A very math-y exposition. Honestly most of the math went over my head. I wish I had read this book when I was in grad school, but alas it was only published a few years ago. Despite the math being so explicit throughout, a dedicated and interested reader can get a lot out of this book in the way of a deeper understanding of General Relativity than the popular, math-free expositions out there. I will list some quotes I found pithy, insightful, or revelatory to me below
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"General Relativity is the field theory of the gravitational field just as Maxwell theory is the field theory of the electromagnetic field." (p.3)
"Galilean relativity is the discovery that 'to be at the same place' at different times is an ill-defined notion, while special relativity is the discovery that 'to happen at the same time' in different places is an equally ill-defied notion." (both require a reference object with respect to determine distance of time, respectively) p. 7
"It is sometimes stated that he Newtonian notions of space and time are instinctive and natural. They are not. Perhaps they are now familiar, after centuries of success of Newton's Physics.... But they are not natural, Before newton, the dominant understanding of space and time, both in common use and in the learned tradition, was the relational one." (p. 12)
"If you want to do great science, read philosophy." (p. 13)
"..the effect of gravity [is] to redefine the notion of inertial system." (p. 17)
"Newtonian space and time are nothing else than a particular configuration of the gravitational field." (p.18)
"The arbitrary coordinates used to coordinate a curved surface do not have the meaning of distances...[In developing his theory, Einstein's] conceptual difficulty was to separate the notion of coordinate from the notion of distance." (p.26)
"geometry is not a Kantian a priori, necessary to conceive the world: geometry is an epiphenomenon of the gravitational field" (p. 60)
"... many are confused by [the cosmological constant] and claim, mistakenly, that it represents "Dark Energy" (it is no more mysterious than the 20 or so other fundamental constants in physics) p. 62
"physical points are not defined by themselves. They are only defined by the solutions of the equations of motion, by the fields, by the positions of the particles, and by the geometry.... this is profoundly different from what happens in non-general relativistic physics, where we assume that physical spacetime points are well defied.... independently from the dynamical fields." (p. 70)
"[In classical physics time evolution means] the evolution of physical variable over time...in general relativity...relative evolution of the physical variables with respect to one another." (p. 72)
"Therefore, in general relativity, we can say that things fall towards a mass because mass slows down time in its vicinity." (p.81)
Gravitational waves do not cause particles to move, the particles move "with respect to one another" as the wave passes. This is confusing to us because we are confusing the coordinates of the objects with the distance between them (p. 88)
"So Einstein correctly guessed the existence of the cosmological force, which we now know really exists. But he didi t for the wrong reason: he thought this would result in a static universe, and that's not true. So he missed a most spectacular prediction of his own theory: the universe cannot be static at large scale. But he ended up introducing a correct improvement of his equations.
Formidable." (p.97)
"[because the cosmological constant is positive], gravity is attractive at small distance but becomes repulsive at large distances..This force (nots any mysterious 'quantum vacuum energy' or dark energy')is the reason the expansion of the universe is currently accelerating. " (p.119)
"[the time it will take for the tidal forces to tear you apart in a supermassive blackhole]... can last for hours. Therefore, a physicist can in principle enter the horizon and do all sorts of measurements and detections in the interior. It is true that she is most likely going to die soon, crushed in the small r region; but we all die anyway, even outside the horizon." (p. 131)
"One often reads that GR predicts a 'singularity' at the centre of the hole; whatever this means, this is not relevant for the natural world, because quantum mechanics becomes relevant and changes the picture before reaching such a hypothetical 'singularity.'" (p. 132)
"Einstein's everlasting insight [is]that spacetime geometry is a manifestation of a dynamical field... in this sense, space and time disappears from the conceptual structure of physics... crucially, the old relational notions of space and time maintain their sense entirely.. But there is no preferred clock in the theory nor any sense of localisation besides the relative adjacency of quanta of matter and the quanta of space." (p. 155)