* Sexy scenarios and hot new moves to amp up the adventure!
* The best sexual positions to make you climax
* Confidence boosters that make you feel sexier than ever and bring out your inner thrill-seeker
* Oral sex and hand job tips that will make his body go nuclear
* Fixes for common bedroom problems such as low desire, mismatched libidos, and sexual boredom
* Tips for coping with sexual “male-functions” such as premature ejaculation, erectile disorder, and a propensity for porn
* The ten-step sex workout
* The most amazing sex of your life—at any age, even after kids!
336 pages, Hardcover
First published May 1, 2012
171 people are currently reading
495 people want to read
About the author
Lisa Rinna
4 books21 followersLisa Rinna is an American actress, television personality, entrepreneur and model best known for her roles as Billie Reed on the daytime soap opera Days of Our Lives and Taylor Fox on Melrose Place, and for starring in Bravo's hit reality series The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. She has also appeared as a contestant on The Celebrity Apprentice and Dancing With the Stars, and has guest starred on series such as Entourage, Veronica Mars, Community, The Middle, and American Horror Story. She made her Broadway debut in Chicago as Roxie Hart in June 2007. In 2020 she launched her Rinna Beauty beauty brand and in 2022 debuted her first wine, Rinna Rose.
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November 24, 2012
Yes, guys. I got this book because of the title. Don't judge me.
This book written by Lisa Rinna (actress) and Ian Kerner (a sex counselor) explain sex in a really breezy, yet informative way.
In here you will find tips on how to work your sex life with your partner, how to spice it up, and how not to make it boring!
And don't forget blowjobs and porn. Oh, yes.
Even if you don't have a partner, you can still take notes as information. Knowledge is not only power--it's also pleasure.
And believe it or not, this book also proves that Freud wasn't always right.
Yes, it happens!
This book written by Lisa Rinna (actress) and Ian Kerner (a sex counselor) explain sex in a really breezy, yet informative way.
In here you will find tips on how to work your sex life with your partner, how to spice it up, and how not to make it boring!
And don't forget blowjobs and porn. Oh, yes.
Even if you don't have a partner, you can still take notes as information. Knowledge is not only power--it's also pleasure.
And believe it or not, this book also proves that Freud wasn't always right.
April 8, 2013
This book is an amazing source for sexual education! As a Pure Romance consultant, I am always reading up and trying to continue my education. I had highlighter in hand and it was almost dried up from all the underlining! Definitely a great go-to book for any age or stage in life. From young to old, single to married and everything in between! Read it and you WILL NOT be disappointed!
May 5, 2012
i think this is a great book for couples looking to spice things up. I learned alot of things i didnt know as well as some things i knew. It is a wonderful book and i would recommend it to a friend. And it is a really big fun sexy sex book
May 1, 2012
The 411 by Maria:
As someone who has an amazing sex life with my husband (20 years strong) I may not be the person this book was written for so I asked some of my friends to read some passages just for fairness. Here is what they said:
"Why, did she feel the need to write this?"
"Umm...OK..disgusting but I appreciate her candor. Not sure if I wanted to know all that much about her sex life but interesting."
"She is funny. She thinks she is exotic but I think she looks weird."
OK...ladies...enough about Lisa, tell me what you think about the book!
"I like their paragraph titles: A Hairy Situation. Sexy Thrills. Sexercises"
"The sexercises seem like yoga poses and I like yoga. Maybe I will try them."
"Some of the book was very basic but I enjoyed the section on Staycations."
Well, as you can see my 3 friends (T, K, C) didn't hate the book. I didn't hate it either but at times I felt it was a little condescending. However, I did love the layout. It makes it easier to read, especially for those who wouldn't normally read a book about sex. The breakup of the sections, with Fun Factions, Lisa says, Ian says, really work. Some times I felt like I was reading a book for young people who are just starting out in their sexually active lives and had to remind myself that this book was made for grown people who have lost some of their mojo and may desire to get it back.
Other than that, this may be a helpful companion for couples who want to experiment or those who just like to read about the different ways to fellatio a man in detail (yup, it is in there). Whatever it is you are looking for, I guarantee you will definitely read more information about Lisa and Harry's relationship than you will ever want or need to know about.
Enjoy and happy "sexting".
As someone who has an amazing sex life with my husband (20 years strong) I may not be the person this book was written for so I asked some of my friends to read some passages just for fairness. Here is what they said:
"Why, did she feel the need to write this?"
"Umm...OK..disgusting but I appreciate her candor. Not sure if I wanted to know all that much about her sex life but interesting."
"She is funny. She thinks she is exotic but I think she looks weird."
OK...ladies...enough about Lisa, tell me what you think about the book!
"I like their paragraph titles: A Hairy Situation. Sexy Thrills. Sexercises"
"The sexercises seem like yoga poses and I like yoga. Maybe I will try them."
"Some of the book was very basic but I enjoyed the section on Staycations."
Well, as you can see my 3 friends (T, K, C) didn't hate the book. I didn't hate it either but at times I felt it was a little condescending. However, I did love the layout. It makes it easier to read, especially for those who wouldn't normally read a book about sex. The breakup of the sections, with Fun Factions, Lisa says, Ian says, really work. Some times I felt like I was reading a book for young people who are just starting out in their sexually active lives and had to remind myself that this book was made for grown people who have lost some of their mojo and may desire to get it back.
Other than that, this may be a helpful companion for couples who want to experiment or those who just like to read about the different ways to fellatio a man in detail (yup, it is in there). Whatever it is you are looking for, I guarantee you will definitely read more information about Lisa and Harry's relationship than you will ever want or need to know about.
Enjoy and happy "sexting".
September 5, 2012
I saw Lisa Rinna on the Drs. and decided to buy the book because of that appearance. I'm not sure what I thought I would be reading when I bought this book, but this book didn't ever really grab my attention.
The book was easy to read and fun at times, but overall it was okay. Perhaps I didn't really get revved up for it because I read Bonk! last summer for our bookclub and so nothing new was learned or was really interesting in this one. Bonk! was a great "sex" book. Very interesting and I learned more than I thought I would. :)
The book was easy to read and fun at times, but overall it was okay. Perhaps I didn't really get revved up for it because I read Bonk! last summer for our bookclub and so nothing new was learned or was really interesting in this one. Bonk! was a great "sex" book. Very interesting and I learned more than I thought I would. :)
July 6, 2012
Comprehensive guide for couples and singles to re-energize or fix any sex issue. Even if you aren't having issues this book is a great guide to just educate you, so many things I didn't know! I am still reading it, but am highly impressed with how thorough it is, and that it shows both the female and male perspective. This book is perfect for me as a disabled woman who has issues, and this book helped so much! I am very thankful to have won this book in a Goodreads Giveaway!
March 18, 2013
Interesting to a point, but it didn't keep my attention and I put it down. I might pick it up again, but it's certainly not a priority for my reading schedule. What I did read, offered some simple ideas to get things going in your relationship.
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April 24, 2012I just won this book free as a goodreads giveaway! I am waiting to read it. Thanks.
July 2, 2012
Geared towards long-term, monogamous couples; I appreciated the inclusion of personal stories.
September 14, 2012
This book is a must have for any married couple. Loaded with so much information, no aspect of intimacy is off limits. The Big book is so much fun to read together.
April 17, 2018
This was a surprisingly pleasant book on the subject of sex that was fun to read. You could tell that there was a Ph.D. Co-Author involved because there was a lot of “in depth” information with statistics thrown in and examples of libido enhancing drugs. It was also relatively current with a publication date of 2012.
At first perusal, an intellectual or health professional may easily dismiss it but I’m glad I took the time to read it cover to cover nonetheless. I found it to be the equivalent of an elaborate Men’s or Women’s Health magazine article expounding upon the juicy topic of relationships and sex.
The big taken home message for me is that it’s extremely important to have a steady level of “oxytocin,” or the “cuddle hormone” running through your system to improve your overall health and well being! For many men, we just don’t always get what we need.
Taking this further, Lisa Rinna states that “Choreplay” is often the new “Foreplay.” She gives an example of wives handing their husband’s a bottle of Windex to clean the windows! I guess you could take this further and say that wives will hand their husband’s a “tool belt” and tell him to get to work remodeling a portion of the home in exchange for sex. This was amusing to me because it makes things sound like marriage is a sacrificial trap for men who end up catering to their wife’s every whim.
Overall, it was an eye-opener for me and made me think about my own needs and desires jotting down an idea or two along the literary journey.
At first perusal, an intellectual or health professional may easily dismiss it but I’m glad I took the time to read it cover to cover nonetheless. I found it to be the equivalent of an elaborate Men’s or Women’s Health magazine article expounding upon the juicy topic of relationships and sex.
The big taken home message for me is that it’s extremely important to have a steady level of “oxytocin,” or the “cuddle hormone” running through your system to improve your overall health and well being! For many men, we just don’t always get what we need.
Taking this further, Lisa Rinna states that “Choreplay” is often the new “Foreplay.” She gives an example of wives handing their husband’s a bottle of Windex to clean the windows! I guess you could take this further and say that wives will hand their husband’s a “tool belt” and tell him to get to work remodeling a portion of the home in exchange for sex. This was amusing to me because it makes things sound like marriage is a sacrificial trap for men who end up catering to their wife’s every whim.
Overall, it was an eye-opener for me and made me think about my own needs and desires jotting down an idea or two along the literary journey.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
October 7, 2023
2.5 stars rounded up— didn’t realize this book was published almost over 10 years now. Book must have been very avant- grade at the time it was published in terms of the research/sources they cited. Book was more anecdotal than I hoped.
June 17, 2025
I’m sure this book was ground breaking for middle aged women in 2012
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